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By *ifferent69 OP   Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

Always get impression ladies recoil at a hint of, kinkyness, adventourism.... On conventional dates.

Though sometimes wish they were more honest.

Secretly do ladies need their fella to have a kink.Generally most guys are pretty perverted if given the opportunity.

So where does kinky verge onto perverseness.??

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I'm not remotely interested in kink or perversity. I enjoy a good hard shag, with the various other bits. When blokes start trying to be kinky it bores me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would you hint at kinkyness etc on a conventional date anyway? I assume we're talking early dating stage?

Better to get t know one another much better before bringing that kind of subject matter up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always get impression ladies recoil at a hint of, kinkyness, adventourism.... On conventional dates.

Though sometimes wish they were more honest.

Secretly do ladies need their fella to have a kink.Generally most guys are pretty perverted if given the opportunity.

So where does kinky verge onto perverseness.??

"

I don't think 'kinky' and 'pervy' are the same thing at all

I don't like 'pervy' guys (as in, the kind of guy who might letch at you at the office christmas party, or catcall you in the street).

I really like 'kinky' guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why would you hint at kinkyness etc on a conventional date anyway? I assume we're talking early dating stage?

Better to get t know one another much better before bringing that kind of subject matter up.

"

I bring it up before going on a date at all.

No point in going on a date if we're fundamentally incompatible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why do you think men are any different?..in my experience men are no more kinky than women...they just like to think they are..and surely your likes/dislikes sexually would not be discussed on a first date anyway..why discuss it when you and ,probably the woman too, will not even know whether they want to see each other again yet anyway...

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Don't forget that John Major was boning Edwina Currie and who would have suspected that of such a dull, conventional, even boring, man?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't forget that John Major was boning Edwina Currie and who would have suspected that of such a dull, conventional, even boring, man? "

very true...i would think anyone wanting to bone edwina currie had a streak of kink a mile wide...we'll never find out what it is..i hope...but i bet its there!

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I have already posted on a thread earlier today, being honest and open is the only way to go if you want success in your needs and desires whichever you might classify them as.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been put of dating because of men bringing sex into the conversation before we've even got to the first date

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and surely half the fun of a new relationship is discovering what you both like..even finding new things you never knew you'd like...i'd be massivley put off by someone telling me their innermost sexual desires before ive even decided whether i even like them...had a date a while ago with a guy who immediatly started banging on about big tits...after about 5 minutes it was quite clear i neednt have any further input and he'd have been happy with a couple off balloons tied to my chair while i went off in search of a conversation..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"and surely half the fun of a new relationship is discovering what you both like..even finding new things you never knew you'd like...i'd be massivley put off by someone telling me their innermost sexual desires before ive even decided whether i even like them...had a date a while ago with a guy who immediatly started banging on about big tits...after about 5 minutes it was quite clear i neednt have any further input and he'd have been happy with a couple off balloons tied to my chair while i went off in search of a conversation.."

What happened to being wooed? Seems men want to know what they're getting in bed before any kind of commitment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and surely, regardless of some specific preferences, sex will be different with different partners..or do some men just trot out the same old moves regardless of the response..?..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not remotely interested in kink or perversity. I enjoy a good hard shag, with the various other bits."

same here.

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By *rtemisiaWoman
over a year ago

Norwich


"Always get impression ladies recoil at a hint of, kinkyness, adventourism.... On conventional dates.

Though sometimes wish they were more honest.

Secretly do ladies need their fella to have a kink.Generally most guys are pretty perverted if given the opportunity.

So where does kinky verge onto perverseness.??

"

Depends entirely on what those little kinks are!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"and surely, regardless of some specific preferences, sex will be different with different partners..or do some men just trot out the same old moves regardless of the response..?.."

The best sex I've had is with men who haven't given me a questionnaire beforehand. No sex talk,just general chat and no expectations. That's from here and online elsewhere so surely it can be the same with dating.

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

Kinky is using a feather , perverse the whole chicken

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kinky is using a feather , perverse the whole chicken "

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By *ifferent69 OP   Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK


"Don't forget that John Major was boning Edwina Currie and who would have suspected that of such a dull, conventional, even boring, man? "
ha ha ha very good

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By *ifferent69 OP   Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK


"Always get impression ladies recoil at a hint of, kinkyness, adventourism.... On conventional dates.

Though sometimes wish they were more honest.

Secretly do ladies need their fella to have a kink.Generally most guys are pretty perverted if given the opportunity.

So where does kinky verge onto perverseness.??

Depends entirely on what those little kinks are!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always get impression ladies recoil at a hint of, kinkyness, adventourism.... On conventional dates.

Though sometimes wish they were more honest.

Secretly do ladies need their fella to have a kink.Generally most guys are pretty perverted if given the opportunity.

So where does kinky verge onto perverseness.??

"

I think suggesting guys are generally pretty perverted is both a sweeping generalisation and massively insulting.

To be honest the whole post panders to the worst stereotypes in quite an unpleasant and sleazy way.

And i

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't forget that John Major was boning Edwina Currie and who would have suspected that of such a dull, conventional, even boring, man? "

I know some people thought that about john major but I used to fancy him like mad.

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By *ifferent69 OP   Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

No...no...No

First few dates subject/ hint out bounds.

But does begs question why??

Yet a meet on here it open season....

Surely to truely know someone is to get intimate which may invlove kinkyness....

Am I right that the thrill of fab for many is opportunity to go a bit and beyond that they would do with husband, boyfriend material.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Yet a meet on here it open season....

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I'm not sure what you mean?


"Am I right that the thrill of fab for many is opportunity to go a bit and beyond that they would do with husband, boyfriend material."

I can only speak for myself but I think you are way off the mark.

The implication of both sentences that I've quoted ios that women on here are somehow dirtier or kinkier than a woman you'd view as a partner. Or am I missing the point?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no its because men I have met on here do things I like, not kinky things though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No...no...No

First few dates subject/ hint out bounds.

But does begs question why??

Yet a meet on here it open season....

Surely to truely know someone is to get intimate which may invlove kinkyness....

Am I right that the thrill of fab for many is opportunity to go a bit and beyond that they would do with husband, boyfriend material."

No. If I had a boyfriend I would do exactly what I do with men I meet on here with him

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

I don't know any conventional guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Yet a meet on here it open season....

Am I right that the thrill of fab for many is opportunity to go a bit and beyond that they would do with husband, boyfriend material."

What do you mean by 'open season'?

I wouldn't do anything different with a man I met on Fab than I would with anyone I was in a relationship with. To be honest, I'd probably experiment and push more boundaries with a regular partner than with a one off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Yet a meet on here it open season....

Am I right that the thrill of fab for many is opportunity to go a bit and beyond that they would do with husband, boyfriend material.

What do you mean by 'open season'?

I wouldn't do anything different with a man I met on Fab than I would with anyone I was in a relationship with. To be honest, I'd probably experiment and push more boundaries with a regular partner than with a one off. "

absolutely agree!!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I can see that if someone had specific sexual needs, kink or whatever, that they absolutely had to engage in and couldn't give up, then it would be helpful to be open and find a matching partner.

Otherwise if this is dating and ltr then it seems a bit arse about face.

I'm guessing that most of us would give up a kink, for the right partner, if they had no interest?

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