FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to The Lounge

Meeting with a couple etiquette

Jump to newest
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So

I'm relatively new to all this, had my first meet yesterday morn..... It was fab.

Anyways I've been chatting to couples, I'm interested in meeting the girl... They seem interested too. Some are wanting sex at home.... He may be watching (which sounds fun) we may even mmf (again sounds fun). But others want to meet alone.

My query is are there any etiquette rules. Ie. Do you bring a gift, wine, outfits, what about condoms?

And what about at the end if Mr. Doesn't play... Do you thank him?

I don't want to cheapen the fun, but it's all a bit new..... Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

And if couples who do this sort of thing could give feed back that would be great too.

Thanks

Craig

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ichaelsmyMan
over a year ago

douglas

always polite to ask the couple first what they like/want, they're rules and requirements.

condoms, you always bring and so you have them.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

Best buy latex free condoms and always have them with you.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Outfits?!?! Not the gimp man of Essex!?!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I go to someones home I take a bottle x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Best buy latex free condoms and always have them with you. "

Oh that's good.... Wouldn't have thought of that.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Outfits?!?! Not the gimp man of Essex!?! "

Nope. Lol. I mean sexy underwear for her.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *eep_Calm_andMan
over a year ago

milton keynes

have found this thread helpful, cheers op, its something i find quite interesting and have been approached by some couples but havent ventured yet

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

respect, respect and alittle more...., the great couple I see have now become good friends and all know each other inside out..., both of us are straight as arrows but do enjoy a good night out with no sexy or her joining us.

Other times she comes and who knows what's going to happen....other times me and her go out and then back home to bed on own..........

Feels so natural......

but taken time and respect.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure, prefer single women myself

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

We play mf with hubby watching fully clothed, a bit more to it than that, all in our profile.

Our male half does almost all of the conversing due to her being ultra busy work wise but relays everything back to her for approval or not. Once the meet is arranged which means our message conversations have gone well and boundaries are set we're good to go and provide our telephone number, names or anything else we feel brings an element of secureness/relaxation.

We don't expect drinks bought for us but if we're the ones providing the hotel we always ask if they'd like drinks or something to eat, we've only ever been asked for water.

Some couples prefer to meet socially first but we don't as we like the nervousness of the first initial sighting and how it plays into the meet. We talk for a while, exchange some experiences, gleen useful info we may want for 15 mins or so then Mrs N and whoever get down to play, me going to wash my hands usually encourages the initial contact, the most nervous part, lol. Our male and from what we've heard is a little different as he doesn't interfere at all in the play, doesn't direct and prefers to stay in the background, after all everything has been discussed prior, also we don't want the meet to be about facilitating us but equally enjoyed by all.

Our meets tend to last a few hours with three and a bit being the longest, there's lots of convo between sessions and giggles as we're both a bit of practical jokers, it's all about having fun and enjoying the moment and hoping the person involved with us found the experience a good one to want to meet up again.

Oh, we've always used our own lingerie, clothing and in the discussions this is often brought up and accommodated if we're happy.

Have a FAB time, hope our info helps a little it'll be different to other couples no doubt but should help with the overall picture.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"respect, respect and alittle more...., the great couple I see have now become good friends and all know each other inside out..., both of us are straight as arrows but do enjoy a good night out with no sexy or her joining us.

Other times she comes and who knows what's going to happen....other times me and her go out and then back home to bed on own..........

Feels so natural......

but taken time and respect."

My dream xxx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks guys girls and couples for your input.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Outfits?!?! Not the gimp man of Essex!?! "

OI

What's wrong with me Attire

Essex Gimp

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top