FabSwingers.com forum: Sex with the Ex

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

My Ex is in town and staying over in a posh hotel. Met for drinks last night and looks like I might be staying there Thursday night. Has anyone else gone back for seconds so to speak?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, they're an ex for a reason.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Yes, it was fun. For a while. It didn't end well, though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can be fun and okay as long as you are both just in it for the sex.

If one of you has other motives though, it can be a messy mistake.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me.. Bad mistake if you do that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone told me "never walk on old ground " my ex wife has no chance but a have with x-girlfriends

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By *ipsTeaserCouple
over a year ago

here and there, thereabouts

I guess it depends what you are getting from it, apart from the obvious.

They are your ex for a reason; why walk one foot in the past?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Can be fun and okay as long as you are both just in it for the sex.

If one of you has other motives though, it can be a messy mistake.

She lives in Leeds and I live in London. It wouldn't be anything more.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

With my ex husband never but maybe with an old lover if we were sure it was just for the sex and not hoping for any kind of rekindling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have met up with an ex girlfriend and regretted it.

Whilst sex was great the hassle to meet up again from her made me wish I had kept my pants on !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've done it a few times and never had a problem. But none of my past relationships were that serious, just sort of casual affairs.

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By *SweetVioletxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Yes. When there was no emotion there and we both knew we were only there for the fucking. It was great because we knew each other so well but there were no longer any feelings.

However every situation is different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah was a bad idea. Completely messed with my head x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just causes more hurt an stress iv found, as others have said, theyr an ex for a reason x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Seems a mixed bag! I think will talk before to make sure it is just sex. If not will skip it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did for fun with my first serious boyfriend , looking back it wasn't a good idea. Lesson learnt , never go back !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I have meet up for sex with a few Ex's. But all agree it's just fun and sex, which suited me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope ex for a reason just causes more grief

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is nothing on this earth that would get me back into bed with my ex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bad idea ! An ex is an ex for a reason

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

It depends how you left it. If it was an amicable break-up then I don't see why not provided both parties are clear about what it means or doesn't mean. I've done it. No repercussions, had an excellent time and still friends (not with benefits).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex with an ex will make your life complex!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love fucking my exes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Has anyone else gone back for seconds so to speak?"

Yep! Last week!

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

"No, they're an ex for a reason."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. Two weeks ago. Was very very good sex. He knows what I like and gets the job done. Felt a bit shit afterwards but I got over that. Cake. Always cake. Lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

shit no - he was crap first time round - im not going there again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been back, met them for some pent up sex in the car was great sex but felt down after it... never again x

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By *punkloverCouple
over a year ago

hatfield

No no no no no and..............no ! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, and we are still having sex!

Yes luke and myself were once ex's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had sex with an ex which left me wanting more but that wasn't part of his plan.

I obviously read more into it but was still a bit of a bummer, stirred up old feelings!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It depends how you left it. If it was an amicable break-up then I don't see why not provided both parties are clear about what it means or doesn't mean. I've done it. No repercussions, had an excellent time and still friends (not with benefits)."

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It never happened the Ex lives to fight another day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It never happened the Ex lives to fight another day.

Probably for the best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now that would be a tale in the telling!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, they're an ex for a reason."

My thoughts exactly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex an I split up over 2yrs ago an up until last month were friends with benefits..Still friends now an get on even better than ever. Depends how grown up you both are about it all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck her brains out...then tell her that you hope she enjoyed it.

When she agrees tell her she was just as exciting as before and then leave while she works out what you have just told her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fuck her brains out...then tell her that you hope she enjoyed it.

When she agrees tell her she was just as exciting as before and then leave while she works out what you have just told her."

Who wouldn't be able to understand "I hope you enjoyed that"?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you go down the same path twice ....You're lost

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But If you're just going to smash her back doors in

go for it ......

but don't forget to take photos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No way never in a month of Sunday's!!!! Did I say no way??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did it recently when we were both very very d*unk and it's not the best decision we ever made....we'll get past it but it's caused a little friction.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck her brains out...then tell her that you hope she enjoyed it.

When she agrees tell her she was just as exciting as before and then leave while she works out what you have just told her.

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