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By *risky_Mare OP   Woman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Do you use people on here, or do people use you??

What do you think makes the difference between using someone and not?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Don't we all use people on here for our needs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love to be used....

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Don't we all use people on here for our needs

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Yeah, but it helps if there's a bit of reciprocity about the arrangement.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Don't we all use people on here for our needs

Yeah, but it helps if there's a bit of reciprocity about the arrangement."
it is a two way thing, they use me and I use them however you paint it up that's what it boils down too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer the term 'mutually beneficial'

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By *risky_Mare OP   Woman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I'm asking other people what they feel that are doing, and what constitutes 'using' or not to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm using people and they're using me. But i think both people shouldn't end up feeling used (unless they like that).

I know a lot of guys do actually care that i cum and that i enjoy having sex with them, they like to give pleasure as well as receive it, and i hope that the guys i meet feel i am the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The term "being used" has so many negative connotations and i think it refers more to when emotions and deeper connections are made. It just suggests that one party is the loser in the situation.

I feel like what (most) people are doing here is being "useful to each other". The beauty of it being that when one of us gets bored, we can move on with no expectations and no hard feelings.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the end we are all using each other for additional sexual gratification. The thing to remember is the more you put in the more you get out. That goes for your profiles...to get merts. And, of corse, what you put into your meets. Ensuring the other person gains as much pleasure as you can possibly give them inevitably means you will get the same in return.

So although we are then using each other...no-one ends up feeling used.

If the other person does go from the meet feeling used...then poor show on you....and don't expect to see them again ( unless , as had been said, they are the kind of person who likes to feel used...cum slut etc?)

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