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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Someone mentioned in another thread.

Do people still get nervous when going on meets?

I'm a wreck beforehand and shy when I'm there. (Self conscious)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A little bit of pre meet nerves adds to the excitement channel it.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

The day I stop getting nervous is the day I stop swinging

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not just me then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get really nervous before a new meet to the point I've considered cancelling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By god I get nervous even thinking about arranging meets lol. Thank goodness when i realise those i am meeting feel the same as i do the meets go well and are very enjoyable.

Nerves are good and add to the excitement and enjoyment. I often laugh at my anxiety on my way home after the meeting reassuring myself that my nerves were pointless but natural. But guess what - my next meet takes me back to square one again!! So youre just human and roll with them and enjoy the swinging lifestyle!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get excited. I don't get nervous,I can't wait to get mine and his clothes off and start kissing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh yes, very nervous to the point where I hope my meet will cancel. Once we've met and I start chatting I'm fine. The nerves are part of the build up though so I'm use to it now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get shy a bit at first but don't really get nervous any more. Think it's coz all my meets have gone well lately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is a bit nervous, are they going to like us? Are they going to fancy us? Are we going to fancy them? What if there weirdos when we get there? There's lots to be nervous about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh yes, very nervous to the point where I hope my meet will cancel. Once we've met and I start chatting I'm fine. The nerves are part of the build up though so I'm use to it now "

This! The nerves are all part of the excitement!

OP you live in a beautiful part of the world! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have been nervous before every meet I've ever had, even after ten years swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think nerves / excitement is part of the fun, I wouldn't say I get terribly nervous, more curious excitement but if I didn't have any 'different' or exciting feelings prior then I'd give up.

For people who have had hundreds of meets or meet the most, I'd be curious how they feel and how they keep the excitement there.

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By *isandreTV/TS
over a year ago

Durham

Yes, I do.

To add to that I still get a little bit nervous just walking out the door. You never know when you're going to bump into an arse.

Plus there was the time I hadn't realised I'd knocked my wig off getting out of the car and had people scattering for cover as I approached.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think nerves / excitement is part of the fun, I wouldn't say I get terribly nervous, more curious excitement but if I didn't have any 'different' or exciting feelings prior then I'd give up.

For people who have had hundreds of meets or meet the most, I'd be curious how they feel and how they keep the excitement there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I still get nervously excited. Kinda like the feeling. Xx

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

excitedly nervous and nervously excited before a meet..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It is interesting to know that people do still get nervous.

I always get really bad sweaty palms before I go in a club. Really annoying lol. Once there tho I'm quiet but once I get chatting I'm in my element lol.

Not had a 1 - 1 before so interesting to see what it would be like lol. Had a few dates with girls but never off here ha!

What's the worst thing that's ever happened?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oh yes, very nervous to the point where I hope my meet will cancel. Once we've met and I start chatting I'm fine. The nerves are part of the build up though so I'm use to it now

This! The nerves are all part of the excitement!

OP you live in a beautiful part of the world! X"

Thank you should come visit one day. I'll give you a guided tour...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll tell you when I get my first meet

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"I get excited. I don't get nervous,I can't wait to get mine and his clothes off and start kissing "

^This, only it's her clothes not his

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I still get nervous but then have a giggle at the absurdity of it all. seems to help

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By *ratty_DamselWoman
over a year ago

New Cross


"Someone mentioned in another thread.

Do people still get nervous when going on meets?

I'm a wreck beforehand and shy when I'm there. (Self conscious)

"

Omg, yes.....

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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

nope. no nerves here, its just meeting someone - either i get on with them or i don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get excited. I don't get nervous,I can't wait to get mine and his clothes off and start kissing

^This, only it's her clothes not his "

If I'm meeting at his place I get a little flush of desire as he opens the door to me. It's a very exciting feeling seeing a hot man smiling at me as he welcomes me into his home

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