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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How many messages (unread) are in your inbox?

I'll start... 2

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By *at-cWoman
over a year ago

Ballyshannon

156

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

none I dont get many so pretty eay to deal with at the time

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall

none...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3, no idea who they are coz i just replied to a few people i am chatting to.

am getting good at keeping on top of my inbox lately, and fast on this site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

make that 5.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many many

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

You don't get many? lies! :p

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

Just done a bulk delete - a few days away from fab over christmas...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Haha that's amazing

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By *rcticFoxxxWoman
over a year ago

Hereabouts

I was about to say 'none now

'... But now I have 2!

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By *ourbonKissMan
over a year ago

a land up north..... of leicester

"none...

Will a wink make up for it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

;) smooth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

back down to three, and added another person to talk with. doing well here me.

proud of my chatting/deleting skills.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm now 1

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Zero, I read 'em all as soon as I see 'em, even if I don't reply immediately. The little blue icon bugs me if I don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's an inbox?

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By *redieeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

Big fat zero

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 29/12/14 23:43:01]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None yay!

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By *utumnWoman
over a year ago

leeds

"none I don't get many so pretty easy to deal with at the time

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

We get quite a lot each day and read most, how come some of you guys have so many unread? :-/

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Big fat zero"

Common theme emerging here, this fab certainly ain't brazil

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None now but had a few messages tonight xx

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

468!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was just about to say none, better change that to 2. I don't get many either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None unread right now as I just read/deleted a stack! nice tidy inbox

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We get quite a lot each day and read most, how come some of you guys have so many unread? :-/"

My unread ones are normally guys asking me to come over, cover them and then leave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Zero

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

None...I like to keep on top of mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No female's mail so dont have to check

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By *aymackCouple
over a year ago

manchester

None....not a solitary single one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Zero

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

What's an inbox?

*sends Canis a "Fancy a fuck" message

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By *educerMan
over a year ago

Brentwood

None....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Uncountable millions. I have to employ teams of secretaries to deal with them. Cost me a fortune.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Uncountable millions. I have to employ teams of secretaries to deal with them. Cost me a fortune."

How do know it's millions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None presently, as we're taking a break over Christmas.

Portia

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

0 because no1 talks to me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"0 because no1 talks to me

Not even robin?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Uncountable millions. I have to employ teams of secretaries to deal with them. Cost me a fortune.

How do know it's millions"

I just do. Possibly billions, the figures for today haven't come in yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

28- we have been out for the evening so they will have to wait till the morning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"none I dont get many so pretty eay to deal with at the time

Snap... On the rare occasion it goes into double figures (usually kicking out time on a Fri/Sat night!) I can't be arsed so god knows how the ones with hundreds cope!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ffs, as soon as i deleted one unread message the guy sends me another one straight away...

hehe gonna delete it again and see what happens.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"ffs, as soon as i deleted one unread message the guy sends me another one straight away...

hehe gonna delete it again and see what happens."

What did it say what did it say haha

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By *at-cWoman
over a year ago

Ballyshannon

"We get quite a lot each day and read most, how come some of you guys have so many unread? :-/"

That might be a total of unread messages over a long period...... some are repeat mails from people I have answered before to say 'thanks for the mail but not from me' who continue to mail asking to meet. Some are from profiles who wouldn't be for me and it's obvious from my profile aren't for me, for example the email heading says 'In your town tonight'.

Some have just horrible headings I have no interest in opening and I guess it's just a matter of poor housekeeping on my part I don't just bother taking the time to sit and delete them. It may seem rude on my part to not respond but it's a tactic I've adopted to ensure I enjoy using the site, despite being a polite person I don't always find (about 10% of the time) that my good manners result in receiving good manners in return. Sorry not on a rant just answering your query, it's simply a matter of me not wanting to spend that amount of time answering emails. I am not snowed under with contact and for some reason I don't like using the block or filters in case I might miss something good.

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains

"ffs, as soon as i deleted one unread message the guy sends me another one straight away...

hehe gonna delete it again and see what happens."

I wonder if it's the same guy who messaged me today 3 times with the same thing.. When that happensvthey get blocked!

I have none, I read straight away then go through and delete those that don't interest me every couple of days!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None since I blocked single guys

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"We get quite a lot each day and read most, how come some of you guys have so many unread? :-/

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ffs, as soon as i deleted one unread message the guy sends me another one straight away...

hehe gonna delete it again and see what happens.

I wonder if it's the same guy who messaged me today 3 times with the same thing.. When that happensvthey get blocked!

I have none, I read straight away then go through and delete those that don't interest me every couple of days!"

Could be. I'm around your area. Have noticed a fair few guys do this, send repeat messages after being ignored but never had one do it as soon as i deleted it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ffs, as soon as i deleted one unread message the guy sends me another one straight away...

hehe gonna delete it again and see what happens.

What did it say what did it say haha"

I didn't read them, so no idea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

19912, or none

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None. ...i haven't had any all evening

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"None. ...i haven't had any all evening"

I don't believe u

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"None. ...i haven't had any all evening"

Actually that's a lie. ..i have had a couple this evening. ..but still none now

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By *redieeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

Just read your profile Scarlett and there's certainly no point in me messaging you wasting your time ha

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just read your profile Scarlett and there's certainly no point in me messaging you wasting your time ha"

Snap haha I could be black tho

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By *redieeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

Hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That wasn't a complaint btw. It's just how i like it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Currently down to 22 after a clear out. A global delete is like a good dump!

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford

I've had 2 messages all day...

Wives must be home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"0 because no1 talks to me

That's because according to the song, you smell.

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By *edsBonkingMan
over a year ago

Near MK

None Zero zilch.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

"We get quite a lot each day and read most, how come some of you guys have so many unread? :-/

Thanks for that, definitely food for thought on cutting down time and getting more out of the site for us.

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By *onbons_xxMan
over a year ago

Bolton

Just now...0

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None, I don't get many and I deal with them as soon as I can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

48. Accrued over the Christmas period. Some were part of a conversation I read on the conversation thread,some appeared overnight while I was sleeping,some just slipped off the page while I was chatting to someone. I will look at them when I get home,on the laptop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course ....All those proclaiming none are likely to attract the attention of the flesh hunters, who will now jam pack their inboxes. ...excuse the pun

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By *ingle Beds LassWoman
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

might be due to lack of padding on my profile and no pics apart from avatar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

might be due to lack of padding on my profile and no pics apart from avatar

"
pervert

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By *ingle Beds LassWoman
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

might be due to lack of padding on my profile and no pics apart from avatar

pervert

Moi? Pourquoi?

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

0 here, we keep on top of ours, all one liners are ignored.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

0 as per usual 'holds face in hands sobbing'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

4 as just answered the others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None.. we dont get many since we dont show up in site searches and our profile is very limited

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1 million!

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By *omaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"How many messages (unread) are in your inbox?

I'll start... 2"

InBox? . . I have an inbox? . . Oh you mean that thing with cobwebs all over it? Thought that was just a cellar. . . None

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Zero

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always read my messages I'm far too nosey not to!

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

None. I don't get many and that's more than ok with me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's interesting is the amount of blokes who moan constantly about no mail....yet it appears it's not that different for many couples and females ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None as I read and answer everything I get and then delete, the only things o retain are the last message in a conversation so I can pick it up at a later date.

But tbh I only get a few a day so it's not hard to deal with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" What's interesting is the amount of blokes who moan constantly about no mail....yet it appears it's not that different for many couples and females ? "

I find status helps keep my inbox down, same for profile as well. If you mention you aren't chatting, or are deleting or blocking people who message then people tend not to message, you get the odd one who does but you can delete them and carry on chatting to the people you want to talk to.

I have come to the conclusion that most guys do actually read your profile.

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