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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have received a lot of messages from men with that question (1st message). What answer will one be hoping to receive?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sat here with a dildo browsing men to watch?

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Waiting for you legs akimbo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sharpening you penis cutter? .

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By *verysmileMan
over a year ago

Canterbury

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have received a lot of messages from men with that question (1st message). What answer will one be hoping to receive?"

It's one of the most irritating first mails to get. Along with "hw r u" .... I block immediately!

Grrrrrr!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that's kind of an odd question to put in a message to someone really.

It's certainly not the sort of thing i'd ask - not in a first message at least.

Maybe in a message to a 'friend' I'd met a few times.

Not sure what kind of reply the sender is expecting to receive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's something I ask if I call my mates or message them....

'aye up, what you up to?'

To which they may reply,

'not a lot, just having a brew and reading' or some such thing....

A conversation has to start somewhere and 'what are you up to' is a fairly stock one....I know its not the most imaginative thing but not sure it's worth griping about.....

You expecting a sonnet perhaps as an opener?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Blocking guys who send stupid one line messages"?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sharpening you penis cutter? ."

Im totally stealing that one!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have received a lot of messages from men with that question (1st message). What answer will one be hoping to receive?

It's one of the most irritating first mails to get. Along with "hw r u" .... I block immediately!

I agree, so annoying!

Grrrrrr!"

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Try - sat on the loo reading my messages, wishing I'd opened the window before I sat down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sharpening you penis cutter? ."

Brilliant!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

""Blocking guys who send stupid one line messages"?"

Love it - I'm pinching that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's something I ask if I call my mates or message them....

'aye up, what you up to?'

To which they may reply,

'not a lot, just having a brew and reading' or some such thing....

A conversation has to start somewhere and 'what are you up to' is a fairly stock one....I know its not the most imaginative thing but not sure it's worth griping about.....

You expecting a sonnet perhaps as an opener? "

I agree.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"You expecting a sonnet perhaps as an opener? "

They'd be more likely to get a reply if they sent one of those.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Soo what's everyone up to tonight? Lmao no need to reply!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's something I ask if I call my mates or message them....

'aye up, what you up to?'

To which they may reply,

'not a lot, just having a brew and reading' or some such thing....

A conversation has to start somewhere and 'what are you up to' is a fairly stock one....I know its not the most imaginative thing but not sure it's worth griping about.....

You expecting a sonnet perhaps as an opener?

I agree."

I'm not expecting Shakespeare's love speeches but again won't be impressed by such an opener

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Soo what's everyone up to tonight? Lmao no need to reply!"

You would likely get a reply to that to be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So what would u consider a good opener/ curious

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By *asmanian TigerMan
over a year ago

lala land

I am talking to my friends

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So what would u consider a good opener/ curious "

Read one's profile and respond as to what the profile is looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's something I ask if I call my mates or message them....

'aye up, what you up to?'

To which they may reply,

'not a lot, just having a brew and reading' or some such thing....

A conversation has to start somewhere and 'what are you up to' is a fairly stock one....I know its not the most imaginative thing but not sure it's worth griping about.....

You expecting a sonnet perhaps as an opener? "

It's pretty much a given that they're looking at their phone or pc and browsing on fab though? I know we multi task but that's an obvious one surely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So what would u consider a good opener/ curious "

Hello my lovely,nice tits,can I suck em?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's what I normaly do at least that way you have a common interest besides attraction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's something I ask if I call my mates or message them....

'aye up, what you up to?'

To which they may reply,

'not a lot, just having a brew and reading' or some such thing....

A conversation has to start somewhere and 'what are you up to' is a fairly stock one....I know its not the most imaginative thing but not sure it's worth griping about.....

You expecting a sonnet perhaps as an opener?

I agree.

I'm not expecting Shakespeare's love speeches but again won't be impressed by such an opener"

It's a minefield is sending an opener.....some like big flowery messages, some don't, some like to be treat like the only person on fab, some don't.....

I agree that 'what you up to' isn't the most imaginative of opening lines but I think some guys have probably tried all kinds of lines and find it still makes no difference so end up with the wind taken out of their sails a bit....

You rarely see a thread where a bloke complains about opening lines a lady might send.

The dynamic on here is very geared to men having to have all the imagination and make all the effort and are often shot down if they don't match each ladies specific preconceptions of what they should or shouldn't be doing or saying....

Just the way it is

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"That's what I normaly do at least that way you have a common interest besides attraction "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's something I ask if I call my mates or message them....

'aye up, what you up to?'

To which they may reply,

'not a lot, just having a brew and reading' or some such thing....

A conversation has to start somewhere and 'what are you up to' is a fairly stock one....I know its not the most imaginative thing but not sure it's worth griping about.....

You expecting a sonnet perhaps as an opener?

It's pretty much a given that they're looking at their phone or pc and browsing on fab though? I know we multi task but that's an obvious one surely

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

I had one yesterday that was just "hey"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's something I ask if I call my mates or message them....

'aye up, what you up to?'

To which they may reply,

'not a lot, just having a brew and reading' or some such thing....

A conversation has to start somewhere and 'what are you up to' is a fairly stock one....I know its not the most imaginative thing but not sure it's worth griping about.....

You expecting a sonnet perhaps as an opener?

I agree.

I'm not expecting Shakespeare's love speeches but again won't be impressed by such an opener

It's a minefield is sending an opener.....some like big flowery messages, some don't, some like to be treat like the only person on fab, some don't.....

You rarely see a thread where a bloke complains about opening lines a lady might send.

Just the way it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Try - sat on the loo reading my messages, wishing I'd opened the window before I sat down

Brilliant!!

A while ago I sent out a little sexy rhyme i'd written, and it was fairly well received. Didn't lead to any meets, but I get the impression that it brought a smile to a lot of faces - which is something I like to do.

I like to make people laugh.

Thing is, I kinda started thinking that, while it was amusing, witty and saucy, it wasn't very personal and of course had the danger of being seen as a 'copy and paste' job - which is not normally my style.

I'll have to see if I can remember how it went.......

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sharpening you penis cutter? ."

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By *arpet manMan
over a year ago

resorts world

You ladies are so cruel

" what you up to "

Is really not the worst first message is it? We might be just the shy type and maybe we are hoping you will take the lead and direct the message in some way .

what are we looking for in reply for me if i sent it you could reply

" god i am so wet i now have 3 fingers deep deep inside my pussy and i don't think i will last reading to the end of your profile before i cum you'd better come round her quick !"

But cant see that happening one last thing just in case

" what you up ladies "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had one yesterday that was just "hey"

I've had one or two like that.

Blimey, I suppose as a single male, I should count myself lucky that i've had one or two, lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's something I ask if I call my mates or message them....

'aye up, what you up to?'

To which they may reply,

'not a lot, just having a brew and reading' or some such thing....

A conversation has to start somewhere and 'what are you up to' is a fairly stock one....I know its not the most imaginative thing but not sure it's worth griping about.....

You expecting a sonnet perhaps as an opener?

It's pretty much a given that they're looking at their phone or pc and browsing on fab though? I know we multi task but that's an obvious one surely

I think the question may be meant in a broader sense...

The answer to 'what you up to?'

Could be 'just decorating the bloody bathroom, it's getting on my tits a bit so just made a brew and checking my fab'

I understand that due the dynamic on here a lady doesn't have to make any effort in her reply though.....its a buyer's market

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had one yesterday that was just "hey"

Wow, that took some serious effort.

You found a real charmer there. I'm assuming you asked for a meet straight away?!

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

"I had one yesterday that was just "hey"

I've had one or two like that.

Blimey, I suppose as a single male, I should count myself lucky that i've had one or two, lol

Subsequent messages consisted of about 3 or 4 words. I really don't know what he was trying to achieve

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

"I had one yesterday that was just "hey"

Wow, that took some serious effort.

You found a real charmer there. I'm assuming you asked for a meet straight away?!

Couldn't get my knickers off fast enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's something I ask if I call my mates or message them....

'aye up, what you up to?'

To which they may reply,

'not a lot, just having a brew and reading' or some such thing....

A conversation has to start somewhere and 'what are you up to' is a fairly stock one....I know its not the most imaginative thing but not sure it's worth griping about.....

You expecting a sonnet perhaps as an opener?

It's pretty much a given that they're looking at their phone or pc and browsing on fab though? I know we multi task but that's an obvious one surely

I think the question may be meant in a broader sense...

The answer to 'what you up to?'

Could be 'just decorating the bloody bathroom, it's getting on my tits a bit so just made a brew and checking my fab'

I understand that due the dynamic on here a lady doesn't have to make any effort in her reply though.....its a buyer's market

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no shit at least you guys have an active forum check out the us room ghostown

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By *asmanian TigerMan
over a year ago

lala land

I had a wink if that counts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had one yesterday that was just "hey"

Wow, that took some serious effort.

You found a real charmer there. I'm assuming you asked for a meet straight away?!

Couldn't get my knickers off fast enough

I would bloody hope so..,. Send him my way when you're done!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had a wink if that counts

Typo?

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By *irtyAndCh33kyCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

WUU2 is even worse! it took me ages to work out what the hell that meant

I hate txt speak.

Mrs Dirty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had a wink if that counts

Typo?

pmsl

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

The answer is 'm gud'.

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