FabSwingers.com forum: sex with 18 girl here??

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Will I be classified as a paedophile if I arrange a meet with an 18 year old girl from here who really want to meet me. We have been chatting on whatsapp and she's sent me about 10 photos of herself, all decent one. Please help as I don't wanna get into trouble with the law, thanks

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

if she is old enough to be on here, go for it

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By *ucky1Man
over a year ago

a straightjacket

Is 18 not the age of a consenting adult?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

18,is an adult,it isn't a child,how can it possibly be paedophilia?

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

there are plenty of older women looking for younger lads, so it's cool

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By *ust_for_laughsCouple
over a year ago

Hinckley

She's 18, how can you possibly be labeled a paedophile? Whether you think it's socially, morally or ethically right is down to you but legally there's no problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or are you just showing off

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I'm not liking the lack of understanding of the basic law here plus language choices.

I would suggest a cam chat too so you can be sure that both are comdortable and all is as expected for you both.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How can you be classed as a paedophile if she's 18

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

do you have doubts? Are you really asking "can I get in trouble if she has told me she's 18 even though I can plainly see that she isn't?" ?

16 is the age of consent so you wouldn't be in trouble with the law as long as she was over that age but as someone else has said whether to you that is socially and morally ok isn't something we can help with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"[Removed by poster at 23/12/14 11:25:48]"

I reckon there's a fair chance the 18yr old girl might turn out to be called Bob

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By *eMontresMan
over a year ago

Halesowen

"Or are you just showing off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"[Removed by poster at 23/12/14 11:25:48]

I reckon there's a fair chance the 18yr old girl might turn out to be called Bob

Well as long as Bob is 18 he'll still be ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did you really need to ask ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Or are you just showing off

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By *eMontresMan
over a year ago

Halesowen

"[Removed by poster at 23/12/14 11:25:48]

I reckon there's a fair chance the 18yr old girl might turn out to be called Bob

Well as long as Bob is 18 he'll still be ok

Might turn out to be his uncle

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By *llie and ApplesCouple
over a year ago

where ever

If you are asking the question...you clearly have doubts ....stick with your gut and steer clear

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

this is very odd

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"this is very odd "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"if she is old enough to be on here, go for it"
ok thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Is 18 not the age of a consenting adult?"
I know it is but just wondering if her parents (that's if she lives with them) bump into her phone and see the content of our whatapp chatetc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is 18 not the age of a consenting adult? I know it is but just wondering if her parents (that's if she lives with them) bump into her phone and see the content of our whatapp chatetc"

What??? She's 18, why the hell would her parents be looking at her phone? And how do you bump into someone's phone?!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"She's 18, how can you possibly be labeled a paedophile? Whether you think it's socially, morally or ethically right is down to you but legally there's no problem."
thank you

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Is 18 not the age of a consenting adult? I know it is but just wondering if her parents (that's if she lives with them) bump into her phone and see the content of our whatapp chatetc"

If you are doing something that gives you cause to feel uncomfortable and it's voluntary........stop doing it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Or are you just showing off

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oh no, I am not showing off, what for, lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"if she is old enough to be on here, go for it"

How do you know shes old enough to be on here? Shes ticked a box to confirm she is, documents have not been sent to prove and this in essence is the problem with sex sites, the fact you only have to confirm your 18 and not actually prove it a bloody 12 year old could join

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP this is either a, I'm not sure thread! Or a bragging thread!

18 is a legal consenting age last time I looked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did anyone else misreading this post as "sex with 18 girls"?

Thought it was ambitious. Most guys have trouble meeting just one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is 18 not the age of a consenting adult? I know it is but just wondering if her parents (that's if she lives with them) bump into her phone and see the content of our whatapp chatetc

What??? She's 18, why the hell would her parents be looking at her phone? And how do you bump into someone's phone?!"

If it's the size of a sofa,easily,I'm always bumping into things

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

What??? She's 18, why the hell would her parents be looking at her phone? And how do you bump into someone's phone?!"

the mind simply boggles

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By *exine xCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

This 18 year old could turn out to be a 47 year old,16 Stone hairy backed bloke from Birmingham called Terry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you have doubts send her my way bro. And for the record it's all good she of consenting age atleast she can gets the beers in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This 18 year old could turn out to be a 47 year old,16 Stone hairy backed bloke from Birmingham called Terry

Now now terry I've told you b4 stop telling people who you really are.

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes

Do you think what you're planning on doing is right? If the answer to that question is no then don't to it.

The legal age of sexual consent in the UK is 16. If anyone involved in a sexual act is under the age of 16 then a criminal offence is being committed. An offence is committed regardless of what anyone taking part in the act believes.

In other words just because she tells you she is 18 and you believe her you could still end up in prison if it turns out she is not yet 16.

There are the facts; it's your choice and your risk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The age of consent for sexual activity in the UK is 16. In England and Wales, the age of sexual consent for women has been set at 16 since 1885, when campaigners fought to raise it from 13 to prevent child prostitution. Concerning your current predicament as the previous poster says just make sure you are confident about her actual age. However never forget there's more to a successful meet than the legal age of consent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't believe that you need to ask this question. Which suggests that your gut instinct is telling you not to. So listen to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some wierd people out there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agreed with what crystal said.

There is no leagal worry here, after all you have both met on a swingers site and your looking for no strings sex so her parents shouldn't come into it........however if it's a relationship your talking about then parents are something to think about.

My relationship started with my partner when she was 19 however I did know her socially for a couple of years first and unfortunately her parents have taken our relationship badly and yes I have been called pedo and accused of grooming!

So in short if it's a shag go for it, if it's more have a good long think.

I happen to think my partner is worth it and we have managed nearly 4 years together so I dont think we are doing so bad.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

Is it something she has said that makes you wary? IE that she sounds younger than she is saying?

I would steer clear if that was the case....either way though, something is holding you back, go with your gut instinct

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"She's 18, how can you possibly be labeled a paedophile? Whether you think it's socially, morally or ethically right is down to you but legally there's no problem."
thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm not liking the lack of understanding of the basic law here plus language choices.

I would suggest a cam chat too so you can be sure that both are comdortable and all is as expected for you both. "
I will mention that to her and hear what she ssys?

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock

If she is 18 then no problem. If you suspect she is under 18 and telling fibs about her age, ask her to show ID for proof of age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If she is 18 then no problem. If you suspect she is under 18 and telling fibs about her age, ask her to show ID for proof of age. "

You can't do that. Awkward moment take her to the pub and say get the drinks in if they ask for ID saves you the embarrassment.

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock

"If she is 18 then no problem. If you suspect she is under 18 and telling fibs about her age, ask her to show ID for proof of age.

You can't do that. Awkward moment take her to the pub and say get the drinks in if they ask for ID saves you the embarrassment. "

Unless the pub is not strict and serve her drinks anyway without id, then you'd still have to ask her yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If she is 18 then no problem. If you suspect she is under 18 and telling fibs about her age, ask her to show ID for proof of age.

You can't do that. Awkward moment take her to the pub and say get the drinks in if they ask for ID saves you the embarrassment.

Banging 18 girls deserves a

Unless the pub is not strict and serve her drinks anyway without id, then you'd still have to ask her yourself. "

10 from len!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If she is 18 then no problem. If you suspect she is under 18 and telling fibs about her age, ask her to show ID for proof of age.

You can't do that. Awkward moment take her to the pub and say get the drinks in if they ask for ID saves you the embarrassment.

Unless the pub is not strict and serve her drinks anyway without id, then you'd still have to ask her yourself. "

Yeah but atleast you'd be to pissed to give a dam. Or Brewers droop could set in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let's see a pic or 2 & we'll decide how old she looks?

But no, 16 is the legal age in this country/UK isn't it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If she is 18 then no problem. If you suspect she is under 18 and telling fibs about her age, ask her to show ID for proof of age.

You can't do that. Awkward moment take her to the pub and say get the drinks in if they ask for ID saves you the embarrassment.

Unless the pub is not strict and serve her drinks anyway without id, then you'd still have to ask her yourself.

Yeah but atleast you'd be to pissed to give a dam. Or Brewers droop could set in. "

this guy is smashing 18 lasses

big dog

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Is it something she has said that makes you wary? IE that she sounds younger than she is saying?

I would steer clear if that was the case....either way though, something is holding you back, go with your gut instinct"
no she has not said anything st all apart from wanting to meet me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it something she has said that makes you wary? IE that she sounds younger than she is saying?

I would steer clear if that was the case....either way though, something is holding you back, go with your gut instinctno she has not said anything st all apart from wanting to meet me "

Meet her socially and see how you feel.

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By *ornyHunk80Man
over a year ago

Watford

"Is it something she has said that makes you wary? IE that she sounds younger than she is saying?

I would steer clear if that was the case....either way though, something is holding you back, go with your gut instinctno she has not said anything st all apart from wanting to meet me "

Invite me too n then u wont be in any trouble!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol its fine, don't you know you can fuck anyone whose 16 and upwards in the uk?.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are right to be wary, OP. Either a 15 year old girl or a 15 stone trucker awaits. Either way, steer clear!

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"If she is 18 then no problem. If you suspect she is under 18 and telling fibs about her age, ask her to show ID for proof of age.

You can't do that. Awkward moment take her to the pub and say get the drinks in if they ask for ID saves you the embarrassment. "

'cant' why because it may be socially unacceptable or cause a scene where she walks out..?

to be honest would prefer that to finding out at a later date that she is under age..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it something she has said that makes you wary? IE that she sounds younger than she is saying?

I would steer clear if that was the case....either way though, something is holding you back, go with your gut instinctno she has not said anything st all apart from wanting to meet me "

if you had an 18 year old daughter what advice would you give her if she told you she went to meet a much older man from a sex site that she knows nothing about and hasn't seen or spoken to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She's an adult she's 18, however.....

It's evident in your posting that you have some self doubt as to whether meeting her is right.

Personally I'm in my 40's and there's no way I'd entertain meeting a teenager as they're a similar age to my children, for me it just isn't right.

If you go ahead I'd meet socially 1st and ask for valid ID.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"She's an adult she's 18, however.....

It's evident in your posting that you have some self doubt as to whether meeting her is right.

Personally I'm in my 40's and there's no way I'd entertain meeting a teenager as they're a similar age to my children, for me it just isn't right.

If you go ahead I'd meet socially 1st and ask for valid ID.

ok then thanks for your "homely" advice (Berkshire is my neighbourhood

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"This 18 year old could turn out to be a 47 year old,16 Stone hairy backed bloke from Birmingham called Terry

Noooo, I've seen her photos

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Agreed with what crystal said.

So in short if it's a shag go for it, if it's more have a good long think.

I happen to think my partner is worth it and we have managed nearly 4 years together so I dont think we are doing so bad."
thanks for your advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This 18 year old could turn out to be a 47 year old,16 Stone hairy backed bloke from Birmingham called Terry

Noooo, I've seen her photos

Have you reverse image searched them?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Is it something she has said that makes you wary? IE that she sounds younger than she is saying?

I would steer clear if that was the case....either way though, something is holding you back, go with your gut instinctno she has not said anything st all apart from wanting to meet me

Invite me too n then u wont be in any trouble!"

, double trouble

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Out of interest, are you her first meet?

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth

Em and Dr. dre Guilty Conscience

look at her bush.. does it got hair? (Uh huh!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fill ya boots old boy

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By *otebonydeluxeWoman
over a year ago

earls barton

Well I think if your asking this you must either have a daughter around this age .so I think no you should not as your not to sure by the way am old enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All i can say is lucky u she interested in more than one guy

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I think the likelihood of an 18 year old woman wanting to meet a man in his forties is fairly low although not impossible. If it were me and I was seriously considering it my next step would be to reverse search the ten images she had sent me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"there are plenty of older women looking for younger lads, so it's cool

I cant find them ladies!!!!!! Ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had messages from 18 year old girls myself, how genuine they are is anyone's guess. Just be careful tho, she might be of legal age but if she has any kind of vulnerability about her, such as living in care then you could get done for grooming. Try meeting her for a social, maybe buy her a happy meal and make it clear that there will be no sex initially until you know enough about her to keep yourself out of trouble. Or you could do the decent thing and tell her to enjoy her youth with guys her own age

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

"This 18 year old could turn out to be a 47 year old,16 Stone hairy backed bloke from Birmingham called Terry

Noooo, I've seen her photos

Maybe you have or maybe you've just seen the pics s/he has found/borrowed/appropriated and posted on the Internet.

A glance through thr most fabbed pics will turn up a surprising number of porn stars and semi famous people if you do an image search. Then there are those who use out of date pics and even those who use pics of someone they know.

Seeing pictures which are clearly amateur snapshot selfies is no guarantee that the person you meet will be the one in the picture. This is one reason that I always have a coffee meet in a busy cafe first.

As for her age, as others have said if meeting someone who is 25 years younger than you is causing you disquiet then you're obviously not really comfortable with it. It's not illegal, and if you're both completely happy with it then go ahead. But if you're already questioning it and you haven't even met her for coffee then perhaps you should try to work out why you're questioning it.

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By *ambslass48Woman
over a year ago

Peterborough

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

No, you will be classified as very lucky

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By *hoe_nixCouple
over a year ago

leeds

if you've got to ask you know you don't really want to do it

and logic of an old lady says why should an 18 year old girl want to meet an old bloke from a site like this sounds "different" to me in a dodgy sort of way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She could be an 18 stone tv called sally and if you meet sally she could play the romantic sounds of !I've been really tryin , baby

Tryin to hold back these feelings for so long

And if you feel, like I feel baby

Come on, oh come on,

Let's get it on

Lets get it on

Let's get it on

We're all sensitive people

With so much love to give, understand me sugar

Since we got to be

Lets say, I love you

There's nothin wrong with me

Lovin you

And givin yourself to me can never be wrong

If the love is true

Don't you know how sweet and wonderful, life can be

I'm askin you baby, to get it on with me

I aint gonna worry, I aint gonna push

So come on, come on, come on, come on baby

Stop beatin round the bush....

Let's get it on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She is legal, so, no problem.

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

You say she's 18 and from here???

Absolutely shocking.

How uncomfortable do you think she would feel looking in the forum and seeing a big thread about her discussing if you should meet her or not. If it was me I'd hit the block button and run in the opposite direction. Your meets are your business and should be kept that way!!!

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

OP, I get the feeling you're not really comfortable with it at all so you are seeking reassurance.

Advice....take a step back, think with your head and not your dick then ask yourself again if it is the right thing to do

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

this has gone well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you are concerned about her age legally wise, ask to see proof of her age. if she is genuine, she will show you birth certificate or something with date on it. it wouldn't be for me with a boy that age but each to their own, good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Something just isn't right about this thread...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In Ireland the age of consent is when a girl can carry two buckets of water from the well. So my uncle use to say

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

In Ireland the age of consent is when a girl can carry two buckets of water from the well. So my uncle use to say "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"OP, I get the feeling you're not really comfortable with it at all so you are seeking reassurance.

Advice....take a step back, think with your head and not your dick then ask yourself again if it is the right thing to do

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thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Or are you just showing off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had exactly the same situation (19) myself....I would PM you with advice but you block single guys....pm me if you want to chat...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Had exactly the same situation (19) myself....I would PM you with advice but you block single guys....pm me if you want to chat..."

Done

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By *SAwanted321Man
over a year ago

haywards heath

I've seen that a lot of people have already given you the fact but here they are again with few other points:

UK consent is 16 however still classed as a minor until 18

Most of Europe is 16-18

USA is 21

If you are unsure of her age tell her and ask her to show u some ID. She looks 18+ is no excuse in eyes of the law as u are the responsible adult even if she is not.

It is illegal to groom for sex a minor and groom can be interpreted several ways. Even if she is 18 now but you started talking to her before she was it could be classed as grooming a minor.

It is illegal for a minor to send or receive sexual photos.

If it was me and I did want to meet her then it would be public place ( coffee shop) and ask her for ID , and she will need one by 18 if nothing else to buy beer, if she can't produce say sorry and walk away.

Lot of men's fantasy but when happens can be reality check and think that because your unsure where you stand , good you asked the question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am old fashioned in this regard and probably cannot give a balanced _iew on the post, I just think a 43 year old man talking to and maybe meeting an 18 year old is a step too far particularly in a recreational sex environment.

The OP clearly has doubts from a legal point of _iew and I would say there is a moral issue to consider too. I did say I was old fashioned!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you ask if she wants you take anything to the meet and she prefers a few packets of moshi monster stickers for her Album rather than a bottle of wine,Stay well clear

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By *edsBonkingMan
over a year ago

Near MK

Sounds like "jail bait" to me.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

A peodophile is someone who has a sexual interest in someone who is pre pubescent. So unless she turns out to be 11 or under how can you be accused of being a peodophile?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A peodophile is someone who has a sexual interest in someone who is pre pubescent. So unless she turns out to be 11 or under how can you be accused of being a peodophile?

Cool thanks, she looks older

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex

Get her to fetch some ID along so you know for definite, i (John) shot a 20yr old recently who wanted fun with us after the pics but as i saw her photo ID i/we had no problem enjoying ourselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A peodophile is someone who has a sexual interest in someone who is pre pubescent. So unless she turns out to be 11 or under how can you be accused of being a peodophile?

Cool thanks, she looks older"

Looking older has very little to do with it!

Teenage girls can look incredibly mature.

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By *igdodger13Man
over a year ago

sompting

Well you are asking for woman 18 and over on your profile

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

18 year olds are classified as adults you are not breaking any laws.

The fact that you don't know the age of consent or legal adulthood at your age is a bit worrying.

I hope she is very mature in the head or you could end up with a heap of trouble on your hands.

18 year olds are seldom wise or fair.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get her to bring her dad along to vouch she is 18

Tounge firmly in cheek.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This whole situation if true is concerning in my _iew. Firstly what on earth is an 18 year old doing in this environment? For those legal aiders among us I am quite aware of the age of consent and adult classification. Surely a young person of that age should be doing what young adults do which is be with young adults and get up to young adult antics? The OP seems to be more concerned with his legal position rather than the potential for causing issues in the life of that said Young adult.

Old fashioned but correct I would wager!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This whole situation if true is concerning in my _iew. Firstly what on earth is an 18 year old doing in this environment? For those legal aiders among us I am quite aware of the age of consent and adult classification. Surely a young person of that age should be doing what young adults do which is be with young adults and get up to young adult antics? The OP seems to be more concerned with his legal position rather than the potential for causing issues in the life of that said Young adult.

Old fashioned but correct I would wager!"

Unfortunately they can be on here but I work in a school and agree with you, they should be out doing their own thing

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford

"Will I be classified as a paedophile if I arrange a meet with an 18 year old girl from here who really want to meet me. We have been chatting on whatsapp and she's sent me about 10 photos of herself, all decent one. Please help as I don't wanna get into trouble with the law, thanks "
. It might be legal but what about the moral / welfare issues . How would you feel if you had a daughter and she slept with a much older man. ? Only you can make the decision but it does seem a bit odd that an 18 year old is on this site .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Will I be classified as a paedophile if I arrange a meet with an 18 year old girl from here who really want to meet me. We have been chatting on whatsapp and she's sent me about 10 photos of herself, all decent one. Please help as I don't wanna get into trouble with the law, thanks . It might be legal but what about the moral / welfare issues . How would you feel if you had a daughter and she slept with a much older man. ? Only you can make the decision but it does seem a bit odd that an 18 year old is on this site . "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you all for your diverse opinions. Sorry I can't respond to everybody

I have decided not to go ahead.

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By *ain n MableWoman
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

I was laying Concrete and Tarmac on the streets of New York when i was 18, whats the world coming to?

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"I was laying Concrete and Tarmac on the streets of New York when i was 18, whats the world coming to?"

I was stuffing cotton wool in dead peoples orifices and emptying colostomy bags amongst other things at that age...young people today don't know they're born!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"[Removed by poster at 23/12/14 11:25:48]

I reckon there's a fair chance the 18yr old girl might turn out to be called Bob

Well as long as Bob is 18 he'll still be ok

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I was laying Concrete and Tarmac on the streets of New York when i was 18, whats the world coming to?

I was stuffing cotton wool in dead peoples orifices and emptying colostomy bags amongst other things at that age...young people today don't know they're born!"

yea my nieces were doing that too as nurses.

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over a year ago

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"I was laying Concrete and Tarmac on the streets of New York when i was 18, whats the world coming to?

I was stuffing cotton wool in dead peoples orifices and emptying colostomy bags amongst other things at that age...young people today don't know they're born!

yea my nieces were doing that too as nurses. "

Yep...rites of passage for student nurses!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just read ALL of the messages on thise thread and wow.

What strikes me is there is no reference to this 18yr old woman being verified... whether by meets or just photo verified. Surely this would help people to answer?!

There are some women out there who are around that age and only want to meet guys who are double their age... each to their own I guess.

Morally whether it is right is a difficult one to answer. I personally think age shouldn't matter as long as she is legal. My exwife was 7 years older than me and we started dating when I was 20.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it feels morally wrong don't do it simples

As stated she says she's of consenting age but I'd ask for ID may sound daft but how do you think you would fair in big boy prison lol go with your gutt good luck dude

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I was laying Concrete and Tarmac on the streets of New York when i was 18, whats the world coming to?

I was stuffing cotton wool in dead peoples orifices and emptying colostomy bags amongst other things at that age...young people today don't know they're born!

yea my nieces were doing that too as nurses.

Yep...rites of passage for student nurses!"

They're in their mid twenties now and I remember my mum being really upset when one of them was assigned to male urology aged 19. She was worried about what she would see

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

has he slipped her a length yet ?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"has he slipped her a length yet ?"

Do keep up View, in light of the learned and considered advice given here and due to the fact that many of us were up to our necks in muck and bullets at 18, no he hasn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"has he slipped her a length yet ?"

Lets hope not, it was probably a big hairy bloke called Brian!

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"has he slipped her a length yet ?

Do keep up View, in light of the learned and considered advice given here and due to the fact that many of us were up to our necks in muck and bullets at 18, no he hasn't.

bloomin lightweight.....

cheers

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"has he slipped her a length yet ?

Lets hope not, it was probably a big hairy bloke called Brian!"

I think I may have banged him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

proving she's 16 in England you should be safe

17 in N Ireland

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By *horltzMan
over a year ago

heysham

"[Removed by poster at 23/12/14 11:25:48]

I reckon there's a fair chance the 18yr old girl might turn out to be called Bob

Well as long as Bob is 18 he'll still be ok

Wonder if he ever appeared in blackadder

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Perhaps she's nineteen by now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Perhaps she's nineteen by now"
yeah 19 stone with a beard and beer gut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"[Removed by poster at 23/12/14 11:25:48]

I reckon there's a fair chance the 18yr old girl might turn out to be called Bob

Pmsl.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"[Removed by poster at 23/12/14 11:25:48]

I reckon there's a fair chance the 18yr old girl might turn out to be called Bob

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Perhaps she's nineteen by nowyeah 19 stone with a beard and beer gut

That's me.

Geoff x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was laying Concrete and Tarmac on the streets of New York when i was 18, whats the world coming to?

I was stuffing cotton wool in dead peoples orifices and emptying colostomy bags amongst other things at that age...young people today don't know they're born!"

Weird hobby.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you are asking the question...you clearly have doubts ....stick with your gut and steer clear"

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