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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm not meeting at the minute so have hidden my profile. The constant messaging really got on my tits and I'd find myself getting annoyed instead of enjoying the experience. However, since hiding I really miss getting messages and now find myself on the forums all day to compensate :-/

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BAE

Ah, the irony of human nature.

Or is it just you women ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe turn your filters up and you can have both . Your profile and some mail . x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think they call that sod's law really, maybe if you adjusted your filters on the messages then you can receive message from guy's you maybe interest in meeting the future. If they are interest they will not mind waiting and chatting with you to get to know you better for now xx Good Luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ah, the irony of human nature.

Or is it just you women ? "

Haha we are very fickle and complex, but beautiful, creatures

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BAE

Yes you certainly are

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

im sure you can unhide when you want to

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"im sure you can unhide when you want to"

Yeah you can but I don't want to give the wrong impression and be accused of time wasting

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I think we should all now send you a daft message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"im sure you can unhide when you want to

Yeah you can but I don't want to give the wrong impression and be accused of time wasting "

Can we call you a time waster for starting this thread

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire


"im sure you can unhide when you want to

Yeah you can but I don't want to give the wrong impression and be accused of time wasting "

the ones that get me are the ones who mail to ask why I deleted their message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think we should all now send you a daft message "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I recon you can turn it of so you don't get any emails set ur age limit to 93 lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thing is all woman no matter how they look and couples who meet singles get loads of mail.. I was getting loads until I sorted my filters .. 100s a month its normal .

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By *asmanian TigerMan
over a year ago

lala land


"im sure you can unhide when you want to

Yeah you can but I don't want to give the wrong impression and be accused of time wasting

Can we call you a time waster for starting this thread "

Tut tut we have another time waster on our hands

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"im sure you can unhide when you want to

Yeah you can but I don't want to give the wrong impression and be accused of time wasting

Can we call you a time waster for starting this thread

Tut tut we have another time waster on our hands "

haha

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By *asmanian TigerMan
over a year ago

lala land


"im sure you can unhide when you want to

Yeah you can but I don't want to give the wrong impression and be accused of time wasting

the ones that get me are the ones who mail to ask why I deleted their message"

Derrrrttt

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes


"im sure you can unhide when you want to

Yeah you can but I don't want to give the wrong impression and be accused of time wasting "

I would not worry about people calling you a time waster. People who make comments like that I would consider as either overly aggressive in nature or having an entitlement complex. By getting their messages you could use that as a filter to block and avoid them in the future.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"im sure you can unhide when you want to

Yeah you can but I don't want to give the wrong impression and be accused of time wasting

Can we call you a time waster for starting this thread "

If you like, I'm definitely wasting my own time, just counting the hours til home time. lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"im sure you can unhide when you want to

Yeah you can but I don't want to give the wrong impression and be accused of time wasting

Can we call you a time waster for starting this thread

If you like, I'm definitely wasting my own time, just counting the hours til home time. lol"

Well I think that could be classed as a very productive afternoon at work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not meeting at the minute so have hidden my profile. The constant messaging really got on my tits and I'd find myself getting annoyed instead of enjoying the experience. However, since hiding I really miss getting messages and now find myself on the forums all day to compensate :-/"

its nice in here though isnt it Sx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm not meeting at the minute so have hidden my profile. The constant messaging really got on my tits and I'd find myself getting annoyed instead of enjoying the experience. However, since hiding I really miss getting messages and now find myself on the forums all day to compensate :-/

its nice in here though isnt it Sx"

It is now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"im sure you can unhide when you want to

Yeah you can but I don't want to give the wrong impression and be accused of time wasting "

You won't be if you state clearly in profile/header that you are not meeting at moment. If anyone misunderstands or doesn't read...then they are wasting their own time...and you can always block them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

aww diddums

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

filters are your best friend

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"im sure you can unhide when you want to

Yeah you can but I don't want to give the wrong impression and be accused of time wasting

You won't be if you state clearly in profile/header that you are not meeting at moment. If anyone misunderstands or doesn't read...then they are wasting their own time...and you can always block them!"

You are right but I wonder if there are many that would talk with no hope of meeting (maybe a few) so I'd probably spend most of my time deleting and blocking the idiots that don't read. Lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"im sure you can unhide when you want to

Yeah you can but I don't want to give the wrong impression and be accused of time wasting

You won't be if you state clearly in profile/header that you are not meeting at moment. If anyone misunderstands or doesn't read...then they are wasting their own time...and you can always block them!

You are right but I wonder if there are many that would talk with no hope of meeting (maybe a few) so I'd probably spend most of my time deleting and blocking the idiots that don't read. Lol xx"

There are plenty who will talk, and their first words are 'i know you're not meeting right now but would you like to chat'...actually surprised at how many guys do read profiles or statuses and take note, seeing as there's lots of complaints about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"aww diddums"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess it can feel strange not getting fawning messages from guys if that's something that's important to you ....

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