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do you ladies like chubby guys?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I was just wondering if there are any women that like chubby guys

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By *unloversCouple
over a year ago

rotherham

I'm sure a lot of ladies like chubby guys

Why wouldn't they

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You asked the same question 5 weeks ago

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I'm sure a lot of ladies like chubby guys

Why wouldn't they"

I don't play with chubby guys for the same reason I don't play with short, bi, disabled, black, married guys: they don't fit my play needs.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Personally no, but I've seen plenty say they do on similar threads before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was just wondering if there are any women that like chubby guys "

Yeah, but you have to lose your hang up on chubby.

I have met guys and girls who would pass me by in the street without a second look, but get to know me a bit and whole different story.

There are others that would never meet me for a whole variety of reasons : age, sexuality, height, location, looks, too hairy etc etc

I know I'm a big lad.

I am not hung up on it.

If I lost weight, I'd still be a minger. Just a thinner one

Look for reasons WOULD want to meet you, not the reasons they wouldn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was just wondering if there are any women that like chubby guys "

As a big bloke its pretty much a no. Find a women who loves you and yeah no problem. But finding a women who will use you for pleasure...no chance. Thats why I dont play on our meets. If I did all the guys would be fine getting Emily, but no women would ever come. Harsh reality but it is a reality. Let all the pc brigade attack me if they want but Emily will back me up and confirm how often we have been turned down before I was taken out of the equation. I know I aint stunning even when slim but I was no quasemodo. Ive never had a problem finding relationships because I could overcome my weight with personality. But this aint a dating site. You dont have time to let petsonality shine through. Before you have 150 slimmer guys jump the queue ahead of you.

Sorry pal but I dont blow smoke up peoples arses. Thats how it is for us big blokes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hold nothing against chubby blokes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There will be women out there who insist on a sculpted physique, there's little you can so to change the mind for them.

There will be women out there who don't mind what body shape a guy has, but they will be less apparent to those searching for them.

As a less than perfect males specimen myself, I firmly believe it's all down to your attitude towards the women and your attitude to your appearance...........get too hung up on it and you'll appear timid, lacking in confidence and ultimately less attractive.

You'll be surprised how many people will meet you if you project confidence and carry yourself with pride. All you gotta do is find them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If he has confidence,a happy personality and is fit yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the man but I've had lots of fun with bigger men

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By *rShinyKnickersMan
over a year ago

BARRY

*watches thread with interest...*

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

You put the same thread up 5 weeks ago....in answer to your question, some will, some won;t.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chubby - yes

A virgin - no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the man I suppose. If given the choice I would rather avoid as have had experiences that were spoiled by the release of sweaty odours when folds of fat unfolded shall we say during play. What really irks me though is when men describe themselves as "rugby build" and when they send a photo after chatting a bit, are clearly overweight. Women seem to be much more honest about their bodysize than men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You put the same thread up 5 weeks ago....in answer to your question, some will, some won;t."

Damn that green arrow, just seen I offered virtually the same advice as have just done. So OP I offer a new nugget of help. Take heed of previous threads advice and stop putting yourself through Forum Groundhog Day.

Your clamour for approval is not making you look anymore attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was just wondering if there are any women that like chubby guys

As a big bloke its pretty much a no. Find a women who loves you and yeah no problem. But finding a women who will use you for pleasure...no chance. Thats why I dont play on our meets. If I did all the guys would be fine getting Emily, but no women would ever come. Harsh reality but it is a reality. Let all the pc brigade attack me if they want but Emily will back me up and confirm how often we have been turned down before I was taken out of the equation. I know I aint stunning even when slim but I was no quasemodo. Ive never had a problem finding relationships because I could overcome my weight with personality. But this aint a dating site. You dont have time to let petsonality shine through. Before you have 150 slimmer guys jump the queue ahead of you.

Sorry pal but I dont blow smoke up peoples arses. Thats how it is for us big blokes!"

you are absolutely right! !!

Totally agree!!

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"I was just wondering if there are any women that like chubby guys

As a big bloke its pretty much a no. Find a women who loves you and yeah no problem. But finding a women who will use you for pleasure...no chance. Thats why I dont play on our meets. If I did all the guys would be fine getting Emily, but no women would ever come. Harsh reality but it is a reality. Let all the pc brigade attack me if they want but Emily will back me up and confirm how often we have been turned down before I was taken out of the equation. I know I aint stunning even when slim but I was no quasemodo. Ive never had a problem finding relationships because I could overcome my weight with personality. But this aint a dating site. You dont have time to let petsonality shine through. Before you have 150 slimmer guys jump the queue ahead of you.

Sorry pal but I dont blow smoke up peoples arses. Thats how it is for us big blokes!"

thats how it may be.... for you.....

certainly aint what it is like for me....

and if you don't play because that is what you think people think... that is the saddest thing in what you said!

if you are on as a couple... and the couple dont want to play with one half... I'd go tell them to take a running jump, if you are taking one for the team by not playing... thats worse!

I have a million other things i can sell myself on... if the confidence isn't there in yourself, then no amount of anything else is going to help....

if people didn't go for larger people, then your partner wouldn't be with you!!!

you are saying you don't have time to make your personality shine thru.... pish!!!!! you have all the time in the world and it just depends on the speed you work at...

I get to know people here... and in clubs... and at socials...... and I sell them the best "me" i can be....

if the 150 slimmer guys are mutes and just rely on look... and there is me getting to know people.... i'd fancy my chances up against anyone!!!

but then i am a confident arsey brash tell it like i see it son of a gun who doesn't think people are better than me just because they are skinnier than me!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to your local club on bbm night (big beautiful man) you'll find your answer there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was just wondering if there are any women that like chubby guys

As a big bloke its pretty much a no. Find a women who loves you and yeah no problem. But finding a women who will use you for pleasure...no chance. Thats why I dont play on our meets. If I did all the guys would be fine getting Emily, but no women would ever come. Harsh reality but it is a reality. Let all the pc brigade attack me if they want but Emily will back me up and confirm how often we have been turned down before I was taken out of the equation. I know I aint stunning even when slim but I was no quasemodo. Ive never had a problem finding relationships because I could overcome my weight with personality. But this aint a dating site. You dont have time to let petsonality shine through. Before you have 150 slimmer guys jump the queue ahead of you.

Sorry pal but I dont blow smoke up peoples arses. Thats how it is for us big blokes!

thats how it may be.... for you.....

certainly aint what it is like for me....

and if you don't play because that is what you think people think... that is the saddest thing in what you said!

if you are on as a couple... and the couple dont want to play with one half... I'd go tell them to take a running jump, if you are taking one for the team by not playing... thats worse!

I have a million other things i can sell myself on... if the confidence isn't there in yourself, then no amount of anything else is going to help....

if people didn't go for larger people, then your partner wouldn't be with you!!!

you are saying you don't have time to make your personality shine thru.... pish!!!!! you have all the time in the world and it just depends on the speed you work at...

I get to know people here... and in clubs... and at socials...... and I sell them the best "me" i can be....

if the 150 slimmer guys are mutes and just rely on look... and there is me getting to know people.... i'd fancy my chances up against anyone!!!

but then i am a confident arsey brash tell it like i see it son of a gun who doesn't think people are better than me just because they are skinnier than me!!!!!!"

I dont think anybody is better than me but Im a realist. The vast majority of women are not gonna be attracted to a 22 stone guy with a small cock and a belly like a heavily pregnant women. No amount of personality is gonna change that. Clubs and group socials are not a choice for us and one social meet at ours has been enough for every female to say playing with me would not be an option. Im not taking one for the team by not playing. Im sitting back and watching my partner indulge and enjoy. Its an awesome thing to see. We did say no to people who turned me down when we started and guess how many meets we had in two years...ZERO!!!

Then we changed the play and said Emily only and now we get plenty! Confidence bollocks. As I said its not a dating site. Women aint looking for a love affair and I have loads of female friends who I have a great laugh with here and the vanilla world. But would any of them play with me? Fuck no Im too fat!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Go to your local club on bbm night (big beautiful man) you'll find your answer there."

Do you go often?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I maybe beautiful but I'm certainly not big enough in the waistline department. I'll just keep eating the cakes. What's your favourite variety? Seem to have the desired effect..

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea

I'm a heavy lump at 17 1/2 stone at 6'3" but if i was 5'9" and the same shape i would be classed as average.

It dont effect my meets as ladies say i don't look that heavy...until i lay on them that is lol.

Horses for courses, if women want skinny guys they will look for them and if others want their men with a bit more meat on their bones again they will look for them also.

We cant always change our shapes that easy but there is always someone for everybody.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a heavy lump at 17 1/2 stone at 6'3" but if i was 5'9" and the same shape i would be classed as average.

"

Im only 5'10" and 22 stone!! Nuff said.

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea

My friend is a cage fighter/boxer who is 5'7" and 15 stone and the ladies love him, once people find that inner person size goes out the window mate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id imagine his weight is more muscle than fat though right?

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"I was just wondering if there are any women that like chubby guys

As a big bloke its pretty much a no. Find a women who loves you and yeah no problem. But finding a women who will use you for pleasure...no chance. Thats why I dont play on our meets. If I did all the guys would be fine getting Emily, but no women would ever come. Harsh reality but it is a reality. Let all the pc brigade attack me if they want but Emily will back me up and confirm how often we have been turned down before I was taken out of the equation. I know I aint stunning even when slim but I was no quasemodo. Ive never had a problem finding relationships because I could overcome my weight with personality. But this aint a dating site. You dont have time to let petsonality shine through. Before you have 150 slimmer guys jump the queue ahead of you.

Sorry pal but I dont blow smoke up peoples arses. Thats how it is for us big blokes!

thats how it may be.... for you.....

certainly aint what it is like for me....

and if you don't play because that is what you think people think... that is the saddest thing in what you said!

if you are on as a couple... and the couple dont want to play with one half... I'd go tell them to take a running jump, if you are taking one for the team by not playing... thats worse!

I have a million other things i can sell myself on... if the confidence isn't there in yourself, then no amount of anything else is going to help....

if people didn't go for larger people, then your partner wouldn't be with you!!!

you are saying you don't have time to make your personality shine thru.... pish!!!!! you have all the time in the world and it just depends on the speed you work at...

I get to know people here... and in clubs... and at socials...... and I sell them the best "me" i can be....

if the 150 slimmer guys are mutes and just rely on look... and there is me getting to know people.... i'd fancy my chances up against anyone!!!

but then i am a confident arsey brash tell it like i see it son of a gun who doesn't think people are better than me just because they are skinnier than me!!!!!!

I dont think anybody is better than me but Im a realist. The vast majority of women are not gonna be attracted to a 22 stone guy with a small cock and a belly like a heavily pregnant women. No amount of personality is gonna change that. Clubs and group socials are not a choice for us and one social meet at ours has been enough for every female to say playing with me would not be an option. Im not taking one for the team by not playing. Im sitting back and watching my partner indulge and enjoy. Its an awesome thing to see. We did say no to people who turned me down when we started and guess how many meets we had in two years...ZERO!!!

Then we changed the play and said Emily only and now we get plenty! Confidence bollocks. As I said its not a dating site. Women aint looking for a love affair and I have loads of female friends who I have a great laugh with here and the vanilla world. But would any of them play with me? Fuck no Im too fat! "

well then your premise doesn't work because you decided not to use, or close off avenues that would help your chances..... thats no one elses fault but yours....

thats like me complaining i am not a millionaire.. but when asked what have you done to help your chances... you said "well...nothing!"

you may well have settled for less... i would urge others not to... if you come across as defeatist... well thats what you get.... you settle... thats what you get!!!

i can say to people this is me... like it or lump it... i'll concentrate on those who do (of which there are a lot more than you think) than those who don't..... and to be honest, why on earth waste time of people who aren't going to change their minds....

like i said... i sell myself on me and the best me i can be... and for those who like me... i'm having a ball!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didnt close anything our circumstances block those options for us. We tried the alternative and it meant never having meets. Now we have a formula that works for us and we enjoy it so sorry I dont see how in any way shape or form we are being defeatist

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"I was just wondering if there are any women that like chubby guys "

chubby . ?

Someone who is tad overweight?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A well tailored suit can knock 20lbs of a guys figure and can give him more confidence when wearing it. Take some pics wearing it, put them on your profile then let your own personality do the rest. if you area decent person it will shine through and help you realise you don't have to be defined by your size.

Of course the other alternative if you are able, to do something about it by way of diet and exercise until you are happy with what you see in the mirror but you have to do that for yourself and not for other people and certainly not in the hopes of getting more meets through fab.

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea


"A well tailored suit can knock 20lbs of a guys figure and can give him more confidence when wearing it. Take some pics wearing it, put them on your profile then let your own personality do the rest. if you area decent person it will shine through and help you realise you don't have to be defined by your size.

Of course the other alternative if you are able, to do something about it by way of diet and exercise until you are happy with what you see in the mirror but you have to do that for yourself and not for other people and certainly not in the hopes of getting more meets through fab. "

I love wearing suits especially Italian designs but i still look like a bouncer, i was out the other week with Kim wearing a suit and i had someone tugging on my sleeve saying "them guys have had a lot to drink" thinking i was a bloody bouncer lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A well tailored suit can knock 20lbs of a guys figure and can give him more confidence when wearing it. "

Or make a guy look a total prat lol sorry I cant stand guys in suits and Im thankfull Stu doesnt own one.

Emily.

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By *d_deeTV/TS
over a year ago

cheshire


"Chubby - yes

A virgin - no"

I would love to suck a virgin off, would not be bothered by their physic. I bet they could give out a lovely load. Still waiting for a big shooter

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I like biggins .. He's a chubby gay

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"I was just wondering if there are any women that like chubby guys "

I don't go for guys who have boobs bigger than mine; I can''t stand the 'competition'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm fat, who wants a shag???? Ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess the trouble is some guys will fuck anything. Most women won't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I guess the trouble is some guys will fuck anything. Most women won't."

Some though, guys n gals alike, appreciate fat.

They are in the minority, but they do exist.

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