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By *eerise OP   Woman
over a year ago

Manchester and that's all you need to know

Why are people getting more and more pushy? Don't they realise that by being that way says a lot about them. And equals a definate NO from me.

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

Same here. The ones that say I'm not a pushy person then proceed to try and do it in a nice manner but it's obvious what they're doing really wind me up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same, being too pushy does not come across well and says alot about a person, not the type i would like to meet x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Same here. The ones that say I'm not a pushy person then proceed to try and do it in a nice manner but it's obvious what they're doing really wind me up. "

Im not pushy lil bear, now get your arse here in ten minutes. Full kit of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What one person may like another may not.

I am sure plenty of men and women like pushy people, probably just as many who don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't imagine there are too many that like pushy people? For me it would seem aggressive and almost desperate. It's not an attractive quality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't imagine there are too many that like pushy people? For me it would seem aggressive and almost desperate. It's not an attractive quality"

Oh believe me there are plenty. Thank goodness for the block button.

Makes you wonder if someone won't take no for an answer via messaging what would they be like face to face on a meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't imagine there are too many that like pushy people? For me it would seem aggressive and almost desperate. It's not an attractive quality

Oh believe me there are plenty. Thank goodness for the block button.

Makes you wonder if someone won't take no for an answer via messaging what would they be like face to face on a meet?

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Whimper in person I bet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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What one person may like another may not.

I am sure plenty of men and women like pushy people, probably just as many who don't "

Yer half of all fabbers love pushy people. In fact when we say no, we really mean yes....and the first 2 or 3 polite no's are just foreplay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In what way are they pushy? Just curious, if someone says a definite no, what's the point other than abuse, I don't get it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No is no.

I'm not interested doesn't mean 'try harder'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In what way are they pushy? Just curious, if someone says a definite no, what's the point other than abuse, I don't get it "

Well for example, I'll get a guy who messages me very politely, so I reply. We get chatting. He's read my profile which states clearly don't send me cock pics, I'm quite new to all this, don't talk dirty to me within a few messages etc. Within a couple days he's ignoring that & ends up blocked. Arrogance leads them to think they can change your mind, under the umbrella term of "pushing boundaries" I think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why are people getting more and more pushy? Don't they realise that by being that way says a lot about them. And equals a definate NO from me."

We not pushy you are!

Meet us now

Get your tits out, you book a hotel and pay for it, pick me up from train station etc....

It goes on.

What's wrong with nice polite chat and honesty and patience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Btw just incase I was being ironic at not being rude to op

Xxx

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

The first hint of pushy, BLock.

It ends there

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Block button pressed....pushy people gone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah pushy is not attractive. It just makes me hit block and then they've gained nothing.

The other thing I've had is abuse because I didn't respond to an email. That is just very poor behaviour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

cant stand pushy folk,and loathe guys that cant take a polite "no thanks"

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By *eerise OP   Woman
over a year ago

Manchester and that's all you need to know

It gets worse when they demand to know why you haven't replied to their message they just sent.

I'm like what the hell I have a live away from the site.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Its quite simple to press the block button, only you can allow people to get pushy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It gets worse when they demand to know why you haven't replied to their message they just sent.

I'm like what the hell I have a live away from the site. "

This is the one thing I hate. Whether it's a text or email sometimes you can't reply instantly, or you need time to answer. It really irks me when they send an email then within ten minutes I get a text asking did I see the email.

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