FabSwingers.com forum: Humiliation and why?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hey fabers,

There's a lot of people into humiliation these days, I'm just wondering what the fascination is? Although I haven't tried it before, this is just some research to see if I'd like it..

Cheers guys

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Hey fabers,

There's a lot of people into humiliation these days, I'm just wondering what the fascination is? Although I haven't tried it before, this is just some research to see if I'd like it..

Cheers guys "

I think that if you are asking what the fascination is you are unlikely to enjoy it.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

there's different forms and levels of humiliation. Also, what some may consider humiliation others may not.

Take having your eyes not meeting the others for the evening. Is this humiliating or a tease?

Say, being on all fours following the other around, is this humiliation or a build up of more to come.

There are extremes in anything. Though it is mostly what people see as their boundaries I'd say.

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By *mmabluTV/TS
over a year ago

upton wirral

It is a feeling that exites you,it is a thrill.If you have never fantasised about it it is probably not for you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Great info

I'm tempted to give it a try and see if I like it, always been one for try anything once

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It is a feeling that exites you,it is a thrill.If you have never fantasised about it it is probably not for you."

In a sense I have fantisied about it but I've never received it so don't know if I like it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's knowing your place and enjoying it. Could be female worship taken to the extremes that's all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Different strokes for different folks. What's humiliating for one may not be for another. Like everything it's just a matter of finding what works for you and the lady concerned.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

not for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"not for me"

Thanks, good to have your input

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"not for me

Thanks, good to have your input

my pleasure

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Stick around the fora for a while - there's bound to be something humiliating you can join. Or, I could just be unnecessarily rude for no apparent reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey fabers,

There's a lot of people into humiliation these days, I'm just wondering what the fascination is? Although I haven't tried it before, this is just some research to see if I'd like it..

Cheers guys "

Some who work in High Management positions leading people, often enjoy humiliation its also been known in government

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Stick around the fora for a while - there's bound to be something humiliating you can join. Or, I could just be unnecessarily rude for no apparent reason.

I'm happy to see where it goes

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Hey fabers,

There's a lot of people into humiliation these days, I'm just wondering what the fascination is? Although I haven't tried it before, this is just some research to see if I'd like it..

Cheers guys

Some who work in High Management positions leading people, often enjoy humiliation its also been known in government"

...and submitting. All my playmates are "high flyers" with pressurised jobs/businesses. To relinquish control and have no say in how your body is used is liberating and exciting.

Humiliation in extremis is not for me.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Hey fabers,

There's a lot of people into humiliation these days, I'm just wondering what the fascination is? Although I haven't tried it before, this is just some research to see if I'd like it..

Cheers guys

Some who work in High Management positions leading people, often enjoy humiliation its also been known in government

...and submitting. All my playmates are "high flyers" with pressurised jobs/businesses. To relinquish control and have no say in how your body is used is liberating and exciting.

Humiliation in extremis is not for me."

Even giving it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey fabers,

There's a lot of people into humiliation these days, I'm just wondering what the fascination is? Although I haven't tried it before, this is just some research to see if I'd like it..

Cheers guys "

It's the feeling of helplessness and vulnerability. I get so turned on by being naked in front of clothed males and ridiculed and humiliated. Can't explain it and I guess no one can. We all get turned on by different things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey fabers,

There's a lot of people into humiliation these days, I'm just wondering what the fascination is? Although I haven't tried it before, this is just some research to see if I'd like it..

Cheers guys "

But by the same token, some men people get turned on by humiliating others. Maybe a sense of power and control which they don't have in their lives or that they do have in their lives.

You can't have people who love to be humiliated without those who like to humiliate and dominate. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm eager to give this a go

what's the best way to start out ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey fabers,

There's a lot of people into humiliation these days, I'm just wondering what the fascination is? Although I haven't tried it before, this is just some research to see if I'd like it..

Cheers guys

But by the same token, some men people get turned on by humiliating others. Maybe a sense of power and control which they don't have in their lives or that they do have in their lives.

You can't have people who love to be humiliated without those who like to humiliate and dominate. X"

I actually found it quite hard to get my head round humiliating someone. I'm naturally bossy so that helped, but i'm also aware that everyone deserves to be treated kindly and in a humane way. But after much talking with my ex i understood he enjoyed it and really wanted it, so tried it with him (and a few other people after we split up) and i do enjoy that the guy loves it and is turned on a lot by it. And it's fun to be out of character for a while and be someone other than me.

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By *gm6969Man
over a year ago

Watford

From my experiences

Most guys feel that by their partner humiliating him by having sex with another man shows his commitment to her pleasure, wants and needs. Some husbands feel they aren’t capable of fulfilling their wife/girlfriend’s sexual needs because they don’t know how to or are 2 small.

Or she wears the pants and he accepts his place as been cuckold, allowing an alpha male to fuck his wife.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"From my experiences

Or she wears the pants and he accepts his place as been cuckold, allowing an alpha male to fuck his wife.

There are many ways to humiliate other than cuckolding him

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