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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Remember sex in the 90's,80's 70's ?

Share the humour and the horrors.

First Experiences. Where did you learn ? Believing what your told. Doing what you'd never do now. What was in books, t.v. ? How long did it take to have sex when dating? Were you ever staunch about monogamy?

1993 - Beth Jordache in Brookside acting out the first pre watershed lesbian kiss.

I remember being stunned to see it on screen. We all knew it was going to happen and made a point of watching. It was just so taboo to see it on t.v even such a short time ago.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was a bonus that Anna Friel is/was just soooo gorgeous. Like You, I was glued to the screen for that episode and a tad disappointed when it was the last scene and not much more than a peck.

Still, it opened the floodgates and now there's loads of lovely cunny-stuff going on. Spartacus has tons of it! Lovely jubbly!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

'Loads of lovely Cunny Stuff'

Let me write that down In my things to say on t.v. review progs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It was a bonus that Anna Friel is/was just soooo gorgeous. Like You, I was glued to the screen for that episode and a tad disappointed when it was the last scene and not much more than a peck.

Still, it opened the floodgates and now there's loads of lovely cunny-stuff going on. Spartacus has tons of it! Lovely jubbly!!

I worked on her partner David Thewlis' flat in Farringdon. what a miserable cow! and she used to keep a bottle of vodka in a cardboard box outside their front door

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about "Queer as Folk"?

First time, and only time I have seen 2 blokes in the thro's of bedroom combat, lol

Blokes don't do that to each other do they?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Remember sex in the 90's,80's 70's ?

Share the humour and the horrors.

1993 - Beth Jordache in Brookside acting out the first pre watershed lesbian kiss.

I remember being stunned to see it on screen. We all knew it was going to happen and made a point of watching. It was just so taboo to see it on t.v even such a short time ago. "

Flipping heck granny, you want war and peace lol.

Im going to keep it short.

Where did i learn - it was all trial and error, still learning to this day.

Believing what you where told - with no sex education i did believe what i was told, main thing being that you couldnt get pregnant unless you had sex for 15 minutes having sex at 12 i can only say oh but for the grace of god go i.

Doing what you'd never do now - Ive calmed down nowadays, ive gone through lots of phases in my life, will do something to death then when ive had enough move on. May go back the odd time but like a continuatio of new experiences.

What was in books and on tv - cant remember much being on at all when i was younger now its all just part of the course.

Sex while dating - Straight away when i was younger but as i got older in a "dating" situation would be three or four dates depending.

Monogamy - Never in my entire life have i been in a monogamous relationship

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By *prite128Woman
over a year ago

maidstone

thinking of tv/film moments when i was younger ...

alan bates and oliver reed in Women in Love was very powerful. Having read DH lawrence's stuff at school it wasnt a surprise to know there would be strong homoerotic themes , but it was a first as much as seeing it on the screen.

my parents way of teaching me and my siblings about sex was to give us a book on our 13th birthday. Seeing as i started my periods 18 months before this it was a bit late in many respects as i would have been more than capable of getting pregnant by 13 !

so i was one of many people my age who learnt through the playground/school field grapevine... things that those with older siblings could tell us, scrappy bits of magazine found under bushes and eventually in 4th yr senior ( aged 15 ) a demonstration case of contraception shown in a one off lesson at school. No context of relationships, readiness, etc ...just "this is a condom, this is a diaphragm"

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By *plpxp2Couple
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

"What about "Queer as Folk"?

First time, and only time I have seen 2 blokes in the thro's of bedroom combat, lol

Blokes don't do that to each other do they?

Just been watching that again on 4od, still very funny.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"'Loads of lovely Cunny Stuff'

Let me write that down In my things to say on t.v. review progs

Well ya wanted me to be more subtle didn't ya? I could have said 'cunt-licking'.

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By *prite128Woman
over a year ago

maidstone

"What about "Queer as Folk"?

First time, and only time I have seen 2 blokes in the thro's of bedroom combat, lol

Blokes don't do that to each other do they?

ooh i have that on dvd ....back in a bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first sexual experience, not shagging, lol, was back in the annals of time.

My mate, me and 2 girls, went into an old air raid shelter, lol, told you it was a long time ago, for a bit of "I'll show you mine, if you show me yours".

Ended up in a mutual feeling and wanking session, lol.

It was another couple of years before I had a shag, though, and often wonder if it was "on the cards" that day.

I've always been a bit slow taking hints

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

Well the sex education at school was crap

It only taught the biological stuff and nothing about the feelings and emotions that are involved

All of that came from fumbling experiences,from peers,and books,oh and some great erotic literature that I found hidden in my parents room

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By *obblybitsCouple
over a year ago

huddersfield

I would probably getting in to trouble about 90s sex I learned the hard (fun way) about anything to do with sex from a fumble in the the corner of the playground in junior school to blow jobs and sex in the playing feels the first two yrs of high school then it all started. all I can say is it was fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well the sex education at school was crap

It only taught the biological stuff and nothing about the feelings and emotions that are involved "

yeah, suppose it would have been usefull if we shagged frogs

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By *iceguydaveMan
over a year ago

Monmouth

"..I learned the hard (fun way) about anything to do with sex from a fumble in the the corner of the playground in junior school to blow jobs and sex in the playing feels the first two yrs of high school then it all started. all I can say is it was fun.

But they won't let me be a teacher any more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What about "Queer as Folk"?

First time, and only time I have seen 2 blokes in the thro's of bedroom combat, lol

Blokes don't do that to each other do they?

that show was on when i was in late teens/early 20's and i discovered my love of gay porn - 2 guys kissing and fucking, so bloody horny!

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

when we were 18,we went to visit mrs saucys brother in london.no chance of a shag,without waking him,in his small flat.one night we went to the cinema,to see emanuelle.after it we were desparate for a shag.we went arround the side of the building,and shagged over,the old steel bin.we didnt waken him,but i think we wakened the rest of the street.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

My first penetrative sex was at 15 by the boy next door.

I can remember as he finished , I was thinking ..... Was that sex ?? I thought it was rubbish.

He was the bloke next door who lived away. I doubt he knew I was underage and to be honest , neither did I. When I look back now I think.... ooer .. It was consensual and fun. Today people would try to call him a pedo ......

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By *evilmentMan
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Pubic hair! People actually had some back then

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Pubic hair! People actually had some back then

God yeah .... I'd forgotten about that.... It's true ..... No one thought it was horrible to have pubes.... Now .... such is the fashion of sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1977- 15 years old, my only experience of seeing anything of a real sexual nature was 'A Bouquet of barbed wire,' so when it happened it was in a friends bed with a 17 year old and half a dozen others listening outside the door, lay there doing nothing, stiff as a post, hurt like hell and never wanted to do it again and God forbid the thought of putting a cock in my mouth, if I had known then all the things I would learn to do and the fun I would be having now lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

first time and i gave oral and when i lost my virginity i absolutely loved it.

the bloke who popped my cherry was about 9/10 inches too

can't get enough since

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

....... ah the joy of sex, a book we all had to read in the 70's... and try and decipher what the pics and positions were.

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

"....... ah the joy of sex, a book we all had to read in the 70's... and try and decipher what the pics and positions were.

oooo and that beard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"....... ah the joy of sex, a book we all had to read in the 70's... and try and decipher what the pics and positions were.

oooo and that beard

there was hair everywhere! those happy hippies sure let it all hang out.

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By *nemichaelMan
over a year ago

kings lynn

What an interesting subject. I was at primary school in the 60s leaving to go to secondary in 68. In the second to last year we were 10 year olds and asking a lot of question of quite a young teacher (if I remember rightly she was 21.)(all us boys did our best to look up her mini skirt)

In the end she sent a letter home to our parents asking for permission to give a special lessen in the facts of life, boys and girls would be separate. Boys went first after hearing all about it I could not believe that my parents would do any thing like that. It was a lessen in how to make babies, it left more questions than it answered.

I can remember watching tv at the time and some women told her husband she was pregnant, I couldn't understand why he was shocked. My reasoning was they must have done the act, so that was the result what else did the idiot expect.

In our last year we found 2 girls who had no problem showing their selves of to us. I don't know why we found it so exciting we weren't allowed to touch just look. I think it was more about being taboo than anything else.

I was later told by an older boy how to get a girl "to let you do it" first you had to get married and then on your wedding night get her in the bedroom and put your arm round her and say to her its about time we raised a family and then she will let you do it. Sound advice.

In my secondary school (all boys) being about 11 or 12 all we talked about was sex and what it would be like. Every night we would wander the streets looking for girls some times you got a kiss and a quick feel over and under up top never down below.

Then I met an older girl she was 14 I was 13, she was not a virgin and we were left at home one night at hers at last I get my chance. I can remember her being dry but did not know any different so we just started pumping a way she moved up and down after some time I promised I would not cum in her but I just didn't want to cum so pulled out all of a sudden to make it look like I had. All I wanted to do was to get back to school and tell every one.

I think I was about 15 when I got my first bj and remember it not being very exciting. It was not long after that I met a girl, she was standing in front of me and had my head up her skirt and was kissing her bum and legs then kissing her pussy, I had the urge to lick her I loved it and so did she. She fell over as she cum. WOW I knew I wanted more of this I just loved licking her. (and I still love licking 35 years on) When I told my mates they thought it was disgusting! Well that was their loss.

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By *pecializedMan
over a year ago

newcastle/northumberland

"....... ah the joy of sex, a book we all had to read in the 70's... and try and decipher what the pics and positions were.

oooo and that beard

there was hair everywhere! those happy hippies sure let it all hang out.

vintage porn now theres a subject

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