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Why is there a shortage of swingers in London?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

There doesn't seem many genuine female swingers in London ?

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

define genuine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There doesn't seem many genuine female swingers in London ?"

I think that's just an example of Fab's Law in action - wherever you (or me, or anyone) happen to be, there'll be a marked shortage of suitable playmates - yet there will seem to be loads at the far end of the country...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i would be very suprised if that was true...just going by demographics its unlikely..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's loads of females on here from London. It doesn't make them fake just because they won't meet you...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You might not be what they want

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

I can confirm there are at least six.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

There's six pages of verified single women looking to meet single men (probably more looking to meet couples too!) between 18-99 that have logged in over the past 24 hrs, within 10 miles of London. (Advanced search is a useful tool!)

Again - please define 'genuine' OP?

A

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There's loads of females on here from London. It doesn't make them fake just because they won't meet you..."

I know that lol I don't judge someone as fake for that reason but had a few that have roused my suspicion lol

But in general there doesn't seem that many. And the London cam chat room is always nearly empty

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By *emonWoman84Woman
over a year ago

Hartlepool

They're all in Hartlepool mate.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There's six pages of verified single women looking to meet single men (probably more looking to meet couples too!) between 18-99 that have logged in over the past 24 hrs, within 10 miles of London. (Advanced search is a useful tool!)

Again - please define 'genuine' OP?

A"

I have spoken to quite a few that seem to wanna talk dirty and get off quickly but I dont really think they are swingers

Talking dirty is ok but i want real action lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"They're all in Hartlepool mate.

"

Oh that's why

I need to relocate obviously lol

Can you guarantee I will be well looked after in Hartlepool?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's six pages of verified single women looking to meet single men (probably more looking to meet couples too!) between 18-99 that have logged in over the past 24 hrs, within 10 miles of London. (Advanced search is a useful tool!)

Again - please define 'genuine' OP?

A"

Exactly, there's hundreds of females within 10 miles of central London.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There's six pages of verified single women looking to meet single men (probably more looking to meet couples too!) between 18-99 that have logged in over the past 24 hrs, within 10 miles of London. (Advanced search is a useful tool!)

Again - please define 'genuine' OP?

Maybe there busier than the rest of the country lol

A

Exactly, there's hundreds of females within 10 miles of central London. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's loads of females on here from London. It doesn't make them fake just because they won't meet you...

I know that lol I don't judge someone as fake for that reason but had a few that have roused my suspicion lol

But in general there doesn't seem that many. And the London cam chat room is always nearly empty"

Are you solely looking for people to message in the chat rooms? If so, that'll decimate your chances. Browse the profiles.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There's loads of females on here from London. It doesn't make them fake just because they won't meet you...

I know that lol I don't judge someone as fake for that reason but had a few that have roused my suspicion lol

But in general there doesn't seem that many. And the London cam chat room is always nearly empty

Are you solely looking for people to message in the chat rooms? If so, that'll decimate your chances. Browse the profiles. "

Oh I do browse profiles lol

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

Why do I think of Blackadder when I see your avatar? Perhaps they do too?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's loads of females on here from London. It doesn't make them fake just because they won't meet you...

I know that lol I don't judge someone as fake for that reason but had a few that have roused my suspicion lol

But in general there doesn't seem that many. And the London cam chat room is always nearly empty

Are you solely looking for people to message in the chat rooms? If so, that'll decimate your chances. Browse the profiles.

Oh I do browse profiles lol"

If you're not getting anywhere, perhaps you should change the content of the messages you send them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's six pages of verified single women looking to meet single men (probably more looking to meet couples too!) between 18-99 that have logged in over the past 24 hrs, within 10 miles of London. (Advanced search is a useful tool!)

Again - please define 'genuine' OP?

A

I have spoken to quite a few that seem to wanna talk dirty and get off quickly but I dont really think they are swingers

Talking dirty is ok but i want real action lol"

Are you sure they are women?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why do I think of Blackadder when I see your avatar? Perhaps they do too? "

My silly pic does need changing lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There's six pages of verified single women looking to meet single men (probably more looking to meet couples too!) between 18-99 that have logged in over the past 24 hrs, within 10 miles of London. (Advanced search is a useful tool!)

Again - please define 'genuine' OP?

Well I hope so , I just feel I have lovely great chats with people all over the country but SOME (not all lol) London girls seem less interest in REAL fun

A

I have spoken to quite a few that seem to wanna talk dirty and get off quickly but I dont really think they are swingers

Talking dirty is ok but i want real action lol

Are you sure they are women? "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There's six pages of verified single women looking to meet single men (probably more looking to meet couples too!) between 18-99 that have logged in over the past 24 hrs, within 10 miles of London. (Advanced search is a useful tool!)

Again - please define 'genuine' OP? :

London girls are welcome to prove me wrong! Lol

Well I hope so , I just feel I have lovely great chats with people all over the country but SOME (not all lol) London girls seem less interest in REAL fun

A

I have spoken to quite a few that seem to wanna talk dirty and get off quickly but I dont really think they are swingers

Talking dirty is ok but i want real action lol

Are you sure they are women? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met several from London. There is a huge party scene down there. Mrs Sexy is on a fact finding mission as we speak.

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Met several from London. There is a huge party scene down there. Mrs Sexy is on a fact finding mission as we speak. "

The party scene + the club scene + saunas etc may mean London ladies prefer face to face rather than online.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Ever considered looking further afield?

Travelling works for many.

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I lived in London (and was a single guy), there was no shortage of women but on occassion I found it harder to sort a meet simply because people in London tend to lead busier lives. And of course as well as more women there were also a lot more men!

But the suggest that there is a shortage is far from the truth

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"There doesn't seem many genuine female swingers in London ?"

They are hiding from you.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Why do I think of Blackadder when I see your avatar? Perhaps they do too? "

Yes, I thought it was a bizarre hat too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's six pages of verified single women looking to meet single men (probably more looking to meet couples too!) between 18-99 that have logged in over the past 24 hrs, within 10 miles of London. (Advanced search is a useful tool!)

Again - please define 'genuine' OP?

A"

SIX PAGES?? Sorry didn't mean to shout but flipin eck OP you don't know your born

There are only THREE pages of men in my age range within 20 miles of my little town but only half of those have been on line in the last three weeks

Having said that, I have found a few gems so I'm not complaining at all

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"There doesn't seem many genuine female swingers in London ?"

So true

We are all 'non-genuine' but visiting clubs and meeting people. But boy, we are good; people can't tell between us and holograms

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By *in with a GrinMan
over a year ago

Carlisle


"There doesn't seem many genuine female swingers in London ?"

Travel loges charge double in the smoke!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No shortage of swingers

Just a shortage of those that want to meet you

The green arrow really does suggest that a change of approach is required on your part.

If you spent less time scratching your head in the forums and more time altering your approach (profile, pics, mindset, message style & composition, targetted message rather than carpet bombing, attendance at socials, opening up how, when & where you can meet etc etc) might, just might improve your chances.

All this is meant to be constructive in the hope that it may improve the chances of you finding a meet.

It has, however, all got to come from you. No one else can improve your chances but you.

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By *he tactile technicianMan
over a year ago

the good lands, the bad lands, the any where you may want me lands


"I can confirm there are at least six."
uh uh, you've that wrong FunkyMonkey, there's 9 and threequarters and they're all in the Kings Cross area

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No shortage of swingers

Just a shortage of those that want to meet you

The green arrow really does suggest that a change of approach is required on your part.

If you spent less time scratching your head in the forums and more time altering your approach (profile, pics, mindset, message style & composition, targetted message rather than carpet bombing, attendance at socials, opening up how, when & where you can meet etc etc) might, just might improve your chances.

All this is meant to be constructive in the hope that it may improve the chances of you finding a meet.

It has, however, all got to come from you. No one else can improve your chances but you."

What is this green arrow thing about?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Guess my report should read "must try harder"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No shortage of swingers

Just a shortage of those that want to meet you

The green arrow really does suggest that a change of approach is required on your part.

If you spent less time scratching your head in the forums and more time altering your approach (profile, pics, mindset, message style & composition, targetted message rather than carpet bombing, attendance at socials, opening up how, when & where you can meet etc etc) might, just might improve your chances.

All this is meant to be constructive in the hope that it may improve the chances of you finding a meet.

It has, however, all got to come from you. No one else can improve your chances but you.

What is this green arrow thing about?"

If you click on the green arrow by your name on a post you'll see that last 35 threads you'e posted on.

Comes in handy sometimes as it often tells a story!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No shortage of swingers

Just a shortage of those that want to meet you

The green arrow really does suggest that a change of approach is required on your part.

If you spent less time scratching your head in the forums and more time altering your approach (profile, pics, mindset, message style & composition, targetted message rather than carpet bombing, attendance at socials, opening up how, when & where you can meet etc etc) might, just might improve your chances.

All this is meant to be constructive in the hope that it may improve the chances of you finding a meet.

It has, however, all got to come from you. No one else can improve your chances but you.

What is this green arrow thing about?

If you click on the green arrow by your name on a post you'll see that last 35 threads you'e posted on.

Comes in handy sometimes as it often tells a story! "

Oh now I know

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By *appyguy17Man
over a year ago

walthamstow

I've just met a really nice London girl today.......she likes Paddie's.....don't know why.....because we are the biggest bull-shitters going !!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've just met a really nice London girl today.......she likes Paddie's.....don't know why.....because we are the biggest bull-shitters going !!!!"

Can we share her? Lol

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire

Do you message them in Cockney ? If not that could be your problem.

They simply don't understand you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you message them in Cockney ? If not that could be your problem.

They simply don't understand you.

"

I once went to a hotel in Oban Scotland and was called ""the cockney" from London....I have no cockney accent at all lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

spot on yellow helmet

and i was worried it was smelly armpits ..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"spot on yellow helmet

and i was worried it was smelly armpits .. "

Confused.com

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By *icefellatwoMan
over a year ago

hastings


"There doesn't seem many genuine female swingers in London ?"

I doubt that there is a shortage you just

have to find them and that they want you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There doesn't seem many genuine female swingers in London ?

I doubt that there is a shortage you just

have to find them and that they want you "

Maybe but they seem to be busier in London

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's definitely a busy scene. We have some friends on the scene who host parties and club nights and they are always advertising club and party meets most weekend which are very well attended.

We have hot listed a few cheeky London peeps who we have spoken to and their statuses are always advertising meets too!!

It's all on your doorstep. Go get it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There doesn't seem many genuine female swingers in London ?

I doubt that there is a shortage you just

have to find them and that they want you

Maybe but they seem to be busier in London "

cant quite grab this???

you ask if there is a shortage, but then say that they are busier in London?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There doesn't seem many genuine female swingers in London ?

I doubt that there is a shortage you just

have to find them and that they want you

Maybe but they seem to be busier in London

Busier working ect but less time to play

cant quite grab this???

you ask if there is a shortage, but then say that they are busier in London?"

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"There doesn't seem many genuine female swingers in London ?"

Currently on the 15:17 to Middlesborough

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There doesn't seem many genuine female swingers in London ?

Currently on the 15:17 to Middlesborough "

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