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From straight to bi-curious, a journey

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hello, all! Wanted to tell a brief story, probably familiar to some, but definitely new to me!

So my wife is not exactly a sexual person. That's what led me to here; great visual stimulation, obviously, but also good chats, and a rare great meet!

Since being on here, I have friended women and couples, have communicated with them through email and text, and gotten excited and hard watching them on cam. I have recently started to get on cam myself, hoping that women and/or couples would watch. For the most part, not so much. However, alot of guys watched me. I didn't mind per se', it just didn't turn me on. Now, all of a sudden, I find myself turned on that a man is watching me! AND, I want to watch a man! Anyone else? Have always considered myself straight, but now...bi-curious to say hte least, right?!

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By *now white1000Woman
over a year ago

York


"Hello, all! Wanted to tell a brief story, probably familiar to some, but definitely new to me!

So my wife is not exactly a sexual person. That's what led me to here; great visual stimulation, obviously, but also good chats, and a rare great meet!

Since being on here, I have friended women and couples, have communicated with them through email and text, and gotten excited and hard watching them on cam. I have recently started to get on cam myself, hoping that women and/or couples would watch. For the most part, not so much. However, alot of guys watched me. I didn't mind per se', it just didn't turn me on. Now, all of a sudden, I find myself turned on that a man is watching me! AND, I want to watch a man! Anyone else? Have always considered myself straight, but now...bi-curious to say hte least, right?!"

i wouldn't say you're confused or even bi curious, just that you're mind is open enough to not mind other men watching you, and the fact you get a kick out of it doesn't mean you'll 'try bi' it just shows you have an exhibitionist side to you that you didn't know you had, watching another guy doesn't mean much either, call it learning from their techniques and seeing what can turn on an open mind helps your own technique

enjoy the ride and if you find yourself drawn more and more to cock, treat it like a new food, unless you try it, you'll not know if you like it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Haha, love it! Thanks. One thing I did not mention...yes, have also thought about being with a man orally. One year ago that thought would never have entered my head!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

see my postin

frst bi time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree...why label yourself based on the gender you're looking at...or vice versa, There's way too many variables that would also be arousing....like simply breaking a taboo

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I agree...why label yourself based on the gender you're looking at...or vice versa, There's way too many variables that would also be arousing....like simply breaking a taboo "

Ah yes, agreed! But how to tell the wife...?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People get turned on by a lot of things, doesn't nessicarily mean you want to experience m2m. The idea of being desired is a big turn on. Like a 3sum with 2 females.

If you do decide to try it just make sure you tell the guy your limits and you may just enjoy it

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By *ovepieceMan
over a year ago

Borth

I'm on a similar journey. I think the labels 'straight', 'bisexual', 'bicurious' and 'gay' don't quite cover it and are somewhat limiting. I think sexuality is spectral and that we find ourselves somewhere on the 'spectrum'. For me it's also variable in that I'm not always to be found at the same point on the spectrum. Personally I'd like a visual sliding scale on here that could reflect my sexuality on a daily basis!

I've only recently started thinking in this way, and I'm feeling much more comfortable about myself since breaking free of those basic definitions.

I'm now looking for my first MM experience! I want it to be every bit as sensual and erotic as a good, slow-build FM experience.

As for telling your wife, maybe that 'spectrum' analogy is a good way in? In any case I'd advocate honesty. Make these journeys together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was over forty before I realised I enjoyed watching guys cum in Porn films. Since then I've been on a quite exciting journey of discovery.

Just take your time and you'll know the time when you're ready

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