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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I hear the word banded about a lot but what does it actually mean to you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

to me its someone who wastes time.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

For me it would be someone i had arranged to meet, time and date and confirmation set then they dont turn up. That to me is a timewaster and thankfully ive never come across one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone who you get to the point with that you will be meeting for play then, at that moment, they vanish.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

that to me diamond would be classed as criminal.If i were lucky enough to get an aranged meet i would not let you down hunn.xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"to me its someone who wastes time."

What do you actually class as that though? Is someone you chat to and then they decide not to meet a time waster? Or is it someone making a choice?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as diamond said arrangeing then not turning up,im all for making a choice ive chatted with loads of women but never asume thats gonna mean a meet.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"that to me diamond would be classed as criminal.If i were lucky enough to get an aranged meet i would not let you down hunn.xx"

awwwwwww bless you keep telling you you need to relocate lol

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

The 12 guys that confirmed to meet me in a hotel room for a gangbang.

None of them turned up, and none of them left a message explaining why.

That is a timewaster.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if life was only that easy babe

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"to me its someone who wastes time.

What do you actually class as that though? Is someone you chat to and then they decide not to meet a time waster? Or is it someone making a choice? "

Im with Diamond on this.

Chatting then deciding not to meet

Arranging to meet and then cancelling in advance

Deciding at the meet that you dont want to play

I dont think any of these are timewasting, just choice.

I would only count it as timewasting if it was a confirmed meet and then just a no-show, without letting the person know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The 12 guys that confirmed to meet me in a hotel room for a gangbang.

None of them turned up, and none of them left a message explaining why.

That is a timewaster. "

That really is incredibly bad luck. You should invite England :P

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By *ummy mummyWoman
over a year ago

southampton-ish


"to me its someone who wastes time.

What do you actually class as that though? Is someone you chat to and then they decide not to meet a time waster? Or is it someone making a choice?

Im with Diamond on this.

Chatting then deciding not to meet

Arranging to meet and then cancelling in advance

Deciding at the meet that you dont want to play

I dont think any of these are timewasting, just choice.

I would only count it as timewasting if it was a confirmed meet and then just a no-show, without letting the person know."

well put.I only class someone as a timewaster if they do just that- not show up and with no warning at all so you are left there waiting, in my experience then having no time to really find another meet

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"

What do you actually class as that though? Is someone you chat to and then they decide not to meet a time waster? Or is it someone making a choice? "

that is someone making a choice to me...

like diamond, for me it is only timewasting if i had a meet arranged and sorted and they didn't show up.... I have had people cancel a few hours before as sometimes real life gets in the way...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"to me its someone who wastes time."

A timewaster is not someone who wont reply to an email or someone who changes their minds about meeting or even if a meet is cancelled at last min.

To me a timewaster is someone who arranges to meet and doesnt turn up and does not let you know they cant make it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"to me its someone who wastes time.

What do you actually class as that though? Is someone you chat to and then they decide not to meet a time waster? Or is it someone making a choice? "

Like Fabio said,its making a choice..

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I think the word timewaster is splashed about far to much these days unnecessarily

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

90% of people are timewasting wannabe swingers who use sites like these to enhance their own unsatisfying sex lives.

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Are you? aaww thats sad

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay


"90% of people are timewasting wannabe swingers who use sites like these to enhance their own unsatisfying sex lives. "

And I bet you class YOURSELF in the other 10%?.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree with above, however, I would state that many people like the idea of swinging but don't want to go all the way, hergo they should be honest in thier ads, saying they will meet and not or standing people up! should be banned staright away !!

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside


"90% of people are timewasting wannabe swingers who use sites like these to enhance their own unsatisfying sex lives. "

You will be part of the 90% then seeing as you are not verified?

I am happy to say that I must be part of the other 10%

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

Time passes anyway regardless.

Gonna go waste some time very pleasantly.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Must be a bloody big 10% then is all i can say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Agree with above, however, I would state that many people like the idea of swinging but don't want to go all the way, hergo they should be honest in thier ads, saying they will meet and not or standing people up! should be banned staright away !!"

Who are the Stand Up Police ?

How is it enforceable?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We agree that arranging a meet or drink n chat and then not turning up is timewasting.

Would hate to think that as we cannot meet that often due to sitters and getting over to the mainland we woul b classed as timewasters but know some would say so when we chat and can be a fair while before we get to meet up.

Hey ho when you are worth waiting for.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was trying to say what northeast couple said more eloquently, but whatever. I hate these fucking tea party forums anyway

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend


"I was trying to say what northeast couple said more eloquently, but whatever. I hate these fucking tea party forums anyway "

Bye then. Don't let the door hit you on the way out.

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside


"I was trying to say what northeast couple said more eloquently, but whatever. I hate these fucking tea party forums anyway "

No one is forcing you to read them or to post on them though!

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"I was trying to say what northeast couple said more eloquently, but whatever. I hate these fucking tea party forums anyway "

More tea Vicar? Ill pour...

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay


"I was trying to say what northeast couple said more eloquently, but whatever. I hate these fucking tea party forums anyway "

So you think 90% of the site are fakes and timewasters, and the forums are crap.

Which begs the question.....why stay?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Can i be the dormouse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah lol i'll leave you sheep to your copy and pasting then. Save me a scone and your copy of the daily mail lolol. Tony x

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Yeah lol i'll leave you sheep to your copy and pasting then. Save me a scone and your copy of the daily mail lolol. Tony x"

Heres all the goodbyes, saves us (well me anyway) typing them all out again

http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/34109

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone who doesn't bother to read our profile where they would have found they are not within our meeting criteria and contact us anyway or worse those that read our profile then ignore it and contact us

ie

People who "won't meet smokers" but contact us.

People who have age criteria that we don't match but contact us.

Single males that contact us.

Single females that contact us.

Contact being mails, winks, friends invites, ok it only takes a minute to delete them but it's the principle, they are wasting our time.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Yeah lol i'll leave you sheep to your copy and pasting then. Save me a scone and your copy of the daily mail lolol. Tony x"

wow!!! how to win friends and influence no one........

wont be seeing you at any social soon then.....

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

[Removed by poster at 25/08/10 18:59:21]

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Yeah lol i'll leave you sheep to your copy and pasting then. Save me a scone and your copy of the daily mail lolol. Tony x

wow!!! how to win friends and influence no one........

wont be seeing you at any social soon then..... "

he would be easily recognizable he would be the one with Dale Carnegie under his arm lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

with the above, if you have aranged a meet and they don't turn up without informing you, then they have wasted your time.

if they cancel as life got in the way, shit happens c'est la vie.

it may be because i make sure that the work is put in prior to a meet and that a knowledge of each other is formed, but this hasnt happened to me yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i had someone last week i was due to meet and no contact and he was online so instead of waiting for a reply i blocked and deleted

i wouldn't have minded but i changed work commitments for it

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"i had someone last week i was due to meet and no contact and he was online "

That one always makes me laugh....do they think you cant see them??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we had been on cam in the directing room a couple of times and this guy was very enthusiastically watching us,a couple of nights later he msgd us saying he needed to shoot hus load so when were we going in the cam room,we replied in about half hour,half an hour later we got 4 more msgs about 2 mins apart telling us to hurry up rather aggressively,then 10 mins later he blocked us and slagged us off to anyone who would listen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

he was basically telling ppl we were time wasters,unbelievable.

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

So now you're a timewaster if you're late on cam!! blimey,we'll have people being called timewasters if you're not online at the same time as them next

I hope he got reported if he was calling you timewasters in the room

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm with Diamond too: someone who doesn't turn up when a meet is arranged. It's never happened to me.

Sending messages to me when you:

Are married

Bi

Live hundreds of miles from me

Can't accommodate

Unable to commit to a social meet

Short

Dom...only wastes the senders time, not mine.

Takes no time at all to scan a one line profile and delete!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone who fails to fullfill his/her promises to do something like meeting up to have a drink or to play etc...

In addition, if someone arranged to meet me during a weekend well in advance, and subsequently pull out without so much an apology, then he would also be considered a time waster.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To me a time waster is someone who arranged to meet you when they have no intentions of showing up, be that a no show or a cancellation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The 12 guys that confirmed to meet me in a hotel room for a gangbang.

None of them turned up, and none of them left a message explaining why.

That is a timewaster. "

ive had that too, i arranged a gang bang once, at a friends house, we spend ages going thro profiles, mailing men, calling them to chat, mailing again with the address, mailing again the day b4 to confirm they still coming, invited 15 guys expecting some to not show and out of the 15 who comfirmed only the day b4 they was coming only two turned up, out of the 13 who didnt show only 1 called to explain why

First and last time im bothing lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"90% of people are timewasting wannabe swingers who use sites like these to enhance their own unsatisfying sex lives.

You will be part of the 90% then seeing as you are not verified?

I am happy to say that I must be part of the other 10% "

someone with no verfications isnt a time waster, all because they havnt managed to get a meet yet dont mean they wouldnt show if they did

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside


"90% of people are timewasting wannabe swingers who use sites like these to enhance their own unsatisfying sex lives.

You will be part of the 90% then seeing as you are not verified?

I am happy to say that I must be part of the other 10%

someone with no verfications isnt a time waster, all because they havnt managed to get a meet yet dont mean they wouldnt show if they did "

Just like there isn't 90% timewasters on here - that was the point I was making in a ridiculous way just like the comment I was originaly answering!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"90% of people are timewasting wannabe swingers who use sites like these to enhance their own unsatisfying sex lives.

You will be part of the 90% then seeing as you are not verified?

I am happy to say that I must be part of the other 10%

someone with no verfications isnt a time waster, all because they havnt managed to get a meet yet dont mean they wouldnt show if they did

Just like there isn't 90% timewasters on here - that was the point I was making in a ridiculous way just like the comment I was originaly answering! "

pah i dunno i think 90% of the guys i talk to are time wasters lol

Its amazing how many men can meet you NOW! when your in the chat room sat on cam with your tits out, but say "sorry im not free now but im looking for a meet saturday" and all of a sudden the whole rooms busy saturday lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A time waster is someone who deliberately takes up your time with personal messages and has no intention of taking things further but does NOT inform you that things won't go further. If they tell you they are only chatting or if their profile says they are not meeting or that they have specifics they require and you don't meet them but they still talk to you then they are not time wasters.

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

A time waster is obviously someone who wastes your time by not turning up and not letting you know about it.

But I would also class a time waster as someone who says they are one thing but when you meet them they are very different. I have met someone who was nothing like her pics which made for a very uncomfortable situation. Time wasted.

I'm much more picky now, which isn't good when you're a bloke on a site like this. lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A time waster is obviously someone who wastes your time by not turning up and not letting you know about it.

But I would also class a time waster as someone who says they are one thing but when you meet them they are very different. I have met someone who was nothing like her pics which made for a very uncomfortable situation. Time wasted.

I'm much more picky now, which isn't good when you're a bloke on a site like this. lol"

Now you see, I do find that strange.

When people send pictures of themselves taken years and stones ago, what do they expect?

Could be worse I suppose - friend of mine on another site had been talking to a "gorgeous" woman for two weeks before arranging a meet...a bloke turned up - lol!!! Strange thing - he STILL expected the meet to go ahead...bizarre!!

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