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"Just had a quick look on the web about this place. Sounds horrific, the say it was one of the worst concentration camps in Europe!" My sister lives about half an hour from there thats why we are going to that one. Jays also half jewish but he has been to camps before | |||
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"Just a note, went to Gent the week before last, beautiful city and well worth a visit " Thats where my sister lives lol, it is lovely city | |||
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"Oops talk about teach your mother to suck eggs lol" lol, theyve nearly finished all the work they have been doing in the town. If you stand on the bridge you can see all three church towers. Going for a week on the 1st so should be nice, plus we know all the nice eating places, well she does lol | |||
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"Well have changed holiday plans for November and are now going to spend a couple of nights their cos want to explore the city more. PLus I found my kinda shop, Gin and Beer House lol" Thing is when i tend to go, its used as a base and we go off out to other places and only probely spend one day going round gent. Its so close to antwerp and brugges, antwerp is my favourite city although i know its not to everyones liking. If you want before you go i will give you some recommendations of places to go | |||
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"Kates dad was Polish and was a prisoner of war in an Italian camp. He escaped with 4 others and got to the UK, just as the war was ending. Some of his mates and family ended up in the camps in Poland. The stories he told me got me so emotional that I will never go to Belsen or Auswitz, just to "go see". Kate has been, she's braver than me in that sense. " We know exactly what you mean. We can't understand why people go to horrific places, with terrible memories, when they know it will upset them either. It's like when we came back from New York some years ago. People asked if we'd been to Ground Zero.......er no,we went to enjoy ourselves not to get upset by reminders of mans inhumanity to man. XXXX | |||
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"Been to Brugges loads of time, cos get the ferry across from Hull for a nice little weekend break. Thanks Diamond I'll take you up on that if I may." When i go i will get my sister to sort out a list of best restaurants and places to see and pass it on to you | |||
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" We know exactly what you mean. We can't understand why people go to horrific places, with terrible memories, when they know it will upset them either. It's like when we came back from New York some years ago. People asked if we'd been to Ground Zero.......er no,we went to enjoy ourselves not to get upset by reminders of mans inhumanity to man. XXXX" I go to New York every year as I have friends living there. One of my friends is a cop with NYPD and was on duty on the morning of 9/11. Every year I visit Ground Zero and remember the tragic events. In the visitor centre, there is a room where the wall is chock a block with photographs of all those who died on that day - its a sobering site and brings it home to me how lucky I am. | |||
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"We erect war memorials to remember the dead and we keep places like Belsen open to remember the murdered. I'm surprised that Germany have kept these camps in existence as it must be an endless source of shame for that country, even though most of those that participated in the holocaust have long gone themselves. Diamond, my advice, visit the place with a huge dollop of humility for those that died there and a strong sense of gratitude that our grandfathers managed to keep the Third Reich from our shores." That is the reason i feel its time i went. I have always been ignorant as far as the wars have been concerned until i met jay. I have learnt so much from him. Hes always going of on battle field tours and has literally 100's and 100's of books, he studies everthing in minor detail. Funny thing is the only battlefield hes not been to is waterloo and its the onl one ive been to so we are also going there | |||
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"We erect war memorials to remember the dead and we keep places like Belsen open to remember the murdered. I'm surprised that Germany have kept these camps in existence as it must be an endless source of shame for that country, even though most of those that participated in the holocaust have long gone themselves. Diamond, my advice, visit the place with a huge dollop of humility for those that died there and a strong sense of gratitude that our grandfathers managed to keep the Third Reich from our shores." Germany keep these places open as its a part of their history. In fact Colditz is open as a hotel isnt it. I dont think Germans are ashamed, not all Germans are Nazis. | |||
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"Just a note, went to Gent the week before last, beautiful city and well worth a visit " lovely place ghent,love the ancient big catherdals in this country anyway. have worked around northern france/belgium border and its eerie to see the names of towns/cities that you know from history books concerning wars. | |||
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"Well have changed holiday plans for November and are now going to spend a couple of nights their cos want to explore the city more. PLus I found my kinda shop, Gin and Beer House lol Thing is when i tend to go, its used as a base and we go off out to other places and only probely spend one day going round gent. Its so close to antwerp and brugges, antwerp is my favourite city although i know its not to everyones liking. If you want before you go i will give you some recommendations of places to go" If you can make it the back end of November It would be worth nipping to Koln around a 3hr drive from Gent (or any major German city) for the Xmas market it really is worth going just for the walk around. I have not been to a Concentration Camp but I used visit a factory in Dachau (one of the closest factories to the camp) and there was a funny feeling about the place undescribable really. In Germany it's also quite strange how some camps have been turned into normal office blocks with just a plaque on the wall. | |||
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"We erect war memorials to remember the dead and we keep places like Belsen open to remember the murdered. I'm surprised that Germany have kept these camps in existence as it must be an endless source of shame for that country, even though most of those that participated in the holocaust have long gone themselves. Diamond, my advice, visit the place with a huge dollop of humility for those that died there and a strong sense of gratitude that our grandfathers managed to keep the Third Reich from our shores. Germany keep these places open as its a part of their history. In fact Colditz is open as a hotel isnt it. I dont think Germans are ashamed, not all Germans are Nazis." With respect, I was not inferring all Germans are Nazis, far from it because if they were they'd revel in their past - not feel ashamed of it. I was talking about a sense of disconnection from a part of their past that they'd rather hadn't happened. I know this from German people that I know and have spoke to about it. Obviously they do not speak for the entire German nation but I specifically asked them how most Germans feel about the holocaust, and ashamed was one of the feelings that they mentioned. They also said that they felt disgusted that some people, usually non-German anti-semitics, claim that the holocaust never actually happened and that it's nothing but propoganda made up by outside influences. | |||
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"We erect war memorials to remember the dead and we keep places like Belsen open to remember the murdered. I'm surprised that Germany have kept these camps in existence as it must be an endless source of shame for that country, even though most of those that participated in the holocaust have long gone themselves. Diamond, my advice, visit the place with a huge dollop of humility for those that died there and a strong sense of gratitude that our grandfathers managed to keep the Third Reich from our shores." Here here, Wishy... | |||
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" With respect, I was not inferring all Germans are Nazis, far from it because if they were they'd revel in their past - not feel ashamed of it. I was talking about a sense of disconnection from a part of their past that they'd rather hadn't happened. I know this from German people that I know and have spoke to about it. Obviously they do not speak for the entire German nation but I specifically asked them how most Germans feel about the holocaust, and ashamed was one of the feelings that they mentioned. They also said that they felt disgusted that some people, usually non-German anti-semitics, claim that the holocaust never actually happened and that it's nothing but propoganda made up by outside influences." Good point, and I dont think that any German claiming to be "human" can be proud of any part of the Holocaust, other than perhaps those who risked their own lives to help others - my grandfather was awarded the highest national award for bravery incidentally, at a personal level (as it is a member of my family) I am proud to say. My late father was only 15 when the war ended so perhaps that is why I personally cannot share a sense of shame of German history. So-called "ethnic cleansing" is a horrendous and inhumane act at any time - and it should not have happened and it should never happen again - unfortunately it still does in various parts all over the world. Speaking for my family and friends I would say that only the older generation perhaps tend to share a sense of shame these days (more so than my generation), simply as they were there when it happened? | |||
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" My limited understanding fo history is that the Germans ( my grandad was German ) wanted to remove the Jews peacefully to a homeland of their own. The main and very strong objection to this was by Britain, hence eventually the search for a different solution. I could be wrong." Very wrong indeed. | |||
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"We erect war memorials to remember the dead and we keep places like Belsen open to remember the murdered. I'm surprised that Germany have kept these camps in existence as it must be an endless source of shame for that country, even though most of those that participated in the holocaust have long gone themselves. Diamond, my advice, visit the place with a huge dollop of humility for those that died there and a strong sense of gratitude that our grandfathers managed to keep the Third Reich from our shores." My sister and brother-in-law visited Belsen and said the same thing: she felt humbled. It's the scale of the atrocities that gets you I'm told. I love history but I think I'd find the visit overwhelming. | |||
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