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Verifications you read do they put you off meeting others or not.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

OK your asked to meet and look at their profile and Verifications and see others they meet and if not your sort and do stuff your not into. Are you put off meeting from that.? I have been in the past.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" OK your asked to meet and look at their profile and Verifications and see others they meet and if not your sort and do stuff your not into. Are you put off meeting from that.? I have been in the past."

Definitely put off if there are lots of veris and explicit pics and also if they are into things I aren't ,,some things in particular

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" OK your asked to meet and look at their profile and Verifications and see others they meet and if not your sort and do stuff your not into. Are you put off meeting from that.? I have been in the past.

Definitely put off if there are lots of veris and explicit pics and also if they are into things I aren't ,,some things in particular "
well I am glad I am not the only one . Just some things put me right off no matter how nice . x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes it's the contents of the very sometimes it's the person leaving the very that puts me off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Veri**

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By *eMontresMan
over a year ago

Halesowen

It goes into the mix when forming an initial impression. On their own, it's unlikely they would sway us either way, but they are certainly a factor.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Verifications are OK few years ago we met a couple from Liverpool we all got on few pics was taken and before we knew it my partner had her pics on there profile etc, This put her of meeting again and also her pics was sent to her company she got pulled in and almost lost her job somebody got hold of them and sent them to her boss we had an idea who sent them but could not prove it knocked her confidence now she is ok with me meeting but she does never want to be the part of it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It goes into the mix when forming an initial impression. On their own, it's unlikely they would sway us either way, but they are certainly a factor."
yes it all go into the mix your right for me it do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. If it highlights interests that aren't similar to mine (eg watersports), then I'd be put off. Experience has shown even "respectful" people with different interests try and force you to try them. I'd rather meet someone that had the same tastes.

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By *Kgirl80Woman
over a year ago

South Coast

I like to think I'm quite non judgmental when reading verifications and that I'll make up my own mind, based on the interactions I've had... However, I have been put off in the past. I guess its human nature!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes it does put me off because I don't think its a good idea to meet someone who has met certain people on here and its no good if they like things I don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like to think I'm quite non judgmental when reading verifications and that I'll make up my own mind, based on the interactions I've had... However, I have been put off in the past. I guess its human nature!"

I've been put off by reading the veri trail and looking at what they've left for other people as well on occasion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not really...only ones I'm not to keen on are ones with very little info on how the person was,from the social point of _iew.Where they a good laugh? etc etc

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall

Yes, definitely.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

Anyone put off by anything in my verifications are those I would not want to meet. So they are another filter in a way.

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock

Never been put off anyone by any verifications, prefer to meet the person myself and make my own mind up based on my own experience.

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall


"Anyone put off by anything in my verifications are those I would not want to meet. So they are another filter in a way. "

See they work better than people imagine!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sometimes get put off by seeing certain people they have met previously

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock


"I sometimes get put off by seeing certain people they have met previously "

Is this a woman thing? Personally speaking as a guy i could'nt give two hoots who anyone else has met.

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By *ig1gaz1Man
over a year ago

bradford

i particular ignore the veris as was interested in the person not whats been written about them and who they have met up with

veries can spoil a meet if your interested in them enough to _iew them in the first place

the veris that most would be interested in would be the bad ones not shown up, wasnt what the profile stated

but would be so up for abuse by people often

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

the way people behave on here is a determinator of whether I want to spend time with them or not, verifications may be part of that consideration process.

and I am equally as comfortable people using whatever they deem important in their judgement of me....

very cool with it

and I don't waste a nano second of thought over it.

oops, I just did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" OK your asked to meet and look at their profile and Verifications and see others they meet and if not your sort and do stuff your not into. Are you put off meeting from that.? I have been in the past."

Sometimes, yes.

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By *ola.Woman
over a year ago

Just where I need to be.

No. What someone has done with someone else doesn't mean that they can do it with me. That is why a chat before hand is a good thing. I do look at a persons veris seeing who they have interacted with. I prefer to make my own judgement of someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

going a little bit off subject.most people wont meet others that have a profile that's not verified..im picture verified but my profile is not..how do I do that..as I found out im not allowed ask for a verification..??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"going a little bit off subject.most people wont meet others that have a profile that's not verified..im picture verified but my profile is not..how do I do that..as I found out im not allowed ask for a verification..??"
some will meet with out Verifications when you get to know them .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

can a verification be done on webcam.??surely this is a safe way to do it instead of meeting a unverified person for first time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" OK your asked to meet and look at their profile and Verifications and see others they meet and if not your sort and do stuff your not into. Are you put off meeting from that.? I have been in the past."
Simple answer to that is yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"can a verification be done on webcam.??surely this is a safe way to do it instead of meeting a unverified person for first time"
Webcam veries should be banned as they mean nothing other than someone sitting the other end of the country on a laptop...usually having a wank

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"can a verification be done on webcam.??surely this is a safe way to do it instead of meeting a unverified person for first timeWebcam veries should be banned as they mean nothing other than someone sitting the other end of the country on a laptop...usually having a wank "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No because I meet for sex and not a relationship. If I was expecting a relationship then yes veris would put me off, but I'd never expect a relationship from here so no they wouldn't bother me ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well i don't know so.most women in Ireland wont meet guys without verification which is good in a way .but if you don't have a verification this place is boring..ah well i will keep trying..thanks all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I sometimes get put off by seeing certain people they have met previously

Is this a woman thing? Personally speaking as a guy i could'nt give two hoots who anyone else has met."

I don't like meeting men who have met stupid or slutty women, it doesn't say much about him does it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely only a verification would only put someone off if it was negative? What has happened previously with a different couple/single doesn't necessarily have any bearing on what will happen when when you meet.

For example someone may want to try watersports and meet a couple to do that. They may decide it's not for them and never want to do it again. That shouldn't put someone off in the future, just because they tried it once (with a couple that was into it!)

After all, isn't expanding your sexual horizons/experiences what this site is for?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never been put off anyone by any verifications, prefer to meet the person myself and make my own mind up based on my own experience. "

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT


" OK your asked to meet and look at their profile and Verifications and see others they meet and if not your sort and do stuff your not into. Are you put off meeting from that.? I have been in the past."

Simply, yes.

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