FabSwingers.com forum: The Jealousy Gene

By *rightonsteve OP Man
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Do you have it? I don't. I don't get jealous when ladies I have sex with have sex with other men. In fact, I encourage it and like the idea.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

no....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jealousy is a total waste of emotion and effort.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have it. My ex hated me not throwing a strop when he flirted

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

No, I do get a bit protective and want to make sure there nice women. I don't know how people cope with jealousy in this lifestyle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a healthy jealousy not an obsessive jealousy

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I used to get dreadfully jealous when I was younger, but not any more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I don't get jealous of anything. I don't care how much money people have , what car they drive. I don't give a monkeys who any of our swing friends meet.

Jealousy and envy are two traits that have never bothered me.

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By *rightonsteve OP Man
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Maybe jealousy was too an emotive word, how about 'slight winsomeness'?

I don't think swinging and jealousy are good bed partners. I just wondered, that's all. I also don't care about other peoples material things although my mate has a totally awesome Maserati and I wish I had one! But I'm not jealous or envious.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Maybe jealousy was too an emotive word, how about 'slight winsomeness'?

I'm jealous of your bum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Green eyes not green eyed *courtesy of lickety *

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to get paranoidly jealous and possesive but grew out of it.

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By *rightonsteve OP Man
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Maybe jealousy was too an emotive word, how about 'slight winsomeness'?

jealous or envious.

I'm jealous of your bum."

It's firm, tight and pert. You can have a play with it for a while.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Maybe jealousy was too an emotive word, how about 'slight winsomeness'?

jealous or envious.

I'm jealous of your bum.

It's firm, tight and pert. You can have a play with it for a while.

and smells of pork

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

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"Maybe jealousy was too an emotive word, how about 'slight winsomeness'?

jealous or envious.

I'm jealous of your bum.

It's firm, tight and pert. You can have a play with it for a while.

Mmmmmmmmm

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

He doesn't really smell of pork

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He doesn't really smell of pork

Chicken ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do and by the sounds of it I've probably got all your jealousy genes too. It's a total waste of emotion and has probably ruined every relationship I've ever had but I can't help or control it. My jealousy stems from fear, fear of being left, feelings of being abandoned. My Mother has given me a fuck tonne of issues.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When in a relationship, I've been jealous in certain situations (but they were cheating on me. Bastards.) but I bottle it up. With casual partners, I never get jealous as I don't really get attached to people after sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was younger yeah I had it but think its something you can grow out of.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do and by the sounds of it I've probably got all your jealousy genes too. It's a total waste of emotion and has probably ruined every relationship I've ever had but I can't help or control it. My jealousy stems from fear, fear of being left, feelings of being abandoned. My Mother has given me a fuck tonne of issues."
have you addressed any of them ? Being so aware is a good sign that you want to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to when I was in a relationship but I think that was due to the fact that he cheated and the way I was treated by him.

I've never felt any jealousy whatsoever about anyone I've met from Fab though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" have you addressed any of them ? Being so aware is a good sign that you want to "

A few years back I started but didn't finish an advanced diploma in psychotherapy and counselling, whilst studying I understood why I am the way I am and also found out that I have HSAM memory (highly superior autobiographical memory) means I can remember every memory and every day of my life since I was about 5 years old. A gift and a curse, I can feel things that happened years ago as if they happened yesterday. My Mum was young having me and was never with my Father so she would go out and leave me with my Nan (Dads side) or my Gran all the time. I was close to my Nan and Gramps on my Dads side but he had an affair when I was 8 and left my Nan, also my Mum got with someone when I was 7 and had my sister when I was 10 and instantly was pushed out, my Mum, sister and step dad would go on holidays without me, have xmas eve in my step dads mums and xmas day whilst I was in my Grans. Went to live with my Gran permanently aged 15 cos my step Dad put me in hospital after battering me and my Mother did nothing and still stayed with him. My Nan and my Gran have both since died, they were the only family I was really close to. When I met my ex at 17 I went to live with him and his family for almost 10 years had a daughter with him, suffocated him with clinginess and jealousy until he eventually had enough and that ended.

Just feel like every bastard will leave me, find rejection really really hard to deal with, cling to people and fall fast for people and keep fucking everything up. I'm attractive I know this, I attract lots of guys, can I keep one, can I fuck!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's stopping you trying to deal with things ? It sounds so tragic. I'm not being facile. . I just think if I ask . . You may find a part of an answer somewhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am not jelous either, as all my fucks are just for a one off meet lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not jealousy but I can be quite possessive, I hate men letching at Mrs l, just stood staring at her it annoys me it's creepy,

And on here when men are messaging her everyday asking how her days been what she's been up to, were not looking for a boyfriend for her she has that in me, I just want to share her body not her mind that's for me alone, so I get a bit possessive then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I think mines broke because I don't get jealous at all watching her play. I just the mixture of feelings it brings to watch her work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" have you addressed any of them ? Being so aware is a good sign that you want to

This is the worst thing about jealousy, your need and fear of been alone actually pushes people away, it's a shit cycle that repeats and repeats, but once in it it's nearly impossible to get out of, because every relationship ends and confirms what you already think,

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By *rightonsteve OP Man
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Well done Athena, for being so open and sharing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's stopping you trying to deal with things ? It sounds so tragic. I'm not being facile. . I just think if I ask . . You may find a part of an answer somewhere. "

Don't want to de-rail the thread, I've had professional counselling, I've even been under the care of a hypnotist, I know why I am the way I am, I have all the logic and information to rationalise why I have these thoughts but I can't stop my memory, as soon as something happens could be something trivial it puts me back in the past to whatever even or situation made me feel bad. To this day I can't put a phone to my ear to listen to the dial tone I have to watch my phone to see when the person answers, this is down to the day my Mother had gone out and left me in the house alone for hours till it was dark and I was constantly ringing my Nans house phone and it didn't answer, I can't stand ringing tones!

Right lets not clog up this thread now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No I don't get jealous of anything. I don't care how much money people have , what car they drive. I don't give a monkeys who any of our swing friends meet.

Jealousy and envy are two traits that have never bothered me. "

That sums it up for me too

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

No, I don't have it.

I think jealousy is just an overlay for something else in someone's DNA/fucked-up kit bag.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

No not jealous, I have always been brought up to think that it is a wasted emotion.

And yes I have been cheated on also, my only request is that people be honest with me.

Have met a few clingy men on here so that is a total turn off and maybe keeps me in check also.

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By *rightonsteve OP Man
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Athena, don't worry. Your post was more interesting than mine. Something that embedded in your psyche won't be something we can help you with. It's a little more complex than a profile advice ask. I'm impressed you had the courage to tell us all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no not really, if I have met someone who I liked its good to let others know that they are worth meeting.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Used to have it, now I've come to realise that it's actually a pain in the arse feeling to have so I've learnt to deal with it and rarely get jealous.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

No, not jealous or slightly winsome. Neither of us are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm hard work....not through being jealous..I'm just a bit detached from feeling that pull on someone..its annoyed some previous partners..I'm either hot or just pretty cold.Stay or walk away..without hassles thanks.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"I'm hard work....not through being jealous..I'm just a bit detached from feeling that pull on someone..its annoyed some previous partners..I'm either hot or just pretty cold.Stay or walk away..without hassles thanks."

You're a hard man, Paddy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get jealous, I've had an extremely jealous ex and have seen how destructive that trait can be. It almost leads to paranoia and gets very exhausting to live with.

I'm always happy for what others have and not envious of them. I've never got jealous of anyone I've met on Fab meeting anyone else, if I did I wouldn't be here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't think I did jealousy until I felt it for real earlier this year. Thankfully I recognised it, named it and now if I get a pang I laugh and let it go.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm finding it interesting that almost everyone is claiming not to experience jealousy or being able to turn it off. Which has me wondering where all these obsessive stalkers are that you hear so much about on here......

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"I'm finding it interesting that almost everyone is claiming not to experience jealousy or being able to turn it off. Which has me wondering where all these obsessive stalkers are that you hear so much about on here......"

They're too busy Google mapping me to post on the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont get jealous but have so many insecurities due to parents and the ex - i doubt i will ever lose them

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

They're too busy Google mapping me to post on the forums.

I know where you live........

Nope, never had even a tinge of winsomeness either in relationships or swinging...I'm with Paddy on this one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No not usually though I have seen a bit on here since joining and always find it strange with supposedly liberated people.

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By *ipsTeaserCouple
over a year ago

here and there, thereabouts

I think a little jealousy is healthy, to a degree.

I'd be lying if I said I didnt get jealous occasionally. It's usually with cause though,like when I saw a work colleague of bugs flirting with him very overtly knowing he is attached..it was due to her behaviour rather than his and I wanted to 'stake my claim!

Here, where all parties know where they stand;nope, not jealous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No not usually though I have seen a bit on here since joining and always find it strange with supposedly liberated people."
I totally agree.

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Yes very jealous . Not able to share well at all . Especially when i only get about 2% of his time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to be, it only fucks things up here. it is a difficult thing to beat though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jealously along with trust or distrust very important emotions to have in a relasionship/ marriage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep I've definitely have experienced in the past jealousy over a man and it's a hideous feeling to have.

Every now and then I can feel it rising but I've learnt to recognise the emotion and deal with it.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Oh I've got the gene, that's why I tend end up in relationships with intense Leos and obsessive Scorpios lol, I lap it up! I am not bothered about casual meets, and if I care enough about someone to get jealous, it just turns me off bigtime, I'd get repulsed and walk away long before the bunnies were in any danger!

But no-one has ever cheated on me, so luckily I have none of the associated fear, that must be awful.

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By *adyGardenWoman
over a year ago

LONDON (se)

" have you addressed any of them ? Being so aware is a good sign that you want to

Perhaaps this is not the right world for you and will just cause you more pain and heartache.

Such strong emotions especially those of jealousy don't bode well here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaaps this is not the right world for you and will just cause you more pain and heartache.

Such strong emotions especially those of jealousy don't bode well here"

Nah this place is fine, I only have those feelings when it's someone I'm actually in a relationship with and care about. Guys I've met on here have just been one offs. I'm not actually meeting people anyway just here for the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In a committed relationship there has to be trust...

No room for jealousy.

Some fab experiences made me realise that I'm only good at meeting alone, not as part of a couple.

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By *luefish2009Couple
over a year ago

blandford forum

"I used to get paranoidly jealous and possesive but grew out of it."

Yes, thats me also. Dont know what changed or exactly when though, now I am 100& the opposite end of the scale

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think swinging and jealousy are good bed partners. "

Unless its a threesome with rationality

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By *adyGardenWoman
over a year ago

LONDON (se)

Perhaaps this is not the right world for you and will just cause you more pain and heartache.

Such strong emotions especially those of jealousy don't bode well here

Well that's good then.

It's all about the enjoyment.

I hope you do manage to work through your personal issues.

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By *rightonsteve OP Man
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I thought I'd bump this one to enable others to have a read....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had mine cauterised..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get very jealous!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't have it. My ex hated me not throwing a strop when he flirted"

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By *rightonsteve OP Man
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I get very jealous!!"

That's interesting. Why? It's just recreational sex....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not the jealous type - I never would be in the swinging world for sure, would be pointless.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think a little jealousy is healthy, to a degree.

Here, where all parties know where they stand;nope, not jealous."

I agree with this, it's a natural human emotion. It's how you deal with it and act on it that makes the difference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont even know...sex n feelings n all that jazz..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No room for jealousy in a swinger....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are very much in love and are totally honest and open with each other

The other week we had our first 3 sum with a guy

It was all about her and I learnt I am not jealous seeing her being fucked by another man.

It was just a "sex thing" and nothing to do with our relationship...

It didn't go entirely to plan but was a great start so onwards n upwards....she wants to share a womsn next....eek

Xxxx

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By *rightonsteve OP Man
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I thought I'd bump this one as someone on another thread reminded me of it.

Continue or not.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have nobody to be jealous of so no

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By *rightonsteve OP Man
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I have nobody to be jealous of so no

Thanks for posting. Makes me feel not quite the sad lonely dildo I might have thought I could have been had no one posted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes. It depends how I feel about them. I'm only human.

If that makes me an idiot. So be it

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By *rightonsteve OP Man
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Sometimes. It depends how I feel about them. I'm only human.

If that makes me an idiot. So be it

There's no right or wrong answer. You can sleep the sleep of the innocent, c'est soir.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never had anyone to feel jealous about I've only ever had one relationship, my ex husband and I never loved him so really didn't care what he did, every one else in my life has just been a fling and I'm hardly likely to get jealous over someone who I've met off here

I can't say I domt have the jealous gene, maybe if I did find someone I cared about or even loved I may feel jealous, that's something I'll never know

All becaus it's never had reason to rear its head so far does not mean its not there I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This

when I walk I walk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have seen the women my regular partners have had sex with. I don't care who they have sex with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jesus wept.

80% of this thread saying they don't get jealous, the fucking bitching that goes on in this place would wholly suggest otherwise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The opposite.

Those who I'm lucky to have met on here aren't random people, but friends. I want them to have the most fun, the experiences and excitement as they can; as I would all my friends.

Is that not normal?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I believe you all who aren't jealous at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The opposite.

Those who I'm lucky to have met on here aren't random people, but friends. I want them to have the most fun, the experiences and excitement as they can; as I would all my friends.

Is that not normal? "

That is exactly my outlook ... exactly that.

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By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york

"The opposite.

Those who I'm lucky to have met on here aren't random people, but friends. I want them to have the most fun, the experiences and excitement as they can; as I would all my friends.

Is that not normal? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes i get jealous

its a human emotion.. i was born with it.. i express it.

so shoot me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get jealous...I get mad...I get worried...I get curious... That's only because I care

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No..... Anyone who does shouldn't be on this or any other similar site!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's probably better to be aware of human emotions and hormones how there designed to make you think!.

That doesn't mean you have to be controlled by them.

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By *icked weaselCouple
over a year ago

Near Edinburgh..

I Get Annoyed with Jealousy..

When we were like 13.. back in the 80`s

Then Boyfriend and now Hubby was a little bit of a jealous Guy.. but he never controlled me..

Nowadays he says.. Dare you to go and ask that guy if he wants a wank.. and im like No..

few mins later - okay..

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Not only not jealous, don't rely on anyone but me. It's annoyed exes who've tried to make me jealous. Even when ex cheated jealousy wasn't the issue. It was that he tried to make me out a liar when he'd been caught red handed and fact he put my health at risk by not using condoms!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If people get jealous on here. They're on the wrong site in my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get jealous but I do get a little bit dissapointed sometimes. Nothing that causes me or anyone else problems, I always get over myself eventually, just the way I'm made I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you have it? I don't. I don't get jealous when ladies I have sex with have sex with other men. In fact, I encourage it and like the idea. "

Probably do ...

But nothing worse than a woman who wont admit she's jealous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

_rightonsteve

I admire You for having that outlook on it all

but I gotta be honest I can't help but think if I was in that Situation that I'd be worried The Ladie would want to be with One Guy more than the other and also that it seems to be considerably easier for The Lady to get offers than what the Man does, being in the same situation Myself a few times when I approached other Females they were reluctant to get involved with Me due to the fact I was in a relationship (Of some kind) with another Woman

I know to have Your way of looking at things is easier said than done so fair play to You I say

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By *ilacWoman
over a year ago

Cheshire

I have a jealous streak. Not of anything materialistic but I do have an insecure streak in my relationship that will trigger jealousy. I'm aware of it and he's aware of it. It gets addresses and dealt with. It's not something I have control over and I know that it stems from past experiences. It's definitely easing as I age. Or maybe it's easing because it's being dealt with correctly. Maybe one day it will go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get jealous...I get mad...I get worried...I get curious... That's only because I care

Very same as me!!

and these emotions always ends up in a fights which i hate,but i cant help myself not to be jealous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got a jealous streak, but it's well under control. I might feel a little pang of jealousy when I see something, but would never voice it out loud or inflict it on anyone else because it's my shit, not anything to do with their actions!

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By *eyondCuriousWoman
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"I get jealous...I get mad...I get worried...I get curious... That's only because I care

This, but mainly the worried bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jealousy is an emotion not a gene

Simple advice to all that suffer

GET OVER YOURSELF

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When i was youngers 21ish i used to get jealous. But these days no never water off a ducks bk

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over a year ago

Someone must be bored dragging threads up from weeks ago

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Nope... don't have it either.

There's not a lot hornier for me than watching someone I'm intimate with fuck someone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, why on earth would I spend time getting envious over another man getting the girl.

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By *rightonsteve OP Man
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Jealousy is an emotion not a gene

Simple advice to all that suffer

GET OVER YOURSELF

I'm perfectly aware of that. It was a literacy style to suggest it was embedded in ones body and psyche.

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By *rightonsteve OP Man
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Someone must be bored dragging threads up from weeks ago

True, but it's a totally fabulously fantastic thread though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not jealous. I actually encourage my man to fuck others particularly if I can watch him fuck them hard and make them moan. It's a turn on and in a way I'm proud of him penetrating others and making them moan in ecstasy.

And this is coming from someone who used to want monogamy only and who used to live monogamously. Over the years it's become apparent to me that life is short and monogamy is overated. Why wouldn't I want to know my man is enjoying himself?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jealousy + Swinging = Nightmare

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Found it interesting looking down this thread - not one I noticed when you first penned it Steve!

Has anyone noticed that the vast majority of people who admitted to jealousy have since left the site??

Guess that's inevitable as jealousy and swinging are incompatible I'd have said!

Was also very sad to read of athena's childhood experiences - and didn't realise she'd left the site - when was that? Really hope it was because sh found someone special - I liked her!! Xx

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By *rightonsteve OP Man
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Found it interesting looking down this thread - not one I noticed when you first penned it Steve!

Has anyone noticed that the vast majority of people who admitted to jealousy have since left the site??

Guess that's inevitable as jealousy and swinging are incompatible I'd have said!

Was also very sad to read of athena's childhood experiences - and didn't

realise she'd left the site - when was

that? Really hope it was because sh

found someone special - I liked her!!

Xx"

I'd forgotten about this thread. It's sad when people you like leave the site. One never knows why unless they say and it always leaves a little echo of them for a while until that goes as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jealousy & swinging don't go but I think a small bit of jealousy in a proper relationship can be good. If I get jealous, I know I have feelings for that person, if I don't, then I know I don't give a shit about them & what they do & it's time to end the relationship.

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By *overs14Couple
over a year ago

norwich

"Found it interesting looking down this thread - not one I noticed when you first penned it Steve!

Has anyone noticed that the vast majority of people who admitted to jealousy have since left the site??

Guess that's inevitable as jealousy and swinging are incompatible I'd have said!

Was also very sad to read of athena's childhood experiences - and didn't realise she'd left the site - when was that? Really hope it was because sh found someone special - I liked her!! Xx"

I'm sure she's back on again but with a different name. Sure I've seen her comment on stuff a few times x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can get a little jealous when a bond or feelings are formed with a partner. But it doesn't take over or affect anyone. I keep my thoughts to myself and it doesn't last long. I accept people as they are and they can do what they want. I don't get jealous of friends or family members, I'm happy for them if something good happens and always encouraging.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

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"Found it interesting looking down this thread - not one I noticed when you first penned it Steve!

Has anyone noticed that the vast majority of people who admitted to jealousy have since left the site??

Guess that's inevitable as jealousy and swinging are incompatible I'd have said!

Was also very sad to read of athena's childhood experiences - and didn't realise she'd left the site - when was that? Really hope it was because sh found someone special - I liked her!! Xx

I'm sure she's back on again but with a different name. Sure I've seen her comment on stuff a few times x"

Yes she is, her avatar is a bum now lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Found it interesting looking down this thread - not one I noticed when you first penned it Steve!

Has anyone noticed that the vast majority of people who admitted to jealousy have since left the site??

Guess that's inevitable as jealousy and swinging are incompatible I'd have said!

Was also very sad to read of athena's childhood experiences - and didn't realise she'd left the site - when was that? Really hope it was because sh found someone special - I liked her!! Xx

I'm sure she's back on again but with a different name. Sure I've seen her comment on stuff a few times x

Yes she is, her avatar is a bum now lol!"

Ok thanks! That narrows it down a bit!!

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Found it interesting looking down this thread - not one I noticed when you first penned it Steve!

Has anyone noticed that the vast majority of people who admitted to jealousy have since left the site??

Guess that's inevitable as jealousy and swinging are incompatible I'd have said!

Was also very sad to read of athena's childhood experiences - and didn't realise she'd left the site - when was that? Really hope it was because sh found someone special - I liked her!! Xx

I'm sure she's back on again but with a different name. Sure I've seen her comment on stuff a few times x

Yes she is, her avatar is a bum now lol!

Ok thanks! That narrows it down a bit!!

Lol, okay, okay, I'll see if I can find it in the threads I've posted to, I know she's on a couple!

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Found it interesting looking down this thread - not one I noticed when you first penned it Steve!

Has anyone noticed that the vast majority of people who admitted to jealousy have since left the site??

Guess that's inevitable as jealousy and swinging are incompatible I'd have said!

Was also very sad to read of athena's childhood experiences - and didn't realise she'd left the site - when was that? Really hope it was because sh found someone special - I liked her!! Xx

I'm sure she's back on again but with a different name. Sure I've seen her comment on stuff a few times x

Yes she is, her avatar is a bum now lol!

Ok thanks! That narrows it down a bit!!

Lol, okay, okay, I'll see if I can find it in the threads I've posted to, I know she's on a couple!

Found it, will pm you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Found it interesting looking down this thread - not one I noticed when you first penned it Steve!

Has anyone noticed that the vast majority of people who admitted to jealousy have since left the site??

Guess that's inevitable as jealousy and swinging are incompatible I'd have said!

Was also very sad to read of athena's childhood experiences - and didn't realise she'd left the site - when was that? Really hope it was because sh found someone special - I liked her!! Xx"

Aww thanks, still here though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get over yourself

Simples

Jealousy is a self absorbing infliction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im totes jelly in some cases

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By *psidaisiMan
over a year ago

Halifax

Not me but the ex did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Found it interesting looking down this thread - not one I noticed when you first penned it Steve!

Has anyone noticed that the vast majority of people who admitted to jealousy have since left the site??

Guess that's inevitable as jealousy and swinging are incompatible I'd have said!

Was also very sad to read of athena's childhood experiences - and didn't realise she'd left the site - when was that? Really hope it was because sh found someone special - I liked her!! Xx

Aww thanks, still here though!

Frisky mare is right - I should have recognised that gorgeous figure/bum!

Welcome home lovely!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reawakening this discussion...

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By *rightonsteve OP Man
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Reawakening this discussion..."
it was laid to rest.....best forgotten.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Reawakening this discussion..."

Why? What's your _iew on it? X

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Reawakening this discussion..."

Is there a purpose to that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Reawakening this discussion... it was laid to rest.....best forgotten. "

but while it's open I don't get jealous of dates on here - in fact the more people having a fun and liberated time the better! No lamppost pissing here

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