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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

"Standard/preferences"

I'm agree with the fact that we all have preferences/standards (whatever you call them), nonetheless are you flexible with those or not?

Would you date/meet someone who doesn't fit perfectly into your preferences?

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


""Standard/preferences"

I'm agree with the fact that we all have preferences/standards (whatever you call them), nonetheless are you flexible with those or not?

Would you date/meet someone who doesn't fit perfectly into your preferences?

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Nope.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

no, this isn't about compromise for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No but my preferences are pretty wide

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, don't see the point.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

For a meet, no, but I have been known to slip a bit on the height requirements at a club. To be fair its hard to make sure they're above 5'10 when they're banging me from behind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, absolutely.

It's highly unlikely that any one person will fit perfectly with all one's standrads/desires etc.

And usually, if they're so "perfect" their not so nice to know.

As an old Chinese proverb says* "The Willow tree bends with the wind".

*In Cantonese or Mandarin of course.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. ..i only have one main one and I'm not budging on it for anyone.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

well for instance if blonds aren't really in your preferences but you come across a very fine and kind blond, I don't see why it should be a problem ?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"well for instance if blonds aren't really in your preferences but you come across a very fine and kind blond, I don't see why it should be a problem ? "

it really depends on how specific ones preferences are then.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"well for instance if blonds aren't really in your preferences but you come across a very fine and kind blond, I don't see why it should be a problem ?

it really depends on how specific ones preferences are then. "

Yes I agree with you...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I have met some wonderful people who would have been so far outside my preferences normally.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"well for instance if blonds aren't really in your preferences but you come across a very fine and kind blond, I don't see why it should be a problem ?

it really depends on how specific ones preferences are then.

Yes I agree with you... "

Mine aren't so specific that they include hair colour but the preferences I do have are not open to compromise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Yes, absolutely.

It's highly unlikely that any one person will fit perfectly with all one's standrads/desires etc.

And usually, if they're so "perfect" their not so nice to know.

As an old Chinese proverb says* "The Willow tree bends with the wind".

*In Cantonese or Mandarin of course. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No but my preferences are pretty wide "

My only specified one is height really.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes, I have met some wonderful people who would have been so far outside my preferences normally."

thank you this is what I meant... ones must have preferences but they can change according to the person they meet, I'd like to think so ...

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By *ipsTeaserCouple
over a year ago

here and there, thereabouts

Date... Yes. Bugs was not what my I would have said my 'preference' was at the time yet here we are together years later.

Meet... Yes. But only if there is a certain something that makes me want to, or if I actually can flex to it. Our first social and soon to be first meet I turned away with a thanks but no thanks, and his response peaked my interest and changed my mind.

I think you have to be open to the idea that your preferences are just that but not exclusions to all other possibilities

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By *vsnikkiTV/TS
over a year ago

Limavady

I would prefer a couple where the lady was Kate Winslet and the guy was all dom with a 10 inch willy. Not surprisingly compromise is necessary!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""Standard/preferences"

I'm agree with the fact that we all have preferences/standards (whatever you call them), nonetheless are you flexible with those or not?

Would you date/meet someone who doesn't fit perfectly into your preferences?

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Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only if chemistry

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Yes, I have met some wonderful people who would have been so far outside my preferences normally.

thank you this is what I meant... ones must have preferences but they can change according to the person they meet, I'd like to think so ..."

I would agree if we were looking for life partners but we're not, we're looking for no strings sex.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Date... Yes. Bugs was not what my I would have said my 'preference' was at the time yet here we are together years later.

Meet... Yes. But only if there is a certain something that makes me want to, or if I actually can flex to it. Our first social and soon to be first meet I turned away with a thanks but no thanks, and his response peaked my interest and changed my mind.

I think you have to be open to the idea that your preferences are just that but not exclusions to all other possibilities "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, I have met some wonderful people who would have been so far outside my preferences normally."

This! Great attitude

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Only if chemistry"

so would you meet other than white men if chemistry there is ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would prefer a couple where the lady was Kate Winslet and the guy was all dom with a 10 inch willy. Not surprisingly compromise is necessary!"

Yes you found us!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

SW1A1AA

No because my preferences are to do with manners, attitude and personality nothing to do with looks that's varied

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No because my preferences are to do with manners, attitude and personality nothing to do with looks that's varied

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have preferences any more. There's a diverse range of people message me, if i like the look of them and we get on then i will meet them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope im a stubborn bitch I spent first 18 months trying lots of different preferences lol and the last 18months ive swayed to one major preference and not gone out of that paticular preference since May this year.Im a woman that knows what she wants and thats that

There is a clue in my name

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Preferences are what they are, I don't have that many and non of them are set in stone. If Agnetha Fältskog mailed me, I wouldn't turn her down and she's 64

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only if chemistry

so would you meet other than white men if chemistry there is ? "

Nope

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

Walsall

I like to keep my options wide open....so don't actually have any standards! As long as I find folk attractive and they do it for me.

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By *vsnikkiTV/TS
over a year ago

Limavady

I have preferences but my standards are low!

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By *ola.Woman
over a year ago

Just where I need to be.


"No because my preferences are to do with manners, attitude and personality nothing to do with looks that's varied

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope don't compromise at all

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"For a meet, no, but I have been known to slip a bit on the height requirements at a club. To be fair its hard to make sure they're above 5'10 when they're banging me from behind. "

I've put a tape measure in my shag bag for our next club visit, I'll personally check for you and if they're under height, I'll shag them instead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For a meet, no, but I have been known to slip a bit on the height requirements at a club. To be fair its hard to make sure they're above 5'10 when they're banging me from behind.

I've put a tape measure in my shag bag for our next club visit, I'll personally check for you and if they're under height, I'll shag them instead "

Any chance i'd get away with bending my knees somewhat?

Then stand erect again.

Everyone love's a bogof.

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By *L RogueMan
over a year ago

London

Flexible on my preferences, not on my standards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not usualy unless they were realy nice.

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