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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why do the men have to do the first messge on here and do the invites. Does the girls not do the firist messge for the chat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both answer messages, mr fiddle likes to out the fakes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They don't need to cos they get swamped with messages. I cant remember the time I ever had a fancy a fuck msgs here in the yearssssssssssss I been here from a woman lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll admit I've only sent one first message and I am happy I did so. To answer your question ladies get so many finding time to look can be difficult.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They don't need to cos they get swamped with messages. I cant remember the time I ever had a fancy a fuck msgs here in the yearssssssssssss I been here from a woman lol "

There you go then, you should have replied to mine. lol

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I would if I was interested, if more men made more of an effort with profile text and pics, they wouldn't moan so much on the forums!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do the men have to do the first messge on here and do the invites. Does the girls not do the firist messge for the chat."

I do interpretative dance and send smoke signals.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No fake here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I see a hottie on the forums I will message them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They don't need to cos they get swamped with messages. I cant remember the time I ever had a fancy a fuck msgs here in the yearssssssssssss I been here from a woman lol

There you go then, you should have replied to mine. lol "
lol yes, good one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've sent first messages before. I guess it depends if you prefer being hunted or doing the hunting !!

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By *mallteaserWoman
over a year ago

Central

I send the first message, it doesn't bother me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No fake here"

No but a close up of your knob is not gonna get you far.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only sent 3 first messages, it's laziness on my part

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By *xxmale76xxxMan
over a year ago

inverness


"I would if I was interested, if more men made more of an effort with profile text and pics, they wouldn't moan so much on the forums! "
so far I have been successful. Most of the time I get a reply, even if it's a polite no thank you. I guess you get out what you put in!

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

In my experience, quite a lot do send the first message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The quantity of single males far out number the quality. After wading my way through endless one line profiles and sad cock shots there's really no one (in my area) left to message.

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By *ipsTeaserCouple
over a year ago

here and there, thereabouts


"We both answer messages, mr fiddle likes to out the fakes "

What criteria do you use to them out? Really curious it's such a minefield on here for that.

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

I often send first messages. Many guys seem surprised but happy so it can't happen that much, it's a shame that more girls don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It does happen occasionally.

I've had one or two, but as has been said, they generally don't have the time or the need to do so as they are often swamped with messages themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would if I was interested, if more men made more of an effort with profile text and pics, they wouldn't moan so much on the forums! "

You'll notice I'm not moaning lol....(subtle look at my profile plug)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've sent a few but not many... I tend to wink more than I message though as most times there's little text in the profile to craft a message from our know if I'd be what they were after

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Were my wink

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By *moothies.Couple
over a year ago

Woodthorpe

I message people that take my fancy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And if ever there was a time where proof were needed, I have just received a message.

Happy days!

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