FabSwingers.com forum: A matter of simple courtesy!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

... "What more do the female members want? You read their statement, write an intelligent thoughtful message, and still they just delete your message without the simple courtesy of a reply saying 'thanks but no thanks because...' They moan about men not reading their posts, about one line messages and penis photos...but you might as well not bother!

Stephen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel your pain, but as a polite warning, you are about to be torn to pieces.

Don't forget the bulletproof vest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Read the site FAQ, you're not entitled to a reply. Take a no reply as a no thanks and move on. Simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try to reply to everyone,after all I have my filters open. I will admit to deleting some today without a reply,one because it didn't warrant a reply,one because I had previously replied with a no thank you and at least one I did by accident by pressing on the wrong button. I do that on the laptop sometimes when I'm rushing through a lot of unread mail

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My mum told me if i had nothing nice to say say nothing at all!

Its better than me replying 'oi frodo skip on back to the shire and shut the door'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they are bombared with emails so got no time to read 99 % of them, so deletes it all to save time lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because they are bombared with emails so got no time to read 99 % of them, so deletes it all to save time lol

Hey Shag. You, me and honeyflower in the same thread. You know what happens next

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some ladies on here get 100's of messages a day. Don't beat yourself up. Just be positive and keep messaging people who catch your eye.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes I reply sometimes I don't, it depends on how many I've got, so yes I bulk delete and other times I end up with abuse back after a polite thanks but no thanks!

I think the delete says it all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because they are bombared with emails so got no time to read 99 % of them, so deletes it all to save time lol

Hey Shag. You, me and honeyflower in the same thread. You know what happens next

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Hi Yes I do there lol, she needs it and us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My mum told me if i had nothing nice to say say nothing at all!

Its better than me replying 'oi frodo skip on back to the shire and shut the door'"

Oi I don't skip, I drag my knuckles when I go back to the shire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I feel your pain, but as a polite warning, you are about to be torn to pieces.

Don't forget the bulletproof vest."

awwww I'd never tear anyone to pieces....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I feel your pain, but as a polite warning, you are about to be torn to pieces.

Don't forget the bulletproof vest."

He'll be 'torn to pieces' if he chooses not to make his argument intelligently, be willing to stand by it, counter the inevitable criticisms from those who disagree, and continually reassert his point because he genuinely believes he has one. Too many guys back down too readily on here, especially when addressing the sort of bullshit single males often have to endure from the scene.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

It is worth bothering.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An intelligent, thoughtful message :

I wandered lonely as a cloud whilst perving at your tits ...

When all at once I saw a crowd, a host of fanny pics ... beside your basque, beneath your wand

That kinda thing ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I feel your pain, but as a polite warning, you are about to be torn to pieces.

Don't forget the bulletproof vest.

awwww I'd never tear anyone to pieces....

Me on the other hand, I'd eat you alive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I feel your pain, but as a polite warning, you are about to be torn to pieces.

Don't forget the bulletproof vest.

awwww I'd never tear anyone to pieces....

Me neither......I try and play nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do a forum search on the same subject fella.....tons of reasons they don't have to reply.

Empathy is a good word for you to consider now.....its a thing that lacks in many, you'll do well to have a little.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Some people reply, some don't. If you accept this your time on the site will no doubt be more enjoyable

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