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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've had two people message me insisting I am somebody they have met previously (2 different people not the same person). I explained they had the wrong person but they badgered me insisting I was lying. Trying to assure them I wasn't I engaged in conversation to prove it until I eventually got nasty and ended up blocking.

Are they just looking for attention or is this a genuine mistake? If they do believe I'm the person they know why continue to message? If i was that person and denying it i clearly dont want anything to do with them so they should take the hint. smells of desperation to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's an old tactic to grab your attention and engage them in conversation.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"I've had two people message me insisting I am somebody they have met previously (2 different people not the same person). I explained they had the wrong person but they badgered me insisting I was lying. Trying to assure them I wasn't I engaged in conversation to prove it until I eventually got nasty and ended up blocking.

Are they just looking for attention or is this a genuine mistake? If they do believe I'm the person they know why continue to message? If i was that person and denying it i clearly dont want anything to do with them so they should take the hint. smells of desperation to me."
Its a known message to try and get you to reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

don't take anything on here too seriously.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm positive I recognise that eye in your avatar.... Are you sure we haven't met before??? ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oh I've had a lot of I know you messages in the past (some that actually do and I have ignored lol) but these two were different. Maybe the tactics are getting more sophisticated haha. I was honestly trying to help so they did feel the "person" they thought I was was deliberately ignoring them. Just ended up getting my back up though!!

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Oh I've had a lot of I know you messages in the past (some that actually do and I have ignored lol) but these two were different. Maybe the tactics are getting more sophisticated haha. I was honestly trying to help so they did feel the "person" they thought I was was deliberately ignoring them. Just ended up getting my back up though!! "
It can change, but best not to let folk like that get to you, ignore em next time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm positive I recognise that eye in your avatar.... Are you sure we haven't met before??? ??"

Oh yeah I remember, I think I'm unforgettable really as there's not many people on here with one eye.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's an old tactic to grab your attention and engage them in conversation. "

^^^^ this. I've had similar a few recently. They lived miles away but still insisted we'd chatted/met/agreed to meet. I just ignored and deleted any message I received after I said mistaken identity.

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