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By *rs Mmmm OP Woman
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

I have been on this site 5 years and had several fb's.

I have been looking for a new one or two for over a year now and it seems like mission impossible.. I cleary state what I want, what I am... but still looking for that hard to find fuck buddy.

where am I going wrong.?

Im not being fussy but i do feel there has to be a sexual chemistry to make it fun.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I don't call them FBS but I have a few gentleman I see semi regularly. It was never planned, just guys I've met got on well with and continue to see. But its took a number of years to build it up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer the term friends with benefits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a great friend on fab. Fuckbuddy doesn't fit.

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By *asmanian TigerMan
over a year ago

lala land

"I prefer the term friends with benefits"

FWB or FB's they are hard to come by the search continues ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hard to come by I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They do exist, keep looking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate the term fb, although I do have a fwb. I know it amounts to the same thing, but the pleasure of being on call to meet someones needs is a lot of fun!

We first started playing when she was on here, and I was on my first time here. We have been playing for 4 years now and it is great!

She has no interest in a relationship. As a bloke I find it incredible that she only wants me for my body, my charm and how I make her feel as a woman. Absolutely no emotions involved, just sex when we want it and can arrange it!

I'm really lucky though.

Good luck with your search, if I can find one, there is hope for everyone!

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By *rs Mmmm OP Woman
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Ok i stand corrected. I actually prefer the term friend with benefits.

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By *rs Mmmm OP Woman
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

"They do exist, keep looking

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The search will continue. Thanks

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

if you have had 2, how can they be a myth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't say its a myth and I am sure you will find another friend to play with soon.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

oops several, not 2

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I'd like a friend with benefits

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

We refer to each other as friends with benefits. To us, a fuck buddy is someone you call up when you're horny, it's a shag and go situation.

That's how we started out, but Mr is one of my closest friends now, we speak almost every day and it's not just about sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a few. They just turned up and didn't leave. One has said he's going to be seeing me for years to come. That may or may not happen but it wasn't planned

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By *asmanian TigerMan
over a year ago

lala land

"We refer to each other as friends with benefits. To us, a fuck buddy is someone you call up when you're horny, it's a shag and go situation.

That's how we started out, but Mr is one of my closest friends now, we speak almost every day and it's not just about sex

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Totally agree with your I believe a lot of people confuse FWB with FB they are 2 different things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hats off to the women who can have a friend with benefits without getting an emotional attachment. I can't sleep with someone over and over without developing feelings for them and I don't enjoy sex unless I really like the person so I'm just fucked basically.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd like a friend with benefits

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So would I, in fact Id like two or three

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

"We refer to each other as friends with benefits. To us, a fuck buddy is someone you call up when you're horny, it's a shag and go situation.

That's how we started out, but Mr is one of my closest friends now, we speak almost every day and it's not just about sex

Totally agree with your I believe a lot of people confuse FWB with FB they are 2 different things

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Yeah, we care about each other and are there for each other. Even when I took time out for a relationship he was there, being supportive.

Never have I been so glad to give someone my number, lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hats off to the women who can have a friend with benefits without getting an emotional attachment. I can't sleep with someone over and over without developing feelings for them and I don't enjoy sex unless I really like the person so I'm just fucked basically. "

I really really like all mine but I don't ever spend the night. I don't want attachment of any kind. They are friends I have sex with and nothing more. If I did start to develop feelings for one of them I would end it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My partner was a Fuk bud, nearly 9 years together now, I think it's permanent

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

You just never know with FBs/FWBs. I remember the first time I met mine I was underwhelmed (and I bet he was too), but over the years its got better and better. We've taken breaks from each other, but are still at it.

There's no magic sign that pops up when you see someone on the site. You just have to go with it, and let it happen.

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

"Hats off to the women who can have a friend with benefits without getting an emotional attachment. I can't sleep with someone over and over without developing feelings for them and I don't enjoy sex unless I really like the person so I'm just fucked basically. "

But that's just it, a FWB is an emotional connection, because they're your friend too, whereas a FB is just a booty call

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

They are hard to find but as you say there has to be a connection and be on the same wavelength. Worth the effort once got

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By *rs Mmmm OP Woman
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

"We refer to each other as friends with benefits. To us, a fuck buddy is someone you call up when you're horny, it's a shag and go situation.

That's how we started out, but Mr is one of my closest friends now, we speak almost every day and it's not just about sex

Totally agree with your I believe a lot of people confuse FWB with FB they are 2 different things

Yeah, we care about each other and are there for each other. Even when I took time out for a relationship he was there, being supportive.

Never have I been so glad to give someone my number, lol

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Thats so nice to hear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was first on here earlier his year, I met one guy and still see him regularly six months on. We accept we have an unconventional ongoing relationship rather than try to label it. It wasn't something either of us went looking for it just happened. Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chances are with a fwb someone gets hurt! I know I have been recently. Yet sex with no emotion does nothing for me.

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By *asmanian TigerMan
over a year ago

lala land

"Hats off to the women who can have a friend with benefits without getting an emotional attachment. I can't sleep with someone over and over without developing feelings for them and I don't enjoy sex unless I really like the person so I'm just fucked basically. "

I am the same I need to connect with the person I am potentially going to sleep with however there is a fine line between connecting with some one and having feelings for them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hats off to the women who can have a friend with benefits without getting an emotional attachment. I can't sleep with someone over and over without developing feelings for them and I don't enjoy sex unless I really like the person so I'm just fucked basically.

But that's just it, a FWB is an emotional connection, because they're your friend too, whereas a FB is just a booty call"

But then from that I'd want exclusivity to each other and wouldn't it then be a relationship?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I'd like a friend with benefits

So would I, in fact Id like two or three

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So do I then, a lady friend, a guy and a couple, please. Amazon are still delivering in time for Xmas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a few on here who are definitely FWB. I also have a very special FWB but she is most certainly NOT an FB as we never swing together. We keep our time together separate from fab...tho we do discuss our fab meets ....often with much mirth. There are apparently several '"panda" men in the Worcester area....eats, shoots, leaves.....lol

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By *asmanian TigerMan
over a year ago

lala land

friends with benefits (F.W.B.)”– whatever fancy term you give it, there’s never anything simple about it.

Relationships have become increasingly carefree and physical, as women and men are marrying later in life. The boundaries between male/female relationships are less apparent and sex easily slips into the dichotomy. On the surface it makes sense to enjoy sex with someone you can trust, if you both aren’t ready for a serious relationship. But for some strange reason, F.W.B. always turns into a bad situation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd like a friend with benefits

So would I, in fact Id like two or three

So do I then, a lady friend, a guy and a couple, please. Amazon are still delivering in time for Xmas

"

#Legs rushes off to get her credit card and logs onto Amazon and looks under the Tall, gorgeous hotties wanting to move to west Wales for regular bonking department. Speak swn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And I'm more than happy to share any of my men. I don't get jealous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A fuck buddie is a myth. I have never had one in whole my life. I put it down as fate lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"friends with benefits (F.W.B.)”– whatever fancy term you give it, there’s never anything simple about it.

Relationships have become increasingly carefree and physical, as women and men are marrying later in life. The boundaries between male/female relationships are less apparent and sex easily slips into the dichotomy. On the surface it makes sense to enjoy sex with someone you can trust, if you both aren’t ready for a serious relationship. But for some strange reason, F.W.B. always turns into a bad situation. "

Usually turns bad when one person develops feelings for the other and wants to progress from being fwb's.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"And I'm more than happy to share any of my men. I don't get jealous

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I don't get jealous either - in fact, a lady I had sex with I set up with a guy so they can have sex together without me. I'm missing the jealousy gene

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I'd like a friend with benefits

So would I, in fact Id like two or three

So do I then, a lady friend, a guy and a couple, please. Amazon are still delivering in time for Xmas

#Legs rushes off to get her credit card

and logs onto Amazon and looks under

the Tall, gorgeous hotties wanting to

move to west Wales for regular bonking

department. Speak swn

"

I'm tall

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By *asmanian TigerMan
over a year ago

lala land

"friends with benefits (F.W.B.)”– whatever fancy term you give it, there’s never anything simple about it.

Relationships have become increasingly carefree and physical, as women and men are marrying later in life. The boundaries between male/female relationships are less apparent and sex easily slips into the dichotomy. On the surface it makes sense to enjoy sex with someone you can trust, if you both aren’t ready for a serious relationship. But for some strange reason, F.W.B. always turns into a bad situation.

Usually turns bad when one person develops feelings for the other and wants to progress from being fwb's. "

Yes they do it is like playing with fire however it is worth taking the risk

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By *an1973Man
over a year ago

Notts

"I have been on this site 5 years and had several fb's.

I have been looking for a new one or two for over a year now and it seems like mission impossible.. I cleary state what I want, what I am... but still looking for that hard to find fuck buddy.

where am I going wrong.?

Im not being fussy but i do feel there has to be a sexual chemistry to make it fun."

I think it's a matter of just "clicking" with the right person. I've only had two FB's I met via a different site after my last relationship ended but I haven't found a new FB (yet) since joining this site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd like a friend with benefits

So would I, in fact Id like two or three

So do I then, a lady friend, a guy and a couple, please. Amazon are still delivering in time for Xmas

#Legs rushes off to get her credit card

and logs onto Amazon and looks under the Tall, gorgeous hotties wanting to

move to west Wales for regular bonking department. Speak swn

I'm tall

"

One down, two to find

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I'm missing the jealousy gene as well I've been known to go on the hunt to find them nice women

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"And I'm more than happy to share any of my men. I don't get jealous

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Ditto. My FWB has had three girlfriends in the 9 years we've been seeing each other.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I'm missing the jealousy gene as well I've been known to go on the hunt to find them nice women

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can you do that from a distance?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And I'm more than happy to share any of my men. I don't get jealous

Ditto. My FWB has had three girlfriends in the 9 years we've been seeing each other. "

one of mine offered to share another of his women with me

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"I'm missing the jealousy gene as well I've been known to go on the hunt to find them nice women

can you do that from a distance?

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yes dear but you don't need my help

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"And I'm more than happy to share any of my men. I don't get jealous

Ditto. My FWB has had three girlfriends in the 9 years we've been seeing each other.

one of mine offered to share another of his women with me "
I did with mine and the funny thing is he got pissed off cause we hit it off so well couldn't stop chatting about alsorts

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"And I'm more than happy to share any of my men. I don't get jealous

Ditto. My FWB has had three girlfriends in the 9 years we've been seeing each other.

one of mine offered to share another of his women with me I did with mine and the funny thing is he got pissed off cause we hit it off so well couldn't stop chatting about alsorts

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He's the one that gets jealous

. I'm not allowed to talk about meeting other men with him now. I don't mind though - he's a great shag.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd like a friend with benefits

So would I, in fact Id like two or three

So do I then, a lady friend, a guy and a couple, please. Amazon are still delivering in time for Xmas

#Legs rushes off to get her credit card

and logs onto Amazon and looks under

the Tall, gorgeous hotties wanting to

move to west Wales for regular bonking

department. Speak swn

I'm tall

"

I'm tall and closer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Friends with benefits is different from a fuck buddy. Im looking for a friend with benefits within my area. I know what I want and don't settle for less. My profile isn't asking much but it seems impossible to find on here!

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

"Hats off to the women who can have a friend with benefits without getting an emotional attachment. I can't sleep with someone over and over without developing feelings for them and I don't enjoy sex unless I really like the person so I'm just fucked basically.

But that's just it, a FWB is an emotional connection, because they're your friend too, whereas a FB is just a booty call

But then from that I'd want exclusivity to each other and wouldn't it then be a relationship? "

If you were exclusive to each other, then yes. We're not, we play separately as well as alone

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By *callycatMan
over a year ago

Mid Wales

Never really thought about the labels, and I know that for many people it is the pursuit of novelty that is the attraction, but there is a definitely a point at which a meet on here becomes a significant friendship......someone you see every week and sleep with whenever you get the chance, but not to the exclusion of others. If that's what is meant by a FWB then definitely not a myth.. I love mine...him and her!

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