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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Always wondered how you fun your accounts? Do you normally get people presuming it is always the female on the other end?. Who is nornally the active one? I.E arranging meets, sifting through messages?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In general it's Mr here, Mrs N has full input to profile, messages and who we want to meet with etc. Forum waffle is all my own work tho' and it's quite rare that she'll post here, but it's not unheard of.

We have trended to find that a lot of people who don't know us, assume that it's Mrs N alone when they've messaged us, a tad annoying but hey, there's worse crimes that could be committed.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In general it's Mr here, Mrs N has full input to profile, messages and who we want to meet with etc. Forum waffle is all my own work tho' and it's quite rare that she'll post here, but it's not unheard of.

We have trended to find that a lot of people who don't know us, assume that it's Mrs N alone when they've messaged us, a tad annoying but hey, there's worse crimes that could be committed."

I can get that. I think it is because most couples use 80% of pics using the female. I like to address both but still hard speaking to both online i think as hard to guage.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do everything off my phone (Mr half) our laptop decided to just die one day so can only access fab from the mobile

Got a nice chromebook for Christmas which still needs setting up, but mobile is so much easier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forums it's usually me the male although Donna does come and have a look, messages it could be either of us replying, we both have the mobile app and both flick through during the day, most evenings we have a quick chat of who's looked, winked, messaged or caught our eye, as for deciding to send messages or meet its a joint decision

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One consolation, there's only ever gonna be one half typing so you've a 50/50 chance of being right

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Forums it's usually me the male although Donna does come and have a look, messages it could be either of us replying, we both have the mobile app and both flick through during the day, most evenings we have a quick chat of who's looked, winked, messaged or caught our eye, as for deciding to send messages or meet its a joint decision"

This always facinated me as thought there might be some crossed wires as Mrs might start a conversation then Mr might logon and see it half way through?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Forums it's usually me the male although Donna does come and have a look, messages it could be either of us replying, we both have the mobile app and both flick through during the day, most evenings we have a quick chat of who's looked, winked, messaged or caught our eye, as for deciding to send messages or meet its a joint decision

This always facinated me as thought there might be some crossed wires as Mrs might start a conversation then Mr might logon and see it half way through?"

We had that problem when we first joined we lost track of who had spoken to who, we decided to use my phone because I have unlimited 3G where my better half doesn't

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

it's usually me that does all the talking

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

Angel does most of the messaging, although i may send an initial message, if we get a reply, angel takes it from there. We both search for a potential meet, any i find i put in hotlist, for angel to remove at a later date i am the monkey, not the organ grinder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I recon its mostly the man cos you can also see its he that's written the profile and he as well organises the meets lol.

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By *overs14Couple
over a year ago

norwich

It's always me (the female) who does everything on fab. He just reads through the messages occasionally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Forums it's usually me the male although Donna does come and have a look, messages it could be either of us replying, we both have the mobile app and both flick through during the day, most evenings we have a quick chat of who's looked, winked, messaged or caught our eye, as for deciding to send messages or meet its a joint decision

This always facinated me as thought there might be some crossed wires as Mrs might start a conversation then Mr might logon and see it half way through?"

Wires sometimes get crossed during conversation as I generally do all of the waffling on here, Mr sometimes posts in here but not often. It can be amusing though!

Lots of people do forget that there are two of us here, we do understand though that when I'm doing most of the talking it can be difficult.

I blame this mobile business though because it means when I'm bored I just get on here! Too much time!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Forums it's usually me the male although Donna does come and have a look, messages it could be either of us replying, we both have the mobile app and both flick through during the day, most evenings we have a quick chat of who's looked, winked, messaged or caught our eye, as for deciding to send messages or meet its a joint decision

This always facinated me as thought there might be some crossed wires as Mrs might start a conversation then Mr might logon and see it half way through?

Wires sometimes get crossed during conversation as I generally do all of the waffling on here, Mr sometimes posts in here but not often. It can be amusing though!

Lots of people do forget that there are two of us here, we do understand though that when I'm doing most of the talking it can be difficult.

I blame this mobile business though because it means when I'm bored I just get on here! Too much time!"

You do all the talking anyway woman the big lad just comes in with the odd one liners

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone


"I recon its mostly the man cos you can also see its he that's written the profile and he as well organises the meets lol."

Ours is a joint effort, she wrote the beginning, then i added the rest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Forums it's usually me the male although Donna does come and have a look, messages it could be either of us replying, we both have the mobile app and both flick through during the day, most evenings we have a quick chat of who's looked, winked, messaged or caught our eye, as for deciding to send messages or meet its a joint decision

This always facinated me as thought there might be some crossed wires as Mrs might start a conversation then Mr might logon and see it half way through?

Wires sometimes get crossed during conversation as I generally do all of the waffling on here, Mr sometimes posts in here but not often. It can be amusing though!

Lots of people do forget that there are two of us here, we do understand though that when I'm doing most of the talking it can be difficult.

I blame this mobile business though because it means when I'm bored I just get on here! Too much time!

You do all the talking anyway woman the big lad just comes in with the odd one liners "

Lol true! As if you don't love my constant babbling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always a joint effort here, although usually Mr on the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always wondered how you fun your accounts? Do you normally get people presuming it is always the female on the other end?. Who is nornally the active one? I.E arranging meets, sifting through messages? "

It's usually me the fem who replies and mails as I'm very picky haha... My man keeps up to date on his phone too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is normally me cinnamon as we set up ginger her own account for the particular style of play we wanted to explore. She does check in on the couples from occasion though

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