FabSwingers.com forum: GRRR!!!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've mentioned this before, but I find it infuriating how some women DEMAND a face pic from any man who messages them, but when requested, won't return the favour. This is currently happening to me right now. Double standards much?

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

don't send one then, they can ask but it doesn't mean anything...

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"don't send one then, they can ask but it doesn't mean anything..."

Totally agree with this, just because they demand doesn't mean you have to comply!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"don't send one then, they can ask but it doesn't mean anything..."

I don't send any pics, they're all on my profile for everyone to see.

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By *o30Woman
over a year ago

Lincoln

Even if I'm not interested, I usually send a face picture. Just polite to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've mentioned this before, but I find it infuriating how some women DEMAND a face pic from any man who messages them, but when requested, won't return the favour. This is currently happening to me right now. Double standards much?"

I'm confused (easily happens I know)

why are they demanding a face pic when you have one on display anyway?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Even if I'm not interested, I usually send a face picture. Just polite to "

Exactly!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm confused (easily happens I know)

why are they demanding a face pic when you have one on display anyway?"

I mean on their profile.

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

I am genuinely puzzled by the notion that I may have some idea if I want to have sex with someone who's face I have never seen. ....

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

If you've mentioned it before you should know what the standard replies are shouldn't you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So just move on. If it's that much of an issue you obviously don't want to meet them so what does it matter?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If you've mentioned it before you should know what the standard replies are shouldn't you

It's called 'letting off some steam', smart arse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or is this thread really about an expectation that everyone should go about things in a way that you are happy with?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do have guys just send face pics even when they dont meet what I am looking for on here, as most are local I dont send my face pic to save any embarassing situations in town! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You seem to have a bit of an obsession about how others run their profiles going off your other threads. Face pics/not face pics, pussy pics/not pussy pics. Why don't you just concentrate on the people who are interested in you OP?? Let others run their profiles how they wish.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So it's fine to demand a face pic whilst hiding your own face? You don't find that slightly hypocritical?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So it's fine to demand a face pic whilst hiding your own face? You don't find that slightly hypocritical? "

I never demand anything, if someone says no then we just dont meet, Chester is an extremely small place and already had an awkward moment in the supermarket so im more cautious now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So it's fine to demand a face pic whilst hiding your own face? You don't find that slightly hypocritical? "

Do they really demand? Or just ask?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

The person IS interested, that's the problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to be wary of men with no face pic and ignore them, same as men wearing sunglasses because you cant tell what they look like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The person IS interested, that's the problem. "

If they post on the forums that may well be 'was interested'

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The person IS interested, that's the problem.

If they post on the forums that may well be 'was interested'

Ha-ha, hilarious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So it's fine to demand a face pic whilst hiding your own face? You don't find that slightly hypocritical? "

I generally have no pics at all apart from my tiny crappy avatar. If I'm chatting to someone I might want to meet I ask for a face pic (ask, not demand). If they don't want to send one that's fine, chatting stops.

Why the angst?

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

"So it's fine to demand a face pic whilst hiding your own face? You don't find that slightly hypocritical? "

I don't demand a face pic from anyone but I do like to see one attached to a first message as it's pointless engaging in conversation with anyone I don't find attractive. If I were to send first message I would attach one myself.

However if I receive a first message and pic and am not interested I won't send mine back. What would be the point of that? If I was gonna send my face pic to every tom, dick and Harry that sent me theirs or had them on their profile anyway I might as well make mine my avatar and I don't do that for good reason.

Women (or men) can 'demand' whatever the hell they like on their profiles. If you don't want to do it, don't!!!

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Chill out....just move on from it and chat to people who don't "demand" face pictures. I wouldn't take it personally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The person IS interested, that's the problem.

If they post on the forums that may well be 'was interested'

Ha-ha, hilarious. "

I think there is more to this and you've obviously got a problem right now and its showing you in a bad light which will be women off!

Think a time out, breathe and just accept that on here people can do and ask for things that they want and if that doesnt fit with you then just move along from them

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The person IS interested, that's the problem.

If they post on the forums that may well be 'was interested'

Ha-ha, hilarious.

I think there is more to this and you've obviously got a problem right now and its showing you in a bad light which will be women off!

Think a time out, breathe and just accept that on here people can do and ask for things that they want and if that doesnt fit with you then just move along from them"

I don't see how this is putting me in a bad light. Someone says on their profile "No face pic, no reply", which is fine. But when we get chatting and she refuses to send one in return, you don't see why I would want to have a little rant about that? Jesus Christ, the way you lot are going on, it's like I shot someone! I'm not even that bothered about it now, I was just letting off some steam, simple as.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't see how this is putting me in a bad light. Someone says on their profile "No face pic, no reply", which is fine. But when we get chatting and she refuses to send one in return, you don't see why I would want to have a little rant about that? Jesus Christ, the way you lot are going on, it's like I shot someone! I'm not even that bothered about it now, I was just letting off some steam, simple as."

To me, it's not something that should require "letting off some steam" as it's insignificant.

Plus the whole OP seems kind of petulant. It's not that big of a deal, focus on the people who don't make you feel this frustrated.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

FFS *face palm* I give up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The person IS interested, that's the problem.

If they post on the forums that may well be 'was interested'

Ha-ha, hilarious.

I think there is more to this and you've obviously got a problem right now and its showing you in a bad light which will be women off!

Think a time out, breathe and just accept that on here people can do and ask for things that they want and if that doesnt fit with you then just move along from them

Are they verified.. Could be its not a real person, you've posted about it before and you know what people do this so why keep going on? Your tone is quite aggressive to everyone right now so suggests you are obviously bothered!

And if she has read this then I doubt you will be getting the pic now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The person IS interested, that's the problem.

If they post on the forums that may well be 'was interested'

Ha-ha, hilarious.

I think there is more to this and you've obviously got a problem right now and its showing you in a bad light which will be women off!

Think a time out, breathe and just accept that on here people can do and ask for things that they want and if that doesnt fit with you then just move along from them

If you were still chatting with a _iew to meeting then yeah sure you can be pissed off. Is it really a woman? Perhaps she doesn't want to meet you? Not nice to lead you on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The person IS interested, that's the problem.

If they post on the forums that may well be 'was interested'

Ha-ha, hilarious.

I think there is more to this and you've obviously got a problem right now and its showing you in a bad light which will be women off!

Think a time out, breathe and just accept that on here people can do and ask for things that they want and if that doesnt fit with you then just move along from them

If she refuses to send one then maybe she's not interested or not who she's making out she is. Either way, not worth stressing about something out of your control, move on if it bothers you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The person IS interested, that's the problem.

If they post on the forums that may well be 'was interested'

Ha-ha, hilarious.

I think there is more to this and you've obviously got a problem right now and its showing you in a bad light which will be women off!

Think a time out, breathe and just accept that on here people can do and ask for things that they want and if that doesnt fit with you then just move along from them

If you were still chatting with a _iew to meeting then yeah sure you can be pissed off. Is it really a woman? Perhaps she doesn't want to meet you? Not nice to lead you on.

Finally, someone talking sense!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe you have sent the wrong signal during messages.You have face pics she would no that.. You asked ( or demanded) a face pic she may have liked your pic but not your attitude ( you may have said something in a message that has put her off)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The person IS interested, that's the problem.

If they post on the forums that may well be 'was interested'

Ha-ha, hilarious.

I think there is more to this and you've obviously got a problem right now and its showing you in a bad light which will be women off!

Think a time out, breathe and just accept that on here people can do and ask for things that they want and if that doesnt fit with you then just move along from them

The only person eho has been shot is yourself .....in the foot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why would you want to chat with anyone if they didn't have face pic when there are so many on here who do.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"why would you want to chat with anyone if they didn't have face pic when there are so many on here who do."

Because it was her profile I was interested in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"why would you want to chat with anyone if they didn't have face pic when there are so many on here who do.

Because it was her profile I was interested in."

Was it realy that good then.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"why would you want to chat with anyone if they didn't have face pic when there are so many on here who do.

Because it was her profile I was interested in.

Was it realy that good then."

It warranted a message, yeah.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"why would you want to chat with anyone if they didn't have face pic when there are so many on here who do.

Because it was her profile I was interested in."

But presumably you are nio longer interested?

So as has been said countless times on this thread - move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't be arsed faffing about with people who refuse to send a face pic or come up with bizarre excuses not to, I just bid them farewell and block, life really is too short!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"why would you want to chat with anyone if they didn't have face pic when there are so many on here who do.

Because it was her profile I was interested in.

Was it realy that good then.

It warranted a message, yeah. "

Did she have verifications? maybe she is married or has important job.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"why would you want to chat with anyone if they didn't have face pic when there are so many on here who do.

Because it was her profile I was interested in.

Was it realy that good then.

It warranted a message, yeah.

Did she have verifications? maybe she is married or has important job.

Yep, verifications. Six of 'em.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So it's fine to demand a face pic whilst hiding your own face? You don't find that slightly hypocritical?

Women (or men) can 'demand' whatever the hell they like on their profiles. If you don't want to do it, don't!!! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How disappointing,

I was expecting Tony the Tiger and a bowl of Frosties

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

I ask (not demand) for a face pic attached to a first message. If I'm interested, I respond with my face pic, if not, I respond with a thanks but no thanks. If I message first, I alway attach my face pic. This is how it works for me - anyone that doesn't/won't attach a face pic (unless there's clear pics on their profile) doesn't get a response

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