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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How soon in to chatting with someone would you ask for face pic's? We'd rather see them early on..

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

As mine are on display anyway, I find that most folk just send me theirs without me having to ask

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Within the first couple of messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How soon in to chatting with someone would you ask for face pic's? We'd rather see them early on.."

Yes please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How soon in to chatting with someone would you ask for face pic's? We'd rather see them early on.."

Straight away if they aont local to me and asap if i realise i dont know them if they are local

what about you guys

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Pretty soon, as it can be damnably awkward when they drop into your inbox a moustache that makes them look like a Mexican Bandit

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By *o30Woman
over a year ago

Lincoln


"Within the first couple of messages. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we initiate contact then we send one with the first message. We'd hope to receive one with a message from someone we'd not spoke to before. It doesn't always happen though, within the first few messages is preferable.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We asked after chatting for a few days & got told we were being a bit forward..lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually send one with the first message too, usually helps to get a response - depending on the eyesight of the person who sees it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We asked after chatting for a few days & got told we were being a bit forward..lol

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Perfectly reasonable to ask

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually wait to piggyback onto the FPF thread to send my mugshot!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If there's no attraction no point chatting..after all this is a swinging site not friend finder

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"If there's no attraction no point chatting..after all this is a swinging site not friend finder"

Depends.

If it's just chat/banter/forum related? I don't give a monkeys about swapping pics.

If it's related to a forthcoming event/club trip? There's no immediate rush.

If it's related to a potential meet? Relatively soon.

So depends entirely in the circumstances. There are people I've been chatting to for years I could be stood next to in a lift and wouldn't have a clue!

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First message as attraction is key.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Certainly within first few posts. I find it suspicious if they don't have any or make up excuses like the classic "I cant because of my job"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If there's no attraction no point chatting..after all this is a swinging site not friend finder

Depends.

If it's just chat/banter/forum related? I don't give a monkeys about swapping pics.

If it's related to a forthcoming event/club trip? There's no immediate rush.

If it's related to a potential meet? Relatively soon.

So depends entirely in the circumstances. There are people I've been chatting to for years I could be stood next to in a lift and wouldn't have a clue!

A"

I'm standing behind you

Gimp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"First message as attraction is key."

yeap

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"If there's no attraction no point chatting..after all this is a swinging site not friend finder

Depends.

If it's just chat/banter/forum related? I don't give a monkeys about swapping pics.

If it's related to a forthcoming event/club trip? There's no immediate rush.

If it's related to a potential meet? Relatively soon.

So depends entirely in the circumstances. There are people I've been chatting to for years I could be stood next to in a lift and wouldn't have a clue!

A

I'm standing behind you

Gimp "

You must be cold!!

I'm leaning on the fridge!

A

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)


"Pretty soon, as it can be damnably awkward when they drop into your inbox a moustache that makes them look like a Mexican Bandit "

The one day I chose not to wax and you just can't let it lie...

OP, fairly soon as I like to know what people look like, especially as I have a social first - I prefer to know what their face looks like as thats what I'll see having coffee - not their knob!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How soon in to chatting with someone would you ask for face pic's? We'd rather see them early on..

Straight away if they aont local to me and asap if i realise i dont know them if they are local

what about you guys"

Exactly the same as this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If there's no attraction no point chatting..after all this is a swinging site not friend finder

Depends.

If it's just chat/banter/forum related? I don't give a monkeys about swapping pics.

If it's related to a forthcoming event/club trip? There's no immediate rush.

If it's related to a potential meet? Relatively soon.

So depends entirely in the circumstances. There are people I've been chatting to for years I could be stood next to in a lift and wouldn't have a clue!

A

I'm standing behind you

Gimp

You must be cold!!

I'm leaning on the fridge!

A"

Theres no Marmite in here

Gimp

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)


"If there's no attraction no point chatting..after all this is a swinging site not friend finder

Depends.

If it's just chat/banter/forum related? I don't give a monkeys about swapping pics.

If it's related to a forthcoming event/club trip? There's no immediate rush.

If it's related to a potential meet? Relatively soon.

So depends entirely in the circumstances. There are people I've been chatting to for years I could be stood next to in a lift and wouldn't have a clue!

A

I'm standing behind you

Gimp "

I'm behind you but I'm a so you won't see me...

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By *DONIS1775Man
over a year ago

PONTIAC

If I initiate the message or contact I'll send my picture along with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I show my face all the time,so expect a face pic on first message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Within the first couple of messages, no point carrying on if there's no physical attraction, unless it's pre-agreed to use blindfolds

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By *ipsTeaserCouple
over a year ago

here and there, thereabouts

I actually don't show facepics.

So far, we have not encountered any issues from it.

My logic being; if I like them enough to be chatting about meeting them, i am likely to meet them for a social at which point they could of course run screaming if iam not their type... But hopefully it'd be a good chat even if nothing more came of it and we weren't attracted.

People I chat in general to don't need a pic necessarily.

I would consider giving it out for example if there was large distance to travel on either side between meets.

I think for me it really depends on the person asking, too.

Bugs is more relaxed about showing his, but hasn't yet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Within the first couple of messages, no point carrying on if there's no physical attraction, unless it's pre-agreed to use blindfolds"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a person cant show face or go on cam n show face,,,forget it your wasting everyones time including yer own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have learnt if they're not exchanged early on it can be a waste of time chatting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I asked one "lady" after about 10 messages and got blocked!!

Now that either tells me I'm being unreasonable forward, she's married and doesn't send face pics, not interested in me or its a 30 stone hairy lorry driving bloke passing himself off as a woman and gets off on messaging blokes!!!

To be honest if you can't exchange a face pic after half a dozen messages then 9/10 they are wasting your time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was looking, I wouldn't reply to anybody if they didn't have a public face pic or attach one. It was a good way to filter the messages worth responding to as it was impossible to answer them all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If there's no attraction no point chatting..after all this is a swinging site not friend finder"

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By *thletic Fella!!Man
over a year ago

Wigan

I normally get asked for one in their 1st message.

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