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"saying that i ALWAYS use condoms for any full sex and use the rule if you take it off i am gunna report you ..... if guys are pre warned they dont mess you around lol plus i always ask to be shown ID if a condom splits and take a copy of it " Report it to who? | |||
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"plus i always ask to be shown ID if a condom splits and take a copy of it So you insist that people you meet carry ID?" And carry a photocopier? | |||
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"And WHO exactly do you report them to? Is there now a Safe Sex Police?" it was weird on friday night at chams had this man come up say look at this tex ......... I am clean ,, lolol really he did,,,,,,,, and no i did not ,, lol and what was he doing with mobile phone in there ... | |||
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"i go regularly but last time i was really pissed off! i have never ever had anything to complain about but last time i went again after two months and this women had a go at me (never had her before) for coming to often! i even told her i was swinging and she just carried on moaning about it costing the NHS money WTF its my health at risk! if i want to get it checked thier shouldnt be any questions asked" I have the same problem, according to my local GUM clinic I should only be getting tested every 6 Months! Even though im very upfront about my lifestyle, not had anyone moan at me, but I will stick to every 3 months. | |||
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"plus i always ask to be shown ID if a condom splits and take a copy of it So you insist that people you meet carry ID?" I was smiling at that too. I assume the visiting male brings passport, driving licence and a full medical record with him as well. | |||
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"i go regularly but last time i was really pissed off! i have never ever had anything to complain about but last time i went again after two months and this women had a go at me (never had her before) for coming to often! i even told her i was swinging and she just carried on moaning about it costing the NHS money WTF its my health at risk! if i want to get it checked thier shouldnt be any questions asked I have the same problem, according to my local GUM clinic I should only be getting tested every 6 Months! Even though im very upfront about my lifestyle, not had anyone moan at me, but I will stick to every 3 months." yeh i think i will stick with you and ignore them about the 6 months and go every three unless anything risky happens and i feel i need to go sooner | |||
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"saying that i ALWAYS use condoms for any full sex and use the rule if you take it off i am gunna report you ..... if guys are pre warned they dont mess you around lol plus i always ask to be shown ID if a condom splits and take a copy of it " I can see the scene where the warning is issued You ALWAYS ask for i.d when the condom splits? Always ? How many have split ? I've never had one split. Do they take YOUR I.D too ? Does the condom go 'twang' and you stop dead and take piccies of each others birth certificates ? Or do you only know on withdrawal and so it's possible to write it all down over a cup of tea and a custard cream. I am in such a good mood with this. Tell me some more about safe sex pls ...it's sooooo funny. | |||
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"saying that i ALWAYS use condoms for any full sex and use the rule if you take it off i am gunna report you ..... if guys are pre warned they dont mess you around lol plus i always ask to be shown ID if a condom splits and take a copy of it I can see the scene where the warning is issued Quick call CSI!!! You ALWAYS ask for i.d when the condom splits? Always ? How many have split ? I've never had one split. Do they take YOUR I.D too ? Does the condom go 'twang' and you stop dead and take piccies of each others birth certificates ? Or do you only know on withdrawal and so it's possible to write it all down over a cup of tea and a custard cream. I am in such a good mood with this. Tell me some more about safe sex pls ...it's sooooo funny. " | |||
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"On a serious note, are people still getting free condoms? on our last visit we got told if we needed condoms we'd hve to get an appointment at the family planning clinic as they were no longer giving them out there due to cuts " I dont know about Lothian, but through here a lot of chemists are part of a free condom scheme, you just go in ask for the type you want(variety for me), and they give you a bag with 6 boxes and a couple of sachets of lube. | |||
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"hey as we all know we run a risk so how many of you guys and girls do a monthly trip to the gum clinic i myself do " Never .. to a gum clinic (i don't know what a gum clinic is). but very regularly indeed (every 3 months), privately, as its important to take care, and ensure that one's 100% clean. so far, so good .. but then it helps to be paranoid about sexual health | |||
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"saying that i ALWAYS use condoms for any full sex and use the rule if you take it off i am gunna report you ..... if guys are pre warned they dont mess you around lol plus i always ask to be shown ID if a condom splits and take a copy of it " ID!! why what you going to do if they have given you something report them to the police? lol Do you give them a copy of your id too? If i was playing with someone and a condom split and they asked to take a copy of my UD id tell them to f**k off with my foot firmly up their arse, my ID is my personal buisness and you have no rights to a copy of it | |||
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"On a serious note, are people still getting free condoms? on our last visit we got told if we needed condoms we'd hve to get an appointment at the family planning clinic as they were no longer giving them out there due to cuts " Ours are getting a bit tight with the freebies because of the cuts but I prefer a certain type anyway so im never wanting to come away with a goodie bag | |||
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"On a serious note, are people still getting free condoms? on our last visit we got told if we needed condoms we'd hve to get an appointment at the family planning clinic as they were no longer giving them out there due to cuts Ours are getting a bit tight with the freebies because of the cuts but I prefer a certain type anyway so im never wanting to come away with a goodie bag" I have to say its similar for me, was a bit of pot luck what they had and some go like shrink wrap lol Have to say, do prefer getting my own. In relation to original post, yes it is important to look after yourself and get checked regular! | |||
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"They never give out the laytex free ones at my family planning And no bugger every buys them when you meets, costs me a bomb it does lmao" when i do my once every 3 month "condom shop" I also get latex and non-latex ones..... lol cub scout me.... be prepared!!! lol | |||
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"saying that i ALWAYS use condoms for any full sex and use the rule if you take it off i am gunna report you ..... if guys are pre warned they dont mess you around lol plus i always ask to be shown ID if a condom splits and take a copy of it " make it sounds like you are swopping details at a road traffic accident..... insurance details as well?????? | |||
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"They never give out the laytex free ones at my family planning And no bugger every buys them when you meets, costs me a bomb it does lmao" Im the same,and only one meet has ever remembered that I use latex free ones and bought some especially the first time we met I always end up having to buy them,I don't really mind doing that but it was a very nice touch for someone else to do it How sad is that!! get all happy because someone bought some latex free condoms with them | |||
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"i have my rules and to be honest i dont care if they seem odd its how i want to do things and if it puts people off meeting then i doubt i wud wanna meet sumone who isnt willing to give over there real name as for taking a condom off , how wud u feel if a man did this to you ? and if a STD comes of it , it is classed as a assult .. also what type of SICKO wud do this if i say to a guy you must wear a condom i dont expect them to then take it OFF and to be honest i wud throw them out there and then ! if the condom splits then swapping info is a darn good idea incase they have sumthink they dont know about as i can contact them and let them know quielty and not leave them to infect the rest of the public out there . as for i.d alot of the meets i do are filmed so i need a copy of there id for this and for them to sign a form to protect me from copyright laws its about time people stopped being silly with there bodys and were carefull and that way STD'S wont get passed on " I dunno about ' about time' I've been taking care of my sexual health for the past 40 years Glad you do. x | |||
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"i have my rules and to be honest i dont care if they seem odd its how i want to do things and if it puts people off meeting then i doubt i wud wanna meet sumone who isnt willing to give over there real name as for taking a condom off , how wud u feel if a man did this to you ? and if a STD comes of it , it is classed as a assult .. also what type of SICKO wud do this if i say to a guy you must wear a condom i dont expect them to then take it OFF and to be honest i wud throw them out there and then ! if the condom splits then swapping info is a darn good idea incase they have sumthink they dont know about as i can contact them and let them know quielty and not leave them to infect the rest of the public out there . as for i.d alot of the meets i do are filmed so i need a copy of there id for this and for them to sign a form to protect me from copyright laws its about time people stopped being silly with there bodys and were carefull and that way STD'S wont get passed on " So if you are getting them to sign a disclaimer before you film them can I take it you are selling the films on? Or chrging people to watch them? | |||
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"plus i always ask to be shown ID if a condom splits and take a copy of it So you insist that people you meet carry ID? And carry a photocopier?" pmfsl | |||
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"plus i always ask to be shown ID if a condom splits and take a copy of it So you insist that people you meet carry ID? I was smiling at that too. I assume the visiting male brings passport, driving licence and a full medical record with him as well." IN THE PAST I HAVE ASKED FOR STD RESULTS TO BE SCANNED N EMAILED YES WHY SHUDNT I | |||
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"sorry i would always ... its only happend once n the bloke showed me his id i took a pic of it on my phone n saved his mobile we kept in contact i stopped meeting people for 3 months got all clear n went on with my life after i chatted to him on msn obv n told him all was ok as for a warning i simply ask them to bring id and say why .. inless there riddled i cant see why it wud b a issue " But how does that work him showing you id, unless you insist on them having a check directly before they shag you. Surely the id is only valid from the date they had the test until the date they got the test results back | |||
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"sorry i would always ... its only happend once n the bloke showed me his id i took a pic of it on my phone n saved his mobile we kept in contact i stopped meeting people for 3 months got all clear n went on with my life after i chatted to him on msn obv n told him all was ok as for a warning i simply ask them to bring id and say why .. inless there riddled i cant see why it wud b a issue But how does that work him showing you id, unless you insist on them having a check directly before they shag you. Surely the id is only valid from the date they had the test until the date they got the test results back" true they could have had a shag a hour b4 they meet you and picked up something! | |||
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"plus i always ask to be shown ID if a condom splits and take a copy of it So you insist that people you meet carry ID? I was smiling at that too. I assume the visiting male brings passport, driving licence and a full medical record with him as well. IN THE PAST I HAVE ASKED FOR STD RESULTS TO BE SCANNED N EMAILED YES WHY SHUDNT I " do you scan yours back tho?, are you as willing to give out your personal details to people on here? | |||
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"So you are posting these films free for people to browse.....or on a pay per view basis?" free on my profile here | |||
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"Can't think of anything that would be more of a passion killer, you meet someone....then take their ID and scan it, before having them read and sign a disclaimer. Then lights, camera, action....does someone (probably your fella) direct the action while you have sex with someone? "Left a bit, no right a bit....lovely....now throw your head back as if you are about to orgasm, look into the camera and pull that orgasm face......lovely, now can we have you in the doggy position?......hold on love he needs to play with himself to get hard enough again......right guys, when you are ready.......and action!"" PMSL no my "fella" dusnt play with me i meet with a FEMALE friend and ID and forms are sorted within a few moments and all the guys i have met have neva said it puts them off lol half the time they are filling it in while having a feel of what i have to offer :P anyhow i am off now gunna go cook sumthink yummy to eat and reply to emails xxx | |||
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""Quick! Bring in the stunt cock!"" i wud love a full time stunt cock locked in my bedroom haha | |||
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"Maybe they should have barcodes tatooed on their cocks then you can just scan them?" If that happens I better stop getting my cock out at Tesco! | |||
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"i only ask for a name and number on here and i only meet single males most of the time so normally they can provide a home number . yes if a split happend i wud happly give them a copy of my id and how i do this is by sending them a pic of it on my phone to there phone or email addy as i have a iphone so it sends very high quality pics and also takes them 2 due to copyright laws its helpfull to do the whole signed stuff as that way you can use it on sites such as these and also send it on to others its how i wanna do things " if all you want is their number surely you ask for that and have a chat before you meet? i always get a number b4 i meet just incase something turns up and i cant make it and have to get in touch, so in that case why do need id?... by saying you ask for id and take a copy of it it makes it sound like your asking for pass ports, drivers licence etc both of which has far more info than im willing to hand out, if you only want a name and number why not just ask them for that? and what are u taking a copy of? what id only gives u a number? even a phone bill has more info on it than just your number If i already got to the point i had had sex with someone i would already have their name and a number Far to much of what you say contradicts itself to be honest | |||
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" If i already got to the point i had had sex with someone i would already have their name and a number Far to much of what you say contradicts itself to be honest " Exactly!! | |||
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"i go regularly but last time i was really pissed off! i have never ever had anything to complain about but last time i went again after two months and this women had a go at me (never had her before) for coming to often! i even told her i was swinging and she just carried on moaning about it costing the NHS money WTF its my health at risk! if i want to get it checked thier shouldnt be any questions asked" Out of order, shoulda logged a complaint with whoever saw you later. They also have a form for that. | |||
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"Every 3 month then 2 weeks no playing till results come through. * sits on coffin *" knocks politely on coffin..... if u only go every 3 months what is the point in waiting the two weeks, don't u get claustrophobic in there? | |||
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"saying that i ALWAYS use condoms for any full sex and use the rule if you take it off i am gunna report you ..... if guys are pre warned they dont mess you around lol plus i always ask to be shown ID if a condom splits and take a copy of it I can see the scene where the warning is issued You ALWAYS ask for i.d when the condom splits? Always ? How many have split ? I've never had one split. Do they take YOUR I.D too ? Does the condom go 'twang' and you stop dead and take piccies of each others birth certificates ? Or do you only know on withdrawal and so it's possible to write it all down over a cup of tea and a custard cream. I am in such a good mood with this. Tell me some more about safe sex pls ...it's sooooo funny. " you can laugh but it's bldy scarey when a condom splits | |||
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"So you are posting these films free for people to browse.....or on a pay per view basis? free on my profile here " You CAN'T put films on your profile on here so you must be using them for another site! From what you have typed here and on another thread (the one looking for a big house with pool, etc) it sounds to me this is more than swinging and could be a business making films and selling them on, seeing as you are asking for IDs to satisfy copyright laws! I might be completely wrong but it all just doesn't add up to me! | |||
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"So you are posting these films free for people to browse.....or on a pay per view basis? free on my profile here You CAN'T put films on your profile on here so you must be using them for another site! From what you have typed here and on another thread (the one looking for a big house with pool, etc) it sounds to me this is more than swinging and could be a business making films and selling them on, seeing as you are asking for IDs to satisfy copyright laws! I might be completely wrong but it all just doesn't add up to me! " I was thinking the same after seeing on this thread or another the OP said she doesnt usually go on cam for free.. | |||
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"So you are posting these films free for people to browse.....or on a pay per view basis? free on my profile here You CAN'T put films on your profile on here so you must be using them for another site! From what you have typed here and on another thread (the one looking for a big house with pool, etc) it sounds to me this is more than swinging and could be a business making films and selling them on, seeing as you are asking for IDs to satisfy copyright laws! I might be completely wrong but it all just doesn't add up to me! " Doesnt add up to me, if there for home use surely the guys should be the ones making you sign to say that the films are not going to be used for other purposes. Or the guys sign a form to say they are happy for the films to be used else where, if this is the case are the guys getting a share in the profits. Do the guys know the films are being thrown around the internet? Dont the guys want proof that the op is clean before they take part in films. | |||
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" Doesnt add up to me, if there for home use surely the guys should be the ones making you sign to say that the films are not going to be used for other purposes. Or the guys sign a form to say they are happy for the films to be used else where, if this is the case are the guys getting a share in the profits. Do the guys know the films are being thrown around the internet? " If they are anything like the kind of thing that Jane is talking about, the blokes certainly don't get any remuneration, but they don't usually get to have bareback sex, that's the realm of the true professional who WILL have up to date certs. Those chaps don't usually frequent sites like this, it's too risky from their point of view, they don't fuck anyone who can't produce current certs and usually socialise with other pros. Contrary to common perception, they are far more selective about who they fuck than the vast majority on here. These cottage industry porn sites/films are lucrative, especially the ones in the niche market eg. Bukkake, where the men's faces are never seen, the camera concentrates on the pop shots. Digital editing can always blur stray faces or distinctive tattoos. Rather than being paid, the men usually PAY for their participation, under the guise of helping contribute towards the cost of the hotel room/filming venue and the female model fees/train fares. Strangely, they don't simply divide the costs between the men involved, it's a set fee. If 20 blokes paying £40 turn up to a Travel-lodge room costing £50, that's not bad bunce in my book, even if no-one is stupid enough to sign up to pay for the pornsite online. They have put a serious dent in the profits of the mega porn producers, who have had to resort to wobbly camera work with fat old blokes to compete. Yay, I might get a shot at stardom yet! | |||
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