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By *lassyandadventurous OP   Man
over a year ago

England and Wales

Has a single man on here i was just thinking that if i never sent a message how long would it be before anyone ever sent a message to me.

This is not about me...i am speaking on behalf of all single men.

The reason behind this thread is that sometimes i think women on here recieve a message from a single guy and think were all desperate to be on fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

read your profile - bit lengthy and repetitive - ok you can drive and like a drink to see if you click - twice mentioned both of these things and i only scanned it - so if your profile is typical of a single man then we wouldnt bother - but we dont anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Woman and couples do message. It's just that we don't always have time to do so due to volume of messages received. We have messaged a couple of people in the past. Yeah I know a couple doesn't seem many but men have to really catch our eye for us to message first.

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By *asmanian TigerMan
over a year ago

lala land

What a load of .......

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By *ominantDogMan
over a year ago

Docklands, Exmoor, Manchester

If a tree falls in a wood, and no one is there to witness it, does the tree fall?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has a single man on here i was just thinking that if i never sent a message how long would it be before anyone ever sent a message to me.

This is not about me...i am speaking on behalf of all single men.

The reason behind this thread is that sometimes i think women on here recieve a message from a single guy and think were all desperate to be on fab.

"

If you are desperate what am I?

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

You can message people?!??!?

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By *olly RogererMan
over a year ago

Braintree

Wtf. Has this thread got lost in translation or what?

The op was simply asking...if he never sent a message to anyone, how long would he wait to receive a message off anyone! And to simplify he said he means it for all single men not just him.

Simple enough question and my answer would be,

Id depends how active you are, ie posing meets, status updates etc.

If you simply log on, look for message and log off id hazzard a guess you would almost certainly never receive one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't remember sending a first message to anyone hoping to meet. My initial messages have only ever been regarding something said in a forum.

I do get plenty of messages in my inbox though. Mainly from guys but a fair amount from couples and a few from single ladies.

I guess if you want them to come to find you it helps to dress in such a way that it catches their attention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone catches our eye we'll send a message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say the chances are you (as a single man not you, you!) might never receive one.

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

warrington

I have been on fab for a little over 3 years, and in that time, I have received a first message from women twice - which sounds promising, but both were only because they had seen me in the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a decent question....and like someone said...a guy is likely to get none. The women are swamped with mail...and probably spend enough time on that. If they are browsing...will they contact a single guy...small chance. Its actually quite hard to do a good profile as I guy..ive had my own business...married in the south pacific...seen the barrier reef...bolloon ride..climbed...do I put all that in a profile..some womens profiles are nearly empty...just rely on pixs if they look ok.

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By *lassyandadventurous OP   Man
over a year ago

England and Wales

On behalf of all the single men on here i think we should have a single man message day lol.

All you couples and fems send us totally useless desperate men a message x

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By *lassyandadventurous OP   Man
over a year ago

England and Wales

See no one sends us single men a message lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been on fab for a little over 3 years, and in that time, I have received a first message from women twice - which sounds promising, but both were only because they had seen me in the forums."

Same here, one or two because I'm active on the forums...I take it as a good thing lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"See no one sends us single men a message lol"

To be fair, you said send the useless desperate single men a message. I messaged the non-desperate, useful men

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I would love to do my own searching and initiate first contact.

Unfortunately most men are so bloody lazy and only have a bloody one liner profile along the lines of 'here for fun' (no shit Sherlock!) and one or two cock pics.

That is never going to engage me!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

If I'm visiting an area and want some evening fun I'll always message a selection of men to arrange a meet. Whether they respond of course is completely up to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"See no one sends us single men a message lol"

I had to explain to a man with 'hi' as his entire profile why I wasn't feeling it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've received plenty of opening messages from couples and ladies.

It's about attitude, approach and personality - trust me I'm nothing special in the physical looks department (expect for my 12 inch cock).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am a single guy and do recieve messages So it does happen xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am a single guy and do recieve messages So it does happen xx"

Uh huh

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By *lassyandadventurous OP   Man
over a year ago

England and Wales

Im not desperate honest xxx

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By *afadaoMan
over a year ago

Staines


"I would say the chances are you (as a single man not you, you!) might never receive one."

Totally valid question by the OP and I agree with the above.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Im not desperate honest xxx "

I beg to differ - you just messaged me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am a single guy and do recieve messages So it does happen xx

Uh huh

"
i does honest

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By *onbons_xxMan
over a year ago

Bolton

Single (that autospelt as 'shingle' ) men do ok on here.

If they didn't message to initiate then they'd just have to join in through other means. Otherwise it'd be pretty quiet.

Trust the women's/couple's judgement to seek out those they're interested in though.

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