FabSwingers.com forum: pic vs reality experience...

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We all like looking at pics but just wondering what's your best / worst pic to reality experience?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

I had a guy come round and his pics were way off base! A lot older and alot bigger...bugger broke my bed

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

I once visited a local couple, where photos of the lady had been very misleading indeed and nothing like her; she was only what could be described as mountainous ...with poor hygiene and a foul mouth.

I made my excuses and left rapidly.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

mostly we have been pleasantly surprised. We have on another site, met a gent who was considerably older than his picture, he sent a snap of him with glossy black hair and turned up completely grey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never been disappointed. Everyone has always looked even more attractive in person.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

I insist on a conversation on Skype webcam; no surprises then

Or meet in a club; then it is a mixed bag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have seen pics that were, to say the least, unflattering, only to meet the person at a social to see that they were actually very attractive. Some people are just not very photogenic!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One girl came to my hotel room...was nothing like the photo, she had had been working all day and had not washed, her finger nails were filthy and she tramped mud all over the carpet it was a horrible experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One girl came to my hotel room...was nothing like the photo, she had had been working all day and had not washed, her finger nails were filthy and she tramped mud all over the carpet it was a horrible experience.

please tell me you refused any advances she made

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By *afadaoMan
over a year ago

Staines

I met a good looking lady with a sensational figure. Not very smiley in photos though.

Discovered why upon meeting - black teeth. I made some rubbish excuse and left.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only 1 person didn't match their pictures, and that was a single guy years ago!

Have to say that everyone else that we have met have been just like or even better than their pictures

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most people have been better looking than their photos. I'm the opposite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never been disappointed. Everyone has always looked even more attractive in person.

Yep, my experience too

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By *ent57Man
over a year ago

... where the streets have no name!

"Most people have been better looking than their photos. I'm the opposite."

I don't believe that for a moment!

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

"mostly we have been pleasantly surprised. We have on another site, met a gent who was considerably older than his picture, he sent a snap of him with glossy black hair and turned up completely grey

I think I met this guy too!! Must have been 15 years before the pic I got!

Also met a guy who weighed probably 5 stone more than his pics

But then met another guy who takes awful pics but really cute in person

Pics can be misleading either way

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By *ent57Man
over a year ago

... where the streets have no name!

"mostly we have been pleasantly surprised. We have on another site, met a gent who was considerably older than his picture, he sent a snap of him with glossy black hair and turned up completely grey

I think I met this guy too!! Must have been 15 years before the pic I got!

Also met a guy who weighed probably 5 stone more than his pics

But then met another guy who takes awful pics but really cute in person

Pics can be misleading either way"

Had a similar experience with a lady who I met ... I don't know who the pics were of... perhaps her... but 15 years and 5 stone earlier... I felt as if I'd been conned!

But agree that face pics are deceiving ... mines not on here cos I look sooooo serious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only one guy I met was a dissapointment in the flesh,his pics were nice but he had bad breath, and an even worse attitude.

Was quickest drink ever!

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By *icky999Man
over a year ago

warrington

Im not very photogenic so what you get in theflesh us a bruccie bonus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only had one person who has looked fairly worse in her pictures, was at a group social though so wasn't a major deal, we weren't potentially going to play.

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT

"We all like looking at pics but just wondering what's your best / worst pic to reality experience?

On a dating site I used to use I met a guy who had put on at least 10stone since his pics were taken...I made my excuses.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

"We all like looking at pics but just wondering what's your best / worst pic to reality experience?

Once met a woman who's pictures showed her as white. I turned up at her doorstep, and she's black - have to say I wondered if I had the right house.

Had another who's pictures we're extremely posed - only to meet them, and be greeted at the door by a guy in a wife beater! I shit you not !

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

All of our photos are very recent and although we try to make them as sensuous and erotic as we can they are honest representations of us (as our veris show). We don't think that anyone has been disappointed when they have met us, but would fully understand if we didn't meet their particular expectations. We cant understand why anyone would purposely be dishonest with their photographs. Surely any dishonesty will be picked up at the first meet and be a waste of everyone's time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my early naïve days I trusted a photo.....

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

"Most people have been better looking than their photos. I'm the opposite."

Me too. I warn people of this in advance as well before I meet them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most people have been better looking than their photos. I'm the opposite."
snap but I do warn people first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm always disappointed when I take the ready meal out of the box.

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By *overs14Couple
over a year ago

norwich

"Never been disappointed. Everyone has always looked even more attractive in person.

Same, so far.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never been disappointed. Everyone has always looked even more attractive in person.

Same, so far."

Same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never been disappointed. Everyone has always looked even more attractive in person.

Same, so far.

Same here"

I guess I have been lucky

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I have found that people are better in the flesh and have rarely been disappointed, hope they felt the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never been disappointed. Everyone has always looked even more attractive in person.

+1 bar one man who didn't look quite as good as in his pics but nothing that major I wanted to do a runner at the first opportunity I got! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never seen a fanny I didn't fancy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most people have been better looking than their photos. I'm the opposite.

Me too. I warn people of this in advance as well before I meet them.

Yup, ditto although they always think it's fishing for compliments

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm always sold on someone's character . Looks are a bonus if they are better than the pics . I never go to a meet expecting to be bowled over by looks . It's not why I swing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hence why we always Do socials first. That way all parties have the chance to back out. I think I take a good photo and worry I don't look as good in the flesh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most people have been better looking than their photos. I'm the opposite."

...Stop being silly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i met a guy for a social meet from a different site looked really nice from his pic and usually i have a great gut instinct i wasnt entirely sure but thought id go ahead with it... saw him pulling up in his car and thought oh no how can i get out of this.. he was about 3 stone heavier with a big huge beard... anyway we chatted but there just wasnt that spark so i made an excuse that i had a headache and he left but before doing so he asked me for a kiss.. i was near crying but felt bad so i gave him a peck to which he came at me full on tongue the lot

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over a year ago

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS
over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

im not too botherd by looks as i dont actually fancy guys anyway. as long as theyre clean with a working cock im happy.tho i do ,of course , want to see who im meeting.

however.. some have turned up and theyve been surprisingly fat ,a big turn off 4 me . no mention of it in their profile so now i have to ask outright if im not sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Went on a social a little while ago, pics were exchanged prior to meeting mine all within the last few months I said. He sent me a pic of face then a body pic hmmm ok not my usual type but give guy a chance, friendly x polite. Turned up to meet him to be greeted by an old duffer! When I picked my jaw up from the floor and managed to utter the words 'your not @#@#@#'! He replies yes I am, he then says pics I sent u are 20 yrs old x I'm sorry I made a typing error I'm actually 68! Not 49 !!! Well this angel fluttered her wings back on the next train to the Wirral. ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do worry that my pics might over flatter me, after all no one would post a pic of themselves that they thought was unflattering. That's more of a confidence thing though. However I've never been disappointed with anyone I've met, although one guy didn't look much like his pic but everyone else has been way better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im not very photogenic so what you get in theflesh us a bruccie bonus

Nor am I, I take a terrible pic, everyone I meet tells me I look better in real life

I've met a few guys who don't quite look like their pics none that have been overly bad though, like 20 years old or 10 stone ago just sometimes in a different light people look different

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By *illyjohnyCouple
over a year ago

brighton

"All of our photos are very recent and although we try to make them as sensuous and erotic as we can they are honest representations of us (as our veris show). We don't think that anyone has been disappointed when they have met us, but would fully understand if we didn't meet their particular expectations. We cant understand why anyone would purposely be dishonest with their photographs. Surely any dishonesty will be picked up at the first meet and be a waste of everyone's time."
Because they are hoping no one will notice the difference and they`ll think oh well we`re here now so lets just get on with it. We have had a couple of meets where the guys looked nothing like their pics just told them straight that they need to update their pics and said goodbye

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By *errynjuneCouple
over a year ago

Barnsley

What you mean to tell us pics are not 100% reliable.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Went on a social a little while ago, pics were exchanged prior to meeting mine all within the last few months I said. He sent me a pic of face then a body pic hmmm ok not my usual type but give guy a chance, friendly x polite. Turned up to meet him to be greeted by an old duffer! When I picked my jaw up from the floor and managed to utter the words 'your not @#@#@#'! He replies yes I am, he then says pics I sent u are 20 yrs old x I'm sorry I made a typing error I'm actually 68! Not 49 !!! Well this angel fluttered her wings back on the next train to the Wirral. .... "

What a nightmare

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been amazingly lucky: the ladies I've met from Fab are really pretty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the biggest fraud was a guy that had a picture of a ripped 6 pack and a Nice big cock. The guy turned up was 20 years older and had a scar on his tummy so clearly he'd used someone else's picture.

Luckily for him he was tooled up with some nice massage oils and Mrs N needed some extra cock anyway so he got away with it. That was definitely his lucky day LOL.

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