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"In denial?" Nope! | |||
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"In denial?" No. I can go months without sex if I feel like it. I don't think about sex all the time. sex has a very low priority in my life. For me it's about relaxation and is a bit of a treat. if that makes me an addict then ok I'll freely admit to it but I don't think it does, so I won't. | |||
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"In denial? No. I can go months without sex if I feel like it. I don't think about sex all the time. sex has a very low priority in my life. For me it's about relaxation and is a bit of a treat. if that makes me an addict then ok I'll freely admit to it but I don't think it does, so I won't." From what you have said I don't think you are a sex addict but there's other that couldn't go that long without sex | |||
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"Some people are addicted to watching the soaps every day, I am not saying being a sex addict is a bad thing" real addiction to anything isn't a good thing, surely? | |||
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"Some people are addicted to watching the soaps every day, I am not saying being a sex addict is a bad thing real addiction to anything isn't a good thing, surely?" It depends if what you are addicted too. Being addicted to drugs is obviously harmful but being addicted to sex isn't! Unless it stops you living a normal life | |||
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"I am " At last an honest reply lol But why do you think your addicted? | |||
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"I don't think I'm a actual sex addict but I am possibly addicted to the liberation of the lifestyle... Addicted as it I would find it hard to transition back to a life without it. I could do it, I know I would find it difficult though as the lifestyle makes up a high proportion of my social life by my own choice. " I guess there's different levels of addiction, but you sound like you have more of a reliance on it | |||
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"I am At last an honest reply lol But why do you think your addicted?" honest,,i think most people are being honest when they say no | |||
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"Unless it stops you living a normal life" any addiction is a dependency on something. that isn't healthy regardless of what it is. | |||
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"I am At last an honest reply lol But why do you think your addicted? honest,,i think most people are being honest when they say no" I am sure some are | |||
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"Unless it stops you living a normal life any addiction is a dependency on something. that isn't healthy regardless of what it is." Then many people on here are probably dependant on the thrill of swinging | |||
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"Yess yessssssssss Lol xxx " I feel like a dose of dependancy right now lol | |||
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"There are probably a few on here. Having been married to one for eight painful years it is so destructive and unless dealt with can lead to all sorts of nasty sequelae. Being a sex addict doesn't mean you have sex all the time it means sex has a skewed value in the addicts mind. It can become mixed up with control issues and most sex addicts have used prostitutes, escorts etc to be in control. They often have an overwhelming need to be admired and will seek out sexual episodes (often cyber) with partners who they wouldn't look at twice for a normal relationship. They don't care if they are fat sixty and ugly as sin as long as they go along with the sexual innuendo and verbal/cyber sex. Does that sped scribe all the people on here ? " No it doesn't although it may describe some. Possible some on here are stopping from being as you are describing because they can get what they need in a more safer way by swinging? | |||
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"I don't think I'm a actual sex addict but I am possibly addicted to the liberation of the lifestyle... Addicted as it I would find it hard to transition back to a life without it. I could do it, I know I would find it difficult though as the lifestyle makes up a high proportion of my social life by my own choice. " Its a part of me and my lifestyle... And feels normal to me. I don't have that many meets or that much sex but the liberation of clubs and the scene is what I enjoy. It feels more open and honest to me than other more "traditional" lifestyles. | |||
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"I don't think I'm a actual sex addict but I am possibly addicted to the liberation of the lifestyle... Addicted as it I would find it hard to transition back to a life without it. I could do it, I know I would find it difficult though as the lifestyle makes up a high proportion of my social life by my own choice. Its a part of me and my lifestyle... And feels normal to me. I don't have that many meets or that much sex but the liberation of clubs and the scene is what I enjoy. It feels more open and honest to me than other more "traditional" lifestyles. " You sound in control of it, so to me that isn't an addiction | |||
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"I don't think I'm a actual sex addict but I am possibly addicted to the liberation of the lifestyle... Addicted as it I would find it hard to transition back to a life without it. I could do it, I know I would find it difficult though as the lifestyle makes up a high proportion of my social life by my own choice. Its a part of me and my lifestyle... And feels normal to me. I don't have that many meets or that much sex but the liberation of clubs and the scene is what I enjoy. It feels more open and honest to me than other more "traditional" lifestyles. " You sound in control of it, so to me that isn't an addiction | |||
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"If you can manage your life then no, not a second addict, However if it interferes with your children (meets while they are in the house) Work (pull a sickie for a meet) Money (go to a club rather than pay a bill) The yes x" I think we all like to Live in a world we feel comfortable With If we,re normal, along with Personality and character playing a Big part but again "normally" sex will Come in to our lives somewhere, there Has to be a few levels or categorys Where you could class someone a addict More than another person surely, the First one being a nymphomaniac for a Female not sure what you would call That for a male at that level of sex Drive perhaps very highly sexed, even Someone just below that or more I,m Sure would struggle without a meet Every week or more, generally speaking Thank god for natural relief as it Works for me and has done for years on And off but being a single guy the Company side I miss and not just for sex either.. | |||
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"Do you think?" nope..... there is a difference between good sex... and just any sex! | |||
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"I adore sex - but very choosy who I adore it with! Think that just makes me very highly sexed rather than an adict! Xx" | |||
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"Do you think?" I used to think i was when i was a lot younger | |||
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"I am At last an honest reply lol But why do you think your addicted?" Why is a big question and I think the root of any addiction is similar. The physical need of sex for me is intense and regular, I am hypersexual (or in old money a nymphomaniac). The acting out of porn/perving/sex/wanking satisfies it for usually short periods. It's my only vice - I eat clean, drink clean, live clean, just fuck filthy lol. I signed up for a sex addiction program last year. My friends joke I should get a refund. Sometimes I deal with it well, other times not and there are worse addictions to have. | |||
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"I am At last an honest reply lol But why do you think your addicted? Why is a big question and I think the root of any addiction is similar. The physical need of sex for me is intense and regular, I am hypersexual (or in old money a nymphomaniac). The acting out of porn/perving/sex/wanking satisfies it for usually short periods. It's my only vice - I eat clean, drink clean, live clean, just fuck filthy lol. I signed up for a sex addiction program last year. My friends joke I should get a refund. Sometimes I deal with it well, other times not and there are worse addictions to have. " So you consider it a problem for yourself? | |||
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" So you consider it a problem for yourself?" Sometimes when I don't or can't handle it well yes | |||
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"In some ways i think i am, the more i cum the more sex i want & cant stop playing once i begin.. Cyber sex makes me narky as i want the real thing far too much & if someone cant perform or worse then i speak a more suitable partner" Nymph or addict? What's your preference tag? | |||
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"No, just a healthy sexual appetite " When does a healthy sex life cross the border into an addiction tho? Lol | |||
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" So you consider it a problem for yourself? Sometimes when I don't or can't handle it well yes " A nice problem maybe | |||
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"No I like sex but I'm not addicted I have limited times i can meet due to a busy home and work life sometimes I can go weeks without sex, not through choice but I just get on with life and make the most of the time I do have to meet " Sounds like your a swinger in control | |||
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"I used to be, I think. I'm currently abstaining. " mmmmmmmm lol | |||
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"Of course we are we wouldn't be on here if we wasnt" really? I'm on here for variety and to meet nice people not to shag my way through the site | |||
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"I used to be, I think. I'm currently abstaining. mmmmmmmm lol " Eh? | |||
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"Of course we are we wouldn't be on here if we wasnt" do you drink alcohol..? maybe with a meal, with friends when out or when home.. | |||
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"Of course we are we wouldn't be on here if we wasntreally? I'm on here for variety and to meet nice people not to shag my way through the site" even if you did manage to do so that necessarily wouldn't make you an addict.. feckin horny mind.. | |||
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"Of course we are we wouldn't be on here if we wasnt do you drink alcohol..? maybe with a meal, with friends when out or when home.." yes of course i do and i luv it just like i luv sex and yes in one horny devil im like a Pringle once i pop i just cant stop | |||
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"Of course we are we wouldn't be on here if we wasntreally? I'm on here for variety and to meet nice people not to shag my way through the site even if you did manage to do so that necessarily wouldn't make you an addict.. feckin horny mind.. " and bloody knackered lol | |||
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"Of course we are we wouldn't be on here if we wasnt do you drink alcohol..? maybe with a meal, with friends when out or when home..yes of course i do and i luv it just like i luv sex and yes in one horny devil im like a Pringle once i pop i just cant stop" but would you class yourself as an alcoholic..? | |||
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"Of course we are we wouldn't be on here if we wasntreally? I'm on here for variety and to meet nice people not to shag my way through the site even if you did manage to do so that necessarily wouldn't make you an addict.. feckin horny mind.. and bloody knackered lol " and smiling.. | |||
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"I don't think I'm a actual sex addict but I am possibly addicted to the liberation of the lifestyle... Addicted as it I would find it hard to transition back to a life without it. I could do it, I know I would find it difficult though as the lifestyle makes up a high proportion of my social life by my own choice. " totally agree with your comments we're not addicts but love the fact that it makes us think about sex every day, and each other as sexual beings x | |||
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"im not an addict no" I could become addicted to your boobs tho | |||
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"Do you think?" are you? | |||
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"Of course we are we wouldn't be on here if we wasnt do you drink alcohol..? maybe with a meal, with friends when out or when home..yes of course i do and i luv it just like i luv sex and yes in one horny devil im like a Pringle once i pop i just cant stop but would you class yourself as an alcoholic..?" no just a sex addict but do like a drink at weekends | |||
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" real addiction to anything isn't a good thing, surely?" I find an addiction to breathing quite a good thing. | |||
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"Of course we are we wouldn't be on here if we wasnt do you drink alcohol..? maybe with a meal, with friends when out or when home..yes of course i do and i luv it just like i luv sex and yes in one horny devil im like a Pringle once i pop i just cant stop but would you class yourself as an alcoholic..?no just a sex addict but do like a drink at weekends" but any kind of addiction is bad for you. What is your definition of a sex addict | |||
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"I cant see being a sex addict is bad for you unless you get s.t.i" an addiction is something that takes over your life, if you was a sex addict your whole life would function around sex, taking risks, not being able to function properly. There's a lot of difference from being a sex addict to just being a horny devil | |||
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"I don't think I'm a actual sex addict but I am possibly addicted to the liberation of the lifestyle... Addicted as it I would find it hard to transition back to a life without it. I could do it, I know I would find it difficult though as the lifestyle makes up a high proportion of my social life by my own choice. " Hey .. Well said ) | |||
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" real addiction to anything isn't a good thing, surely? I find an addiction to breathing quite a good thing. " I have learnt to breath through my ears | |||
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"I cant see being a sex addict is bad for you unless you get s.t.ian addiction is something that takes over your life, if you was a sex addict your whole life would function around sex, taking risks, not being able to function properly. There's a lot of difference from being a sex addict to just being a horny devil " ^ this. Spot on. | |||
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"Think its just pick on funtimes oh my days " not at all your the one that said we were all sex addicts. I just pointed out the difference of addiction to being a horny devil | |||
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" real addiction to anything isn't a good thing, surely? I find an addiction to breathing quite a good thing. " That isn't an addiction. That is a necessity.....Jeez...I should have bought you guys a dictionary for Christmas | |||
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" real addiction to anything isn't a good thing, surely? I find an addiction to breathing quite a good thing. That isn't an addiction. That is a necessity.....Jeez...I should have bought you guys a dictionary for Christmas " Except holding your breath whilst your cum is very nice | |||
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"Think its just pick on funtimes oh my days not at all your the one that said we were all sex addicts. I just pointed out the difference of addiction to being a horny devil " well we are sex addicts and horny devils come on don't be shy | |||
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"Think its just pick on funtimes oh my days not at all your the one that said we were all sex addicts. I just pointed out the difference of addiction to being a horny devil well we are sex addicts and horny devils come on don't be shy " You may be speaking for yourself but you certainly aren't speaking for me! | |||
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"an addiction is something that takes over your life, if you was a sex addict your whole life would function around sex, taking risks, not being able to function properly. There's a lot of difference from being a sex addict to just being a horny devil " So does anyone else stop functioning or is it just me? | |||
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"I feel the word addiction needs to be clarified on this, I enjoy music and also enjoy a drink, they are required to function but add value to my perception of life. there is a price to be paid in hearing loss and liver damage, but both will probably be OK till I have no further need for them, I am not addicted to music or booze. I just enjoy them. Sex is the same I quite enjoy a fair quantity of of sex but not sufficient to do too much harm.sure I could be studying and amassing wealth in the time I am having sex... but what for?" To clarify I'm not talking about just enjoying sex and being a filthy devil, both of which I do and am lol, but of living with a proper addiction | |||
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"As i posted before sex addiction is often more about control than the desire for sex. sex can just be the avenue one achieves that control. when the behaviors (sexting, using porn, cyber sex as well as physical sex) start to become more important and time consuming than normal behavior, financial implication from using escorts maybe meaning no money for mortgage or when relationships end because the actvity is discovered, thats when its sex addiction " U seem to understand it very well x | |||
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"I'm not a sex addict, I am merely a single lady that likes sex a few times a week " I am a sex addict because I don't get sex a few times a week lol | |||
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