FabSwingers.com forum: Real men don't cry

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I guess I'm not a real man. Have cried loads in recent weeks, from sadness, from happiness and from watching soppy movies. What is wrong with me??

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Male menopause?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Male menopause?"

f+@k!!

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Embrace your sensitive side ..

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Male menopause?

f+@k!!"

Just checked your age. Early male menopause

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big girls blouse

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I've just lost a few tears, I was watching Monkey World and Charlie the chimp just died

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By *atelotmanMan
over a year ago

Chatham

"I guess I'm not a real man. Have cried loads in recent weeks, from sadness, from happiness and from watching soppy movies. What is wrong with me??"

Nothing wrong with you mate.Just your human side coming out.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Male menopause?

f+@k!!

Just checked your age. Early male menopause

I'm now crying tears of despair, what have you done to me!

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By *et n wild alexWoman
over a year ago

berkhampstead

Perhaps it's the fact that you are human and emotions build up and need releasing. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what us a 'real' man?

i dont see it as a weakness for a man to cry

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Perhaps it's the fact that you are human and emotions build up and need releasing. Lol"

Either that or as someone succinctly pointed out earlier on the thread, I'm just a big girls blouse!

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By *afadaoMan
over a year ago

Staines

Pull yourself together man

*cyber face slaps, causing red cheeks

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

I cried twice recently......recently 2 peopke I know have died my uncle, and a friend from the swinging world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone crys regardless of who they are, generally men are better at hiding emotions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think your more of a man if you can show emotion x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let it out mate, doesn't make you any less of a man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I guess I'm not a real man. Have cried loads in recent weeks, from sadness, from happiness and from watching soppy movies. What is wrong with me??"
Real men do ......Don't that saying come from the war days , Men seeing their friends dieing was a way of getting them to be strong to help others around them ? Was something my granddad said he was in the war .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In fact it's healthy, if you want to cry, cry. Otherwise whatever is upsetting you gets bottled up.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

On Desert Island Discs, Ray Winstone admitted to crying when West Ham were promoted. If it's good enough for The Daddy, then it is good enough for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Real men do cry that's not a weakness its more of a weakness to bottle ity up x

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By *edsBonkingMan
over a year ago

Near MK

Had a few tears here too in last 12 months. Both of joy and sadness. I don't feel it's a problem for a man to show his feelings.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The last time I had a tear in my eyes was watching the program on the boxing day tsunami, When the brother and sister met up with the Woman who looked after them for the first time in 10 years, It was very emotional

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get tears of joy and pride every time I see my 2 year old daughter show me something new she has leanred, new words etc. She starts nursery tomorrow, so proud of my kids.

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I just welled up watching the One Show.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I saw my ex cry twice in 30 years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it has a greater impact on me if a man cries. I think men should let their emotions out more. We have too much of the stiff upper lip still.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The issue is not with the man that cries but is with the man who feels he can't , human expression is nature .

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

There is nothing wrong with being a human and having human emotions

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"There is nothing wrong with being a human and having human emotions "

this..

have attended more than one 'strong' man's funeral who took their own life rather than open up..

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Real men do indeed cry, and are not ashamed to admit it!

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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff

"I just welled up watching the One Show. "

Me too. Let's hug it out mun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nowt wrong with a bit of emotion my friend, let it out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cried over a film about some husky dogs over Christmas I was ill though in my defense haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I cried over a film about some husky dogs over Christmas I was ill though in my defense haha "

Was that the one where the scientists had to leave their pack of dogs but one man went back to find them? If it is it gets me every time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Let it out mate, doesn't make you any less of a man"

Amen to that brother!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last time I cried my ex slapped me in the face and told me to grow up..

Never again..

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By *bix60Man
over a year ago

newtownabbey

Mate its ok to cry i cried when i had a heart attack

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah that's the one I tried so hard to keep it in but it just came out lol so sad

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By *ngel_38Woman
over a year ago

Staffs

"I guess I'm not a real man. Have cried loads in recent weeks, from sadness, from happiness and from watching soppy movies. What is wrong with me??"

Awwww

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By *mmabluTV/TS
over a year ago

upton wirral

"I guess I'm not a real man. Have cried loads in recent weeks, from sadness, from happiness and from watching soppy movies. What is wrong with me??"

Your becoming yourself,not what you think people want to see,exept and you will be happier

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By *ngel_38Woman
over a year ago

Staffs

"Yeah that's the one I tried so hard to keep it in but it just came out lol so sad "

I was crying at eastenders when I thought Ronnie was going to die and never hold her baby.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah that's the one I tried so hard to keep it in but it just came out lol so sad "

I can't blame you for crying...I become a blubbering wreck.

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By *layfull pairingCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

I havnt cried since i was a kid.... Although i do often get "something in my eye" whenever they show some poor kid in a wheelchair around the new house they have done for them in the "d.i.y big build" ... That fuckin nick knowles is making me look a right softie !!!

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth

Man up bunch of sissies.... joke

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

"I guess I'm not a real man. Have cried loads in recent weeks, from sadness, from happiness and from watching soppy movies. What is wrong with me??"

That Gazza used to cry bucketloads. Look what happened to him

Man up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've just lost a few tears, I was watching Monkey World and Charlie the chimp just died

Aww I love that show, been there loads of times, that was sad I think I was more upset for Jeremy than anything

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