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By *ornyguy414u OP   Man
over a year ago

Hadleigh Essex

. So here goes. I had a meet laat night with a very nice and very sexy single fem. We have chatted for couple of weeks and agreed the time was right to meet up. I went to hers as agreed , she was dressed to thrill. We had couole glasses of wine and kissed loads on sofa , then off to the bedroom we went. We were kissing lots and a hell of alot of foreplay , i decided to put a condom on as i anticipated penetration was close. I entered her by now soaking pussy and it was great , until the point she whispered in my ear to take the condom off as she wanted me to fill her with my hot spunk. When i declined as i only do safe sex , that was meeting over. I was asked to leave . All this after we discussed our profile boundaries and dos and donts prior to meeting. Anyone else had this happen ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no and we only ever play safe too - we want to be healthy oldies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People have there rules and its the way they play ....... if yours are condoms and player not into them .. No play simple . Simple.

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By *ornyguy414u OP   Man
over a year ago

Hadleigh Essex

But we had agreed on using condoms prior to meeting.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

do you think every person sticks to their published boundaries on here, you are naive if you do....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But we had agreed on using condoms prior to meeting."

She obviously lied and lead you on. Not a nice situation but you were right to stick to your guns.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But we had agreed on using condoms prior to meeting."

Obviously she got lost in the moment and was turned on more than anticipated, people do throw caution to the wind at times. But you did well there, some guys would probably think oh yeah let's do this. Never a risk I would take though. Good on ya for keepin to your boundaries.

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By *ornyguy414u OP   Man
over a year ago

Hadleigh Essex

I also had to stick to my right hand when i got home lol

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By *ornyguy414u OP   Man
over a year ago

Hadleigh Essex

And im.no way naive. It was agreed and she wanted me to cum in her which i declined so how am i naive ???

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"And im.no way naive. It was agreed and she wanted me to cum in her which i declined so how am i naive ???"

because some people will say what they think the other wants to hear to get what they want and then show their true colours when they get it...

I don't know all sides to the story as we have one and many times there are 3, yours, hers and the middle ground.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.....had this happen a few times. You were not naive.....someone else lied even after you had checked, chatted and set the boundaries.

You did everything right....especially in sticking to your guns.

Not worth risking your health. She is likely to have done this before and you run the risk of God knows what from previous guys with less sense and less resolve than you.

You are to be congratulated....!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well done ... Sticking to ur principles and a very sensible principle indeed

Better of with ur DIY job than the alternative xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She is probably a very nice sensible woman, who agreed safe sex and meant it.

But then in the heat of the moment her horny hormone took over.

How did you refuse her request? Was it partly your fault the meet ended badly?

You were right not to go bareback, but you are wrong to say she set out to trick you into it, I have known this to happen, but when the sweat has cooled and passion sated the sensible head has returned to her too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Move on, no drama - obviously you didn't know her that well and you stuck to your own principles, good for you. I've done the same too, but it didn't end quite so badly - either way though, you live and you learn and all that.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"But we had agreed on using condoms prior to meeting."

Very disrespectful of her and wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many people can often say what they think you want to hear to get a meet. There are countless profiles on here stating safe sex in their interests but the profile is littered with bareback pics often with different partners.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"And im.no way naive. It was agreed and she wanted me to cum in her which i declined so how am i naive ???"

I don't believe you are, if this had happened to a woman there would be a lynch mob out right now.

We only have your side of the story and I feel that details of meets are best kept private so I won't comment further but people will infer all sorts.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"And im.no way naive. It was agreed and she wanted me to cum in her which i declined so how am i naive ???

I don't believe you are, if this had happened to a woman there would be a lynch mob out right now.

We only have your side of the story and I feel that details of meets are best kept private so I won't comment further but people will infer all sorts."

I was just about to type exactly that!

How many times do we hear this tale from the woman's point of _iew and the guy is generally 'virtually hung drawn and quartered'.

It happened OP - just move on and hope it doesn't again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" We only have your side of the story and I feel that details of meets are best kept private so I won't comment further but people will infer all sorts."

It's that discretion thing that some people on here have a huge problem with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a meet where we ran out of condoms and both of us wanted to have more sex. We didn't though, and i always made sure to stock up on them since and next time we met up he had more on him as well.

Think it's weird someone wanted you to take one off unless you were gonna finish off on their body. I luv cum and love being cummed in but having it on my body or in my mouth would also satisfy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its happened OP, some people obviously change their minds in the heat of the moment.

Look on the bright side, you had a good meet up til that point and you did actually have sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes happened to me too op, she said she was using condoms in her profile, but as I met her, and we went up to the bedroom at hers, she said she didn't want to use any. I said ok, she can have my hot spunk, she was 54 tho so was ok, (wasn't from this site)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes happened to me too op, she said she was using condoms in her profile, but as I met her, and we went up to the bedroom at hers, she said she didn't want to use any. I said ok, she can have my hot spunk, she was 54 tho so was ok, (wasn't from this site) "

Why was it ok as she was 54?

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By *asmanian TigerMan
over a year ago

lala land


"do you think every person sticks to their published boundaries on here, you are naive if you do....

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"Yes happened to me too op, she said she was using condoms in her profile, but as I met her, and we went up to the bedroom at hers, she said she didn't want to use any. I said ok, she can have my hot spunk, she was 54 tho so was ok, (wasn't from this site) "

I have to ask Shag, why is 54 okay

I am only asking as i am 55

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes happened to me too op, she said she was using condoms in her profile, but as I met her, and we went up to the bedroom at hers, she said she didn't want to use any. I said ok, she can have my hot spunk, she was 54 tho so was ok, (wasn't from this site)

Why was it ok as she was 54?"
Because they have less chance to get pregnant with the ratios.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes happened to me too op, she said she was using condoms in her profile, but as I met her, and we went up to the bedroom at hers, she said she didn't want to use any. I said ok, she can have my hot spunk, she was 54 tho so was ok, (wasn't from this site)

I have to ask Shag, why is 54 okay

I am only asking as i am 55"
Yes, they have less chance to get pregnant with the ratios, that's why I did it.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"Yes happened to me too op, she said she was using condoms in her profile, but as I met her, and we went up to the bedroom at hers, she said she didn't want to use any. I said ok, she can have my hot spunk, she was 54 tho so was ok, (wasn't from this site)

Why was it ok as she was 54?Because they have less chance to get pregnant with the ratios."

cool, thank you sir

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Yes happened to me too op, she said she was using condoms in her profile, but as I met her, and we went up to the bedroom at hers, she said she didn't want to use any. I said ok, she can have my hot spunk, she was 54 tho so was ok, (wasn't from this site)

Why was it ok as she was 54?Because they have less chance to get pregnant with the ratios."

Less chance but still a chance........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes happened to me too op, she said she was using condoms in her profile, but as I met her, and we went up to the bedroom at hers, she said she didn't want to use any. I said ok, she can have my hot spunk, she was 54 tho so was ok, (wasn't from this site)

Why was it ok as she was 54?Because they have less chance to get pregnant with the ratios.

cool, thank you sir"
You welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes happened to me too op, she said she was using condoms in her profile, but as I met her, and we went up to the bedroom at hers, she said she didn't want to use any. I said ok, she can have my hot spunk, she was 54 tho so was ok, (wasn't from this site)

Why was it ok as she was 54?Because they have less chance to get pregnant with the ratios.

Less chance but still a chance........"
Yes good point as well.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Yes happened to me too op, she said she was using condoms in her profile, but as I met her, and we went up to the bedroom at hers, she said she didn't want to use any. I said ok, she can have my hot spunk, she was 54 tho so was ok, (wasn't from this site)

Why was it ok as she was 54?Because they have less chance to get pregnant with the ratios.

Less chance but still a chance........Yes good point as well."

They ask women up to the age of 60 if they are pregnant before x-rays etc nowadays.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had this with a guy - agreed to safe sex beforehand then during sex asked me every 10 minutes if he could take off the condom. Completely killed the mood for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes happened to me too op, she said she was using condoms in her profile, but as I met her, and we went up to the bedroom at hers, she said she didn't want to use any. I said ok, she can have my hot spunk, she was 54 tho so was ok, (wasn't from this site)

Why was it ok as she was 54?Because they have less chance to get pregnant with the ratios."

Same chance of giving you clap tho.....more so if it is a habit with her.....you are basically shagging everyone who has shagged her!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She may not get pregnant - but you might have left with a little extra on board!!

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

Less chance of getting pregnant maybe, still as great a risk of STDs

In the heat of the moment I have never felt the need to tell a guy to remove his condom!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes happened to me too op, she said she was using condoms in her profile, but as I met her, and we went up to the bedroom at hers, she said she didn't want to use any. I said ok, she can have my hot spunk, she was 54 tho so was ok, (wasn't from this site)

Why was it ok as she was 54?Because they have less chance to get pregnant with the ratios.

Less chance but still a chance........Yes good point as well.

They ask women up to the age of 60 if they are pregnant before x-rays etc nowadays. "
Ah yes and in away that's good as well, didn't know that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes happened to me too op, she said she was using condoms in her profile, but as I met her, and we went up to the bedroom at hers, she said she didn't want to use any. I said ok, she can have my hot spunk, she was 54 tho so was ok, (wasn't from this site)

Why was it ok as she was 54?Because they have less chance to get pregnant with the ratios."

So you're not bothered about STD's then, only babies?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes happened to me too op, she said she was using condoms in her profile, but as I met her, and we went up to the bedroom at hers, she said she didn't want to use any. I said ok, she can have my hot spunk, she was 54 tho so was ok, (wasn't from this site)

Why was it ok as she was 54?Because they have less chance to get pregnant with the ratios.

So you're not bothered about STD's then, only babies?!"
Yes I am as well bothered with that as well x.

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol


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Same chance of giving you clap tho.....more so if it is a habit with her.....you are basically shagging everyone who has shagged her!"

i would think he is probably aware of that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Same chance of giving you clap tho.....more so if it is a habit with her.....you are basically shagging everyone who has shagged her!

i would think he is probably aware of that "
Yes I know that as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 56 and still use condoms

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Yes happened to me too op, she said she was using condoms in her profile, but as I met her, and we went up to the bedroom at hers, she said she didn't want to use any. I said ok, she can have my hot spunk, she was 54 tho so was ok, (wasn't from this site)

Why was it ok as she was 54?Because they have less chance to get pregnant with the ratios.

Less chance but still a chance........Yes good point as well.

They ask women up to the age of 60 if they are pregnant before x-rays etc nowadays. Ah yes and in away that's good as well, didn't know that."

My point is that the medical profession think that more women in their mid to late fifties now have a chance of being pregnant that therefore increases your chance of meeting a lady for who it's possible.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"She may not get pregnant - but you might have left with a little extra on board!!"

or so might she

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So many judgements on just one side of a story.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm 56 and still use condoms "
And I see why ..Its high risk sex ... how do you know where they have been before shagging you ,

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

with that in mind some men and some women will still choose to take that chance ...we all have choices and that is their choice and they are entitled to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"with that in mind some men and some women will still choose to take that chance ...we all have choices and that is their choice and they are entitled to it "

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