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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

hi all really dont understand why i rarely get a reply ,am i bad looking or just not wot ppl are looking for .Ladies please be blunt.Pics on profile.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

dunno lol profile is ok, pics are good

p.s. you may regret asking the ladies to be blunt on here!! good luck, i'll keep checking in

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford


"hi all really dont understand why i rarely get a reply ,am i bad looking or just not wot ppl are looking for .Ladies please be blunt.Pics on profile."

Sings Simply Red to himself ;

"If you don't know ( me ) by now, you will never never never know o o o oh "

and repeat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well this post will get them looking i am sure xx just wish you had a smile xx body looks good ... but smile would be even better xx jo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I stopped at the second line, daytime meets usually means your married most ladies work or have children during the day.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"I stopped at the second line, daytime meets usually means your married most ladies work or have children during the day. "

you should have read the rest as he goes on o say he has a partner who knows but doesnt want to be involved!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with your profile or pics - personally we like straight talking people and if we were looking for a "single" guy and you happened to be available at a mutually convenient time and place ie within a 40 mile radius or so.. we would consider. I agree that sporting a smile might help though?

Does this help?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thank you does help i will definately change the pic and get a smile on the go.ps i cant stand simply red by the way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can spot your problem straight away: your partner.

There are literally 100s of single men that can accommodate so why pick you. Your profile is more suited to a dating site this isn't and your not in a position to.

Seeking couple while you don't share...well!

I hope the above is insightful!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I stopped at the second line, daytime meets usually means your married most ladies work or have children during the day.

you should have read the rest as he goes on o say he has a partner who knows but doesnt want to be involved!!!"

I didn't want to waste any more time, I'd end up being banned from the forums!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"thank you does help i will definately change the pic and get a smile on the go.ps i cant stand simply red by the way."

There you go no taste either.

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By *lumsy colinMan
over a year ago

basingstoke

Mate there is nothing wrong with you check the forums you will find many guys saying no one replies just be patient keep trying be respectfull there will be fun to be had also try a more original approach

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

from my purely personal view i avoid any guys whos attached and playing on his own . your partner may well know everything and be fine with u playing on your own but lot of times its not the case hence why women shy away from it.its great you have been upfrount and there will be women who arent phased by your sitution.but as they will be the exception rather than the rule it will straight away be limiting those wanting to meet you .as with anything worth while it takes times ,just stick with it and good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the real problem is that your married, albeit that your wife knows what you do many people will wonder if she approves of it or just has to accept it, even if she is happy for you to do it,most couples and single fems like a man without any commitments.

Nothing worse than them arranging a meet then at the last minute your missus needs you, we all know that you would put the wife first and cancel the meet.

Much simpler to arrange meets with one of the many single guys available and less chance of an angry wife changing her mind about the situation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the real problem is that your married, albeit that your wife knows what you do many people will wonder if she approves of it or just has to accept it, even if she is happy for you to do it,most couples and single fems like a man without any commitments.

Nothing worse than them arranging a meet then at the last minute your missus needs you, we all know that you would put the wife first and cancel the meet.

Much simpler to arrange meets with one of the many single guys available and less chance of an angry wife changing her mind about the situation."

I can totally appreciate this. Don't half feel sorry for my Husband though who genuinely does have a Wife 'in the know', is honest about it and really really struggles to get to meet anyone alone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the real problem is that your married, albeit that your wife knows what you do many people will wonder if she approves of it or just has to accept it, even if she is happy for you to do it,most couples and single fems like a man without any commitments.

Nothing worse than them arranging a meet then at the last minute your missus needs you, we all know that you would put the wife first and cancel the meet.

Much simpler to arrange meets with one of the many single guys available and less chance of an angry wife changing her mind about the situation.

I can totally appreciate this. Don't half feel sorry for my Husband though who genuinely does have a Wife 'in the know', is honest about it and really really struggles to get to meet anyone alone."

I think that guys in this position have to accept that their chances of meeting lots of ladies for nsa sex is going to be severely limited. As stated above, the wife will come first and meets could be cancelled at a moment's notice or with no notice at all.

Understand that and concentrate on women who get to know you and desire uncomplicated sex with married men and you'll pick up the odd meet or two, but it will never be prolific for you. You should come to terms with that or you're going to be very disappointed.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

ok thanks but im not married only got partner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"from my purely personal view i avoid any guys whos attached and playing on his own . your partner may well know everything and be fine with u playing on your own but lot of times its not the case hence why women shy away from it.its great you have been upfrount and there will be women who arent phased by your sitution.but as they will be the exception rather than the rule it will straight away be limiting those wanting to meet you .as with anything worth while it takes times ,just stick with it and good luck "

yep, she's right

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend


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I can totally appreciate this. Don't half feel sorry for my Husband though who genuinely does have a Wife 'in the know', is honest about it and really really struggles to get to meet anyone alone."

My housemates are the same. They play separately with consent, but he finds it really difficult to find a woman that will play with him. She doesn't find it so hard. Men don't appear to have the same principals!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ok thanks but im not married only got partner."

tut, same thing. cor blimey now it sounds like you might be looking for something more than a liason. ooops.

by the way most people on here (I believe) are looking for a bit more than a cuddle?

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By *heWolfMan
over a year ago

warwickshire


"ok thanks but im not married only got partner."

Oh well, that's OK then, she doesn't count.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thanks to all worth while advice ill take it on board.

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

Yes, I have to agree with most posters - looks like you're cheating - you may get a better response if you state that potential meets can chat with your partner, good luck! Z

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus


"ok thanks but im not married only got partner."

Only?? ............

So she's second class cus you ain't married

Nice attitude!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

feck..i was going to say if you were closer etc...

I would say that as its women you want to meet..you really need to think and word with a great deal more care...your relationship and intentions..

women dont like to hear a man saying 'its only my partner' lol

Just my opinion

vol

xx

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