FabSwingers.com forum: bogus meet

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just arranged a meet they told me adress when i got there it was an Asian guy who couldn't speak English pissed off doesn't cut it

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"Just arranged a meet they told me adress when i got there it was an Asian guy who couldn't speak English pissed off doesn't cut it"
Don't you speak on the phone beforehand?

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

I really don't see what people get out of doing that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Report to admin. The site has enough nobs on. Don't need more!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so in weird way you were fucked lol

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"so in weird way you were fucked lol"
fucked over

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By *rRetourMan
over a year ago

T.Wells

Bogus "meet"?.. Sounds like a Findus Horse joke coming on....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So I take it you did not arrange to meet a pissed up Asian guy ? Just asking

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Report to admin. The site has enough nobs on. Don't need more!"
i will do thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"so in weird way you were fucked lol"
its not funny but had to giggle at this yes ive been fucked lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just arranged a meet they told me adress when i got there it was an Asian guy who couldn't speak English pissed off doesn't cut it"

He was probably none too chuffed either.....

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By *heffmMan
over a year ago

sheffield

"Just arranged a meet they told me adress when i got there it was an Asian guy who couldn't speak English pissed off doesn't cut it

He was probably none too chuffed either....."
he was expecting a Chinese guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its not like an Asian to send for a take away

maybe they were getting there own back for all the curry's they deliver to people that say they haven't ordered them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could of at least have a kebab with him lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hurry up, i've got the kettle on lad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who knows why they did it... but could hazard a guess.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

he couldn't speak English? did that not show up in his messages to you?

I know the feeling though, it took me nearly 3 hours after getting the postcode to get a house number the other day after we'd agreed to meet at theirs. I'd given up in the end and then when they saw the meet was going to over they sent it. All turned out well though

just nerves on their part.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"he couldn't speak English? did that not show up in his messages to you?

It was a bogus address. That's the whole point of the thread!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"he couldn't speak English? did that not show up in his messages to you?

It was a bogus address. That's the whole point of the thread! "

ah, I get it now, it is early in the morning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"he couldn't speak English? did that not show up in his messages to you?

It was a bogus address. That's the whole point of the thread!

ah, I get it now, it is early in the morning

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

You weren't told to walk straight in were you OP?

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

"Bogus "meet"?.. Sounds like a Findus Horse joke coming on...."

I picked up a packet of frozen fish I found in the supermarket.. As I'm walking out the cashier said "aren't you going to pay for them?" I said "I thought it was Findus kippers..!"

Yep christmas crackers it's a gift that keeps on giving.

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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago

Manchester and that's all you need to know

"he couldn't speak English? did that not show up in his messages to you?

It was a bogus address. That's the whole point of the thread!

ah, I get it now, it is early in the morning

I don't get it

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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

better luck next time

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By *uttyjonnMan
over a year ago

SEA

"he couldn't speak English? did that not show up in his messages to you?

It was a bogus address. That's the whole point of the thread!

ah, I get it now, it is early in the morning

I don't get it

Neither did he

but op people will say you should have done more things to verify first but we cant go thru life thinking everyones a fake. Good luck next time

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

We all have different ways of doing things. For me it would be absolute madness to turn up at a total strangers house for sex, however, if I did I would (a) expect situations like this; and (b) thank God I lived to tell the tale!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"he couldn't speak English? did that not show up in his messages to you?

It was a bogus address. That's the whole point of the thread!

ah, I get it now, it is early in the morning

I don't get it

Whoever had been sending the messages gave him someone elses address, in this case a poor man who couldn't speak English. Why on earth anybody does this is beyond me but I suppose its been a poor Christmas for television and teenagers find mum and dads password for the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe the couple who did it, felt he was a disrespectful swinger, pushy, bolshy, wouldn't take no for an answer type, so they fob him off, who knows, we only have one side. ..

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By *j_markCouple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Totteridge/Whetstone

There's some tips for safe meeting on the FAQ page, link at bottom of homepage. Meeting a stranger at an unknown address is probably not a good idea.

Do you have any tips for safe meeting?

Don't forget that the only person responsible for your safety is you, so don't put yourself in a situation where a stranger can let you down. These are some tips to help:

* Don't give strangers your home phone number, your usual mobile number or your address or let them know where you work. Buy a spare PAYG SIM for your mobile and use it for initial contacts.

* Don't rely on strangers for transport, so don't agree to go somewhere in a car with someone you don't know.

* Don't turn up to strange addresses without having met the people you're expecting, first, beforehand.

* Always meet first somewhere safe and public (a cafe) first.

* Always tell someone you trust who you're going to meet, and where.

* Don't arrange meets without having spoken to the people you're expecting to meet first on phone OR on seen on cam.

* Don't invite strangers into your home.

* Don't put yourself in a situation where if someone doesn't turn up, you'll be upset. So don't travel 100s of miles and book into a hotel in the expectation of meeting someone unless you've met them beforehand.

Admin x

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