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"If I didn't have kids I wouldn't bother " I see why parents like doing it for their kids....smiling faces on Christmas morning and all that.....but as a singleton.....i just don't get bitten by the bug... Maybe I'm really grouchy but I just don't know it......I dont feel grouchy.....hmm.... | |||
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"If I didn't have kids I wouldn't bother I see why parents like doing it for their kids....smiling faces on Christmas morning and all that.....but as a singleton.....i just don't get bitten by the bug... Maybe I'm really grouchy but I just don't know it......I dont feel grouchy.....hmm...." No I think you're doing what you want to and since nobody else is being affected there's no problem | |||
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"We've not brought each other presents this year. We told crystal's parents last week that we are likely going away next year to avoid it. We figures 53 weeks notice might ne enough! Even by my normal standards I'll be glad when it's over this year. " 53 weeks has to be enough notice for most things I would think! Might take a leaf from your book....have Christmas as a little holiday away someplace....enjoy it my own way....some food for thought there..... | |||
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"I like Christmas but I can understand why people wouldn't. I think if you don't want to celebrate you shouldn't feel obliged to " It's not that I particularly dislike it really....i'm just very indifferent to it....it's a big a blip on my radar as say Passover or Ramadan and I don't dislike those...it just doesen't really register as an event to me personally. | |||
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"Having a curry for dinner, sent cards to the same 5 peeps that I have for the last 20 yrs or so, 1 piece of tinsel & 1 bauble to adorn ma Yucca Tree, sorted " I might just come to yours then....sounds suitably understated.... | |||
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"I like it for the one occasion a year I get to spend with my family, but don't bother with decorations or a tree at home, can't see the point. " Perhaps I'm lucky in that I get to see a lot of my friends and family regularly so Christmas doesen't really have a bearing....I see why many like it for that reason though | |||
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"We've not brought each other presents this year. We told crystal's parents last week that we are likely going away next year to avoid it. We figures 53 weeks notice might ne enough! Even by my normal standards I'll be glad when it's over this year. 53 weeks has to be enough notice for most things I would think! Might take a leaf from your book....have Christmas as a little holiday away someplace....enjoy it my own way....some food for thought there..... " I've been away a few times before. And I've volunteered too. I'd recommend either And you'd think 53 weeks would be sufficient wouldn't you! | |||
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"No, not doing anything. I loved making a big thing of it when I was with somebody very special, but it only brings sad memories now. Never mind - soon be over and we can look forward to Spring, and running around naked in the sunshine!!! " And where will you be doing this running about of which you speak? Do you have a grid reference and some directions perhaps? | |||
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"Quite honestly, if we thought there was any chance of a social / play meet, we'd gladly host it!" If I was closer to Brighton I'd be fishing for an invite.....it'd be the most interesting christmas day and would surely beat any other option I have just now | |||
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" GRINCH!!!! " I haven't got a little reason for all the fuss running about being all excited have I? All set for tommorrow btw? I imagine excitement levels are running fairly high today? X | |||
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"I don't celebrate my birthday,I haven't since I got married. I like everyone getting together at Christmas time as it's one of the few times I get to see all my children and grandchildren together. I love the lights,the carols and the rubbish Christmas television. " I can understand that..... If I had children and grandchildren I'm sure I'd be singing a very different tune | |||
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" GRINCH!!!! I haven't got a little reason for all the fuss running about being all excited have I? All set for tommorrow btw? I imagine excitement levels are running fairly high today? X " Its been nuts but i'll chat later about it, we spent 5 hours at my work place today (initially just to deliver cards and say hello) bringing xmas cheer to many,, started a few random carol singing outbursts and was lush. People dancing and laughing x Good deed for December done | |||
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" GRINCH!!!! I haven't got a little reason for all the fuss running about being all excited have I? All set for tommorrow btw? I imagine excitement levels are running fairly high today? X Its been nuts but i'll chat later about it, we spent 5 hours at my work place today (initially just to deliver cards and say hello) bringing xmas cheer to many,, started a few random carol singing outbursts and was lush. People dancing and laughing x Good deed for December done " Get you and your spreading of Christmas cheer I'm guessing you'll be run ragged prepping for tomorrow but give me a message later when you've done and fill me in on yer shinnanigans | |||
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"Not doing anything.. skint and got beans on toast. Dentist just gave me a nice pressie of a filling, so thats good.. right?? lol" That's not bad at all!.....oh......hang on....like a tooth filling? Not the good kind of filling? | |||
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"I like the tree and decorations, not bothered about food though, only buy it because of my son. me and my hubby would just eat what we normaly eat, one thing I hate about xmas is you get tempted to eat too much food that isn't good for you." That's very true....as a recovering fatty I don't like the endless scoffing of food....last year I literally just had turkey and veg......that was all.... | |||
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"I have bought a couple gifts for the kids. but I dont really feel like xmas ..I dont bother with decs or trees and stuff. 3 or four years ago OH put up some lovely new lights on a tree in front garden They were stolen within a week. Makes me so angry . Will only have company xmas day the rest I will be on my own. Back to work on monday. Be glad when all the fuss is done with and we get back to normal. Bah Humbug " That's crap...some scrote robbed your lights! It'll be nice when its all done and the month long circus that is Christmas has buggered off....we can get concentrating on easter then! | |||
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"I like the tree and decorations, not bothered about food though, only buy it because of my son. me and my hubby would just eat what we normaly eat, one thing I hate about xmas is you get tempted to eat too much food that isn't good for you. That's very true....as a recovering fatty I don't like the endless scoffing of food....last year I literally just had turkey and veg......that was all...." sounds good. | |||
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"For the first time in a few years I've got my whole family together. Including the girls partners and 2 grandchildren. Found out yesterday the rest of my family and close friends have been taking bets when the first row of the day will be in my house " So kicking off is a bit of a thing with your lot then? | |||
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"Well it's just me and the cat here, the tree is up, heaps of presents under it, food and drink delivered today, enough to feed an army! Willing to share, but not my baileys " Well, I'm not so fussed about Sharing the Bailey's....or the food really...which leaves.....you | |||
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"We've not brought each other presents this year. " Mr - I hope you have something in reserve - sometimes what we think we have agreed is always what we thought | |||
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"I can't wait!!!!!!!!! I'm afraid you'll have to " But not for long!! We have a day of Xmas eve fun planned tomorrow, Santa jigsaws. Hot choccies. Xmas movies and books. It all starts in the morning | |||
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"I like the tree and decorations, not bothered about food though, only buy it because of my son. me and my hubby would just eat what we normaly eat, one thing I hate about xmas is you get tempted to eat too much food that isn't good for you. That's very true....as a recovering fatty I don't like the endless scoffing of food....last year I literally just had turkey and veg......that was all...." I'm being careful this year! Just dropped over 2 stone and I'm not finding half of it again for the sake of a couple of days! | |||
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"I can't wait!!!!!!!!! I'm afraid you'll have to But not for long!! We have a day of Xmas eve fun planned tomorrow, Santa jigsaws. Hot choccies. Xmas movies and books. It all starts in the morning " I took three children to see the Penguins film today - it's good. | |||
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"I can't wait!!!!!!!!! I'm afraid you'll have to But not for long!! We have a day of Xmas eve fun planned tomorrow, Santa jigsaws. Hot choccies. Xmas movies and books. It all starts in the morning " Sounds like a lush day! | |||
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"I like the tree and decorations, not bothered about food though, only buy it because of my son. me and my hubby would just eat what we normaly eat, one thing I hate about xmas is you get tempted to eat too much food that isn't good for you. That's very true....as a recovering fatty I don't like the endless scoffing of food....last year I literally just had turkey and veg......that was all.... I'm being careful this year! Just dropped over 2 stone and I'm not finding half of it again for the sake of a couple of days! " No exactly..... There's plenty turkey though and that's not so bad, loads of veggies and I'm sure a few other bits you can fill up on with the minimum of guilt..... That's what I did last year...just avoided all the stuffing and pigs in blankets and roasties and such...there are some good pickings for the weight concious at christmas really... | |||
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"I can't wait to see my parents " Bet they're more excited to see you though Hope its a brill day for you all! | |||
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"I'm only buying presents for my 3yr old girl and seeing her Saturday, I'm not celebrating Christmas this year as I lost my mom suddenly and unexpectedly in August first Christmas in 34 years without her,but will make the effort and smile to make it a happy & exciting Christmas just fir her " Aww mate that sucks.....it's rubbish any time when a loved ones not with you any more but always seems magnified during the holidays and such times. Hope the day passes as well as it can and I hope your little one has a brilliant day of it....*hugs* | |||
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"OP, I've done a quick search and there are lots of men and even a few women with meet requests for Christmas Day. You should all get together and have a party. " Hehe, check you out...like a wonderous seasonal social p.a I might have a browse for noseyness sake and see.....thankyou | |||
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"I'm only buying presents for my 3yr old girl and seeing her Saturday, I'm not celebrating Christmas this year as I lost my mom suddenly and unexpectedly in August first Christmas in 34 years without her,but will make the effort and smile to make it a happy & exciting Christmas just fir her Aww mate that sucks.....it's rubbish any time when a loved ones not with you any more but always seems magnified during the holidays and such times. Hope the day passes as well as it can and I hope your little one has a brilliant day of it....*hugs* " Thanks much appreciated I'm sure my daughter will have a great time and looking forward to see that little happy face of hers, that's my Christmas present So not all doom and gloom Hope you have a good one too | |||
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"Well it's just me and the cat here, the tree is up, heaps of presents under it, food and drink delivered today, enough to feed an army! Willing to share, but not my baileys " I'm on my way | |||
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"Just me and my mum .. first Xmas without my nana, so just enough food in til Saturday." Aww more hugs...to you and yer mam....again, its never great, holidays with someone absent from our lives....you will have each other though so take some heart in that... Hope it's a nice a day as can be for you | |||
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"There is enough misery and despair already in this world we live in, so we will celebrate it. Any opportunity to spread a bit of togetherness is ok by us xx " Aww I wasn't spreading misery or despair! That's not my intention anyhow, I've got no issue with christmas, its nice to see folk brought together by it or by anything, celebrate how you will I was just saying I didn't really buy into the bells and whistles of it all really, i'll still be happy sat doing whatever I end up doing that day....don't worry, I won't be going round stealing presents and cutting down Christmas trees and i'll still be wishing folk a merry Christmas and such.... | |||
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"I love it, stop being a bah humbug. It doesn't have to be religious just about spending that one day with the people you love. " Aaah hello you! What you doing in here? how's your trip away going? And yeah I know you love it, that's just you, all glitzy...suits you just fine... Anyhow...when ya back? | |||
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"I love it, stop being a bah humbug. It doesn't have to be religious just about spending that one day with the people you love. " And sorry...to answer your actual comment..no I guess it doesn't have to be religious, I just drew that as an example as across all faiths there's a holiday most weeks probably, many pass un noticed by many, and Christmas is that kind of thing for me to an extent | |||
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"I have a mooch every now and again. Trips ok, although I feel like a teenager and not in a good way. Back on Saturday I think x" You should mooch more its ok in here... | |||
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"I haven't written many cards this year. I have felt less Christmassy this year but generally I like all that is Christmas " In which case I hope you soon return to your former christmassy self | |||
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"Maybe I will, I do get myself a bit confused with end as there 3 in the year then the in laws have a few extra celebrations x" Ah...I had to think about that for a second then...but of course, I forgot the overseas link.... | |||
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