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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If someone answers your message and starts a conversation it usually means they are interested right??iv just been chatting to a woman for 2 days and now she says she doesnt fancy me.very frustrating indeed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not necessarily...she may just have been polite and answered...better you know now that weeks or months down the line or after having met x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You won't get those days back either.

You should definitely tell her that!

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

it happens..

move on..

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT

Nope. I answer all my mail and I'm never interested in anyone, in terms of sex. Interested in them as people only.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think that chatting is a sign of interest at all, besides the obvious reason for being on here loads are also here to make friends aswell as hook up

Hex

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"it happens..

move on.."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You won't get those days back either.

You should definitely tell her that!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You won't get those days back either.

You should definitely tell her that!

"

I lol'd upon writing it

Sad little man I am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She may have liked you but something you said put her off.

Unless it was sex chat, in which case 'she' was probably a he.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"If someone answers your message and starts a conversation it usually means they are interested right??iv just been chatting to a woman for 2 days and now she says she doesnt fancy me.very frustrating indeed"

It means they are interested inntalking with you not having sex

In my book, swinging is as much social as it is sex so either or both is good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"not necessarily...she may just have been polite and answered...better you know now that weeks or months down the line or after having met x"

Totally agree with this.

I replied to a message on POF once out of politeness and ended up exchanging many messages. I actually felt a bit rotten telling her that she wasn't what I was looking for, but rather that than string her along under false pretenses.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You won't get those days back either.

You should definitely tell her that!"

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"If someone answers your message and starts a conversation it usually means they are interested right??iv just been chatting to a woman for 2 days and now she says she doesnt fancy me.very frustrating indeed"

No. You can't assume she fancies you. You may have looked interesting and she was trying to work out through messaging if she might fancy you. She came to the conclusion that she didn't in the end.

That's not a reflection on you. It is how she feels.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yer mate, maybe all women and men should clearly state at the beginning of the conversation that you will or will not get the chance of shagging me. fuck politeness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I

Yes it may be a sex site, but has anyone ever considered people can also enjoy a conversation...? :s

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

saints preserve us .. if women dont answer every message that falls in their inbox ..they are 'rude' ..if they answer they are 'interested' ...and when two days later they havent jumped on your cock they are timewasters !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If someone answers your message and starts a conversation it usually means they are interested right??iv just been chatting to a woman for 2 days and now she says she doesnt fancy me.very frustrating indeed"

It just means they are polite. Many many men are on here complaining they don't even get a reply!

I have people on my friends list who are great to chat with, doesn't mean we will end up intimate.

Unless of course Steve turns me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"saints preserve us .. if women dont answer every message that falls in their inbox ..they are 'rude' ..if they answer they are 'interested' ...and when two days later they havent jumped on your cock they are timewasters ! "

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