FabSwingers.com forum: hypocrisy i see

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

hi guys, hope everyone's had a lovely morning

something i find comical and eye catching is the way that "fat" people often state "no fat people". Obviously everyone is entitled to their own preferences but i find it hypocritical and spurious that people can demand from others what they cannot provide. Often it is stated as though they have some moral high ground

Obviously I'm not affected by these demands but its whats grinding my gears this morning lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll go out on a limb and assume you're not referring to single males.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yep, women and couples can pretty much demand what they want and some bloke will be up for fulfil their needs just to get a shag.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes opposites attract I'm big but wouldn't find it sexy being with a big partner

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"hi guys, hope everyone's had a lovely morning

Obviously I'm not affected by these demands but its whats grinding my gears this morning lol"

Our lower age limit is much younger than I am, I clearly can't provide youth yet I request it...does that make me a hypocrite?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By your logic presumably a white person can't look to meet asian or black people either?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So.......? People must stick to their own shapes and sizes? No....

I know what you mean when it comes to being said as if they have some moral high ground on the issue but I tend to avoid profiles with those type of undertones about anything, not just size...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"yep, women and couples can pretty much demand what they want and some bloke will be up for fulfil their needs just to get a shag."

what's really been an eye opener since being on here is how desperate and needy quite a lot of the men out there are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"yep, women and couples can pretty much demand what they want and some bloke will be up for fulfil their needs just to get a shag."

Or alternatively people can express a preferences and find someone that fits it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"yep, women and couples can pretty much demand what they want and some bloke will be up for fulfil their needs just to get a shag."

perhaps thats why there are some couples with a lot of no shows, something I dont do but see lots of complaints about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"hi guys, hope everyone's had a lovely morning

Obviously I'm not affected by these demands but its whats grinding my gears this morning lol"

What if someone who is fat isn't attracted to other fat people! Should they just know their place and meet only fat people? I'm overweight but I'm not attracted to overweight men. The slim/average/normal/whatever men don't seem to have a problem with this.

Are thin people limited to meeting thin people? Short people not allowed to want to meet tall people?

If they're writing it in a way that offends you then pass them by, but I hope you realise your own opening post makes it sounds like you yourself think you're a cut above the fatties you're deriding for doing the same thing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"By your logic presumably a white person can't look to meet asian or black people either? "

that's obviously not i mean or what i was implying. there's no need to be pedantic

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

And how exactly does this affect you?...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"yep, women and couples can pretty much demand what they want and some bloke will be up for fulfil their needs just to get a shag.

Or alternatively people can express a preferences and find someone that fits it?"

this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"By your logic presumably a white person can't look to meet asian or black people either?

that's obviously not i mean or what i was implying. there's no need to be pedantic"

You're new to the forums I see?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"yep, women and couples can pretty much demand what they want and some bloke will be up for fulfil their needs just to get a shag.

Or alternatively people can express a preferences and find someone that fits it?"

If they're a single female perhaps - single male, not so much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"By your logic presumably a white person can't look to meet asian or black people either?

that's obviously not i mean or what i was implying. there's no need to be pedantic

You're new to the forums I see?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"By your logic presumably a white person can't look to meet asian or black people either?

that's obviously not i mean or what i was implying. there's no need to be pedantic"

I don't think that is being pedantic, you are saying that people shouldn't request what they can't provide.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never, in all my time on fab, seen on anyone's profile "no fat people"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been told be 3 girls on here that I am too ugly to fuck

I am too polite to guide them to the nearest mirror. I don't just go on looks I look for personality and mutual likes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have been told be 3 girls on here that I am too ugly to fuck

I am too polite to guide them to the nearest mirror. I don't just go on looks I look for personality and mutual likes"

"By" not "be" lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"I have never, in all my time on fab, seen on anyone's profile "no fat people""

I have a couple of times.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

It doesn't bother me. I like difference and diversity in life.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"By your logic presumably a white person can't look to meet asian or black people either?

that's obviously not i mean or what i was implying. there's no need to be pedantic

You're new to the forums I see?

lol deary me, what have i done??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have never, in all my time on fab, seen on anyone's profile "no fat people""

I've seen on plenty of men's profiles something along the lines of "not being funny but I only fancy slim women", or even referring to dress size e.g. under size 12 only. Which is fine, their choice entirely, but I do always point out to them when they message me given that I'm an 18.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have been told be 3 girls on here that I am too ugly to fuck

I am too polite to guide them to the nearest mirror. I don't just go on looks I look for personality and mutual likes"

Why were you looking to meet people that you are now implying are ugly?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can see your point of view, im fat my hubbys thin and I prefer slim to average sized men, my best meets have been with slim men and for some reason fat blokes don't want to see me again and don't leave me verifications so whats the point of me meeting fat blokes just because im fat.

If I cant find someone I like then I would rather go without.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"hi guys, hope everyone's had a lovely morning

Obviously I'm not affected by these demands but its whats grinding my gears this morning lol"

I like guys over 6' but at 5'2" I can't offer height in return. So following your logic I should only meet short people??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have never, in all my time on fab, seen on anyone's profile "no fat people"

I have a couple of times. "

I have seen that on loads or put another way, fit men only

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"By your logic presumably a white person can't look to meet asian or black people either?

that's obviously not i mean or what i was implying. there's no need to be pedantic"

So what do you mean?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

use of hypocrite is wrong but i get what you mean.

i like bigger guys personally, so it's ok if no-one else does coz send them to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does anyone have a problem with men with ice lollies for penises?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It all comes down to preferance that is all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's their preference is it not....

Or are you saying that overweight people are not allowed to have one?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does anyone have a problem with men with ice lollies for penises?"

Only ladies with hot vag's....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It doesn't bother me. I like difference and diversity in life.

me too Tina x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are plenty of slim guy that like the voluptuous lady, therefore let them find each other. The larger guys just need to find someone who's attracted to them, somebody for everyone!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does anyone have a problem with men with ice lollies for penises?

Only ladies with hot vag's...."

Haha. Least I can finally get a woman wet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Variety is the spice of Life.

Personality is most aspect I look for regardless of looks and attributes.

If your not into something eg short or fat, you shouldn't be limited if you happen to be short, fat ect

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's their preference is it not....

Or are you saying that overweight people are not allowed to have one?

more along the lines of they more than anyone else should know what its like to be excluded and made to feel irrelevant because of their weight, which i can only imagine to be quite horrible. And to answer previous comments, the difference between weight and colour and size is that weight is the only category of the 3 that people have control over - and i clearly stated in my opening remarks - people are entitled to their own preferences.. doesn't make the demands any less hollow in my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi op!

Welcome to the forums!!

I can see where you are coming from to a small extent, ie - If I take care of my physique then I am entitled to demand that my sexual partners do the same - but if I don't take care of my physique, do I still have that right?

Ask yourself this - if due to illness, accident or change of lifestyle you gained four stone in weight, would you then automatically find overweight men attractive? - I wouldn't!

I've also had my horizons massively broadened as to what is desirable to many since joining fab. My original preconception that you have to be size 12 or less to be beautiful/attractive to the opposite sex has been blasted out of the water - quite rightly!!

I have some gorgeous bbw friends who are at least as much in demand at clubs and parties as I am! And hell - why shouldn't they be?? They're amazing ladies!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's their preference is it not....

Or are you saying that overweight people are not allowed to have one?

I suspect that you've hit the nail on the head.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Oh blah blah blah.

Are tall people only allowed to want tall people now?

Are we only allowed to seek people with a similar IQ? Same colour hair? Same colour eyes?

It's only ever body size people are expected to restrict themselves on, and it's only ever fat people who are not allowed preferences and don't "deserve" anyone not fat.

I'm fat.I don't fancy fat men. Some slim/athletic men are only too happy to meet me.

Some people look for more than body size.

Go shove your prejudice up your arse.

(Yes I'm in a say exactly what I mean mood and have lost patience with this bullshit).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does anyone have a problem with men with ice lollies for penises?

Only ladies with hot vag's....

Haha. Least I can finally get a woman wet

The horror of finishing only to find that all you have left is a stick!

I guess you could mould another though.......you could message ahead and custom mould one for every meet!

you may be onto something here.....

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"yep, women and couples can pretty much demand what they want and some bloke will be up for fulfil their needs just to get a shag."

I demand nothing. I have preferences which I specify and I choose not to meet if I can't get what I'm looking for.

Men are free to want to meet me or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh bugger I better cancel my planned meets with slim people... Sorry can only have fatties from now on seen as I have to stick to my own kind.

Sorry Paul your gonna have to do one too as fatties can't bump slim Jims and vice versa

Well thank god its faces and personalities im into rather than their waist measurement!!

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"hi guys, hope everyone's had a lovely morning

Obviously I'm not affected by these demands but its whats grinding my gears this morning lol

Our lower age limit is much younger than I am, I clearly can't provide youth yet I request it...does that make me a hypocrite?"

Yes. Obviously.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh blah blah blah.

Are tall people only allowed to want tall people now?

Are we only allowed to seek people with a similar IQ? Same colour hair? Same colour eyes?

It's only ever body size people are expected to restrict themselves on, and it's only ever fat people who are not allowed preferences and don't "deserve" anyone not fat.

I'm fat.I don't fancy fat men. Some slim/athletic men are only too happy to meet me.

Some people look for more than body size.

Go shove your prejudice up your arse.

(Yes I'm in a say exactly what I mean mood and have lost patience with this bullshit)."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have been told be 3 girls on here that I am too ugly to fuck

I am too polite to guide them to the nearest mirror. I don't just go on looks I look for personality and mutual likes

Why were you looking to meet people that you are now implying are ugly?

I don't go on looks, I message them because I liked what they liked, and lived in London. But there looks weren't typically stunning (whatever stunning is) but they were so rude back and had no right to be

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"By your logic presumably a white person can't look to meet asian or black people either?

that's obviously not i mean or what i was implying. there's no need to be pedantic

I don't think that is being pedantic, you are saying that people shouldn't request what they can't provide.

No, only fat people because we're second class citizens. Everyone else is fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have never, in all my time on fab, seen on anyone's profile "no fat people"

them when they message me given that I'm an 18.

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ive seen this too but never seen anybody be so rude as to say "no fat people" or have I taken the OP's post to literally?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's their preference is it not....

Or are you saying that overweight people are not allowed to have one?

Just digging deeper here!! Larger people are made to feel irrelevant and excluded because of their weight!!! Search the forums for BBW..... Loads of men love them. You shouldn't try to push your prejudice on to others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's their preference is it not....

Or are you saying that overweight people are not allowed to have one?

I'm sorry but the only hypocrisy I see is the theory that overweight people can't express a preference but everyone else can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you do see a lot of fat women with little skinny husbands though, especialy older ones.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have never, in all my time on fab, seen on anyone's profile "no fat people"

them when they message me given that I'm an 18.

ive seen this too but never seen anybody be so rude as to say "no fat people" or have I taken the OP's post to literally?"

i have seen this but obviously I'm not going to name and shame - but i've seen a good few times through searches we've made and people who have contacted us

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"I have never, in all my time on fab, seen on anyone's profile "no fat people"

them when they message me given that I'm an 18.

ive seen this too but never seen anybody be so rude as to say "no fat people" or have I taken the OP's post to literally?"

I have. I've seen much more rude comments too.

No salad dodgers etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To all those upset and lovely curvy ladies. Please help yourself to an ice lolly x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's their preference is it not....

Or are you saying that overweight people are not allowed to have one?

I'm sorry but the only hypocrisy I see is the theory that overweight people can't express a preference but everyone else can"

what part of everybody is entitled to their preferences (which i've stated 3 times already) do you find hard to comprehend. like them however, I'm entitled to draw my conclusion on what i observe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I take it form the Op's position that slim people are considered superior to larger/overweight people? I'm slim (he says smugly!) - lol

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"It's their preference is it not....

Or are you saying that overweight people are not allowed to have one?

I'm sorry but the only hypocrisy I see is the theory that overweight people can't express a preference but everyone else can"

Yup.

As for people thinking they are better than others...

No slim person is better than me simply because they are slim.

I'm going to start expecting all meets have the same level of intelligence and education that I have. There will be a fuck of a lot of slim people that can't "provide" that.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I have. I've seen much more rude comments too.

No salad dodgers etc."

I use comments like that as a filter. If someone writes something like that, then heaven knows what they would be like in person

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"It's their preference is it not....

Or are you saying that overweight people are not allowed to have one?

I'm sorry but the only hypocrisy I see is the theory that overweight people can't express a preference but everyone else can

what part of everybody is entitled to their preferences (which i've stated 3 times already) do you find hard to comprehend. like them however, I'm entitled to draw my conclusion on what i observe"

And your belief that fat people are lesser beings than thin people.

Your attitude makes you less in my opinion. Your accusation of others taking the moral high ground is hysterical.

Get a grip, worry about yourself and your own meets and leave everyone else the fuck alone.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Woo hoo I thought my day would not be complete without a daily fat bashing thread...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's their preference is it not....

Or are you saying that overweight people are not allowed to have one?

I'm sorry but the only hypocrisy I see is the theory that overweight people can't express a preference but everyone else can

what part of everybody is entitled to their preferences (which i've stated 3 times already) do you find hard to comprehend. like them however, I'm entitled to draw my conclusion on what i observe

And your belief that fat people are lesser beings than thin people.

Your attitude makes you less in my opinion. Your accusation of others taking the moral high ground is hysterical.

Get a grip, worry about yourself and your own meets and leave everyone else the fuck alone."

jesus christ you have a chip on your shoulder. my post was in support of the overweight man who was discriminated against. the only one with a prejudice is you love - against men who are overweight.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Woo hoo I thought my day would not be complete without a daily fat bashing thread..."

There's plenty of time for another one too. It's so great when someone is considerate and gets one in early.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

There are people who prefer the larger form and are more slight themselves... .we can all enjoy whatever we like on here.... If you want them and they want you... That's all that it needs to be....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so hang on being fat does that make it that we cant have preferences and choices too

next you will be saying that i will have to meet anyone who messages me as im to fat too meet or make a decison?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's their preference is it not....

Or are you saying that overweight people are not allowed to have one?

I'm sorry but the only hypocrisy I see is the theory that overweight people can't express a preference but everyone else can

what part of everybody is entitled to their preferences (which i've stated 3 times already) do you find hard to comprehend. like them however, I'm entitled to draw my conclusion on what i observe"

If everyone is entitled to their preferences why have you started a thread calling people hypocritices for expressing one?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's their preference is it not....

Or are you saying that overweight people are not allowed to have one?

I'm sorry but the only hypocrisy I see is the theory that overweight people can't express a preference but everyone else can

what part of everybody is entitled to their preferences (which i've stated 3 times already) do you find hard to comprehend. like them however, I'm entitled to draw my conclusion on what i observe

And your belief that fat people are lesser beings than thin people.

Your attitude makes you less in my opinion. Your accusation of others taking the moral high ground is hysterical.

Get a grip, worry about yourself and your own meets and leave everyone else the fuck alone.

jesus christ you have a chip on your shoulder. my post was in support of the overweight man who was discriminated against. the only one with a prejudice is you love - against men who are overweight. "

Which part of your opening post was in support of overweight people?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"yep, women and couples can pretty much demand what they want and some bloke will be up for fulfil their needs just to get a shag.

what's really been an eye opener since being on here is how desperate and needy quite a lot of the men out there are"
Some are unbelievable and turn to bisexuality to find it amongst themselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"so hang on being fat does that make it that we cant have preferences and choices too

next you will be saying that i will have to meet anyone who messages me as im to fat too meet or make a decison?"

In fairness you do have a very big...

Profile description!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's their preference is it not....

Or are you saying that overweight people are not allowed to have one?

I'm sorry but the only hypocrisy I see is the theory that overweight people can't express a preference but everyone else can

what part of everybody is entitled to their preferences (which i've stated 3 times already) do you find hard to comprehend. like them however, I'm entitled to draw my conclusion on what i observe

If everyone is entitled to their preferences why have you started a thread calling people hypocritices for expressing one?"

err... because a preference can still be hypocritical???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Woo hoo I thought my day would not be complete without a daily fat bashing thread..."

Seems to be the only "socially acceptable" prejudice bigots can get away with these days. There should be laws in place for discrimating against size.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have. I've seen much more rude comments too.

No salad dodgers etc.

I use comments like that as a filter. If someone writes something like that, then heaven knows what they would be like in person

"
i don't blame you, that's aweful

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By *r and mrs sanddancerCouple
over a year ago

BOLDON COLLIERY

having read a lot of people going on about preferences, and how fat people should meet,

Has anyone considered the elf n safety aspect to it.

what if they know their bed/sofa could not take the strain of two larger people on it or even four if it's a couple meeting, the accident lawyers would have a field day if it collapsed

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes

"hi guys, hope everyone's had a lovely morning

Obviously I'm not affected by these demands but its whats grinding my gears this morning lol

Our lower age limit is much younger than I am, I clearly can't provide youth yet I request it...does that make me a hypocrite?"

Yep.

But then I demand people who are gorgeous. Guess that makes me a hypocrite to. LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"hi guys, hope everyone's had a lovely morning

Obviously I'm not affected by these demands but its whats grinding my gears this morning lol"

Why is it grinding your gears?

Can't you concern yourself with more important stuff, like changing the way you think?

I'm a size 16.

I don't demand anything from any man.

Just intelligence, confidence and respect which I offer in return.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"hi guys, hope everyone's had a lovely morning

Obviously I'm not affected by these demands but its whats grinding my gears this morning lol"
This is in no way meant to offend but everyones view is different on body shape , your pics state athletic!!!! but not sure in what way?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"hi guys, hope everyone's had a lovely morning

Obviously I'm not affected by these demands but its whats grinding my gears this morning lol

Our lower age limit is much younger than I am, I clearly can't provide youth yet I request it...does that make me a hypocrite?

Yep.

But then I demand people who are gorgeous. Guess that makes me a hypocrite to. LOL"

hahaha jesus christ

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"It's their preference is it not....

Or are you saying that overweight people are not allowed to have one?

I'm sorry but the only hypocrisy I see is the theory that overweight people can't express a preference but everyone else can

what part of everybody is entitled to their preferences (which i've stated 3 times already) do you find hard to comprehend. like them however, I'm entitled to draw my conclusion on what i observe

And your belief that fat people are lesser beings than thin people.

Your attitude makes you less in my opinion. Your accusation of others taking the moral high ground is hysterical.

Get a grip, worry about yourself and your own meets and leave everyone else the fuck alone.

Oh do put a sock in it.

No chip on my shoulder, just fucking fed up with arrogant slim people who think they are better than others just for being slim having a fucking go.

We're attracted to what we're attracted to. Nobody has a right to meets and EVERYONE has a right to decline to meet anyone for any reason.

Declining someone based on size is no more prejudiced than declining them for any other reason.

You think fat people are second class citizens without the same rights as everyone else. If you believe that isn't prejudice, you are deluded.

I don't fancy fat men and that is how it is. Nobody has a duty to restrict themselves to, or meet people the same size as them just because you think that's all they are worth.

People are more than their size.

Again, worry about yourself and your meets and leave everyone else the fuck alone; regardless of how much better than them you think you are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have been told be 3 girls on here that I am too ugly to fuck

I am too polite to guide them to the nearest mirror. I don't just go on looks I look for personality and mutual likes

Why were you looking to meet people that you are now implying are ugly?

I have had sex with men who are classed as facially ugly. The wouldn't win a beauty contest, maybe a gurning one but I found them to be attractive inside. I don't look for a physical type, I look for like minded people but I can see that we aren't all beautiful and pleasant to look at. Myself included-thankfully there are men that aren't obsessed by looks or physique. Some people call them the desperate- maybe some will have sex with someone who makes them feel like throwing up, but maybe some just see a sexy person inside

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can skinny people ask for fat people??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are people who prefer the larger form and are more slight themselves... .we can all enjoy whatever we like on here.... If you want them and they want you... That's all that it needs to be...."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can skinny people ask for fat people??"

can fat people ask for skinnies

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

An independent panel of fab members should give as all an attractiveness rating and a size rating and we should only be allowed to meet people with the same rating as us.

That'd sort the problem.

Damn these jumped up fat people who think they are good enough to meet the slim (and therefore beautiful, better) people.

The very cheek.

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes

"I have never, in all my time on fab, seen on anyone's profile "no fat people""

I've seen loads with this on but it's not a problem for me as I'm not fat. Also I tend to concentrate on profiles I like; especially if they have a very sexy, nice arse pic for me to perv.

he he

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Can skinny people ask for fat people??"

No they should be sectioned for their own good until they can learn not to lower their standards in such a way.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Can skinny people ask for fat people??

No they should be sectioned for their own good until they can learn not to lower their standards in such a way."

you need to get a life and stop commenting on my post because your foul-mouthed, aggressive, confrontational, and tiresome

some of your behaviour on my post has been cretinous.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

At least I'm not fat and deluded.

I describe myself accurately and have clear pics so people can decide if they want to meet me.

I've seen plenty of large men describing themselves as average, or even athletic (on the basis of having "a rugby player's build) and saying they prefer young, slim women.

It's their choice. I'm not looking for them and they aren't looking for me so I move on without needing to have a public superiority trip over it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"yep, women and couples can pretty much demand what they want and some bloke will be up for fulfil their needs just to get a shag.

what's really been an eye opener since being on here is how desperate and needy quite a lot of the men out there are"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

come on you lot, I thought fat people were supposed to be jolly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have never, in all my time on fab, seen on anyone's profile "no fat people""

ive seen it many times written differently, no larger, no over size 12 etc and I remind them when they message me

what your saying is if a fat person says no fat people there hypocrites.we are all after what we choose to meet.i would rather be a woman who knows what I want rather than shag anything that gives me an offer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can skinny people ask for fat people??

No they should be sectioned for their own good until they can learn not to lower their standards in such a way.

you need to get a life and stop commenting on my post because your foul-mouthed, aggressive, confrontational, and tiresome

some of your behaviour on my post has been cretinous."

You invited opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's their preference is it not....

Or are you saying that overweight people are not allowed to have one?

I'm sorry but the only hypocrisy I see is the theory that overweight people can't express a preference but everyone else can

what part of everybody is entitled to their preferences (which i've stated 3 times already) do you find hard to comprehend. like them however, I'm entitled to draw my conclusion on what i observe

If everyone is entitled to their preferences why have you started a thread calling people hypocritices for expressing one?

err... because a preference can still be hypocritical???

But other preferences aren't hypocritical? Only this one?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"come on you lot, I thought fat people were supposed to be jolly.

we are ho ho ho

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Can skinny people ask for fat people??

No they should be sectioned for their own good until they can learn not to lower their standards in such a way.

you need to get a life and stop commenting on my post because your foul-mouthed, aggressive, confrontational, and tiresome

some of your behaviour on my post has been cretinous."

If you had a life yourself you might not bother so much about other people, their preferences and their meets. Maybe you wouldn't need to be self-appointed police of what other people deserve, (based on a single aspect).

You pissed me off with your hating, so you're getting pissed off responses. Big shock.

The only thing cretinous is your OP and follow-up posts.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Can skinny people ask for fat people??

No they should be sectioned for their own good until they can learn not to lower their standards in such a way.

you need to get a life and stop commenting on my post because your foul-mouthed, aggressive, confrontational, and tiresome

some of your behaviour on my post has been cretinous.

You invited opinion.

Amen.

Apparently the OP is entitled to an opinion, and to voice it (perhaps because she's slim) but us fatties should shut up and know our place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm stroking my belly...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's their preference is it not....

Or are you saying that overweight people are not allowed to have one?

I'm sorry but the only hypocrisy I see is the theory that overweight people can't express a preference but everyone else can

what part of everybody is entitled to their preferences (which i've stated 3 times already) do you find hard to comprehend. like them however, I'm entitled to draw my conclusion on what i observe

If everyone is entitled to their preferences why have you started a thread calling people hypocritices for expressing one?

err... because a preference can still be hypocritical???

But other preferences aren't hypocritical? Only this one?"

OP can you not see in the slightest how your post is being viewed by others?

By that I'm not saying you should change your opinion & I'm just wondering.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"come on you lot, I thought fat people were supposed to be jolly.

I'm happy. Loads of hot guys fuck me so i don't need to moan about other women having preferences.

This whole topic is weird tbh with you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thank God every day for those men who are willing to fuck a fat bird.

But as op said some men are just desperate

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm stroking my belly...

you go girl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"hi guys, hope everyone's had a lovely morning

Obviously I'm not affected by these demands but its whats grinding my gears this morning lolThis is in no way meant to offend but everyones view is different on body shape , your pics state athletic!!!! but not sure in what way?

Maybe they haven't posted pics that illustrate their athleticism? Eye of the beholder stuff....and this beholder would have said the woman (no male pics) is average body size, maybe curvy even. But that is my personal opinion and I recognise people can describe themselves in whatever way they choose

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's their preference is it not....

Or are you saying that overweight people are not allowed to have one?

I'm sorry but the only hypocrisy I see is the theory that overweight people can't express a preference but everyone else can

what part of everybody is entitled to their preferences (which i've stated 3 times already) do you find hard to comprehend. like them however, I'm entitled to draw my conclusion on what i observe

If everyone is entitled to their preferences why have you started a thread calling people hypocritices for expressing one?

err... because a preference can still be hypocritical???

But other preferences aren't hypocritical? Only this one?

OP can you not see in the slightest how your post is being viewed by others?

By that I'm not saying you should change your opinion & I'm just wondering."

I can certainly see how some members of the forum community of fabswingers view it sure but my point remains valid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have been told be 3 girls on here that I am too ugly to fuck

I am too polite to guide them to the nearest mirror. I don't just go on looks I look for personality and mutual likes

Why were you looking to meet people that you are now implying are ugly?

If only all girls on here agreed

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By *ust Us TogetherWoman
over a year ago

Newport

" We're attracted to what we're attracted to. Nobody has a right to meets and EVERYONE has a right to decline to meet anyone for any reason.

Declining someone based on size is no more prejudiced than declining them for any other reason.

You think fat people are second class citizens without the same rights as everyone else. If you believe that isn't prejudice, you are deluded.

I don't fancy fat men and that is how it is. Nobody has a duty to restrict themselves to, or meet people the same size as them just because you think that's all they are worth.

People are more than their size.

Again, worry about yourself and your meets and leave everyone else the fuck alone; regardless of how much better than them you think you are."

The most sensible thing written in here!

When has "Fatties" become an acceptable term to refer to another person??

I was under the impression that this was a site for people to meet others to fulfil sexual fantasies or needs, to do that people have to meet a certain criteria to fulfil that? So requesting a certain type of person is not wrong as long as it is respectful in the way it is done.

As fairly new members we have discovered that there are quite a few peeps here who think their sh*t doesn't stink...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can skinny people ask for fat people??

No they should be sectioned for their own good until they can learn not to lower their standards in such a way.

you need to get a life and stop commenting on my post because your foul-mouthed, aggressive, confrontational, and tiresome

some of your behaviour on my post has been cretinous.

You invited opinion.

Amen.

Apparently the OP is entitled to an opinion, and to voice it (perhaps because she's slim) but us fatties should shut up and know our place."

Honestly I think I'm in my place and I like it.

I really have no love for shallow people.

This sort of thread simply highlights the vacuous types inviting rows and upsetting folk for their own pleasure.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

" We're attracted to what we're attracted to. Nobody has a right to meets and EVERYONE has a right to decline to meet anyone for any reason.

Declining someone based on size is no more prejudiced than declining them for any other reason.

You think fat people are second class citizens without the same rights as everyone else. If you believe that isn't prejudice, you are deluded.

I don't fancy fat men and that is how it is. Nobody has a duty to restrict themselves to, or meet people the same size as them just because you think that's all they are worth.

People are more than their size.

Again, worry about yourself and your meets and leave everyone else the fuck alone; regardless of how much better than them you think you are.

The most sensible thing written in here!

When has "Fatties" become an acceptable term to refer to another person??

As fairly new members we have discovered that there are quite a few peeps here who think their sh*t doesn't stink...

My shit smells of roses. And I fart rainbows.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm stroking my belly...

May I? I like a little bit of tummy

I imagine us sat stroking your tummy watching this lot argue

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes

"I'm stroking my belly...

umm. Can I stroke it to?

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

"Can skinny people ask for fat people??"

I wondered this. No one seems to care about the slim guys asking for BBW!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"hi guys, hope everyone's had a lovely morning

Obviously I'm not affected by these demands but its whats grinding my gears this morning lol"

I have recently gained 20lbs due to medication and feel too fat to meet, hence why I have changed my profile. On looking at your pics I would say we are about the same size, maybe you are slightly bigger. Even though I feel uncomfortable meeting at this size I would not dare suggest you shouldn't!! Live and let live, this is something you learn with age and experience. I guess you are too immature to understand that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm stroking my belly...

May I? I like a little bit of tummy

I imagine us sat stroking your tummy watching this lot argue

It's all yours...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm stroking my belly...

umm. Can I stroke it to?

Get in. ..

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes

" We're attracted to what we're attracted to. Nobody has a right to meets and EVERYONE has a right to decline to meet anyone for any reason.

Declining someone based on size is no more prejudiced than declining them for any other reason.

You think fat people are second class citizens without the same rights as everyone else. If you believe that isn't prejudice, you are deluded.

I don't fancy fat men and that is how it is. Nobody has a duty to restrict themselves to, or meet people the same size as them just because you think that's all they are worth.

People are more than their size.

Again, worry about yourself and your meets and leave everyone else the fuck alone; regardless of how much better than them you think you are.

The most sensible thing written in here!

When has "Fatties" become an acceptable term to refer to another person??

As fairly new members we have discovered that there are quite a few peeps here who think their sh*t doesn't stink...

My shit smells of roses. And I fart rainbows.

I've never though of myself as brown noser or an arse licker but, when you put it like that, it does sound quite appealing. LOL

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes

"I'm stroking my belly...

umm. Can I stroke it to?

Get in. ..

Maybe even a little licking to. ~:

he he

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

I'm fat, size 18/20. I mention this in our profile, and there's our pics.

Judging by the hot, slim guys that want to meet me, clearly it's not an issue. Yay for me!

OP, your preferences are not everyone else's preferences. Your time would be better spent focusing on your own meets rather than anyone else's that don't concern you.

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By *uggarbunnyWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Have to say as a fattie myself im not attracted to the same in men. Im more attracted to athletic, muscle, rugby type. I also find that I am their prefrence. For me this site is a bit of fun and fantasy so why shouldnt I go for what I like. Men do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ice lolly is still available

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Anyone want cake?

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes

"Can skinny people ask for fat people??

I wondered this. No one seems to care about the slim guys asking for BBW!!"

I really don't think this is a problem you have to worry about having perved your profile.

(And, yes I did read it all but still no need to give me the 'ins and outs' of why).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone want cake?

Lol just a slither I'm watching me weight...

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

"Anyone want cake?

Yes please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol,,bitchy,bitchy,bitchy in here,its all some folk seem to do on here is slag others off.

I blame the crap weather

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ice lolly is still available

I like a feast. ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm stroking my belly...

May I? I like a little bit of tummy

I imagine us sat stroking your tummy watching this lot argue

It's all yours...

Yay! I'll fetch a little cake too....three pieces as it seems I'm not tummys only fan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"lol,,bitchy,bitchy,bitchy in here,its all some folk seem to do on here is slag others off.

I blame the crap weather"

I blame t'Internet.

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes

"Have to say as a fattie myself im not attracted to the same in men. Im more attracted to athletic, muscle, rugby type. I also find that I am their prefrence. For me this site is a bit of fun and fantasy so why shouldnt I go for what I like. Men do. "

Why are so many women on here calling themselves 'fatties' when they quite clearly are not.

If this carries on I'll have to start calling myself 'fattie' just to compete. LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone want cake?

May I have some? Have you any carrot cake?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone want cake?

Wouldn't say no

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes

"Anyone want cake?

Yum, about time someone offered something nice!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ohh go on then

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Anyone want cake?

Yes. I'd hate to become an arrogant "slim" (and having seen the OP's photos now, I've added the quotes) person who believes they can dictate the behaviour of others based on their own standards.

People like this actually put me off losing weight because I dig my heels in about conforming to anyone else's expectations, (yes, I know it's cutting off my nose to spite my face). I also don't want this type of person believing their hating had an effect and encouraged me to change.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"lol,,bitchy,bitchy,bitchy in here,its all some folk seem to do on here is slag others off.

I blame the crap weather

I blame t'Internet. "

yea your right,most folk on here would never act like this in the real world or they,d get locked up.

I was just attempting to be polite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"lol,,bitchy,bitchy,bitchy in here,its all some folk seem to do on here is slag others off.

I blame the crap weather"

It's nice and sunny up here

Perhaps supersomething would do well with his lolly up here today?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anybody need their buns iced

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone want cake?

I could go nuts for a bit of lemon drizzle right now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i wouldnt say im a BBM but i find BBw very attractive!!

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I might order a pizza for lunch.

All this arguing has made me hungry and I have my figure to maintain.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone want cake?

Yes. I'd hate to become an arrogant "slim" (and having seen the OP's photos now, I've added the quotes) person who believes they can dictate the behaviour of others based on their own standards.

You don't need to lose anything you numpty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some people actually like fat and slim people. Greedy fuckers (me)

I can recall a very handsome, athletic built man with a nice bit of muscle going on-not too much- seducing me in his bedroom. He pushed me back on his bed and as he gorged on my pussy his hands were caressing my thighs and stomach. He was making the most delicious noises. As he moved up to kiss me he kissed and gently bit my stomach while his hands squeezed by bum cheeks. Now there is a man who likes a bit of flesh I thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone want cake?

Thought you'd never ask!

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By *iccardaTV/TS
over a year ago

Wallasey

all in the eye of the beholder

must admit i wonder how many people who post preferences on fab actually stick to them or when they meet someone in reality and they fancy them, do these preferences all of a sudden become flexible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have never, in all my time on fab, seen on anyone's profile "no fat people"

Usually my 1st line of a message is Hi "blah blah blah"...then 2nd line is " I'm a size 18 with a lot of stretch marks after having a child" as I would not like to waste anyone's time either! So

Glad I'm not the only one who does this. I have a picture but do not how my skin so find its best that way x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a fat person

I've enjoyed reading the thread in my lunch break eating cake !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the op was one about the profiles that seem to be slagging off over weigh people when them selfs are over weight. Everyone has they own preferences which it good and ill never argue against that

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Anyone want cake?

Yes. I'd hate to become an arrogant "slim" (and having seen the OP's photos now, I've added the quotes) person who believes they can dictate the behaviour of others based on their own standards.

You don't need to lose anything you numpty"

Thanks but being realistic I need to lose 4-5 stone and a significant quantity of body fat. That's just a fact.

I won't ever do it for an arrogant hater though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"come on you lot, I thought fat people were supposed to be jolly.

You're getting confused with "bubbly"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to stay trim n fit,i like fit athletic guys that look good,dress smartly,does that make me shallow n stuck up?,,like I give a fuck.

we all have our preferances,who cares.

as for friends don't care if they,ve two heads are over weight ,under weight,black white,green,blue with pink dots bla,bla bla,as long as they are fun

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes

Personally I think some of the comments against the OP have gone a little over the top. She's young and new and would probably have been better of not using the word "hypocritical".

And it is a question I have often wondered myself but, as has rightly been pointed out, no one thinks it's wrong for skinnies to ask for larger so why the other way round.

And I ask for gorgeous but I'm far from gorgeous myself.

We all learn from our mistakes but not if we are also beaten to the ground in a fit of rage by someone who feels differently.

I say cut her/them a little slack and lets move on.

(or am I getting back into the arse licking and brown nosing thing again. he he)

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By *coutin4girlzMan
over a year ago

Moo-Moo land :-)

[Removed by poster at 08/01/15 12:54:47]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now this thread has started getting fat......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone want cake?

Yes. I'd hate to become an arrogant "slim" (and having seen the OP's photos now, I've added the quotes) person who believes they can dictate the behaviour of others based on their own standards.

You don't need to lose anything you numpty

Thanks but being realistic I need to lose 4-5 stone and a significant quantity of body fat. That's just a fact.

I won't ever do it for an arrogant hater though."

Whatever makes YOU happy

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By *uggarbunnyWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"Can skinny people ask for fat people??

I wondered this. No one seems to care about the slim guys asking for BBW!!

I really don't think this is a problem you have to worry about having perved your profile.

(And, yes I did read it all but still no need to give me the 'ins and outs' of why).

LOL steal my lime light would ya,,,,I'm an hour glass with alot of sand

how's that?

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT

"hi guys, hope everyone's had a lovely morning

Obviously I'm not affected by these demands but its whats grinding my gears this morning lol

Are thin people limited to meeting thin people? Short people not allowed to want to meet tall people?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most bigger women I see in profiles and things are not into athletes so cant be said to all that opposite attracts, even do we like bigger women, its a catch 22.

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By *coutin4girlzMan
over a year ago

Moo-Moo land :-)

I've never come across FATTIES on yuh,they're all CURVY as they say lol but most of us with one Iota of sense know that CURVY means an attractively proportioned shape not double chins n an arse like a hippo lol so they're only fooling themselves but each to their own,that's just my opinion n I guess I'm not everyones cup of tea either so there we go....

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes

"Can skinny people ask for fat people??

I wondered this. No one seems to care about the slim guys asking for BBW!!

I really don't think this is a problem you have to worry about having perved your profile.

(And, yes I did read it all but still no need to give me the 'ins and outs' of why).

LOL steal my lime light would ya,,,,I'm an hour glass with alot of sand

how's that?"

I already fabbed your pics. I think you look really sexy. Your another calling yourself fattie when you quite definitely belong more in the gorgeous category. IMHO

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"all in the eye of the beholder

must admit i wonder how many people who post preferences on fab actually stick to them or when they meet someone in reality and they fancy them, do these preferences all of a sudden become flexible

All my preferences are flexible for the right people. There's something about some people that changes things.

I need some criteria on here though because I can't meet everyone in case there's chemistry. Social gatherings are useful for meeting people I wouldn't normally meet just from their profiles here. A lot of guys don't present themselves well on here.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"I've never come across FATTIES on yuh,they're all CURVY as they say lol but most of us with one Iota of sense know that CURVY means an attractively proportioned shape not double chins n an arse like a hippo lol so they're only fooling themselves but each to their own,that's just my opinion n I guess I'm not everyones cup of tea either so there we go....

My profile doesn't say curvy. I'm entirely honest and realistic and I have a full length photo too, just in case anyone is confused.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just had a some lunch and come back and some of these comments

I've had about 30 people message me to tell me about the little clique you guys have going on here and it's strong.. First time poster and certainly my last

its like a hungry Wolfpack surrounding a carcass looking for the next meal - very apt metaphor considering my original post and the pics of all my critics hahaha

Anyway I'm going gym, a place alien to some many of you but really is a great place

Have fun being fierce critics over the Internet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just had a some lunch and come back and some of these comments

I've had about 30 people message me to tell me about the little clique you guys have going on here and it's strong.. First time poster and certainly my last

its like a hungry Wolfpack surrounding a carcass looking for the next meal - very apt metaphor considering my original post and the pics of all my critics hahaha

Anyway I'm going gym, a place alien to some many of you but really is a great place

Have fun being fierce critics over the Internet

I might have felt a smidgen of pity until I read your second last sentence. Good luck.

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

"Just had a some lunch and come back and some of these comments

I've had about 30 people message me to tell me about the little clique you guys have going on here and it's strong.. First time poster and certainly my last

its like a hungry Wolfpack surrounding a carcass looking for the next meal - very apt metaphor considering my original post and the pics of all my critics hahaha

Anyway I'm going gym, a place alien to some many of you but really is a great place

Have fun being fierce critics over the Internet

So people having a different opinion to you is a clique?

I speak for myself, no one else. And if a lot of people were disagreeing with me on something, the first thing I'd do is look at it and think "could I be wrong?"

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

It's funny how these people who agree always stick to pms to do so. Very believable.

Still letting yourself down with the bitchy comments about the gym, OP, but carry on showing your true nature. It'll help people see the sort of person you are.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Incidentally, some might think you're fooling yourself if you think you have an athletic build.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just had a some lunch and come back and some of these comments

I've had about 30 people message me to tell me about the little clique you guys have going on here and it's strong.. First time poster and certainly my last

its like a hungry Wolfpack surrounding a carcass looking for the next meal - very apt metaphor considering my original post and the pics of all my critics hahaha

Anyway I'm going gym, a place alien to some many of you but really is a great place

Have fun being fierce critics over the Internet

Hmmm.I can lose weight but you'll always be you.

Have fun.

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes

"Just had a some lunch and come back and some of these comments

I've had about 30 people message me to tell me about the little clique you guys have going on here and it's strong.. First time poster and certainly my last

its like a hungry Wolfpack surrounding a carcass looking for the next meal - very apt metaphor considering my original post and the pics of all my critics hahaha

Anyway I'm going gym, a place alien to some many of you but really is a great place

Have fun being fierce critics over the Internet

I wouldn't pay too much attention to those who go on about a clique on here. It's got more to do with their own paranoia and failure to make headway on this site.

However it is true that there does tend to be a rather over politically correct contingent on here and people do tend to take far to much offence far too quickly on some comments made.

But if you want to get the best out of this site I would stick with the Forums. It's a good way of finding out about people without having to get too involved in messages or meets first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just had a some lunch and come back and some of these comments

I've had about 30 people message me to tell me about the little clique you guys have going on here and it's strong.. First time poster and certainly my last

its like a hungry Wolfpack surrounding a carcass looking for the next meal - very apt metaphor considering my original post and the pics of all my critics hahaha

Anyway I'm going gym, a place alien to some many of you but really is a great place

Have fun being fierce critics over the Internet

I wouldn't pay too much attention to those who go on about a clique on here. It's got more to do with their own paranoia and failure to make headway on this site.

However it is true that there does tend to be a rather over politically correct contingent on here and people do tend to take far to much offence far too quickly on some comments made.

But if you want to get the best out of this site I would stick with the Forums. It's a good way of finding out about people without having to get too involved in messages or meets first. "

Paranoia and failure?

You're such a brown nose.

Seriously.

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes

Incidentally, some might think you're fooling yourself if you think you have an athletic build."

OUCH!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just had a some lunch and come back and some of these comments

I've had about 30 people message me to tell me about the little clique you guys have going on here and it's strong.. First time poster and certainly my last

its like a hungry Wolfpack surrounding a carcass looking for the next meal - very apt metaphor considering my original post and the pics of all my critics hahaha

Anyway I'm going gym, a place alien to some many of you but really is a great place

Have fun being fierce critics over the Internet

are those 30 people in their own clique? Are they the ones who often post these kind of threads. Have you now joined them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ice lolly is melting. Get in quick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You think this is bad, try the mumsnet forums, particularly the ones about relationships and sex, they are like a pack of wolves, I lasted precisely one post and then went and hid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's funny how these people who agree always stick to pms to do so. Very believable.

I think the OP may well have had those PMs...probably from men seeing a white knight opportunity, but not wanting to do it publicly in case they piss off those fatties they're thinking of lowering themselves to meet

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

Any more cake going?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My ice lolly is melting. Get in quick"

Are there any hundreds and thousands left? The tip is my favourite

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

"It's funny how these people who agree always stick to pms to do so. Very believable.

Gotta love a white knight. Nope, wait.. the other thing.

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes

"Just had a some lunch and come back and some of these comments

I've had about 30 people message me to tell me about the little clique you guys have going on here and it's strong.. First time poster and certainly my last

its like a hungry Wolfpack surrounding a carcass looking for the next meal - very apt metaphor considering my original post and the pics of all my critics hahaha

Anyway I'm going gym, a place alien to some many of you but really is a great place

Have fun being fierce critics over the Internet

I wouldn't pay too much attention to those who go on about a clique on here. It's got more to do with their own paranoia and failure to make headway on this site.

However it is true that there does tend to be a rather over politically correct contingent on here and people do tend to take far to much offence far too quickly on some comments made.

But if you want to get the best out of this site I would stick with the Forums. It's a good way of finding out about people without having to get too involved in messages or meets first.

Paranoia and failure? "

I think you may have misread what I was saying. I hope so anyhow. Try rereading it.

You're such a brown nose.

Seriously.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why are you allowed to judge fat people and fat people aren't?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have never, in all my time on fab, seen on anyone's profile "no fat people"

them when they message me given that I'm an 18.

ive seen this too but never seen anybody be so rude as to say "no fat people" or have I taken the OP's post to literally?

i have seen this but obviously I'm not going to name and shame - but i've seen a good few times through searches we've made and people who have contacted us"

Erm curious as to your comment I am the only that thinks it speaks volumes

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

My preference is for fit gym bunnies despite the fact that I'm clearly curvy and not so fit.

But I only want to meet people who find me as attractive as I do them and it has been my pleasure to meet some men with fantastic bodies who regard my body as being their ideal too. In fact one of my meets who has phenomenal definition and abs that some forumites aspire to (yes shag, I mean you) considers me to be a bit scrawny according to what he finds attractive!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have never, in all my time on fab, seen on anyone's profile "no fat people""

I have come across lots of them

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By *uggarbunnyWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

I have, want some? Cherrie Pavlova, Chocolate Orange Cake, Sticky Toffee Pudding??????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have never, in all my time on fab, seen on anyone's profile "no fat people"

them when they message me given that I'm an 18.

ive seen this too but never seen anybody be so rude as to say "no fat people" or have I taken the OP's post to literally?

i have seen this but obviously I'm not going to name and shame - but i've seen a good few times through searches we've made and people who have contacted us"

Erm curious as to your comment am I the only that thinks it speaks volumes

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