FabSwingers.com forum: How close is too close for a meet?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

The closest person I've met lives just across the road, too close?

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"The closest person I've met lives just across the road, too close?"

For some it will be, for others not!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try to avoid men from my town. I prefer London men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My "best friend" met on fab. We did live a few roads away. Then I moved about 1 1/2 miles away. Then she moved within half mile. Then I moved to same road.....ain't no problem! Should it be (unless one is married n sneaky?)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id call that very handy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

would rather block everyone within 5 miles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would be too close for us, we prefer to meet people out our area because of donnas job

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

same town meets i avoid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met our neighbours on here before we had even spoken to them in real life !

In fact we now know quite a few who live near and its not a problem at all ..... in fact its no different to knowing people on your own street /estate / road anyhow .... why should it be a problem?.

Its not as if we all walk around with T-Shirts on saying "have we shagged you off Fab" ? .......... oh hang on - now there's an idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No minimum distance but do have a close look if they're from an area I know as have some discretion but closest meet has been 2 miles I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One tube stop is sufficient distance away for us.

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By *illwill69uMan
over a year ago

moston

I play with a couple that live within 50 yds of my front door, they have children, there is no problem, I say "hi" when I see them but would never say or do anything to compromise them in any way.

Maybe the question should be when is someone too indiscreet to play with no mater where they live?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i got chatting to a tv admirer , turns out he's next door but one . i had to decline x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I avoid men that are too close to home. This is a very close knit rural community and I quite like to keep my private life private.

Not everyone on Fab knows the meaning of the word discretion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We met our neighbours on here before we had even spoken to them in real life !

In fact we now know quite a few who live near and its not a problem at all ..... in fact its no different to knowing people on your own street /estate / road anyhow .... why should it be a problem?.

Its not as if we all walk around with T-Shirts on saying "have we shagged you off Fab" ? .......... oh hang on - now there's an idea

It becomes a problem when you say you don't want to see them again and they knock on your door because they saw you and followed you home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Close is good for us, we like people who are nearby as easier to build friendships with and also for more regular meetings.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too close! Try your nearest city.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't usually meet anyone from the same town

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By *U1966Man
over a year ago

Devon

Avoid the same town

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am also looking for someone that lives on my road, bit bored to keep travel for hours for a fuck lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't be close enough for me....

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Uhmmmmmmmm sharing the same parents.

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By *vsnikkiTV/TS
over a year ago

Limavady

In the same house is too close for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

closest I've met is 10 mins on a bus lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We wouldn't meet in our own town, it's a small town and people love to gossip, so we keep it minimum 10 miles from home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldo shag the lady next door so I guess I'm the wrong person to answer this lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

6 mins walk..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I won't meet anyone where they live close enough there will be a possibility of us seeing each other in every day life, I do get a lot of messages from men in my town I simply tell them they live to close most don't see it as a problem infact a lot seen to think finding a woman on here who meets men within half a mile is a bonus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont play in my own back yard...

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

the lodger ...other than that any guy is fair game !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I won't meet anyone where they live close enough there will be a possibility of us seeing each other in every day life, I do get a lot of messages from men in my town I simply tell them they live to close most don't see it as a problem infact a lot seen to think finding a woman on here who meets men within half a mile is a bonus "
Yes it would be a fun bonus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't have a problem with it to be fair we often see people that we have met off here in the supermarket or seen people from clubs at Pauls workplace. However far you travel for a club someone else may also travel that far

We are just really discrete and don't acknowledge them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't have a problem with it to be fair we often see people that we have met off here in the supermarket or seen people from clubs at Pauls workplace. However far you travel for a club someone else may also travel that far

We are just really discrete and don't acknowledge them "

I have 2 on the same street (there's only 20 houses), one 5 miles away and another 7 miles away. No problems at all.

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By *ipsTeaserCouple
over a year ago

here and there, thereabouts

We wouldn't meet anyone local, fab and our home lives are completely separate and that's how we'd want it to stay.

I have politely turned down several close to home who got rather shirty about it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got a theory that I'm going to bump into people in a club further away.

I travel about an hour to get there as live near 5 clubs locally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when we first joined up we always said we wont meet anyone local and always meet people out of town. Well thats all changed, weve met a few locals now and seen them in town

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Closer is far better cos I cant travelling. Also I dont care what the neighbours thinks. It is my business not their...free country !!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I live in a very small village and know a guy very well who asked for a meet and a couple too also asked me over I could have walked it in 5 mins lol

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Shagged a guy who lived on the next street from me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the closer the better I,d say xx

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By *omaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

A close neighbour gave me a blow job a few weeks ago. Hoping she needs another hand with something soon.

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