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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just found out that a friend of mine may well have cervical cancer possible because of her varied sex life.

Does this worry any people on fab

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has a doctor told her that sex has caused it? I'd find that highly unlikely........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No more than smoking, drinking, exhaust fumes, exposure to the sun, asbestos, itv and the x factor

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It seems to be a much higher risk because of unprotected oral sex

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT

Something to do with HPV perhaps but I don't know enough about it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Has a doctor told her that sex has caused it? I'd find that highly unlikely........"

A specialise said unprotected oral sex with multiple partners raises your risk of cervical cancer in women and mouth cancers in men. She was honest about her sex life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It seems to be a much higher risk because of unprotected oral sex"

How can unprotected oral sex set off cervical cancer?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It seems to be a much higher risk because of unprotected oral sex"

It's related to HPV. It's a common cause of cervical cancer, but it's too late for most women to worry about it. The vaccine is relatively new.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"It seems to be a much higher risk because of unprotected oral sex"
whats unprotected oral sex got to do with cervic cancer?

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"It seems to be a much higher risk because of unprotected oral sex

How can unprotected oral sex set off cervical cancer?"

really long tongue..?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Something to do with HPV perhaps but I don't know enough about it. "

Yes HPV is the virus which causes the problem

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

If she has regular smears it is very unlikely! I'm currently being monitored every 6 months, so any further changes will be found and treated when necessary.

Don't get me wrong I was worried when asked to come in for my first worrisome check up, when any changes will be detected quite early on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How does unprotected oral sex lead to cervical cancer? Im confused

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

"It seems to be a much higher risk because of unprotected oral sex

How can unprotected oral sex set off cervical cancer?

really long tongue..?"

Haha

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"Has a doctor told her that sex has caused it? I'd find that highly unlikely........

A specialise said unprotected oral sex with multiple partners raises your risk of cervical cancer in women and mouth cancers in men. She was honest about her sex life"

Sorry but that is crap! I've never been told that! And I am undergoing treatment/monitoring just now! So I know what I am speaking about!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It seems to be a much higher risk because of unprotected oral sex

How can unprotected oral sex set off cervical cancer?"

Michael Douglas was also told he's throat cancer was likely caused by cuninlingus with many girls. Google it if you don't believe me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Has a doctor told her that sex has caused it? I'd find that highly unlikely........

A specialise said unprotected oral sex with multiple partners raises your risk of cervical cancer in women and mouth cancers in men. She was honest about her sex life

I will tell me friend to tell her specialist you think it's crap then

Sorry but that is crap! I've never been told that! And I am undergoing treatment/monitoring just now! So I know what I am speaking about!"

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

"Something to do with HPV perhaps but I don't know enough about it.

Yes HPV is the virus which causes the problem"

No disrespect , however if people are having random unprotected sex , cervical cancer may be not the only sexual health conciquence they may need to consider ?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"It seems to be a much higher risk because of unprotected oral sex

How can unprotected oral sex set off cervical cancer?

Michael Douglas was also told he's throat cancer was likely caused by cuninlingus with many girls. Google it if you don't believe me"
that's throat cancer, not cervix cancer, never in all my life have I been asked about oral sex when having a smear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How does unprotected oral sex lead to cervical cancer? Im confused

its the woman receiving oral sex not giving it that can lead to cervical cancer.

Hpv can cause oral cancers, penile cancer, cervical and vulva cancer and anal cancer

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"Has a doctor told her that sex has caused it? I'd find that highly unlikely........

A specialise said unprotected oral sex with multiple partners raises your risk of cervical cancer in women and mouth cancers in men. She was honest about her sex life

I will tell me friend to tell her specialist you think it's crap then

Sorry but that is crap! I've never been told that! And I am undergoing treatment/monitoring just now! So I know what I am speaking about!"

Well considering I'm going through it all just now? I think I would know! And yes smoking has been mentioned, but unprotected oral? NOPE!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where are you getting your medical hypothesis from OP?

Wikipedia?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

From the NHS website.....

Some types of oral cancer are linked to human papilloma virus (HPV) infection in the mouth and throat. Find out the possible risks of this infection from oral sex, and how to protect yourself.

Rates of oral (mouth) cancer are rising. In England, 6,056 people were diagnosed with oral cancer in 2010, up from nearly 5,500 in 2008.

Oral cancers are sometimes called head and neck cancers, and include cancers of the mouth, lip and tongue, as well as cancers of the tonsils, oesophagus, larynx (voice box), nasopharynx (the area that connects the nose and throat) and the thyroid gland.

What causes oral cancer?

Experts have known for years that the main risk factors for oral cancer are drinking alcohol and smoking or chewing tobacco. But there is growing evidence that infection in the mouth with HPV is a major cause of oral cancer.

Around 25% of mouth and 35% of throat cancers are HPV-related but the exact figures vary between different studies, possibly due to different ways of testing for the virus or varying levels of smoking and other risk factors.

Detecting the HPV virus in a sample of people who have oral cancer does not mean that HPV caused the cancer. The virus becomes part of the genetic material of the cancer cells, triggering them to grow.

How do you get HPV in the mouth?

There are more than 100 types of HPV, and around 15 are associated with cancers. These 15 are known as high-risk HPV types.

The types of HPV found in the mouth are almost entirely sexually transmitted so it's likely that oral sex is the primary route of getting them. The high-risk HPV types are also passed on through vaginal and anal sex, and are linked to:

cervical cancer

vulval and vaginal cancer

anal cancer

penile cancer

laryngeal cancer

tonsil cancer

Some can be passed on through skin-to-skin contact and cause warts, including genital warts. The types of HPV that cause visible warts are low risk and are not the same types that cause cancer.

Most sexually active people (about 90%) will have been exposed to either high or low risk genital HPV types by age 25, but only 2-3% of these people develop visible genital warts. So most of us have been infected, but few are affected.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Something to do with HPV perhaps but I don't know enough about it.

Yes HPV is the virus which causes the problem

No disrespect , however if people are having random unprotected sex , cervical cancer may be not the only sexual health conciquence they may need to consider ?

I think most people have unprotected oral sex

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Where are you getting your medical hypothesis from OP?

Wikipedia?

When she told me I was devastated, so I researched it. I never randomly trust info trim the web but it's the NHS website that backs up what her specialist said

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I get my cervical smears regularly, I get my GUM check ups regularly, I use condoms. There's nothing more I can do to protect myself so I don't really get too worried.

More likely to get hit by a bus on the way to a meet knowing my luck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It seems to be a much higher risk because of unprotected oral sex

How can unprotected oral sex set off cervical cancer?

Michael Douglas was also told he's throat cancer was likely caused by cuninlingus with many girls. Google it if you don't believe methat's throat cancer, not cervix cancer, never in all my life have I been asked about oral sex when having a smear

Google it and look at the NHS website in particular

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I get my cervical smears regularly, I get my GUM check ups regularly, I use condoms. There's nothing more I can do to protect myself so I don't really get too worried.

More likely to get hit by a bus on the way to a meet knowing my luck."

I guess my friend was unlucky then but it's still important that people are aware of the risk

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By *icolehertsCouple
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

"No more than smoking, drinking, exhaust fumes, exposure to the sun, asbestos, itv and the x factor

And not nearly so much fun

Except the X Factor lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like most here, we will protect ourselves as much as possible but sometimes, shit just happens.

The only true safe sex is no sex. There are many triggers that cause some cancers, does that mean we should stop doing anything that 'may' cause an illness? Of course not.

I ride motorbikes because they're exciting but there's a chance I could be turned into a greasy streak in the road, will that stop me riding a motorbike? will it fook

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Like most here, we will protect ourselves as much as possible but sometimes, shit just happens.

The only true safe sex is no sex. There are many triggers that cause some cancers, does that mean we should stop doing anything that 'may' cause an illness? Of course not.

I ride motorbikes because they're exciting but there's a chance I could be turned into a greasy streak in the road, will that stop me riding a motorbike? will it fook

I agree to a certain extent, life is too short. However it's shocking how few people on fab seem to know about this link, me included until today

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"I get my cervical smears regularly, I get my GUM check ups regularly, I use condoms. There's nothing more I can do to protect myself so I don't really get too worried.

More likely to get hit by a bus on the way to a meet knowing my luck.

I guess my friend was unlucky then but it's still important that people are aware of the risk"

Unfortunately its not always our fault. I started getting smears at 18, as did everyone else my age back then. I couldn't understand why Jade Goody wasn't diagnosed with cervical cancer until it was way too late for her until someone told me they changed the age of starting cervical smears to above 30

. It's now been reduced to 26 (I think) so better than it was but not good enough for the younger women who might be prone.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I get my cervical smears regularly, I get my GUM check ups regularly, I use condoms. There's nothing more I can do to protect myself so I don't really get too worried.

More likely to get hit by a bus on the way to a meet knowing my luck.

I guess my friend was unlucky then but it's still important that people are aware of the risk

. It's now been reduced to 26 (I think) so better than it was but not good enough for the younger women who might be prone."

There's seems to be a thought that sneers should start as soon as a girl becomes sexually active

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I get my cervical smears regularly, I get my GUM check ups regularly, I use condoms. There's nothing more I can do to protect myself so I don't really get too worried.

More likely to get hit by a bus on the way to a meet knowing my luck."

Always cross on crossings

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

No, I don't worry about it.

I get regular smears and other appropriate check-ups.

If I worried about everything that could kill me, I'd hide in a bunker 24/7 and never do anything. And even then I could still develop cancer or a myriad of other illnesses and conditions.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"I get my cervical smears regularly, I get my GUM check ups regularly, I use condoms. There's nothing more I can do to protect myself so I don't really get too worried.

More likely to get hit by a bus on the way to a meet knowing my luck.

Always cross on crossings

Bloody drivers round here speed up when they see you on a zebra crossing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No, I don't worry about it.

I get regular smears and other appropriate check-ups.

If I worried about everything that could kill me, I'd hide in a bunker 24/7 and never do anything. And even then I could still develop cancer or a myriad of other illnesses and conditions. "

Or run out of oxygen /food ect lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I get my cervical smears regularly, I get my GUM check ups regularly, I use condoms. There's nothing more I can do to protect myself so I don't really get too worried.

More likely to get hit by a bus on the way to a meet knowing my luck.

Always cross on crossings

Bloody drivers round here speed up when they see you on a zebra crossing.

They probably see you then there telescopic "third middle" leg push down on the excelerator lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its never worried me, I think I would of got it by now because of what I got up to when I was a teenager, that was when there was no herpes or hiv around like there is now.

I do know of a lot of women who have got or died from cervical cancer who were married and had kids, I think having kids can cause it because after you have had a baby you have to have a smear test and quite a few women find out they have it then, same as breast cancer. I always have all the test done that are available, lucky so far.

Cancer is quite a common illness though and not something that's easily avoidable.

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

Even Nunns get cancer .... And men are encouraged to have a healthy regular sex life to help reduce risks of prostate cancer ...

Every thing we do is a risk one way or another. We are all gonna Shift off this mortal coil one day... And i for one intend to live doing the things I enjoy doing. Taking reasonable steps to do as safely as possible and have regular health checks/ smears etc etc . So No ... This wouldn't make me change ...

( mrs )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No it don't lol. I have fucked loads already and very varied too

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By *hetalkingstoveMan
over a year ago

London

It might have been that which caused the cancer in the OPs friend, but not necessarily. Hope the doctor didn't tell her it was definitely that!

There's been a story this week saying that getting cancer or not is largely due to luck, albeit health plays a part.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blimey even going for a drink is not Safe because of alcohol content..

The amount we drink in this country on A daily basis its a wonder we,re not Dropping down like nine pins I,ll take My chances here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It might have been that which caused the cancer in the OPs friend, but not necessarily. Hope the doctor didn't tell her it was definitely that!

There's been a story this week saying that getting cancer or not is largely due to luck, albeit health plays a part."

If getting cancer is down to bad luck then the whole world is getting unluckier every year for the last 20 years

I think it's such a complex set of issues from diet, environmental issues, plastics, lack of exercise, lack of proper cooking ect but at the end of the day the average life expectancy is going upwards and children born today are extremely likely to reach 90-100

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

"Like most here, we will protect ourselves as much as possible but sometimes, shit just happens.

The only true safe sex is no sex. There are many triggers that cause some cancers, does that mean we should stop doing anything that 'may' cause an illness? Of course not.

I ride motorbikes because they're exciting but there's a chance I could be turned into a greasy streak in the road, will that stop me riding a motorbike? will it fook

I agree to a certain extent, life is too short. However it's shocking how few people on fab seem to know about this link, me included until today"

Obviously you will now be changing your username then?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Like most here, we will protect ourselves as much as possible but sometimes, shit just happens.

The only true safe sex is no sex. There are many triggers that cause some cancers, does that mean we should stop doing anything that 'may' cause an illness? Of course not.

I ride motorbikes because they're exciting but there's a chance I could be turned into a greasy streak in the road, will that stop me riding a motorbike? will it fook

No this is not me saying I or anyone else should change there ways it's just that it shocked me or it's surprising that it's not more commonly known

I will still love teasing and licking a smooth juicy pussy however I will make sure I have regular GUM swaps done, otherwise you can pass the HPV virus on to woman when your performing oral on them and the last thing I would wanna do is increase a woman's chance of getting cervical cancer

I agree to a certain extent, life is too short. However it's shocking how few people on fab seem to know about this link, me included until today

Obviously you will now be changing your username then?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It seems to be a much higher risk because of unprotected oral sex

How can unprotected oral sex set off cervical cancer?

Nor have I. Is the risk less if you have only one partner recently and they have only met you? Im probably being naive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dental dammed if you do, dental dammed if you dont

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It seems to be a much higher risk because of unprotected oral sex

How can unprotected oral sex set off cervical cancer?

Nor have I. Is the risk less if you have only one partner recently and they have only met you? Im probably being naive

Yes I presume the risk would be very low

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

This post wasn't meant to frighten anyone, but it does seem relevant

It's good to be informed of the risks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It seems to be a much higher risk because of unprotected oral sex

How can unprotected oral sex set off cervical cancer?

Nor have I. Is the risk less if you have only one partner recently and they have only met you? Im probably being naive

Yes I presume the risk would be very low"

Thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just found out that a friend of mine may well have cervical cancer possible because of her varied sex life.

Does this worry any people on fab"

No. I don't know her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just found out that a friend of mine may well have cervical cancer possible because of her varied sex life.

Does this worry any people on fab

No. I don't know her

On a more serious note, I hope she wins the battle ahead x

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By *lan43sumMan
over a year ago

Leicester

If only science could come up with barriers that are undetectable when used for oral. Condoms in penetration are virtually undetectable - except for the lack of creampie. Those dental damms do take away the tongue on pussy sensations although the lady might well still enjoy?

Are there any condoms which really have no taste? Latex and lube on condoms must be an acquired taste for the ladies giving "safe" blowjobs.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just found out that a friend of mine may well have cervical cancer possible because of her varied sex life.

Does this worry any people on fab

No. I don't know her

On a more serious note, I hope she wins the battle ahead x"

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sad news. Have regular smears. I saw a news item recently that said 2 thirds of cancer isn't caused by diet,lifestyle etc but by gene mutations. Why they mutate I didn't find out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An article about it. Doesn't mention cervical cancer specifically which is said to be caused by the hpv,transmittable by hands as well as penis

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/science/science-news/11320497/Most-cancers-are-caused-by-bad-luck-not-genes-or-lifestyle-say-scientists.htmlhttp://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/science/science-news/11320497/Most-cancers-are-caused-by-bad-luck-not-genes-or-lifestyle-say-scientists.html

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