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By *eknowwhatwewant OP Couple
over a year ago

warrington

is it wrong to invite a married man to a hotel meet if hes playing behind his wifes back?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on your own morals

It's wrong in my opinion.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Better than inviting him home and finding a deranged bunny boiler on your doorstep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask his wife

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think the choice of venue will be uppermost in peoples thoughts when answering your query ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes, not so bad if he asks you I suppose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't but whatever floats your boat lol

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By *eknowwhatwewant OP Couple
over a year ago

warrington

"Better than inviting him home and finding a deranged bunny boiler on your doorstep

hahaha good point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on your morals.

For us personally no chance we'd knowingly play with someone who was cheating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ask his wife

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, don't you know what you want ?! I wouldn't entertain the idea of meeting a married woman behind her other halves back, way too much hassle if found out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on your own opinions and morals doesn't it! It wouldn't be for us though, last thing we want is an upset wife wanting answers.

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By *ango0505Woman
over a year ago

Dumfries

Only you can truly answer this question but by even asking, means your questioning yourself x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends on your own morals

It's wrong in my opinion. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"is it wrong to invite a married man to a hotel meet if hes playing behind his wifes back?

As with all these things it comes to personal choice. You have the information and it doesn't really matter what anyone on this forum thinks. However as you put it out here then it is reasonable to summize that you have doubts yourself, in which case I'd say don't do it. Always be true to you and your thoughts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We wouldn't even entertain the idea. Especially when there are so many hot single men on here. Only you can decide though.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Not for me, but if your ok with it, then go for it. I can live with it

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By *ondcpl4meetCouple
over a year ago

North of the river

"is it wrong to invite a married man to a hotel meet if hes playing behind his wifes back?

If you have to ask, then you already know the answer.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes that's fine, its just a fuck lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't understand why people need to ask the question in the 1st place.

Your user name is '_eknowwhatwewant' so just crack on with what you want and not what a bunch of random strangers advise.

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By *overs14Couple
over a year ago

norwich

Not that we meet single men but if we did then I wouldn't meet married ones if their wife didn't know. Only because I know how I'd feel if my hubby was doing that behind my back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Better than inviting him home and finding a deranged bunny boiler on your doorstep

Plus, not good thing to ask on the forums. The cheating threads have been done to death!

Portia

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well you have a choice ....... and only you can make that .. Better to be told and him being open about being married then finding out after. So the choice is yours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We won't knowingly play with singles that are playing away m or f

Don't consider it as nsa

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"is it wrong to invite a married man to a hotel meet if hes playing behind his wifes back?

Some people believe that the responsibility lies solely with the person playing behind their partners back.

Some people believe that aiding and abetting makes you just as guilty.

When it comes down to it it's your decision but is he so special that you can't find a single man?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Better than inviting him home and finding a deranged bunny boiler on your doorstep

I'll go with that.........wont meet attached men as im not about to go for round two.x

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall

The next thread that the OP is likely to post is "why do wronged wives punch so hard when they catch you fucking their husband" or " whats a good cure for a black eye?"

If he cheats on his wife, it's his fault.....if you know he's cheating then you are just as bad as him imo.

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By *isa 59Woman
over a year ago

Newcastle

"is it wrong to invite a married man to a hotel meet if hes playing behind his wifes back?

Some people believe that the responsibility lies solely with the person playing behind their partners back.

Some people believe that aiding and abetting makes you just as guilty.

When it comes down to it it's your decision but is he so special that you can't find a single man?"

How many of the single men on here are truly single though?

If you were playing in a club would you ask if he was single before playing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How many of the single men on here are truly single though?

If you were playing in a club would you ask if he was single before playing?"

So true

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"is it wrong to invite a married man to a hotel meet if hes playing behind his wifes back?

Some people believe that the responsibility lies solely with the person playing behind their partners back.

Some people believe that aiding and abetting makes you just as guilty.

When it comes down to it it's your decision but is he so special that you can't find a single man?

How many of the single men on here are truly single though?

If you were playing in a club would you ask if he was single before playing?"

We don't play in clubs.

I have no idea how many of the single men are genuinely single....I was just answering the question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"is it wrong to invite a married man to a hotel meet if hes playing behind his wifes back?

Yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

'Do unto others as you would have them do unto you'

So if that means you would be happy for your partner to deceive you and play with someone else behind your back, go ahead

crystal

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Do I care if married men or woman play behind their loved ones back: no, not a jot.

Do I think it is wrong: Yes.

I never understand the need to ask, or seek justification,.. Just do it.

You are adults.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do I care if married men or woman play behind their loved ones back: no, not a jot.

Do I think it is wrong: Yes.

I never understand the need to ask, or seek justification,.. Just do it.

You are adults.

Yes we re adults so discussion is allowed

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"Do I care if married men or woman play behind their loved ones back: no, not a jot.

Do I think it is wrong: Yes.

I never understand the need to ask, or seek justification,.. Just do it.

You are adults.

Yes we re adults so discussion is allowed

So just do it and cause as little drama as possible!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are not, and cannot be responsible for another person's fidelity. Ultimately it's none of your freaking business.

You only have to decide if including those people who are playing without consent is something you are interested in, or not. And that is a decision only you can make?

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By *andixxxMan
over a year ago

Gloucester

"is it wrong to invite a married man to a hotel meet if hes playing behind his wifes back?

There are two sides to every story,so would therefore never judge a marriedan being on fab and want to meet! Who is to say that his wife isn't doing exactly the same thing without his knowledge?? The perception of right and wrong is a mere social construct,therefore just live and let live and do whatever makes you happy!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We meet married or single men but prefer married ones as far less demanding and easier to get along with usually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"is it wrong to invite a married man to a hotel meet if hes playing behind his wifes back?

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would you like it if your partner did it to you ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are two sides to every story, So would therefore never judge a married Man/Woman being on fab and want to meet! Who is to say that the wife/husband isn't doing exactly the same thing without their knowledge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think if they would meet a married woman, the _iews here would be diferent lol.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I think if they would meet a married woman, the _iews here would be diferent lol."

from some they would be but not all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think if they would meet a married woman, the _iews here would be diferent lol.

from some they would be but not all

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That's right some

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as no ones at risk of getting hurt its all good fun

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

An interesting on........

My thought is that whilst your not cheating yourself you are helping him to facilitate the cheating...it is a bit grey

Though like a lot of peopke said how many blokes are properly single / and don't tell their partners

Ps I am single

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"I don't understand why people need to ask the question in the 1st place.

Your user name is '_eknowwhatwewant' so just crack on with what you want and not what a bunch of random strangers advise."

Simply: this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As long as no ones at risk of getting hurt its all good fun

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How can there be no risk of anyone getting hurt ? You have obviously never been cheated on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been cheated on and I am married, there are reasons I'm on here and you should never judge the book by the 'married' cover

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By *aymackCouple
over a year ago

manchester

"As long as no ones at risk of getting hurt its all good fun

How can there be no risk of anyone getting hurt ? You have obviously never been cheated on "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The next thread that the OP is likely to post is "why do wronged wives punch so hard when they catch you fucking their husband" or " whats a good cure for a black eye?"

If he cheats on his wife, it's his fault.....if you know he's cheating then you are just as bad as him imo."
hung drawn and quartered lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

'How many of the single men on here are truly single though?'

I am!

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

If you were playing in a club would you ask if he was single before playing?"

proud to say that i have asked this of couples and declined invites to play if one of them is playing way.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have been cheated on and I am married, there are reasons I'm on here and you should never judge the book by the 'married' cover"

So you reckon revenge shagging is ok?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you were playing in a club would you ask if he was single before playing?

proud to say that i have asked this of couples and declined invites to play if one of them is playing way..... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes without a shadow of doubt..what if it were your husband doing it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As long as no ones at risk of getting hurt its all good fun

How can there be no risk of anyone getting hurt ? You have obviously never been cheated on "

Yes I have that's how we ended up swinging realised we both had allowed our relationship to go stale what I meant was if everyone is aware then nobody is being deceived

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have been cheated on and I am married, there are reasons I'm on here and you should never judge the book by the 'married' cover"
well if you have been cheated on you should know the pain and misery it causes. So why would you want to do that to someone else ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have been cheated on and I am married, there are reasons I'm on here and you should never judge the book by the 'married' cover

So you reckon revenge shagging is ok? "

No it was not by my current wife, but an ex and my so called best friend.

My wife and I are happy in every way other than sex for reasons that have nothing to do with anyone here.

I have not said I am cheating that is your perspective.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As long as no ones at risk of getting hurt its all good fun

How can there be no risk of anyone getting hurt ? You have obviously never been cheated on

Yes I have that's how we ended up swinging realised we both had allowed our relationship to go stale what I meant was if everyone is aware then nobody is being deceived

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read the ops post !!! Someone is been deceived

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have been cheated on and I am married, there are reasons I'm on here and you should never judge the book by the 'married' cover

So you reckon revenge shagging is ok?

No it was not by my current wife, but an ex and my so called best friend.

My wife and I are happy in every way other than sex for reasons that have nothing to do with anyone here.

I have not said I am cheating that is your perspective."
if your wife knows then you are not cheating. If she does not know . You are. Simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have been cheated on and I am married, there are reasons I'm on here and you should never judge the book by the 'married' cover

So you reckon revenge shagging is ok?

No it was not by my current wife, but an ex and my so called best friend.

My wife and I are happy in every way other than sex for reasons that have nothing to do with anyone here.

I have not said I am cheating that is your perspective. if your wife knows then you are not cheating. If she does not know . You are. Simples "

Exactly

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"As long as no ones at risk of getting hurt its all good fun

How can there be no risk of anyone getting hurt ? You have obviously never been cheated on

Yes I have that's how we ended up swinging realised we both had allowed our relationship to go stale what I meant was if everyone is aware then nobody is being deceived

But someone is being deceived.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"is it wrong to invite a married man to a hotel meet if hes playing behind his wifes back?

I'll addddress this to the female of the OP couple- would you want someone inviting your hubby to a hotel meet without your knowledge,if not,then should be a guide to help you decide

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As long as no ones at risk of getting hurt its all good fun

How can there be no risk of anyone getting hurt ? You have obviously never been cheated on

Yes I have that's how we ended up swinging realised we both had allowed our relationship to go stale what I meant was if everyone is aware then nobody is being deceived

But someone is being deceived. "

Who ?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"As long as no ones at risk of getting hurt its all good fun

How can there be no risk of anyone getting hurt ? You have obviously never been cheated on

Yes I have that's how we ended up swinging realised we both had allowed our relationship to go stale what I meant was if everyone is aware then nobody is being deceived

But someone is being deceived.

Who ?"

If it goes ahead the man's wife. I should have said potentially.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No matter what stance or _iew you take on it,, if your patner whether male or female dosent know,.... its cheating full stop, for whatever reason you may perceive you have a good reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

id avoid any married guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As long as no ones at risk of getting hurt its all good fun

How can there be no risk of anyone getting hurt ? You have obviously never been cheated on

Yes I have that's how we ended up swinging realised we both had allowed our relationship to go stale what I meant was if everyone is aware then nobody is being deceived

But someone is being deceived.

Who ?

If it goes ahead the man's wife. I should have said potentially."
by everyone I meant including the mans wife sorry may be a bit vague

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will definitely not meet anyone playing away ever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I will definitely not meet anyone playing away ever "

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

"is it wrong to invite a married man to a hotel meet if hes playing behind his wifes back?

Ask yourself. Would you be happy with it if your partner met someone and never told you. Besides the morality what about the fact they chose to exclude you why would you exclude your partner.? Why even have a partner in that case?

It also kinda opens up if they hide this will they hide gambling debts / credit card bills / alcoholic tendencies / etc

If he will cheat on his wife is he likely to be as up front about his sexual health with 2 strangers he cares even less for?

Just A few thoughts.

Besides plenty of wives into watching orr cuckqueaning.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"is it wrong to invite a married man to a hotel meet if hes playing behind his wifes back?

It also kinda opens up if they hide this will they hide gambling debts / credit card bills / alcoholic tendencies / etc

If he will cheat on his wife is he likely to be as up front about his sexual health with 2 strangers he cares even less for?

Just A few thoughts.

Besides plenty of wives into watching orr cuckqueaning."

Cuckqueening lol like the sound of that

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By *isa 59Woman
over a year ago

Newcastle

If you were playing in a club would you ask if he was single before playing?

proud to say that i have asked this of couples and declined invites to play if one of them is playing way.....

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

Morally, yes.

The fact you feel the need to ask says it all really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"is it wrong to invite a married man to a hotel meet if hes playing behind his wifes back?

Serms to me like you just posted this to piss people off/ 'show off' what you're doing.

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By *ucky1Man
over a year ago

a straightjacket

Ask a married female playing alone to join you aswell....plenty of them on here

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