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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Stephen Fry has confirmed he is to marry his partner, Elliott Spencer.

I am so happy Comedian and writer Fry, 57, has given formal notice to wed Mr Spencer, 27, at a register office in Dereham, Norfolk, near where he grew up. So glad he is happy and thing are going well .. I am sending them card .

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By *emonWoman84Woman
over a year ago

Hartlepool

I'm really happy for them both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For a guy who's had a lot of troubles in his life ,its nice to see him have a bit of Happiness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's lovely news. I thought he was celibate

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm really happy for them both "
He lives near me and really is a lovely man . I am glad he is Happy. And I hope he will spend more time here now .. not in London .

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By *rtemisiaWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

If anyone needs a soulmate and a protector, it's Mr Fry. Here's to Mr and Mr Fry!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well I and quite a few others think it wont last.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well I and quite a few others think it wont last."

Plenty of relationships don't last! I've had two long term relationships that didn't - but it doesn't stop me hoping that my 'happy ever after'is out there somewhere Hilda hun. Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think steven fry is losing it, he tried to commit suicide not long ago and its affecting his judgement.

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"I think steven fry is losing it, he tried to commit suicide not long ago and its affecting his judgement."

If your not a friend of his and/or a Psychriatric Doctor then what you say is just an un educated guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think steven fry is losing it, he tried to commit suicide not long ago and its affecting his judgement.

If your not a friend of his and/or a Psychriatric Doctor then what you say is just an un educated guess."

I know, but I am usualy right about these things.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think steven fry is losing it, he tried to commit suicide not long ago and its affecting his judgement."
Well you can think that and its fine ... But I think if happy and that last 1/2 / 20 years its all worth it so good luck and he is in a good place in his head right now thank god. xxxxx

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"I think steven fry is losing it, he tried to commit suicide not long ago and its affecting his judgement.

If your not a friend of his and/or a Psychriatric Doctor then what you say is just an un educated guess.

I know, but I am usualy right about these things."

Want to put a timescale on it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think steven fry is losing it, he tried to commit suicide not long ago and its affecting his judgement.

If your not a friend of his and/or a Psychriatric Doctor then what you say is just an un educated guess.

I know, but I am usualy right about these things.

Want to put a timescale on it?"

A year at the most.

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"I think steven fry is losing it, he tried to commit suicide not long ago and its affecting his judgement.

If your not a friend of his and/or a Psychriatric Doctor then what you say is just an un educated guess.

I know, but I am usualy right about these things.

Want to put a timescale on it?

A year at the most."

We talking a year from when he gets married he will be divorced?

or

A year from now and he will be in a unit as he's 'lost it'?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think steven fry is losing it, he tried to commit suicide not long ago and its affecting his judgement.

If your not a friend of his and/or a Psychriatric Doctor then what you say is just an un educated guess.

I know, but I am usualy right about these things.

Want to put a timescale on it?

A year at the most."

Are you planning to make a negative comment every time someone posts a positive or congratulatory one hun? - Just so we know! Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I am just happy he is in a good place xx and I hope there for a long long time.

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By *exyLancs2Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

"I'm usually right about these things."

I do love armchair/keyboard experts.

The guy has a massive heart, has a brilliant mind and is an all round good egg. All the best to him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think steven fry is losing it, he tried to commit suicide not long ago and its affecting his judgement.

If your not a friend of his and/or a Psychriatric Doctor then what you say is just an un educated guess.

I know, but I am usualy right about these things.

Want to put a timescale on it?

A year at the most.

We talking a year from when he gets married he will be divorced?

or

A year from now and he will be in a unit as he's 'lost it'?"

I think the young lad will leave him then steven will probably commit suicide, that's my guess. In the pictures of them yesterday the young lad looked scared, he didn't look happy.

He is only after his money and because he is famous, hes 30 years younger than him.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Good luck to them both, I think it's nice that people find happiness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""I'm usually right about these things."

I do love armchair/keyboard experts.

The guy has a massive heart, has a brilliant mind and is an all round good egg. All the best to him."

I know and he also has mental health problems.

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"I think steven fry is losing it, he tried to commit suicide not long ago and its affecting his judgement.

If your not a friend of his and/or a Psychriatric Doctor then what you say is just an un educated guess.

I know, but I am usualy right about these things.

Want to put a timescale on it?

A year at the most.

We talking a year from when he gets married he will be divorced?

or

A year from now and he will be in a unit as he's 'lost it'?

I think the young lad will leave him then steven will probably commit suicide, that's my guess. In the pictures of them yesterday the young lad looked scared, he didn't look happy.

He is only after his money and because he is famous, hes 30 years younger than him."

Bookies will take your money on just about anything, see what odds you can get and stick some money on it, little do they know your usually correct. Easy earner I would say

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By *exyLancs2Couple
over a year ago

Manchester


"I think steven fry is losing it, he tried to commit suicide not long ago and its affecting his judgement.

If your not a friend of his and/or a Psychriatric Doctor then what you say is just an un educated guess.

I know, but I am usualy right about these things.

Want to put a timescale on it?

A year at the most.

Are you planning to make a negative comment every time someone posts a positive or congratulatory one hun? - Just so we know! Xx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think steven fry is losing it, he tried to commit suicide not long ago and its affecting his judgement.

If your not a friend of his and/or a Psychriatric Doctor then what you say is just an un educated guess.

I know, but I am usualy right about these things.

Want to put a timescale on it?

A year at the most.

Are you planning to make a negative comment every time someone posts a positive or congratulatory one hun? - Just so we know! Xx"

Just saying it how I see it, not just me either, just that most people on the forums happen to think the same about everything that's all.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Good luck to them both, I think it's nice that people find happiness "
Me too. xxx He has had years of crap and now on his way up again .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think steven fry is losing it, he tried to commit suicide not long ago and its affecting his judgement.

If your not a friend of his and/or a Psychriatric Doctor then what you say is just an un educated guess.

I know, but I am usualy right about these things.

Want to put a timescale on it?

A year at the most.

We talking a year from when he gets married he will be divorced?

or

A year from now and he will be in a unit as he's 'lost it'?

I think the young lad will leave him then steven will probably commit suicide, that's my guess. In the pictures of them yesterday the young lad looked scared, he didn't look happy.

He is only after his money and because he is famous, hes 30 years younger than him.

Bookies will take your money on just about anything, see what odds you can get and stick some money on it, little do they know your usually correct. Easy earner I would say"

I was going ro suggest she get a chrystal ball and make a killing at fairgrounds!

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By *exyLancs2Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

Who doesn't have mental health problems?

You're in a glass house sweetie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who doesn't have mental health problems?

You're in a glass house sweetie"

Yes, some a lot more than others though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think steven fry is losing it, he tried to commit suicide not long ago and its affecting his judgement.

If your not a friend of his and/or a Psychriatric Doctor then what you say is just an un educated guess.

I know, but I am usualy right about these things.

Want to put a timescale on it?

A year at the most.

Are you planning to make a negative comment every time someone posts a positive or congratulatory one hun? - Just so we know! Xx

Just saying it how I see it, not just me either, just that most people on the forums happen to think the same about everything that's all."
You only know him from what you see and read so you don't know him now do you.? Its a guessing game now.. when he will kill himself no ........ as I am on his door step if it get that close and camping .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who doesn't have mental health problems?

You're in a glass house sweetie"

You could say takes one to know one, in some cases, in people who are self aware enough.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts


"

Are you planning to make a negative comment every time someone posts a positive or congratulatory one hun? - Just so we know! Xx

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think steven fry is losing it, he tried to commit suicide not long ago and its affecting his judgement.

If your not a friend of his and/or a Psychriatric Doctor then what you say is just an un educated guess.

I know, but I am usualy right about these things.

Want to put a timescale on it?

A year at the most.

Are you planning to make a negative comment every time someone posts a positive or congratulatory one hun? - Just so we know! Xx

Just saying it how I see it, not just me either, just that most people on the forums happen to think the same about everything that's all."

I bet you don't get invited to many weddings. " it'll never last, fancy her wearing white!, they sewn her into that dress didn't they...."

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By *vgloryholebs16TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol.


"That's lovely news. I thought he was celibate "

Can you not marry if celibate?? I cant see what difference it makes..Ax

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think steven fry is losing it, he tried to commit suicide not long ago and its affecting his judgement.

If your not a friend of his and/or a Psychriatric Doctor then what you say is just an un educated guess.

I know, but I am usualy right about these things.

Want to put a timescale on it?

A year at the most.

Are you planning to make a negative comment every time someone posts a positive or congratulatory one hun? - Just so we know! Xx

Just saying it how I see it, not just me either, just that most people on the forums happen to think the same about everything that's all. You only know him from what you see and read so you don't know him now do you.? Its a guessing game now.. when he will kill himself no ........ as I am on his door step if it get that close and camping . "

I think I know him better than I do members of my own family, seeing as he gives a blow by blow account of everything he does, has done and thinks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think steven fry is losing it, he tried to commit suicide not long ago and its affecting his judgement.

If your not a friend of his and/or a Psychriatric Doctor then what you say is just an un educated guess.

I know, but I am usualy right about these things.

Want to put a timescale on it?

A year at the most.

Are you planning to make a negative comment every time someone posts a positive or congratulatory one hun? - Just so we know! Xx

Just saying it how I see it, not just me either, just that most people on the forums happen to think the same about everything that's all.

I bet you don't get invited to many weddings. " it'll never last, fancy her wearing white!, they sewn her into that dress didn't they....""

Last wedding I went to was in 1972.

I never go.

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"For a guy who's had a lot of troubles in his life ,its nice to see him have a bit of Happiness "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think steven fry is losing it, he tried to commit suicide not long ago and its affecting his judgement.

If your not a friend of his and/or a Psychriatric Doctor then what you say is just an un educated guess.

I know, but I am usualy right about these things.

Want to put a timescale on it?

A year at the most.

We talking a year from when he gets married he will be divorced?

or

A year from now and he will be in a unit as he's 'lost it'?

I think the young lad will leave him then steven will probably commit suicide, that's my guess. In the pictures of them yesterday the young lad looked scared, he didn't look happy.

He is only after his money and because he is famous, hes 30 years younger than him."

He didnt look scared, he looked like someone who had his PIC taken and wasn't prepared. Do you look posed for a photo 24/7. Have you ever seen how many papped pics get rejected just to get the one where the sleb has there eyes half closed to make them look pissed? The camera often lies. Especially when its a newspaper photographer taking the pic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's lovely news. I thought he was celibate

Can you not marry if celibate?? I cant see what difference it makes..Ax "

He obviously isn't celibate anymore is he.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think steven fry is losing it, he tried to commit suicide not long ago and its affecting his judgement.

If your not a friend of his and/or a Psychriatric Doctor then what you say is just an un educated guess.

I know, but I am usualy right about these things.

Want to put a timescale on it?

A year at the most.

Are you planning to make a negative comment every time someone posts a positive or congratulatory one hun? - Just so we know! Xx

Just saying it how I see it, not just me either, just that most people on the forums happen to think the same about everything that's all. You only know him from what you see and read so you don't know him now do you.? Its a guessing game now.. when he will kill himself no ........ as I am on his door step if it get that close and camping .

I think I know him better than I do members of my own family, seeing as he gives a blow by blow account of everything he does, has done and thinks. "
No you read and see pics you don't know him ....... its from the net you know and that can be twisted. He is a lovely lovely man he really is in life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think steven fry is losing it, he tried to commit suicide not long ago and its affecting his judgement.

If your not a friend of his and/or a Psychriatric Doctor then what you say is just an un educated guess.

I know, but I am usualy right about these things.

Want to put a timescale on it?

A year at the most.

We talking a year from when he gets married he will be divorced?

or

A year from now and he will be in a unit as he's 'lost it'?

I think the young lad will leave him then steven will probably commit suicide, that's my guess. In the pictures of them yesterday the young lad looked scared, he didn't look happy.

He is only after his money and because he is famous, hes 30 years younger than him.

He didnt look scared, he looked like someone who had his PIC taken and wasn't prepared. Do you look posed for a photo 24/7. Have you ever seen how many papped pics get rejected just to get the one where the sleb has there eyes half closed to make them look pissed? The camera often lies. Especially when its a newspaper photographer taking the pic. "

Only he looked like that in all his pictures.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think steven fry is losing it, he tried to commit suicide not long ago and its affecting his judgement.

If your not a friend of his and/or a Psychriatric Doctor then what you say is just an un educated guess.

I know, but I am usualy right about these things.

Want to put a timescale on it?

A year at the most.

We talking a year from when he gets married he will be divorced?

or

A year from now and he will be in a unit as he's 'lost it'?

I think the young lad will leave him then steven will probably commit suicide, that's my guess. In the pictures of them yesterday the young lad looked scared, he didn't look happy.

He is only after his money and because he is famous, hes 30 years younger than him.

He didnt look scared, he looked like someone who had his PIC taken and wasn't prepared. Do you look posed for a photo 24/7. Have you ever seen how many papped pics get rejected just to get the one where the sleb has there eyes half closed to make them look pissed? The camera often lies. Especially when its a newspaper photographer taking the pic.

Only he looked like that in all his pictures."
Some don't take a good pic ......and some hate having it taken . Some hate all the press.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think steven fry is losing it, he tried to commit suicide not long ago and its affecting his judgement.

If your not a friend of his and/or a Psychriatric Doctor then what you say is just an un educated guess.

I know, but I am usualy right about these things.

Want to put a timescale on it?

A year at the most.

Are you planning to make a negative comment every time someone posts a positive or congratulatory one hun? - Just so we know! Xx

Just saying it how I see it, not just me either, just that most people on the forums happen to think the same about everything that's all. You only know him from what you see and read so you don't know him now do you.? Its a guessing game now.. when he will kill himself no ........ as I am on his door step if it get that close and camping .

I think I know him better than I do members of my own family, seeing as he gives a blow by blow account of everything he does, has done and thinks. No you read and see pics you don't know him ....... its from the net you know and that can be twisted. He is a lovely lovely man he really is in life."

Not saying he isn't a lovely man, he does post on twitter you know, nobody posts it for him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think steven fry is losing it, he tried to commit suicide not long ago and its affecting his judgement.

If your not a friend of his and/or a Psychriatric Doctor then what you say is just an un educated guess.

I know, but I am usualy right about these things.

Want to put a timescale on it?

A year at the most.

We talking a year from when he gets married he will be divorced?

or

A year from now and he will be in a unit as he's 'lost it'?

I think the young lad will leave him then steven will probably commit suicide, that's my guess. In the pictures of them yesterday the young lad looked scared, he didn't look happy.

He is only after his money and because he is famous, hes 30 years younger than him.

He didnt look scared, he looked like someone who had his PIC taken and wasn't prepared. Do you look posed for a photo 24/7. Have you ever seen how many papped pics get rejected just to get the one where the sleb has there eyes half closed to make them look pissed? The camera often lies. Especially when its a newspaper photographer taking the pic.

Only he looked like that in all his pictures.Some don't take a good pic ......and some hate having it taken . Some hate all the press."

I am aware of that, so how come he was smiling in the other pics of him posing with famous people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's lovely news. I thought he was celibate

Can you not marry if celibate?? I cant see what difference it makes..Ax "

Yes but I thought he wasn't dating either. I'm glad he is and I do hope it will last. If he is celibate I hope his partner is too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think steven fry is losing it, he tried to commit suicide not long ago and its affecting his judgement.

If your not a friend of his and/or a Psychriatric Doctor then what you say is just an un educated guess.

I know, but I am usualy right about these things.

Want to put a timescale on it?

A year at the most.

Are you planning to make a negative comment every time someone posts a positive or congratulatory one hun? - Just so we know! Xx

Just saying it how I see it, not just me either, just that most people on the forums happen to think the same about everything that's all. You only know him from what you see and read so you don't know him now do you.? Its a guessing game now.. when he will kill himself no ........ as I am on his door step if it get that close and camping .

I think I know him better than I do members of my own family, seeing as he gives a blow by blow account of everything he does, has done and thinks. No you read and see pics you don't know him ....... its from the net you know and that can be twisted. He is a lovely lovely man he really is in life.

Not saying he isn't a lovely man, he does post on twitter you know, nobody posts it for him."
Now are you sure ? lol He cant do everything himself he has staff and his lovely man now .. Twitter. I hate that and face site. lol

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By *ittleMissHottyTottyWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

The grim reaper could learn a lesson from you

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By *exyLancs2Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

Is your animosity towards him because you think he's a 'leftie guardian reader'?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Tell you I may even go to the wedding ... ok stand outside at the wedding . lolol god if I send the card may say come on in . lolololol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

better to hear happy news than sad

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts


"better to hear happy news than sad "

Tell that to Katie Hopkins

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By *ittleMissHottyTottyWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"better to hear happy news than sad

Tell that to Katie Hopkins "

Now there's a whole new thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think steven fry is losing it, he tried to commit suicide not long ago and its affecting his judgement.

If your not a friend of his and/or a Psychriatric Doctor then what you say is just an un educated guess.

I know, but I am usualy right about these things.

Want to put a timescale on it?

A year at the most.

We talking a year from when he gets married he will be divorced?

or

A year from now and he will be in a unit as he's 'lost it'?

I think the young lad will leave him then steven will probably commit suicide, that's my guess. In the pictures of them yesterday the young lad looked scared, he didn't look happy.

He is only after his money and because he is famous, hes 30 years younger than him.

He didnt look scared, he looked like someone who had his PIC taken and wasn't prepared. Do you look posed for a photo 24/7. Have you ever seen how many papped pics get rejected just to get the one where the sleb has there eyes half closed to make them look pissed? The camera often lies. Especially when its a newspaper photographer taking the pic.

Only he looked like that in all his pictures.Some don't take a good pic ......and some hate having it taken . Some hate all the press.

I am aware of that, so how come he was smiling in the other pics of him posing with famous people."

You don't seem aware that these people have private AND public lives. They are often very separate things. I dont think psychoanalysis can be done on someone's photos and twitter musings. Why don't you get a job on the sun as there celeb reporter? You old romantic you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"better to hear happy news than sad

Tell that to Katie Hopkins

Now there's a whole new thread "
I did that one last week . lol its her nasty cover up as she knows it get the publics backs up and she makes head lines.. lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know him so cannot say one way or another, everyone deserves some kind of happiness even if it's for a little while. The best of luck to the both of them and long may it last

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By *ittleMissHottyTottyWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I don't know him so cannot say one way or another, everyone deserves some kind of happiness even if it's for a little while. The best of luck to the both of them and long may it last "

OMG....stop being so reasonable. Takes all the fun out of the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"better to hear happy news than sad

Tell that to Katie Hopkins "

ggrrr Sx

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol


"That's lovely news. I thought he was celibate

Can you not marry if celibate?? I cant see what difference it makes..Ax

He obviously isn't celibate anymore is he. "

How do you arrive at such an assumption?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's lovely news. I thought he was celibate

Can you not marry if celibate?? I cant see what difference it makes..Ax

He obviously isn't celibate anymore is he.

How do you arrive at such an assumption? "

not everybody marries for sex

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over a year ago


"That's lovely news. I thought he was celibate

Can you not marry if celibate?? I cant see what difference it makes..Ax

He obviously isn't celibate anymore is he.

How do you arrive at such an assumption?

not everybody marries for sex"

sorry badly worded - not everybody that marries has sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's lovely news. I thought he was celibate

Can you not marry if celibate?? I cant see what difference it makes..Ax

He obviously isn't celibate anymore is he.

How do you arrive at such an assumption?

not everybody marries for sex

sorry badly worded - not everybody that marries has sex "

why else would he be marrying a man 30 years younger than him.

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By *hechairman18Man
over a year ago

Salford Quays , Manchester

Perhaps we will see a little less of him on TV, if he is a ' stay at home husband ' or 'wife'.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts


"

why else would he be marrying a man 30 years younger than him. "

Perhaps he likes him for other reasons? They may just be deeply in love and committed to each other.

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"

why else would he be marrying a man 30 years younger than him.

Perhaps he likes him for other reasons? They may just be deeply in love and committed to each other. "

and he could be hung like a wild mexican donkey

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol


"

why else would he be marrying a man 30 years younger than him.

Perhaps he likes him for other reasons? They may just be deeply in love and committed to each other. "
totally agree tina..i have married friends who wed for companionship & would laugh at the assumption they have sex together..

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By *vgloryholebs16TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol.


"That's lovely news. I thought he was celibate

Can you not marry if celibate?? I cant see what difference it makes..Ax

He obviously isn't celibate anymore is he.

How do you arrive at such an assumption?

not everybody marries for sex

sorry badly worded - not everybody that marries has sex

why else would he be marrying a man 30 years younger than him. "
Why should age difference become sexual??More reason not too have sex I think..Security,companionship and the son/daughter you never had..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

why else would he be marrying a man 30 years younger than him.

Perhaps he likes him for other reasons? They may just be deeply in love and committed to each other. totally agree tina..i have married friends who wed for companionship & would laugh at the assumption they have sex together.. "

That's not a proper marriage, not to me, that's friendship like brother and sister.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck to them both

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By *bbandflowCouple
over a year ago

South Devon


"Good luck to them both "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""I'm usually right about these things."

I do love armchair/keyboard experts.

The guy has a massive heart, has a brilliant mind and is an all round good egg. All the best to him."

Did you read any of his autobiographies? An all round good egg if far from the truth. He spent most if his youth and his twenties stealing, lying, committing fraud and generally being very unpleasant. Maybe you are basing your assumptions on his few tv appearances?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""I'm usually right about these things."

I do love armchair/keyboard experts.

The guy has a massive heart, has a brilliant mind and is an all round good egg. All the best to him.

Did you read any of his autobiographies? An all round good egg if far from the truth. He spent most if his youth and his twenties stealing, lying, committing fraud and generally being very unpleasant. Maybe you are basing your assumptions on his few tv appearances? "

I remember that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""I'm usually right about these things."

I do love armchair/keyboard experts.

The guy has a massive heart, has a brilliant mind and is an all round good egg. All the best to him.

Did you read any of his autobiographies? An all round good egg if far from the truth. He spent most if his youth and his twenties stealing, lying, committing fraud and generally being very unpleasant. Maybe you are basing your assumptions on his few tv appearances? "

I have read them. He did have his reasons. Youthful ignorance being only a small part of it.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts


"

That's not a proper marriage, not to me, that's friendship like brother and sister."

By that analogy, what about a married couple where one or both plays? Does that make them more like friends with benefits?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

cor! Can't we just be happy that a fellow human being who none of us really know, has found some happiness however transitory it ends up being?

Best wishes to these two and everyone who is embarking on a good episode in their life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

That's not a proper marriage, not to me, that's friendship like brother and sister.

By that analogy, what about a married couple where one or both plays? Does that make them more like friends with benefits?"

Yes I guess so.

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By *vgloryholebs16TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol.

I am trying to understand what you mean by 'a proper marriage' .I have just read your profile and wondered if you considered your marriage to be proper??

Ax

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am trying to understand what you mean by 'a proper marriage' .I have just read your profile and wondered if you considered your marriage to be proper??

Ax"

Well maybe not, but we do have sex, sometimes.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Lol at some of the comments on here obviously some still firmly live in the dark ages

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over a year ago


"Lol at some of the comments on here obviously some still firmly live in the dark ages "

You say that like its a bad thing my dear.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Lol at some of the comments on here obviously some still firmly live in the dark ages

You say that like its a bad thing my dear. "

I'd rather live in 2015 ta

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol at some of the comments on here obviously some still firmly live in the dark ages

You say that like its a bad thing my dear.

I'd rather live in 2015 ta "

That's ok then.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Anyway congratulations on their pending marriage...as for comments regarding his past well that is his past and its oblivious that he has had to deal with many demons in his lifetime. He does a lot of mental health awareness and the charity MIND. I take my hat off to the bloke and wish him well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every picture I see of them looks like a farther and son outing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Perhaps we will see a little less of him on TV, if he is a ' stay at home husband ' or 'wife'. "
Now I really hope so ... As he loves being here in Norfolk at home . He has a passed but who don't have one .. ? passed is the passed and this is a new year and new start with his loved one .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Every picture I see of them looks like a farther and son outing "
Men been marring younger woman for years what the difference?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck to the guys. Not a typo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Every picture I see of them looks like a farther and son outing Men been marring younger woman for years what the difference?"
.

I thought that looked like a father and daughter outing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Every picture I see of them looks like a farther and son outing Men been marring younger woman for years what the difference?"

its less likely to work because young people change as they get older.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Every picture I see of them looks like a farther and son outing Men been marring younger woman for years what the difference?.

I thought that looked like a father and daughter outing? "
In this day and age it don't matter as long as they are happy. If your really happy no one matter .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hilda you are a hoot.

Really. You should be on the box.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Every picture I see of them looks like a farther and son outing Men been marring younger woman for years what the difference?

its less likely to work because young people change as they get older. "
If he has 1 year of being happy or 20 ........ I am just happy for him .. he is a lucky man to get this in his life.

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

They are in court today to do with speeding, caught doing 101mph in a 70.

Fry told Stephen Elliot to 'put your foot down'.

Bloody idiots

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They are in court today to do with speeding, caught doing 101mph in a 70.

Fry told Stephen Elliot to 'put your foot down'.

Bloody idiots"
.

Young men are always influenced by older men and not always in their best interest

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"They are in court today to do with speeding, caught doing 101mph in a 70.

Fry told Stephen Elliot to 'put your foot down'.

Bloody idiots.

Young men are always influenced by older men and not always in their best interest"

'always' - nope.

'sometimes' - yep.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They are in court today to do with speeding, caught doing 101mph in a 70.

Fry told Stephen Elliot to 'put your foot down'.

Bloody idiots"

I told you he was losing it, takes one to know one.

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"They are in court today to do with speeding, caught doing 101mph in a 70.

Fry told Stephen Elliot to 'put your foot down'.

Bloody idiots

I told you he was losing it, takes one to know one. "

You can tell me what you like, I now take next to no notice of what you say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Every picture I see of them looks like a farther and son outing Men been marring younger woman for years what the difference?

its less likely to work because young people change as they get older. If he has 1 year of being happy or 20 ........ I am just happy for him .. he is a lucky man to get this in his life."

With frys money he can pay to be happy every day, with rent boys etc etc, lucky sod.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"They are in court today to do with speeding, caught doing 101mph in a 70.

Fry told Stephen Elliot to 'put your foot down'.

Bloody idiots

I told you he was losing it, takes one to know one. "
And I know he is not losing it ....... He is a clever man with a very good brain he is no fool .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They are in court today to do with speeding, caught doing 101mph in a 70.

Fry told Stephen Elliot to 'put your foot down'.

Bloody idiots

I told you he was losing it, takes one to know one.

You can tell me what you like, I now take next to no notice of what you say."

I wouldn't take much notice of what you say either, I may be stupid, but not that stupid.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Hilda you are a hoot.

Really. You should be on the box."

Points of _iew

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They are in court today to do with speeding, caught doing 101mph in a 70.

Fry told Stephen Elliot to 'put your foot down'.

Bloody idiots

I told you he was losing it, takes one to know one. And I know he is not losing it ....... He is a clever man with a very good brain he is no fool . "

I know hes very intelligent doesn't make any difference though, people can still do stupid things. Male menopause.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Every picture I see of them looks like a farther and son outing Men been marring younger woman for years what the difference?

its less likely to work because young people change as they get older. If he has 1 year of being happy or 20 ........ I am just happy for him .. he is a lucky man to get this in his life.

With frys money he can pay to be happy every day, with rent boys etc etc, lucky sod. "
You see , I see him as a family man as I know how much he loves them all his family and this is very special .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They are in court today to do with speeding, caught doing 101mph in a 70.

Fry told Stephen Elliot to 'put your foot down'.

Bloody idiots

I told you he was losing it, takes one to know one.

You can tell me what you like, I now take next to no notice of what you say."

Plenty of no notice is what my Mam used to say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mr Lesways has my very deepest sympathy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mr Lesways has my very deepest sympathy! "

What about your hubby then, oh no you havnt got one have you.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Mr Lesways has my very deepest sympathy!

What about your hubby then, oh no you havnt got one have you. "

Ouch...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They are in court today to do with speeding, caught doing 101mph in a 70.

Fry told Stephen Elliot to 'put your foot down'.

Bloody idiots"

Kin 'ell, aiding and abetting a serious criminal offence.

Omg, isn't he a Director of a football club too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They are in court today to do with speeding, caught doing 101mph in a 70.

Fry told Stephen Elliot to 'put your foot down'.

Bloody idiots

Kin 'ell, aiding and abetting a serious criminal offence.

Omg, isn't he a Director of a football club too. "

I don't think Norwich count

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"They are in court today to do with speeding, caught doing 101mph in a 70.

Fry told Stephen Elliot to 'put your foot down'.

Bloody idiots

Kin 'ell, aiding and abetting a serious criminal offence.

Omg, isn't he a Director of a football club too. "
He is and Delia smiths best friend .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"better to hear happy news than sad

Tell that to Katie Hopkins "

I'm wondering how the hell she can be both on this thread & on CBB!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mr Lesways has my very deepest sympathy!

What about your hubby then, oh no you havnt got one have you. "

Nope! Like about half of the adult population of the UK. So your point is?? xx

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"They are in court today to do with speeding, caught doing 101mph in a 70.

Fry told Stephen Elliot to 'put your foot down'.

Bloody idiots

Kin 'ell, aiding and abetting a serious criminal offence.

Omg, isn't he a Director of a football club too. "

If they had smashed into the back of someone then it would of been.

I think anyone doing that speed is stupid and an idiot.

I dont have any other negative things to say about either of them.

You might of misunderstood me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mr Lesways has my very deepest sympathy!

What about your hubby then, oh no you havnt got one have you.

Nope! Like about half of the adult population of the UK. So your point is?? xx"

Rather more than half the adult population of the UK, i haven't got a hubby either.

Stepehn Fry "doing his bit" isn't going to improve the numbers much either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mr Lesways has my very deepest sympathy!

What about your hubby then, oh no you havnt got one have you. "

Nice comeback Hilda

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They are in court today to do with speeding, caught doing 101mph in a 70.

Fry told Stephen Elliot to 'put your foot down'.

Bloody idiots

Kin 'ell, aiding and abetting a serious criminal offence.

Omg, isn't he a Director of a football club too.

If they had smashed into the back of someone then it would of been.

I think anyone doing that speed is stupid and an idiot.

I dont have any other negative things to say about either of them.

You might of misunderstood me."

No, i don't think i did.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mr Lesways has my very deepest sympathy!

What about your hubby then, oh no you havnt got one have you.

Nice comeback Hilda "

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"They are in court today to do with speeding, caught doing 101mph in a 70.

Fry told Stephen Elliot to 'put your foot down'.

Bloody idiots

Kin 'ell, aiding and abetting a serious criminal offence.

Omg, isn't he a Director of a football club too.

If they had smashed into the back of someone then it would of been.

I think anyone doing that speed is stupid and an idiot.

I dont have any other negative things to say about either of them.

You might of misunderstood me.

No, i don't think i did. "

Ahh ok sorry I took your post as sarky didnt think you were being serious.

I wasnt aware speeding like that was treated as 'a serious criminal offence'.

Im glad it is wether you hit, injure or kill someone or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They are in court today to do with speeding, caught doing 101mph in a 70.

Fry told Stephen Elliot to 'put your foot down'.

Bloody idiots

Kin 'ell, aiding and abetting a serious criminal offence.

Omg, isn't he a Director of a football club too.

If they had smashed into the back of someone then it would of been.

I think anyone doing that speed is stupid and an idiot.

I dont have any other negative things to say about either of them.

You might of misunderstood me."

Any one who reaches your age and doesn't know to use 'have' and not 'of' stands a very good chance of being misunderstood

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mr Lesways has my very deepest sympathy!

What about your hubby then, oh no you havnt got one have you.

Nice comeback Hilda

"

A big presumption that she wants one, wouldn't you say? I wish she did though. Be a great mmf meet!

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"They are in court today to do with speeding, caught doing 101mph in a 70.

Fry told Stephen Elliot to 'put your foot down'.

Bloody idiots

Kin 'ell, aiding and abetting a serious criminal offence.

Omg, isn't he a Director of a football club too.

If they had smashed into the back of someone then it would of been.

I think anyone doing that speed is stupid and an idiot.

I dont have any other negative things to say about either of them.

You might of misunderstood me.

Any one who reaches your age and doesn't know to use 'have' and not 'of' stands a very good chance of being misunderstood"

I rarely click 'Pre_iew' message, more often than not straight to 'Post Message'. I always double check subjects though to make sure I have that written correctly

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Stephen Fry has confirmed he is to marry his partner, Elliott Spencer.

I am so happy Comedian and writer Fry, 57, has given formal notice to wed Mr Spencer, 27, at a register office in Dereham, Norfolk, near where he grew up. So glad he is happy and thing are going well .. I am sending them card .

"

I think if is great news and hope they are very happy. Stephens mental health and the age difference should not be a problem if they are in love. Love and marriage is about support and understanding as well as sex. And yes I (Mrs) can speak from experience. Ex has mental health problems and I a many years older but this was not why the marriage failed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mr Lesways has my very deepest sympathy!

What about your hubby then, oh no you havnt got one have you.

Nice comeback Hilda "

Oh I SEE! How foolish of me! We've clearly returned to the nineteenth century when a woman's social worth was linked directly to her marital status!

Therefore I am obviously unqualified to make a comment about someone who has had absolutely nothing pleasant or positive to say throughout the thread.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Stephen Fry has confirmed he is to marry his partner, Elliott Spencer.

I am so happy Comedian and writer Fry, 57, has given formal notice to wed Mr Spencer, 27, at a register office in Dereham, Norfolk, near where he grew up. So glad he is happy and thing are going well .. I am sending them card .

"

I think if is great news and hope they are very happy. Stephens mental health and the age difference should not be a problem if they are in love. Love and marriage is about support and understanding as well as sex. And yes I (Mrs) can speak from experience. Ex has mental health problems and I a many years older but this was not why the marriage failed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mr Lesways has my very deepest sympathy!

What about your hubby then, oh no you havnt got one have you.

Nice comeback Hilda

Oh I SEE! How foolish of me! We've clearly returned to the nineteenth century when a woman's social worth was linked directly to her marital status!

Therefore I am obviously unqualified to make a comment about someone who has had absolutely nothing pleasant or positive to say throughout the thread. "

Now now ladies. Don't fight in public. Its unladylike and not befitting your station in society. KNOW YOUR PLACE!!! Get back in the kitchen with you!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They are in court today to do with speeding, caught doing 101mph in a 70.

Fry told Stephen Elliot to 'put your foot down'.

Bloody idiots

Kin 'ell, aiding and abetting a serious criminal offence.

Omg, isn't he a Director of a football club too.

If they had smashed into the back of someone then it would of been.

I think anyone doing that speed is stupid and an idiot.

I dont have any other negative things to say about either of them.

You might of misunderstood me.

No, i don't think i did.

Ahh ok sorry I took your post as sarky didnt think you were being serious.

I wasnt aware speeding like that was treated as 'a serious criminal offence'.

Im glad it is wether you hit, injure or kill someone or not."

As the Police, and other do goody bodies say, Speed Kills. Other major factors notwithstanding of course.

I got upto 4mph this morning, i was lucky there wasn't carnage.

Me, sarcy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mr Lesways has my very deepest sympathy!

What about your hubby then, oh no you havnt got one have you.

Nice comeback Hilda

Oh I SEE! How foolish of me! We've clearly returned to the nineteenth century when a woman's social worth was linked directly to her marital status!

Therefore I am obviously unqualified to make a comment about someone who has had absolutely nothing pleasant or positive to say throughout the thread.

Now now ladies. Don't fight in public. Its unladylike and not befitting your station in society. KNOW YOUR PLACE!!! Get back in the kitchen with you!!!"

Sorry Priapus!! And sorry Hilda!! I'm normally a very nice person - but your attittude - and three sleepless nights with a poorly son - have clearly brought out the worst in me! xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They are in court today to do with speeding, caught doing 101mph in a 70.

Fry told Stephen Elliot to 'put your foot down'.

Bloody idiots

I told you he was losing it, takes one to know one. And I know he is not losing it ....... He is a clever man with a very good brain he is no fool . "

I really like Stephen Fry. He is bipolar and seems very happy of late. Hope this works out well and his soon to be hubby doesn't hurt him

S x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not to worry dear heart. I've been biting my tongue on this thread. Someone is going to be on the sharp end of some serious invecyive.....heavens knows why.

Oh to live in the 1950,s like Hilda does!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think steven fry is losing it, he tried to commit suicide not long ago and its affecting his judgement."

Sadly, I agree but hope we're proven wrong

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By *ajandroseMan
over a year ago

tamworth


"I think steven fry is losing it, he tried to commit suicide not long ago and its affecting his judgement.

If your not a friend of his and/or a Psychriatric Doctor then what you say is just an un educated guess.

I know, but I am usualy right about these things.

Want to put a timescale on it?

A year at the most.

Are you planning to make a negative comment every time someone posts a positive or congratulatory one hun? - Just so we know! Xx"

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over a year ago


"I think steven fry is losing it, he tried to commit suicide not long ago and its affecting his judgement.

Sadly, I agree but hope we're proven wrong"

I think that's a bit arse about face. He WAS "losing it", hence the suicidal thoughts. He's feeling much happier, balanced and settled, hence the engagement.

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over a year ago


"Mr Lesways has my very deepest sympathy!

What about your hubby then, oh no you havnt got one have you.

Nice comeback Hilda

A big presumption that she wants one, wouldn't you say? I wish she did though. Be a great mmf meet!"

Who said she wants one though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think steven fry is losing it, he tried to commit suicide not long ago and its affecting his judgement.

Sadly, I agree but hope we're proven wrong

I think that's a bit arse about face. He WAS "losing it", hence the suicidal thoughts. He's feeling much happier, balanced and settled, hence the engagement."

He is. He's a good man so I wish him all the best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Person first, mental illness second.

Let him have happiness in stupendous amounts.

He's just another human!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think steven fry is losing it, he tried to commit suicide not long ago and its affecting his judgement.

Sadly, I agree but hope we're proven wrong

I think that's a bit arse about face. He WAS "losing it", hence the suicidal thoughts. He's feeling much happier, balanced and settled, hence the engagement."

That's just your opinion though, I have stated mine, you don't have to agree with it, time will tell, nobody realy knows for sure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mr Lesways has my very deepest sympathy!

What about your hubby then, oh no you havnt got one have you.

Nice comeback Hilda

A big presumption that she wants one, wouldn't you say? I wish she did though. Be a great mmf meet!

Who said she wants one though."

Try speaking TOO people and not AT them, and you find out lots of things. Reading profiles helps to.

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By *icefellatwoMan
over a year ago

hastings

I did see a headline he was getting married,so I looked to see how good looking the lady was.

Then see it was a bloke

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Be happy

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Be happy "

That seems to be a concept that many are finding difficult to grasp

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"I did see a headline he was getting married,so I looked to see how good looking the lady was.

Then see it was a bloke "

Didn't you know he was gay?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sir Elton John and David Furnish are now husband and husband.

The two married Sunday in Britain, where same-sex marriage became legal earlier this year.

They had a civil partnership ceremony in 2005, after 12 years together. See it can work David is younger then Elton and now look two children too ......... so I have hope ... god he may have kids one day too be so good...

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"Be happy

That seems to be a concept that many are finding difficult to grasp "

You sound surprised

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Sir Elton John and David Furnish are now husband and husband.

The two married Sunday in Britain, where same-sex marriage became legal earlier this year.

They had a civil partnership ceremony in 2005, after 12 years together. See it can work David is younger then Elton and now look two children too ......... so I have hope ... god he may have kids one day too be so good...

"

While I'm pleased that these two have found some happiness together I'm not sure any of us are qualified to comment on their suitability as parents.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Be happy

That seems to be a concept that many are finding difficult to grasp

You sound surprised "

Yes, you would think I would have learned by now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone know or will comment on whether opposite gender people are yet able to have a legal "civil partnership" yet?

Or is it another case of inequal equalities?

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"Be happy

That seems to be a concept that many are finding difficult to grasp

You sound surprised

Yes, you would think I would have learned by now "

Indeed

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"

Anyone know or will comment on whether opposite gender people are yet able to have a legal "civil partnership" yet?

Or is it another case of inequal equalities?"

I don't think they are but a male/female couple are contesting it I believe

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By *icefellatwoMan
over a year ago

hastings


"I did see a headline he was getting married,so I looked to see how good looking the lady was.

Then see it was a bloke

Didn't you know he was gay?"

No

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"I did see a headline he was getting married,so I looked to see how good looking the lady was.

Then see it was a bloke

Didn't you know he was gay?

No "

oh . No reason why you should I suppose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sir Elton John and David Furnish are now husband and husband.

The two married Sunday in Britain, where same-sex marriage became legal earlier this year.

They had a civil partnership ceremony in 2005, after 12 years together. See it can work David is younger then Elton and now look two children too ......... so I have hope ... god he may have kids one day too be so good...

While I'm pleased that these two have found some happiness together I'm not sure any of us are qualified to comment on their suitability as parents. "

The adoption agency that approved them are though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sir Elton John and David Furnish age gap over 20 years so it can work well .

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By *verysmileMan
over a year ago

Canterbury

What would Mrs Merton say? Now what could Mr Spencer possibly see in the millionaire, Steven Fry.

If it works....good luck to them both!

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"

why else would he be marrying a man 30 years younger than him.

Perhaps he likes him for other reasons? They may just be deeply in love and committed to each other.

and he could be hung like a wild mexican donkey"

Is he on Fab?

Congratulations to both of them

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Sir Elton John and David Furnish are now husband and husband.

The two married Sunday in Britain, where same-sex marriage became legal earlier this year.

They had a civil partnership ceremony in 2005, after 12 years together. See it can work David is younger then Elton and now look two children too ......... so I have hope ... god he may have kids one day too be so good...

While I'm pleased that these two have found some happiness together I'm not sure any of us are qualified to comment on their suitability as parents.

The adoption agency that approved them are though."

Stephen Fry and his partner?

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"

why else would he be marrying a man 30 years younger than him.

Perhaps he likes him for other reasons? They may just be deeply in love and committed to each other.

and he could be hung like a wild mexican donkey

Is he on Fab?

Congratulations to both of them"

Yes but I dont think its mexican

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By *isandreTV/TS
over a year ago

Durham

I think we're being a bit unfair to Hilda with all this living in the 19th Century/1950's stuff.

Everyone knows she's living in a 1970's Jonny Speight sitcom.

At least that is a good defence against her massive ignorance about bipolar disorder.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sir Elton John and David Furnish are now husband and husband.

The two married Sunday in Britain, where same-sex marriage became legal earlier this year.

They had a civil partnership ceremony in 2005, after 12 years together. See it can work David is younger then Elton and now look two children too ......... so I have hope ... god he may have kids one day too be so good...

While I'm pleased that these two have found some happiness together I'm not sure any of us are qualified to comment on their suitability as parents.

The adoption agency that approved them are though."

Are those children legally adopted? I thought one of them was the natural father? They paid the surrogate to carry their children and she gave up residency of the children to the father? I may be completely wrong but that just seemed the logial thing??

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By *icefellatwoMan
over a year ago

hastings


"I did see a headline he was getting married,so I looked to see how good looking the lady was.

Then see it was a bloke

Didn't you know he was gay?

No

oh . No reason why you should I suppose. "

Ive lead a sheltered life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think we're being a bit unfair to Hilda with all this living in the 19th Century/1950's stuff.

Everyone knows she's living in a 1970's Jonny Speight sitcom.

At least that is a good defence against her massive ignorance about bipolar disorder."

I'm sorry but I must have missed where she displayed that ignorance.? Saying someone is losing it again isn't ignorant, not exact poetic or sympathetic bit not ignorant

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"I did see a headline he was getting married,so I looked to see how good looking the lady was.

Then see it was a bloke

Didn't you know he was gay?

No

oh . No reason why you should I suppose.

Ive lead a sheltered life "

Yea and I'm Mother Teresa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think we're being a bit unfair to Hilda with all this living in the 19th Century/1950's stuff.

Everyone knows she's living in a 1970's Jonny Speight sitcom.

At least that is a good defence against her massive ignorance about bipolar disorder."

Actually, i rather think Hilda is living in the 21st Century, one where she is "marked down" for merely having and expressing a different _iew to the modern masses.

Vive le difference as the French would hitherto say.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"I think we're being a bit unfair to Hilda with all this living in the 19th Century/1950's stuff.

Everyone knows she's living in a 1970's Jonny Speight sitcom.

At least that is a good defence against her massive ignorance about bipolar disorder."

your whole post is unfair to Hilda. You may not agree with what she says but she has a right to say it and for any response to be directed to her not at her.

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By *icefellatwoMan
over a year ago

hastings


"I did see a headline he was getting married,so I looked to see how good looking the lady was.

Then see it was a bloke

Didn't you know he was gay?

No

oh . No reason why you should I suppose.

Ive lead a sheltered life

Yea and I'm Mother Teresa "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think we're being a bit unfair to Hilda with all this living in the 19th Century/1950's stuff.

Everyone knows she's living in a 1970's Jonny Speight sitcom.

At least that is a good defence against her massive ignorance about bipolar disorder.

Actually, i rather think Hilda is living in the 21st Century, one where she is "marked down" for merely having and expressing a different _iew to the modern masses.

Vive le difference as the French would hitherto say."

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By *himneyMan
over a year ago

South London

We all just want to be happy! If marriage makes Stephen happy (and his partner)..then Good Luck and Happiness to them both.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

Everyone is entitled to post their _iews....if you disagree with those _iews then answer the post rather than attack the poster.

Thanks.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well I never ever see him having babies but you never know .. xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I never ever see him having babies but you never know .. xxx "

You never know in this day & age!!

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By *isandreTV/TS
over a year ago

Durham

The nature of Mr Fry's bipolar disorder is that he suffers severe depression and it comes and goes in cycles.

It can be severe enough to warrant suicide attempts at the bottom of the cycle.

At the top of the cycle it leads to periods of prodigious creativity and output.

Suffering from this is not Mr Fry's fault. He can't help it anymore than someone suffering from malaria or ms. These can all be recurring illnesses. Would you suggest someone doesn't marry just because their partner has a recurring illness such as malaria or ms, which can come and go? In sickness and in health was what I thought, hence 70's sitcoms springing to my mind.

It is no reason to suggest it is a mistake to marry. In fact if anything it is a demonstration of greater love and commitment. Having a loving caring full time companion around can only be a good thing for managing Stephen's condition.

Bipolar disorder to the sort of severity that Mr Fry suffers should not be considered as just someone 'losing it'. Hilda is aware that he has attempted suicide and has had other problems. So that is ignorance in my book.

She has a right to her _iews. I'll remind you of them.

‘well I and quite a few others think it wont last.

I think steven fry is losing it, he tried to commit suicide not long ago and its affecting his judgement.

I know, but I am usualy right about these things.

A year at the most.

I think the young lad will leave him then steven will probably commit suicide, that's my guess. In the pictures of them yesterday the young lad looked scared, he didn't look happy.

He is only after his money and because he is famous, hes 30 years younger than him.

I know and he also has mental health problems.’

You don't think someone who looks at a few pictures and some sketchy knowledge of someones past history combined with some massively out of date understanding of mental health is worthy of appearing as a character in Till Death Us Do Part, sagely agreeing in the corner with the great opinionated ignoramous Alf Garnett?

I was actually being quite light hearted with the comment, but really to suggest he is marrying because he is mental and just wants sex, that the young man is only after his money and will leave him within a year at which point, AS A RESULT Mr Fry will get so depressed he will kill himself is pretty disgusting, and it is certainly ignorant of the condition at best.

Personally I reckon he agreed to marry after some thought and not just during a bout of depression but when he was healthy in mind too and both gentlemen have gone into it with a lot of thought and their eyes open.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Fille yes xx Personally I reckon he agreed to marry after some thought and not just during a bout of depression but when he was healthy in mind too and both gentlemen have gone into it with a lot of thought and their eyes open...

Yes eyes open and a open loving heart x They love each other and happy. so in my book that's really lovely and all that matters here . xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In other gay relationship news I was pleased to see Sue Perkins has found love with Anna Richardson of supersize vs superskinny and freaky eaters fame

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In other gay relationship news I was pleased to see Sue Perkins has found love with Anna Richardson of supersize vs superskinny and freaky eaters fame "
Yes they make a lovely couple .. I am bi and could have the hots for Anna myself. xx

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

I adore the Fry that is Stephen, I hope they maje many happy memories together. Stephen is a national treadure who should be highly valued.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The nature of Mr Fry's bipolar disorder is that he suffers severe depression and it comes and goes in cycles.

It can be severe enough to warrant suicide attempts at the bottom of the cycle.

At the top of the cycle it leads to periods of prodigious creativity and output.

Suffering from this is not Mr Fry's fault. He can't help it anymore than someone suffering from malaria or ms. These can all be recurring illnesses. Would you suggest someone doesn't marry just because their partner has a recurring illness such as malaria or ms, which can come and go? In sickness and in health was what I thought, hence 70's sitcoms springing to my mind.

It is no reason to suggest it is a mistake to marry. In fact if anything it is a demonstration of greater love and commitment. Having a loving caring full time companion around can only be a good thing for managing Stephen's condition.

Bipolar disorder to the sort of severity that Mr Fry suffers should not be considered as just someone 'losing it'. Hilda is aware that he has attempted suicide and has had other problems. So that is ignorance in my book.

She has a right to her _iews. I'll remind you of them.

‘well I and quite a few others think it wont last.

I think steven fry is losing it, he tried to commit suicide not long ago and its affecting his judgement.

I know, but I am usualy right about these things.

A year at the most.

I think the young lad will leave him then steven will probably commit suicide, that's my guess. In the pictures of them yesterday the young lad looked scared, he didn't look happy.

He is only after his money and because he is famous, hes 30 years younger than him.

I know and he also has mental health problems.’

You don't think someone who looks at a few pictures and some sketchy knowledge of someones past history combined with some massively out of date understanding of mental health is worthy of appearing as a character in Till Death Us Do Part, sagely agreeing in the corner with the great opinionated ignoramous Alf Garnett?

I was actually being quite light hearted with the comment, but really to suggest he is marrying because he is mental and just wants sex, that the young man is only after his money and will leave him within a year at which point, AS A RESULT Mr Fry will get so depressed he will kill himself is pretty disgusting, and it is certainly ignorant of the condition at best.

Personally I reckon he agreed to marry after some thought and not just during a bout of depression but when he was healthy in mind too and both gentlemen have gone into it with a lot of thought and their eyes open.

"

Yes thanks for that lesson on bi polar or manic depression as it used to be known, I actualy knew all that before having read about steven fry and the late spike milligan whom I used to like a lot. I think it would be hard not to know about it seeing as so many people appear to be suffering from it these days. I didn't actualy say he was getting married just for sex did i.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi folks! We're near the 175 max now - so shall we just forget our differences on the topic and wish them a long and happy marriage - whether we personally believe that will happen or not? Xx

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"Hi folks! We're near the 175 max now - so shall we just forget our differences on the topic and wish them a long and happy marriage - whether we personally believe that will happen or not? Xx"

Its not compulsory to congratulate people who are getting married you know.

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