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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do you put less effort into your messages than a guy would if he was messaging you?

A lot of women on here say "I will ignore/delete any messages that just say "Hi/wanna fuck?"" understandably due to the sheer volume of messages received, but do women think "Guys don't get many messages compared to girls, so they'd probably just be flattered by the attention, therefore I could get away with a "Hi" message"?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ermmm "HI" lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just because I could 'get away with it' doesn't mean I would....if I like someone's profile enough to message them then I'd want to make an effort to write a proper message.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ermmm "HI" lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ermmm "HI" lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ermmm "HI" lol

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Only playing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No if I'm first messaging a guy I've found on a search and think I would like to talk to I practice what I preach.

I read their profile, make some comments and put what I think they would like to know about me and what will get their attention, I also attach a face picture even though mine are displayed on my profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is this concept you speak of...?!

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

If I'm interested enough to message someone, I'll send them the sort of message I would want to receive.

As above, just because I might be able to get away with just sending a "hi" message, I don't like to receive a message with so little thought or effort behind it and I wouldn't send one.

I think approaching this site and interactions from a perspective of how little one can get away with is a poor way of doing things.

If it's worth doing, do it well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From your posts you seem to have a fairly low opinion of the women on this site OP. If we aren't demanding face pics we are sending crap messages. Of course the forum is inundated with posts from guys complaining about the one liners they receive from the ladies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"From your posts you seem to have a fairly low opinion of the women on this site OP. If we aren't demanding face pics we are sending crap messages. Of course the forum is inundated with posts from guys complaining about the one liners they receive from the ladies."

It's so grating. There's so many different women on here, it's not likely we'll all do the same thing in the same manner with the same intentions.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm not complaining about anything, I'm just asking how women approach men in messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had messages just saying hi from couples, After replying with something similar the next one is usually do you want to meet, I would like some conversation and build up first,

I just assume its coming from the male part of the couple

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I've had a 'wanna fuck?' message of a lady and a few weeks later we did.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've had a 'wanna fuck?' message of a lady and a few weeks later we did.

Without even seeing your face? Hmm...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not complaining about anything, I'm just asking how women approach men in messages."

You saying "but do women think "Guys don't get many messages compared to girls, so they'd probably just be flattered by the attention, therefore I could get away with a "Hi" message" was pretty insulting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's so grating. There's so many different women on here, it's not likely we'll all do the same thing in the same manner with the same intentions. "

But... But... But, that stretches the mental capabilities of us guys beyond our copy and paste routines

Well me, anyway. Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not all women complain about short first messages. Stop generalising

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm not complaining about anything, I'm just asking how women approach men in messages.

It was a question, I'm not saying anyone actually does this.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not all women complain about short first messages. Stop generalising "

I never said 'all women'. Nice to see the pack of wolves are out in full force again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"but do women think "Guys don't get many messages compared to girls, so they'd probably just be flattered by the attention, therefore I could get away with a "Hi" message"?"

No, I don't think that at all as I have a bit more respect for the men I message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not complaining about anything, I'm just asking how women approach men in messages.

It was a question, I'm not saying anyone actually does this."

Nah, it's an inflammatory question. If you can't be nice, perhaps you should not join in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not complaining about anything, I'm just asking how women approach men in messages.

Insulting to who? Lots of women are like that on here. The attention goes to their head and they think they are the most fanciable woman in the world ever.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm not complaining about anything, I'm just asking how women approach men in messages.

Insulting to who? Lots of women are like that on here. The attention goes to their head and they think they are the most fanciable woman in the world ever. "

Thank you. I know full well there are plenty of decent women on this site. But there's a few who always seem to pipe up and try to stereotype me every time I post.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you put less effort into your messages than a guy would if he was messaging you?

No, I treat them with respect. I read profiles, comment on something I like, anything really in an attempt to start a conversation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe the men can answer the question as Scrummy did earlier.

How many one liner messages do you receive from women?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not complaining about anything, I'm just asking how women approach men in messages.

Insulting to who? Lots of women are like that on here. The attention goes to their head and they think they are the most fanciable woman in the world ever. "

To me. I'm female and I'd never think like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not complaining about anything, I'm just asking how women approach men in messages.

Insulting to who? Lots of women are like that on here. The attention goes to their head and they think they are the most fanciable woman in the world ever.

Thank you. I know full well there are plenty of decent women on this site. But there's a few who always seem to pipe up and try to stereotype me every time I post."

Do you give a shit what the haters think? I don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not complaining about anything, I'm just asking how women approach men in messages.

Insulting to who? Lots of women are like that on here. The attention goes to their head and they think they are the most fanciable woman in the world ever.

To me. I'm female and I'd never think like that. "

I wasn't insulted, I know he wasn't referring to me. I guess some people just think everything is about them.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I've had a 'wanna fuck?' message of a lady and a few weeks later we did.

Without even seeing your face? Hmm..."

I sent one quite early on but I'm not an ugly fucker and I've had my face pic as an avatar before (briefly).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had a 'wanna fuck?' message of a lady and a few weeks later we did.

Without even seeing your face? Hmm..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not complaining about anything, I'm just asking how women approach men in messages.

Insulting to who? Lots of women are like that on here. The attention goes to their head and they think they are the most fanciable woman in the world ever.

To me. I'm female and I'd never think like that.

I wasn't insulted, I know he wasn't referring to me. I guess some people just think everything is about them.

Are you implying I think everything is about me as I was insulted by a post asking if women are lazy? You've possibly missed the negative undertone of the OP, in that case.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm having a pleasant conversation with the o.p. just now.

He's not pissed me off yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this your experience if messages from women?

I really don't this is a gender specific topic. It's down to the individual how much effort they put in.

As a woman on this site I get many messages of 5 words or less. A decent sentence is rare but welcome and gets my attention, so it follows that if I want my message to stand out from the crowd, I will try to string a few decent words together.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I've had a 'wanna fuck?' message of a lady and a few weeks later we did.

Without even seeing your face? Hmm...

Maybe she just wanted everything except my face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not complaining about anything, I'm just asking how women approach men in messages.

Insulting to who? Lots of women are like that on here. The attention goes to their head and they think they are the most fanciable woman in the world ever.

To me. I'm female and I'd never think like that.

I wasn't insulted, I know he wasn't referring to me. I guess some people just think everything is about them.

Are you implying I think everything is about me as I was insulted by a post asking if women are lazy? You've possibly missed the negative undertone of the OP, in that case. "

He was asking a question. I don't see negativity, just fact. He certainly wasn't implying women are lazy.

Some women ARE lazy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had a 'wanna fuck?' message of a lady and a few weeks later we did.

Without even seeing your face? Hmm...

I sent one quite early on but I'm not an ugly fucker and I've had my face pic as an avatar before (briefly). "

I wanted you before seeing your face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had a 'wanna fuck?' message of a lady and a few weeks later we did.

Without even seeing your face? Hmm...

Maybe she just wanted everything except my face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had a 'wanna fuck?' message of a lady and a few weeks later we did.

Without even seeing your face? Hmm...

I sent one quite early on but I'm not an ugly fucker and I've had my face pic as an avatar before (briefly).

I wanted you before seeing your face "

Then what happened after you'd seen his face?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If anything, my post should put men in a negative light, because we're so easily pleased we'd respond to a "Hi" message.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I've had a 'wanna fuck?' message of a lady and a few weeks later we did.

Without even seeing your face? Hmm...

I sent one quite early on but I'm not an ugly fucker and I've had my face pic as an avatar before (briefly).

I wanted you before seeing your face

Brazen!

and welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wonder if the "fancy a fuck" message would work the other way around maybe an experiment is in order lol "ONLY JOKING" that ain't my style if I inbox a guy I make an effort with the message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If anything, my post should put men in a negative light, because we're so easily pleased we'd respond to a "Hi" message. "

Must admit it could read like that. You bad man!

Some people love to bitch about men but have a meltdown if women are discussed as anything other than perfect...

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

There. My face pic in public for 1 minute. Same time again next year, folks!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If anything, my post should put men in a negative light, because we're so easily pleased we'd respond to a "Hi" message.

Must admit it could read like that. You bad man!

Some people love to bitch about men but have a meltdown if women are discussed as anything other than perfect...

My other point is that I'm not implying women are lazy, I'm just stating they have the power to be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There. My face pic in public for 1 minute. Same time again next year, folks! "

I always thought you were bald.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"There. My face pic in public for 1 minute. Same time again next year, folks!

I always thought you were bald.

Really?! when I say I'm shaved....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There. My face pic in public for 1 minute. Same time again next year, folks!

I always thought you were bald.

Really?! when I say I'm shaved....

Legs?

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

I've had messages from couples and singles with one word, with a sentence and a range of others. Often the messages with little information the profiles are similar

I'm sure in some cases any approach will work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't necessarily think there's anything wrong with a 'hi' message, Some people are shy, but it's just not the best way to grab a persons attention IMHO.

The message I don't like is 'wanna fuck?' or something similar, although this is a 'wanna fuck' website, that's not the message I would like to see as an introduction. I am a person at the end of the day, not a fuck toy!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"There. My face pic in public for 1 minute. Same time again next year, folks!

I always thought you were bald.

Really?! when I say I'm shaved....

Legs?

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nah....use your imagination

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the messages I get off single ladys tend to be nice but I find its couples I get the one liners off....normally along the lines of 'available now?'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can see what your saying, I can't speak for all single guys, but if I get a first message, I'm initially excited, and a little flattered, and will always respond, in some way. Even to a one liner.

Obviously, it's a much rarer occurance than for single ladies, or couples, but I wouldn't say that they are necessarily taking advantage of the fact. I'm sure there's guilty parties in all groups, of sending craps messages.

If I responded with a lengthy reply though, and continued to only receive, one word replies, I'd quickly loose interest, and assume that either, they weren't that interested, or that interesting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I only ever send fancy a fuck messages sorry

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By *asmanian TigerMan
over a year ago

lala land

"If anything, my post should put men in a negative light, because we're so easily pleased we'd respond to a "Hi" message.

Must admit it could read like that. You bad man!

Some people love to bitch about men but have a meltdown if women are discussed as anything other than perfect...

My other point is that I'm not implying women are lazy, I'm just stating they have the power to be."

Op some women are lazy they think they are something special which they are not I am glad I have made some great friends on here and hopefully meeting in 2015 great post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No I only ever send fancy a fuck messages sorry

You lazy woman.

Hi.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Any message or massage gratefully received

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Sometimes I send winks.

I should probably be shot.

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By *hattyman80Man
over a year ago

stockport

From my experience when I get messages from women they are usually more than just hi etc. They're usually well written and asking the right sort of things or saying the right sort of things. Better than some other sites I've used

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I confess i'm lazy. I VERY rarely browse or message men. If i see one who catches my eye - generally from a veri someone's given him - or one which he's given - i'll usually just send a wink or a very brief message. I know it's hypocritical to send a wink as i rarely even glance at mine due to the sheer volume of them and lack of time - the same with messages regrettably.

I feel bad about this but there's little I can do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On the rare occasions I search for single men, I put as much effort into my initial message as I'd expect them to do. Honestly, it never gets me anywhere, so I've given up looking.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I confess i'm lazy. I VERY rarely browse or message men. If i see one who catches my eye - generally from a veri someone's given him - or one which he's given - i'll usually just send a wink or a very brief message. I know it's hypocritical to send a wink as i rarely even glance at mine due to the sheer volume of them and lack of time - the same with messages regrettably.

I feel bad about this but there's little I can do.

xx"

Well, there is more you can do - make more of an effort

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By *t3_jalapenoMan
over a year ago

darlo

Still waiting for my wink paula

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"On the rare occasions I search for single men, I put as much effort into my initial message as I'd expect them to do. Honestly, it never gets me anywhere, so I've given up looking. "

How many messages did you send? You did say 'rare'. Think of us poor guys who have to persist with it, day in, day out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On the rare occasions I search for single men, I put as much effort into my initial message as I'd expect them to do. Honestly, it never gets me anywhere, so I've given up looking.

How many messages did you send? You did say 'rare'. Think of us poor guys who have to persist with it, day in, day out."

You don't 'have to' do anything or are you being forced on here against your will?!

I only contact those I actually think I'd like to meet. Can't see the point of doing it any other way. Am I missing something??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel bad about this but there's little I can do.

xx"

You can donate to the charity

FAB for one liners.

It encourages those of us with lazy digits to be more creative.

For just £3 a month you will receive a pre prepared pack of thoughtfully written messages AND responses.

Just £3 a month.

Text HELP ME to 77643.

*this isn't really real *

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel bad about this but there's little I can do.

You can donate to the charity

FAB for one liners.

It encourages those of us with lazy digits to be more creative.

For just £3 a month you will receive a pre prepared pack of thoughtfully written messages AND responses.

Just £3 a month.

Text HELP ME to 77643.

*this isn't really real *"

Damn it woman....you'd make a fortune

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On the rare occasions I search for single men, I put as much effort into my initial message as I'd expect them to do. Honestly, it never gets me anywhere, so I've given up looking.

How many messages did you send? You did say 'rare'. Think of us poor guys who have to persist with it, day in, day out."

I'm thinking....

wanted to try that one for a while

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel bad about this but there's little I can do.

You can donate to the charity

FAB for one liners.

It encourages those of us with lazy digits to be more creative.

For just £3 a month you will receive a pre prepared pack of thoughtfully written messages AND responses.

Just £3 a month.

Text HELP ME to 77643.

*this isn't really real *

Damn it woman....you'd make a fortune "

I reckon I could come up with a fair few sparkling look at me intros.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"On the rare occasions I search for single men, I put as much effort into my initial message as I'd expect them to do. Honestly, it never gets me anywhere, so I've given up looking.

How many messages did you send? You did say 'rare'. Think of us poor guys who have to persist with it, day in, day out.

You don't 'have to' do anything or are you being forced on here against your will?!

I only contact those I actually think I'd like to meet. Can't see the point of doing it any other way. Am I missing something??"

We do have to if we want something to happen. We seldom receive messages, you see.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On the rare occasions I search for single men, I put as much effort into my initial message as I'd expect them to do. Honestly, it never gets me anywhere, so I've given up looking.

How many messages did you send? You did say 'rare'. Think of us poor guys who have to persist with it, day in, day out.

You don't 'have to' do anything or are you being forced on here against your will?!

I only contact those I actually think I'd like to meet. Can't see the point of doing it any other way. Am I missing something??

We do have to if we want something to happen. We seldom receive messages, you see."

We?

You and your family or your employer or friends?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its very unlikely that I would meet a Woman/Couple if I haven't spoken to them for a bit even if they do look hot in their pictures, I know a lot of people just want "nsa" sex and don't want to get to personal but for me some chatting and flirting over time will only make the sex a more exciting experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel bad about this but there's little I can do.

Well, there is more you can do - make more of an effort

ok! I'll send my 467 unread messages to you and you can answer them! Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I feel bad about this but there's little I can do.

Well, there is more you can do - make more of an effort

ok! I'll send my 467 unread messages to you and you can answer them! Xx"

I'm talking about the messages you send, not replying to the ones you already have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can donate to the charity

FAB for one liners.

It encourages those of us with lazy digits to be more creative.

For just £3 a month you will receive a pre prepared pack of thoughtfully written messages AND responses.

Just £3 a month.

Text HELP ME to 77643.

Is this the basic package as can afford £6 a month ,hoping for a sticker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel bad about this but there's little I can do.

Well, there is more you can do - make more of an effort

ok! I'll send my 467 unread messages to you and you can answer them! Xx

I'm talking about the messages you send, not replying to the ones you already have. "

Don't send long ones as when people mesg me i look for a good face, good body and a little evidence of a brain/personality/soh - the profile will give me a lot of that! I prefer not to get overly long messages as i feel guilty at the time they've spent if i'm not interested!

I prefer to get a couple of well chosen sentences to enhance good pics and a well-written profile - si that's what i do myself! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can donate to the charity

FAB for one liners.

It encourages those of us with lazy digits to be more creative.

For just £3 a month you will receive a pre prepared pack of thoughtfully written messages AND responses.

Just £3 a month.

Text HELP ME to 77643.

Is this the basic package as can afford £6 a month ,hoping for a sticker

Don't take the piss.

There are people suffering here.

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

If a women out the blue messaged me and said I want a fuck is old be like hmmmmmm I am more than just a cock .....(though if I had spoken before) then I may consider it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel bad about this but there's little I can do.

Well, there is more you can do - make more of an effort

ok! I'll send my 467 unread messages to you and you can answer them! Xx"

Mail filters. Why do you save so many mails?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If a women out the blue messaged me and said I want a fuck is old be like hmmmmmm I am more than just a cock .....(though if I had spoken before) then I may consider it

Ha.

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

Pissing myself laughing lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When a woman messages a guy

He can't keep his mind on nothin' else

He'd do most anything, for this golden chance

If she's fake, he can't see it

No way could she be false

Turn his back on common sense

For this tingling in his pants

When a woman messages a guy

He'd send his very last pic

Trying to hold her attention, that he needs

He'd give up all of his own wants

And stick his ass in the air

If she said 'this time, its MY dick'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've had a number of messages from single women over the years and, yes, they have generally (note the use of the word 'generally') been one-liners. Makes no odds though, as a one-liner intro from a man or woman is just fine if their profile looks good. Rather this than a bland copy n paste essay.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If a women out the blue messaged me and said I want a fuck is old be like hmmmmmm I am more than just a cock .....(though if I had spoken before) then I may consider it

Ha."

May I also add - Ha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can donate to the charity

FAB for one liners.

It encourages those of us with lazy digits to be more creative.

For just £3 a month you will receive a pre prepared pack of thoughtfully written messages AND responses.

Just £3 a month.

Text HELP ME to 77643.

Is this the basic package as can afford £6 a month ,hoping for a sticker

Don't take the piss.

There are people suffering here.

Yep you're right £6 is a bit low ,you could set up a weekly help programme, think of all the good you do (and the cash)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If a women out the blue messaged me and said I want a fuck is old be like hmmmmmm I am more than just a cock ....."

...I am an IAMS cock.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel bad about this but there's little I can do.

Well, there is more you can do - make more of an effort

ok! I'll send my 467 unread messages to you and you can answer them! Xx

Mail filters. Why do you save so many mails?"

Haven't saved them - just haven't had time to read them. If they didn't delete automatically after 30 days i'd be knackered! I Don't have filters as I'm contacted a lot by people of all groups/ages on the forums - and they tend to be by far the most interesting messages so I don't want to deter them! Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If a women out the blue messaged me and said I want a fuck is old be like hmmmmmm I am more than just a cock .....

...I am an IAMS cock."

Is that the beef one?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had a 'wanna fuck?' message of a lady and a few weeks later we did.

Without even seeing your face? Hmm...

I sent one quite early on but I'm not an ugly fucker and I've had my face pic as an avatar before (briefly).

I wanted you before seeing your face

Then what happened after you'd seen his face?

I swooned with desire

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes

"Maybe the men can answer the question as Scrummy did earlier.

How many one liner messages do you receive from women?

Does the count have to include the 'thanks, but no thanks' one liners or should I exclude those from to total? LOL

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes

"No I only ever send fancy a fuck messages sorry

I'm still waiting for mine.

he he

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I've had a 'wanna fuck?' message of a lady and a few weeks later we did.

Without even seeing your face? Hmm...

I sent one quite early on but I'm not an ugly fucker and I've had my face pic as an avatar before (briefly).

I wanted you before seeing your face

Then what happened after you'd seen

his face?

I swooned with desire

And I wanked with desire when I saw hers

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes

I think it a case of horses for courses. I tailor my messages depending on who I'm sending them to. I decide how much effort to but in based on the length and content of the profile of the person I want to message.

Most of the first contact messages I receive from women are normally one liners but often quite clever one liners based either on something in my profile, something I posted in the forums or something I've said or done in the chat rooms.

That's not to say I get loads of first contact messages from women but I get enough to keep me happy

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes

And one day I'll learn the difference between 'but' and 'put'. grrrr. Why do I keep doing that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's so grating. There's so many different women on here, it's not likely we'll all do the same thing in the same manner with the same intentions. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes messages are clearly well thought out, sometimes they appear rude - I actually loathe just the one or two word messages but there's no pattern, just depends on the people messaging I guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No I only ever send fancy a fuck messages sorry

You lazy woman.

Hi.

I'm very lazy

So....do you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No I only ever send fancy a fuck messages sorry

You lazy woman.

Hi.

I'm very lazy

So....do you?

Of course.

You can just lie there....

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

The messages I've had from women are either short but witty quips or longer messages expressing interest.

In my experience messages from couples are far more likely to be 'wanna fuck?' ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No I only ever send fancy a fuck messages sorry

You lazy woman.

Hi.

I'm very lazy

So....do you?

Of course.

You can just lie there....

Ha ha I'm not that lazy... But laying there for a while sounds good

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By *ominantDogMan
over a year ago

Docklands, Exmoor, Manchester

"I've had a 'wanna fuck?' message of a lady and a few weeks later we did.

Without even seeing your face? Hmm..."

You don't have to plaster your mug across your profile for people to want to meet you OP.

There is more than one way to communicate what you look like.

And get this...I have met people on here who didn't know what I looked like until we actually met.

Don't believe me? I couldn't care less...

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