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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I see a woman at work about once a week. Shes.cute...pretty..sexy..and i just like her way...seperated from a middle eastern guy...older kids. I have on a few occasions over a couple of years let her know that I would love to date her. She is extremely private..and on one occasion a long way back..said she'd have to go abroad to date. I found this very sad..I guess he exerts pressure that despite living separately..shes never to see anyone. Any ideas...off course I am not in her face about my feelings...tho she knows...but love her to realise that there's a guy that is worth taking a chance on...?

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I see a woman at work about once a week. Shes.cute...pretty..sexy..and i just like her way...seperated from a middle eastern guy...older kids. I have on a few occasions over a couple of years let her know that I would love to date her. She is extremely private..and on one occasion a long way back..said she'd have to go abroad to date. I found this very sad..I guess he exerts pressure that despite living separately..shes never to see anyone. Any ideas...off course I am not in her face about my feelings...tho she knows...but love her to realise that there's a guy that is worth taking a chance on...?"

She knows, she's not interested, move on.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I would not mix business with pleasure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think she has indirectly given you an answer to an unasked question -Sx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see a woman at work about once a week. Shes.cute...pretty..sexy..and i just like her way...seperated from a middle eastern guy...older kids. I have on a few occasions over a couple of years let her know that I would love to date her. She is extremely private..and on one occasion a long way back..said she'd have to go abroad to date. I found this very sad..I guess he exerts pressure that despite living separately..shes never to see anyone. Any ideas...off course I am not in her face about my feelings...tho she knows...but love her to realise that there's a guy that is worth taking a chance on...?

She knows, she's not interested, move on."

Haha brutal but true

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"I would not mix business with pleasure. "

this, especially if she has made it clear she is not interested..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My grandmother would have said "faint heart never won the fair maiden" but I'm not sure that's really true any more. Some things in life, you just have to jump at or regret it forever if you don't. Some things you should just stay away from. The choice is all yours.

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

you have given the signals...she didnt respond...open and shut case

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see a woman at work about once a week"

So you see her regularly.


"Shes.cute...pretty..sexy..and i just like her way...seperated from a middle eastern guy...older kids."

Complex home life.


"I have on a few occasions over a couple of years let her know that I would love to date her."

She knows and hasn't made a move on you.


"She is extremely private..and on one occasion a long way back..said she'd have to go abroad to date."

She isn't going to date anyone in the country, county, town or place of work.


"I found this very sad..I guess he exerts pressure that despite living separately..shes never to see anyone."

A very speculative assumption based on your perceptions?


"Any ideas...off course I am not in her face about my feelings...tho she knows...but love her to realise that there's a guy that is worth taking a chance on...?"

All the signs say she just isn't into you.

You fancy her but you seem swept up in a fantasy that you can save her, make her happy and in turn she will make you happy.

You cannot possibly imagine her full situation. If after many years of indirect and direct flirting, she hasn't turned to you for support or more, then it is all firmly inside your head chum.

Sorry but move on is the only answer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If she knows and has done nothing, i think you should move on.

Her

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all your comments...and basically...leave alone...is what I thought people would say. One comment that I delusional was a bit off mark... I couldn't garantee anyones happiness so I'm not quite such a dreamer. Tho the comment that she probably won't go out with anyone...I suspect is true.....she has not settled the divorce...fear..that he'll make life hell is likely too..especially if he knew she was seeing someone. Guess I'll never k now..thanks all...x

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