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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I understand why I "shouldn't" be on this site, with me being a virgin and all. But people who aren't virgins seem believe it's fine to judge me (not all. Not even that many.) In my opinion, what give them the right? What makes them think they're better than me or anyone else in my position. No one person is better than another.

Sorry to bother your day. I just had to rant somewhere.

Everyone have a nice day

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

In what way are they judging you?

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"In what way are they judging you?

"

X2 ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Offer yourself up to a public forum and you'll be commented on, receive help or be judged........it's just how it is really. Human nature at work my friend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As said above , what are they doing to suggest they're judging you ?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"As said above , what are they doing to suggest they're judging you ?"

A message from Judge Dredd?

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I may judge but seeing as I am not going to shag you, meet you, tickle you or help ram a dildo up your arse, my judgement has made zero difference to your life......

Why worry about invisible old me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Weird post on a swingers site but nothing wrong with it and good luck to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know what's been said to you, obviously, but if people have said that a virgin shouldn't be involved on a swinger's site, I would agree: that is not said by me in a nasty way, simply knowing that meets can be nerve racking for those with lots of experience. In an ideal world, losing your virginity should be with someone you care about and who cares about you. A bad experience with hard nosed swingers could put you off for life! No one would want that for you, I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In what way are they judging you?

X2 ?"

x3?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't know what's been said to you, obviously, but if people have said that a virgin shouldn't be involved on a swinger's site, I would agree: that is not said by me in a nasty way, simply knowing that meets can be nerve racking for those with lots of experience. In an ideal world, losing your virginity should be with someone you care about and who cares about you. A bad experience with hard nosed swingers could put you off for life! No one would want that for you, I think"

This!! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People judge each other for many things on here, as in everyday life. You could replace the word 'virgin' with 'married' or 'UKIP voter' for example.

You shouldn't let their opinion impact on you, if you want to use the site then do so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I told the last judgemental person to fuck right off,I felt great...

Mind you he doubled my sentence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I may judge but seeing as I am not going to shag you, meet you, tickle you or help ram a dildo up your arse, my judgement has made zero difference to your life......

Why worry about invisible old me...

"

Indeed.

Everyone judges everyone. Even the OP is judging people that judge him!

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"As said above , what are they doing to suggest they're judging you ?

A message from Judge Dredd? "

I'd shag Judge Judy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I remember being a virgin and I have to admit that it never bothered me in the slightest ,,,,, but then again I was getting plenty cock at the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone judges fact....

maybe if you cant handle it this site isnt for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe their just pointing out that as a virgin, this is probably not the best place to find and have your first sexual encounter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As said above , what are they doing to suggest they're judging you ?

A message from Judge Dredd?

I'd shag Judge Judy "

I quite like the camp uk fella....cracks me up

He's not getting mi meat though

Carry on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For years been having mail from men saying they are virgins and 9/10 a lot really are just swinging virgins and get off on thinking of themselves as a virgin again ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People judge each other for many things on here, as in everyday life. You could replace the word 'virgin' with 'married' or 'UKIP voter' for example.

You shouldn't let their opinion impact on you, if you want to use the site then do so. "

Ps I have seen threads where people are looking for a photographer, send them yours as your photos are top notch although the content has helped somewhat. X

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

as said we all judge and you OP will be no different..

suppose what it come's down to is how people convey that which they perceive..

and on an open public forum that can often be what some don't wish to hear..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't know what's been said to you, obviously, but if people have said that a virgin shouldn't be involved on a swinger's site, I would agree: that is not said by me in a nasty way, simply knowing that meets can be nerve racking for those with lots of experience. In an ideal world, losing your virginity should be with someone you care about and who cares about you. A bad experience with hard nosed swingers could put you off for life! No one would want that for you, I think"

I completely understand that and even somewhat agree. What I don't understand is why some have to look down their noses at other. I try not to judge without first trying to get to know someone. I'm not without blame in judging people before knowing them. I've tried to not let it get to me, but there is only so much one can take.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't know what's been said to you, obviously, but if people have said that a virgin shouldn't be involved on a swinger's site, I would agree: that is not said by me in a nasty way, simply knowing that meets can be nerve racking for those with lots of experience. In an ideal world, losing your virginity should be with someone you care about and who cares about you. A bad experience with hard nosed swingers could put you off for life! No one would want that for you, I think

I completely understand that and even somewhat agree. What I don't understand is why some have to look down their noses at other. I try not to judge without first trying to get to know someone. I'm not without blame in judging people before knowing them. I've tried to not let it get to me, but there is only so much one can take."

Do you mean people judge you because they don't want to meet you? Everybody on here judges each other. It's called making a choice on the info you have. If you don't like that then this is really not the place for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People judge each other for many things on here, as in everyday life. You could replace the word 'virgin' with 'married' or 'UKIP voter' for example.

You shouldn't let their opinion impact on you, if you want to use the site then do so.

Ps I have seen threads where people are looking for a photographer, send them yours as your photos are top notch although the content has helped somewhat. X"

They're all selfies!

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By *dventuroususCouple
over a year ago

sunderland


"I don't know what's been said to you, obviously, but if people have said that a virgin shouldn't be involved on a swinger's site, I would agree: that is not said by me in a nasty way, simply knowing that meets can be nerve racking for those with lots of experience. In an ideal world, losing your virginity should be with someone you care about and who cares about you. A bad experience with hard nosed swingers could put you off for life! No one would want that for you, I think

I completely understand that and even somewhat agree. What I don't understand is why some have to look down their noses at other. I try not to judge without first trying to get to know someone. I'm not without blame in judging people before knowing them. I've tried to not let it get to me, but there is only so much one can take."

somebody looking down there nose at you is not someone judging you, every single person judges every single day, its not a bad thing its part of human nature, someone looking down there nose at you is however a bad thing, but there problem, dont let it get to you and simply move on.

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