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How to be HAPPY.?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well how to be happy .?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't sweat the small stuff

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By *verysmileMan
over a year ago

Canterbury

Go for it as you may always regret not doing so.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Look at what you have rather that what you don't have, if things need changing work towards that change rather than complaining. Take pleasure in the small things, a smile, a sunny day and be kind.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Look at what you have rather that what you don't have, if things need changing work towards that change rather than complaining. Take pleasure in the small things, a smile, a sunny day and be kind."
love this post . xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't worry about things out of your control, let it happen. Enjoy your family and surroundings, embrace all of life's moments as they come to you.

In the grand scheme of things we're here for an insignificant amount of time so why waste it on bad juju vibes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Look at what you have rather that what you don't have, if things need changing work towards that change rather than complaining. Take pleasure in the small things, a smile, a sunny day and be kind."

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Look at what you have rather that what you don't have, if things need changing work towards that change rather than complaining. Take pleasure in the small things, a smile, a sunny day and be kind. love this post . xx"

I try to live by that but sometimes it's not easy, especially the being kind bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

leave the past where it belongs

don't get bitter

and live the day how u want to not what others want or expect u to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Listen to baz luhrmanns 'everybody's free (to wear sunscreen)' a little twee but some good stuff in there

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don't worry about things out of your control, let it happen. Enjoy your family and surroundings, embrace all of life's moments as they come to you.

In the grand scheme of things we're here for an insignificant amount of time so why waste it on bad juju vibes."
love this post too. xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My family around me makes me happy .. Doing nice things for people make me happy too . Sun makes me happy so roll on them lovely long summer days.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"leave the past where it belongs

don't get bitter

and live the day how u want to not what others want or expect u to "

Wise words indead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well how to be happy .? "

Get people addicted to ice lollies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't look to others to make you happy.

Be as kind to yourself as you are/should be to others.

Learn about contentment and appreciate everything that's given to you as a learning curve.

Find the silver lining in all things negative.

Learn to smile more, it's contagious. Learn to laugh more, it releases feel good hormones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be happy first never make the mistake in thinking you have to be happy , if you expect to be happy all the time it makes it so much harder when your not .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Some think if I only had this and that I would be happy ... no it comes from within , And very simple things can make you happy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clap along if you feel like a room without a roof ah........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just be content with yourself, treat others how you would like to be treated, and PM me your bank account details.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex, allways happy when I'm having sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Listen to baz luhrmanns 'everybody's free (to wear sunscreen)' a little twee but some good stuff in there "

That's very much on my playlist.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couldn't tell you how to be happy....I just kind of am at the moment.

If there's something you don't like and can change, change it....if there's something you don't like you can't change, laugh your tits off at it....

Take a walk every day, enjoy the rain and you'll always enjoy the weather...relax when you can...

If it's pissing you off...ask yourself will you give a shit in a year?

Keep yourself in check, don't place yourself above or below anybody...

Work hard and enjoy it, love even harder and apticiate the small things, your roof, your bed, your full tummy, your loved ones and always keep some perspective.

Failing that. Drugs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Couldn't tell you how to be happy....I just kind of am at the moment.

If there's something you don't like and can change, change it....if there's something you don't like you can't change, laugh your tits off at it....

Take a walk every day, enjoy the rain and you'll always enjoy the weather...relax when you can...

If it's pissing you off...ask yourself will you give a shit in a year?

Keep yourself in check, don't place yourself above or below anybody...

Work hard and enjoy it, love even harder and apticiate the small things, your roof, your bed, your full tummy, your loved ones and always keep some perspective.

Failing that. Drugs.

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I do sometimes fall into the trap of not having much perspective. I'm also quite easily overwhelmed, and get stressed out by lots of little things beyond my control... so sometimes a little perspective goes a long way with me.

Although I do often feel awful because of my dissertation!!!! .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only my humble opinion...a few pointers perhaps - and not in any order of importance:-

1 Appreciate what you have and not crave what you haven't.

2 Believe that you are worth the same as others and can make a valuable contribution to society,

3 Treat others as you would wish to be treated,

4 Find someone to love on equal terms,

5 Don't let the fact that someone is a member of your family make your love unconditional - sometimes you have to stand firm and let go,

6 Accept those things outside your control but change those things you can control.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Couldn't tell you how to be happy....I just kind of am at the moment.

If there's something you don't like and can change, change it....if there's something you don't like you can't change, laugh your tits off at it....

Take a walk every day, enjoy the rain and you'll always enjoy the weather...relax when you can...

If it's pissing you off...ask yourself will you give a shit in a year?

Keep yourself in check, don't place yourself above or below anybody...

Work hard and enjoy it, love even harder and apticiate the small things, your roof, your bed, your full tummy, your loved ones and always keep some perspective.

Failing that. Drugs.

I do sometimes fall into the trap of not having much perspective. I'm also quite easily overwhelmed, and get stressed out by lots of little things beyond my control... so sometimes a little perspective goes a long way with me.

Although I do often feel awful because of my dissertation!!!! ."

Then stop fucking about on fab and get your head down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wake up alive. That makes me happy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get D*unk, Stay D*unk and eat Yellow Crayons

Works fer me

Gimp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get D*unk, Stay D*unk and eat Yellow Crayons

Works fer me

Gimp"

Hope you don't eat yellow snow too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get D*unk, Stay D*unk and eat Yellow Crayons

Works fer me

Gimp"

Purple ones taste better

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