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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've not had any full sex for over a year that's gotta be a record, I reckon I must seem like a freak on here but need a good connection and won't ever make the first move. I'm outgoing but also shy until someone makes that move so I'm a freak right or are there others like this??

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I can go months without sex..I've gone a year without it..does it make me a freak? Nah it makes me pretty normal

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So at least I'm not weird that's good news

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly think I would lose my mind, a year

Good god that's like 7 swinging year's.

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By *acob2000Man
over a year ago

Stafford

I've gone over 6 months before to concentrate on studying, it's torture!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was married so can survive a longish period without.

Not so sure i ever got "full sex" in any event.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't had sex since September, my sexual offerings are currently like a book of treasured stories, abandoned in a forgotten storage locker, hidden in an old cardboard box covered in dust and cobwebs...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blimey, I have gone 5 years without in the past! The longer you go without, it just becomes the norm and I think you close that part of you off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once went a week. Never a Fukin gain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My longest was 18 months, it was through choice though (fem)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Three and a half years (February 2009-September 2012).

I'm still surprised I survived it.

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains

I went 5 years without so much as a kiss with a bloke

I did have a female fb through that time though so guess it doesn't count

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You wanna have a chat with some Monks fella

They go without for a lifetime

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I've gone several years without. At least 4. I stopped counting.

The longer I go without, the less it bothers me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

5 years blimey I hope I don't go that long, did you not miss it like crazy? I'd like to open the closed door fully again some day soon, just need the right situation turn up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last time that I had sex was April...... 2005. No confidence due to women saying I'm skinny, too skinny, very skinny, needs to grow a chest first. All because of small pecs. I've heard it all before. Usually end up as the cute friend. Do want to go to the gym but there's other things going on in my life at the moment. With sex, I've given up. Guess I win the freak award.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You wanna have a chat with some Monks fella

They go without for a lifetime

I'll get my habit measured up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"5 years blimey I hope I don't go that long, did you not miss it like crazy? I'd like to open the closed door fully again some day soon, just need the right situation turn up. "

Funnily enough, the ime period in which you miss it, carzily or not, is surprisingly short. As others appear to agree, it quickly becomes the norm.

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

"Last time that I had sex was April...... 2005. No confidence due to women saying I'm skinny, too skinny, very skinny, needs to grow a chest first. All because of small pecs. I've heard it all before. Usually end up as the cute friend. Do want to go to the gym but there's other things going on in my life at the moment. With sex, I've given up. Guess I win the freak award. "

You're not skinny! Looking good from here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"5 years blimey I hope I don't go that long, did you not miss it like crazy? I'd like to open the closed door fully again some day soon, just need the right situation turn up. "

I think I was concentrating on other parts of my life, it lost any importance to me at that time. Mind you, the guy that ended the sex drought, is still one of my best friends!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I don't feel like we're freaks anymore there's quite a few of us long waiters. I dont get any criticism or putdowns (non serious ones anyway

) I get on really well with women and know they want the same thing sometimes but just can't make that first move myself keep telling myself to grow a pair and some missing out, don't work though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"5 years blimey I hope I don't go that long, did you not miss it like crazy?"

I miss sex like crazy

So badly do I need a lay

I think I have to turn gay

I miss sex like crazy

Damn I need a lady

I'm so frustrated, hard as rock

My golden, lonely, wasted cock!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't feel the need to have sex as much anymore. I rather have a nice long wank, gone 5 months with no sex last year lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I split with my partner of 10 years when I was 7 months pregnant, I did have sex with him the day I was due just for his sperm to get things going but that was oct '09 The next time I had sex was august 2011. I last had sex 22nd of October and I gotta be honest I'm not even bothered, I sort myself out with toys.

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By *uper_gMan
over a year ago

london

I recon my longest is about 4 days possibly 5!!

Cant help it! I have tried to say no!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't feel the need to have sex as much anymore. I rather have a nice long wank, gone 5 months with no sex last year lol

I don't think I'd rather but a good wank has to do for now until someone else grabs hold of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've got a good penis and I don't think you're too skinny.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know accurately how long my longest dry spell was......err....couple month I'd say probably.....

I'm not overly fussed tbh, it's not something I chase too much or miss desperately if I'm not getting it...luckily enough I seem to do ok and unbelievably there's the odd hard of seeing lady out there who wants to sleep with me....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv never had sex what is it like ??????

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"I can go months without sex..I've gone a year without it..does it make me a freak? Nah it makes me pretty normal

Plus 1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't feel the need to have sex as much anymore. I rather have a nice long wank, gone 5 months with no sex last year lol

I don't think I'd rather but a good wank has to do for now until someone else grabs hold of it.

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YEs it feels a lot better when a woman does it instead lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Glad I made that post I don't feel weird anymore

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't feel the need to have sex as much anymore. I rather have a nice long wank, gone 5 months with no sex last year lol

I don't think I'd rather but a good wank has to do for now until someone else grabs hold of it.

YEs it feels a lot better when a woman does it instead lol."

Absolutely, never better than in a women's hands.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was having a discussion with a female friend the other day about modern day sex, and the differences between males and females (it's interesting how much more civil these conversations are in person?), I told her my views on how much harder it is for guys to find sex than women, she disagreed and couldn't see how that would be, so I asked her if she had many single friends, she said yes, I asked if most of them were guys, she answered yes again, then went quiet...

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

22 years the first time 10 years the 2nd time.

hopefully it will only be months not years in the future, doubt I have much time left to go years again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get severely sexually frustrated if its been more than a few days

. Longest break in the last 10 years has probably been three weeks max and that was due to surgery or illness. I may have a problem ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"22 years the first time 10 years the 2nd time.

hopefully it will only be months not years in the future, doubt I have much time left to go years again.

Really wow I'm not that long a waiter after all. I still feel like I've missed something though. I'm sure you can take your pick when your ready.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I get severely sexually frustrated if its been more than a few days

. Longest break in the last 10 years has probably been three weeks max and that was due to surgery or illness. I may have a problem ? "

Haha a nice problem though, hopefully I'll have that problem when I start off again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn't imagine going more than a couple of days without getting severe withdrawal symptoms. The longest I've ever gone without is 2 months and I seriously struggled.

Kinky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regularly 2-3 months

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By *ussypussWoman
over a year ago

South Birmingham waiting for the bf to come back after crimbo

"5 years blimey I hope I don't go that long, did you not miss it like crazy? I'd like to open the closed door fully again some day soon, just need the right situation turn up.

I think I was concentrating on other parts of my life, it lost any importance to me at that time. Mind you, the guy that ended the sex drought, is still one of my best friends!"

In my case, I definitely was concentrating on other (so called) more important things. I abstained for just under 9yrs and it didn't bother me in the slightest, I just seemed to go off sex completely.

I agree with the poster I quoted, my drought-ender is now definitely my best friend, even though we've had almost a year of not being sexual together. I am sure that if he was asked, he would tell you that I spent 2yrs (with him) making up for lost time and now, I thoroughly enjoy sex and my sexuality, plus I've accepted my size and don't have anywhere near as many hang-ups about myself as I used to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're not skinny! Looking good from here

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By *inkxRabbitWoman
over a year ago

Mostly in GU24

13 years for me. How things have changed!

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By *ussypussWoman
over a year ago

South Birmingham waiting for the bf to come back after crimbo

"13 years for me. How things have changed! "

Sorry for stating the obvious but apart from us all aging and some getting a little more wrinkly or saggy, cocks are still cocks and pussies and are still pussies, so what exactly has changed?

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains

It's true, the longer you go without, the less you miss it!

I'm was so nervous the first time after my dry spell.. But like they say its like riding a bike

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bloody hell.....interesting thread

Erm 3 months in the last 20 or so years for me was my longest...and lack of sex was one of the reasons for my divorce....now it's normally twice a day....at least for the last few years with L

Looks like we are freaks

At least we have the same "problem"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well over a year for me. But my left hand busy. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a virgin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've gone about 18 months without. I became a pregnant, single parent and then had a baby to look after. Didn't have time to go look for anyone to have sex with and didn't want to focus on a relationship with two young kids to look after. Did miss sex but had more important priorities at the time.

When i was in a long distance relationship i was sex deprived for almost two years (only ever got it once or twice a month), never doing that again.

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By *asmanian TigerMan
over a year ago

lala land

I am a Virgin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm allowed sex 2 or 3 times a year, and only when she's pissed. Hence me being on here. Says a lot for me dosent it. And yet i continue to watch her flirt like fuck with other blokes. Wish i was stronger.

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By *asmanian TigerMan
over a year ago

lala land

"I'm allowed sex 2 or 3 times a year, and only when she's pissed. Hence me being on here. Says a lot for me dosent it. And yet i continue to watch her flirt like fuck with other blokes. Wish i was stronger. "

I feel for you op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel for you op

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Thankyou friend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Longest I've gone without any is just over 2yrs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"5 years blimey I hope I don't go that long, did you not miss it like crazy?

I miss sex like crazy

So badly do I need a lay

I think I have to turn gay

I miss sex like crazy

Damn I need a lady

I'm so frustrated, hard as rock

My golden, lonely, wasted cock!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ever since i've been on this site pretty much !!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been a year before and at the moment I'm into my sixth week.....by choice....will be changing that soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've gone for very long periods of time when my girls were little.. Recently it's been 18 months since my last meet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

5 1/2 yrs was the longest for me so far.

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By *inkxRabbitWoman
over a year ago

Mostly in GU24

"13 years for me. How things have changed!

Sorry for stating the obvious but apart from us all aging and some getting a little more wrinkly or saggy, cocks are still cocks and pussies and are still pussies, so what exactly has changed?

My husband doesn't fancy me, marriage is dead from that point of view. I decided to do something about it 18 months ago. Tried to start again. No go. So I joined fab and boy I've never had so much sex!

I emerged from 13 sexless years sad, no confidence, not sure I liked men.

It took one meet to change my mind and I haven't looked back. Thank you fab!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Iv never had sex what is it like ??????"

It's like a wank off god!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

about 2yrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once did a year of celibacy through choice. When the year was up, took ages to do the deed. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After my divorce id say nearly two years and a very good friend helped me unleash the beast inside and thank god he did. Couldnt go more than a week now I climb the walls if I dont get any

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I split with the ex hubby, I concentrated on bringing up my 3 darlings so didntk have sex for 7 years, I just shut that part of my self off.. its true the longer you go without it the less you miss it..

I can still last maybe a week if im busy at home etc..but any longer than that I'll be ready to jump on someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went without for years (double figures), till I joined here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

8 months but I get grumpy if I don't have it regurlarly or so my friends tell me x

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By *uggarbunnyWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

When I split up from my husband I ended up going with out for about 10 years. To start with I wasn't bothered. After a couple of years I decided I wanted to get back into the dating world. No luck and am still single 20 some years down the line, the reason I thought I'd give this place the once over until a relationship comes along after all I'm not a nun lol

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By *ackspopCouple
over a year ago

Wymondham

Went without for about 18 months after separating from wife.

We still had to live together though in the same house and I'm neither heartless nor stupid enough to have brought anyone home so was happy to be patient and wait until I had my own place.

Now with an astonishingly amazing woman who goes animal if has to go without for more than 3 days. Needless to say, I love when periods end.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went without for 2 years(my choice). Treated myself to a one night stand with a younger man, then went without for another year. Met someone who i ended up marrying, then he went off sex and was lucky if i got it twice a year. Still not getting as much as i'd like, but i agree when you're not getting any you don't miss it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've not had any full sex for over a year that's gotta be a record, I reckon I must seem like a freak on here but need a good connection and won't ever make the first move. I'm outgoing but also shy until someone makes that move so I'm a freak right or are there others like this?? "
It is hard to Imagine in fact more than that really (even) for me thou I have made penetration with partners I have never had full sex in over (20 years) thats largely due to I,m certain on lack of partners during That period of time but I don,t feel Bad for it at all it gives me all the More reason to find the right person Hopefully it works out for the better Long term and onward its surpriseing How time creeps up on you but even now I,m gob smacked when ever I think About it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

5 months, on tour with army.. It sucked!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You wanna have a chat with some Monks fella

They go without for a lifetime

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Unless they turn bi..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Iv never had sex what is it like ??????"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With a human involved over a year

My battery and vibe bill was huge though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was married so can survive a longish period without.

Not so sure i ever got "full sex" in any event. "

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

I was married so can survive a longish period without.

Not so sure i ever got "full sex" in any event. "

I know how you feel mate , had more sex when I was single,

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By *ink magnolia s yorksWoman
over a year ago

south yorkshire

4 years...it was called being married, just about killed me. Never again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

years- end of marriage and a couple of years after - all my energy went into nurturing my kids and making sure they were safe and happy - u have since made up for those absent years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At the moment..I don't even want to think how long its been!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So at least I'm not weird that's good news

Nobody actually said that you are not weird

I have had months without sex and forgot I wanted it until I had it again.. that's how life rolls for most at some point or another.

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

Mine has been 18 months I was suffering from depression and I wasn't having sex or even having any fun........

But that's life though now I am a randy little bugger

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