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By *aniboy123 OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

I hate having sex with the lights on! What di you think x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a little side light. Unless its wake up in the middle of the night sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like muted lighting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Candle light is pretty sexy

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Depends if it is half time or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lights off is a bit weird - why wouldn't you be want to be able to see what you're doing (and what your partner is (or partners are!) doing)? Having said that full lights on can be a bit bright and clinical so yes muted lighting - lamps - are probably best. Candles do look sexy agreed but a bit of a burn hazard. Unless that's what you're into!?

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By *ery curious maleMan
over a year ago

Bishop Auckland

Dimmed lighting or candle light is my fav

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dimmed lighting, still like to see what's going on but not be blinded by bright lights

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like sex in the dark

I like sex with the lights on.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Candles are good, especially those with a low melting temperature.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol,,yea why in the dark,,,im scared of the dark

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lights on fine

lights off fine

candles on fine

candles poured over me or someone else mmm yummy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lights on. hate anything in the dark coz it's creepy.

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By *aniboy123 OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham


"I hate having sex with the lights on! What di you think x "

Im a dimmed man tbh... as long as you can just about see!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lights on. hate anything in the dark coz it's creepy."

Spooky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like muted lighting "

Prefer this too.

If I had to choose between brightly lit or no lights, it'd be no lights.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

strobe light infront of a large mirror,,very funny,try it

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By *heffmMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Lights on, or I'll need my pit helmet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nobody likes the rabbit in headlight look!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nobody likes the rabbit in headlight look!! "

lol,,that made me spray coffe on my pc,,thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nobody likes the rabbit in headlight look!!

lol,,that made me spray coffe on my pc,,thanks "

and I do mean coffee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lights on. hate anything in the dark coz it's creepy.

Spooky "

yeah it is!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lights on. I used to be quite prudish and shy and sex had to be lights off, covers on and pull my nightie down when you're done. Now I'm very very open minded and love to see what's going on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nobody likes the rabbit in headlight look!!

lol,,that made me spray coffe on my pc,,thanks

and I do mean coffee "

You're very welcome Mikki but it is true huh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not bothered - i we grab each other in bed in the middle of the night then dark is fine - broad daylight is fine too - we do like candles round the bathroom though as we unwind in there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lights on fine

lights off fine

candles on fine

candles poured over me or someone else mmm yummy "

Ooh, those Japanese ones Jacqs?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lights on fine

lights off fine

candles on fine

candles poured over me or someone else mmm yummy "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nobody likes the rabbit in headlight look!!

lol,,that made me spray coffe on my pc,,thanks

and I do mean coffee

You're very welcome Mikki but it is true huh! "

what bout the doe eyed bimbo look

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's all good, but hate the flashing blue or the torchlight through the window.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nobody likes the rabbit in headlight look!!

lol,,that made me spray coffe on my pc,,thanks

and I do mean coffee

You're very welcome Mikki but it is true huh!

what bout the doe eyed bimbo look "

Has it's moments, just not under a spotlight though!

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Light on..... with a blindfold.

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By *asmanian TigerMan
over a year ago

lala land

What would you do if it is at day time?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate having sex with the lights on! What di you think x "

Full on spotlights no its not a porno shoot but a little subdued lighting is ideal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What would you do if it is at day time? "

blindfold all participants of course

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

If it's daylight, lights aren't usually needed. It's good to see what and who's going on.

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By *arehamMan
over a year ago

handforth

As long as I am getting sex who cares?.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On!

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"As long as I am getting sex who cares?. "

Your partner?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Moonlight is good to actually! Once had someone over & id left the curtains open, full moon going on left the room with almost a silver glow it was pretty sexy

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I like muted lighting, it's relaxing and sensual with light and shade play ok over your bodies

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"I like muted lighting, it's relaxing and sensual with light and shade play ok over your bodies "

Playing over your bodies, damn auto carrot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often get requests to turn the light off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like sex in the dark

I like sex with the lights on. "

I like sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like a little side light. Unless its wake up in the middle of the night sex "

Snap

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I don't mind the lights being on .. But I do like pitch dark middle of the night sex .

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

And naked skin by candle light is so very sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind lights on or off but sex by starlight is very good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lights on fine

lights off fine

candles on fine

candles poured over me or someone else mmm yummy

Ooh, those Japanese ones Jacqs?"

u know me so well :_

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On a floodlit pitch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Realised a few years back that strong lighting wasn't a good idea - especially when the curtains were evidently a bit on the thin side. Neighbours could apparently see pretty much everything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like the dark. A friend and I drove for 2 hrs one night for some alfresco sex. But it was too dark and spooky so I made him take me home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't like the dark. A friend and I drove for 2 hrs one night for some alfresco sex. But it was too dark and spooky so I made him take me home "

I'm sure he saw the funny side.

Unfortunately for him though, he didn't see the fanny side.

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By *rank_SimoneCouple
over a year ago

Bideford

Lights on, we love to see all the beauty and inperfections.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lights on for me like to see who I am having sex with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dimmed lighting or candle light sexyyy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the situation and stimulation of the situation.

I like to be able to see my partner this doe snot mean having the lights on but a light source..

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By *bfoxxxMan
over a year ago

Crete or LANCASTER

The visual feast is a great part of the turn on.

The key is to be attracted to whoever you are with.

Simple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex: lights on

Snuggles: lights off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lights off

He's anyone I want him to be then!

J

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

OFF - Keep the car doors shut it keeps the warm in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On! I have zero hangup, and Robyn looks incentive naked - why would I not want to see that?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do like to see to be honest, that's part of the turn on for me, but hold the spotlights, dimmed lights or candles will do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm easy

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"I like muted lighting "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, it depends....

Lights on if I'm going in up close n personal, lights dimmed (or candles) after a romantic meal, and if it's 6.00am, you're feeling horny, ya wanna spoon with me, then definitely, definitely, lights off.

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By *erald1231Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

I prefer ambient light setting with music to relax both of us is the best I guess but sometimes in the middle of the night when you start playing just end up with no lights.

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