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Why do some here think Fab is just a sex site.?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I am sure people can see from The Lounge forum its not just about sex and swinging that is why I like this site . As I feel we can be very open about different things in life that we cant on others Sites or we would get a ban. So when I see I bet they would not like seeing that post on a swingers site I think why .? As some never meet for sex here just come on to chat and read the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The ones who never meet are probably masturbating

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich


"I am sure people can see from The Lounge forum its not just about sex and swinging that is why I like this site . As I feel we can be very open about different things in life that we cant on others Sites or we would get a ban. So when I see I bet they would not like seeing that post on a swingers site I think why .? As some never meet for sex here just come on to chat and read the forums."

I guess everyone uses it the way they want to... some just want sex, some just want friendship, some want both. Some use it to troll...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The ones who never meet are probably masturbating"
Some do your right .. I chat to some who just come here for forums never look to meet no one . And chat about everything .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The ones who never meet are probably masturbating"
I love the fact that there are diverse topics on the forums.. We are all adults and should be able to discuss anything we like.. Why should it have to be about sex....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I am sure people can see from The Lounge forum its not just about sex and swinging that is why I like this site . As I feel we can be very open about different things in life that we cant on others Sites or we would get a ban. So when I see I bet they would not like seeing that post on a swingers site I think why .? As some never meet for sex here just come on to chat and read the forums.

I guess everyone uses it the way they want to... some just want sex, some just want friendship, some want both. Some use it to troll... "
I know I can be thick I had to look up troll . lol is a person who sows discord on the Internet by starting arguments or upsetting people, by posting inflammatory, extraneous, or off-topic messages in an online community . I know now and yes we get some at times .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The ones who never meet are probably masturbatingI love the fact that there are diverse topics on the forums.. We are all adults and should be able to discuss anything we like.. Why should it have to be about sex.... "
I just hate it when a person say ooo would not like to read that on a sex site .. Well I don't think sex sex and sex .Its just like a normal site to me and we can be more open about life and have _iews.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I came here for sex.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For some yes it's obvious it's just a sex site from looking at profile and the verifications

For those people, your probably not going to see them in the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that people _iew this site how they wish and will use it in that way.

Swinging has changed since the days of adverts in contact magazines. The Internet has made the whole scene far more ephemeral and geared toward instant gratification.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I came here for sex....."
yes but you chat and have friends not just for sex. Like most of us.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I only come in for a brew and bacon sarnie didn't no you could get a shag here

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"I came here for sex.....yes but you chat and have friends not just for sex. Like most of us."

yeah but for me, it is just a route to sex. I will pass the time of day in the forums, will attend socials but I am not overly interested in 'the community', it is a means to an end.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meet for sex in the real world and I don't use fab for meets lol, but instead the forum and chat room as its fun

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

although, I have retired

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i see it more a gathering place for like-minded people - whether they choose to meet, perv , message , chat in rooms or forums is up to them - i love the forums and spend way too many hours here -

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"i see it more a gathering place for like-minded people - whether they choose to meet, perv , message , chat in rooms or forums is up to them - i love the forums and spend way too many hours here - "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This site meets the needs of many people

swinging to one person isnt to another. Personally i use it to fulfil my own enjoyment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i see it more a gathering place for like-minded people - whether they choose to meet, perv , message , chat in rooms or forums is up to them - i love the forums and spend way too many hours here - "

Like face book, except with benefits.

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By *ipsTeaserCouple
over a year ago

here and there, thereabouts


"I only come in for a brew and bacon sarnie didn't no you could get a shag here "

There's bacon sarnies?!

Nom.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i see it more a gathering place for like-minded people - whether they choose to meet, perv , message , chat in rooms or forums is up to them - i love the forums and spend way too many hours here -

"

Yep I'll have to admit to that too

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By *wbbabeWoman
over a year ago

clacton

I see it as a social site also sex and to make freinds.and love reading the stories and fantasies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because to some it is. Everyone uses the site to suit themselves. I don't care how anyone else uses it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab has helped me come out of my self...I've always been a little unsatisfied

In the bedroom department as I do get bored esaly. ..lol

But I split from my husband and was very low... but fab help me and gave me the conference and my self belief back...

I get brilliant feedback from my friends list About my pic's. .. yes ive had fun and will continue to do so.... I like to get to know my meets... those who are rude I block...

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"I only come in for a brew and bacon sarnie didn't no you could get a shag here

There's bacon sarnies?!

Nom."

Yep but you got to be up early and catch toshn in his pinny

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By *ipsTeaserCouple
over a year ago

here and there, thereabouts


"I only come in for a brew and bacon sarnie didn't no you could get a shag here

There's bacon sarnies?!

Nom.

Yep but you got to be up early and catch toshn in his pinny "

Ooo is there a nice _iew of a rump too? What a way to start a morning.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"I only come in for a brew and bacon sarnie didn't no you could get a shag here

There's bacon sarnies?!

Nom.

Yep but you got to be up early and catch toshn in his pinny

Ooo is there a nice _iew of a rump too? What a way to start a morning."

Very possibly but its a bit old and saggy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sitting in the chat room today someone said "i thought id get laid by now"

he was new on site 2 days and a basic profile no photos and couldnt accom or travel

sometimes i think yes people see this as just sex

swinging to me is much more than sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i see it more a gathering place for like-minded people - whether they choose to meet, perv , message , chat in rooms or forums is up to them - i love the forums and spend way too many hours here -

"

The forums can be quite additive and quite an eye opener

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Whats the percentage of Users to those that use forums? Its going to be small isn't it?

To those that never visit here they probably think its just a sex site.

I dont look for meets, I dont log on to get them, neither do I sit at home knocking one off whenever Im logged in.

If it wasnt for certain posts and status's, Id probably forget the main idea of this place is to hook up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the most interesting aspect of fab, as in regularly used and varied, are the forums.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i see it more a gathering place for like-minded people - whether they choose to meet, perv , message , chat in rooms or forums is up to them - i love the forums and spend way too many hours here -

The forums can be quite additive and quite an eye opener"
I learn a lot at times from the forums . I know with all things in life we take good with bad. But a lot of the time its good I find .

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By *ipsTeaserCouple
over a year ago

here and there, thereabouts


"I only come in for a brew and bacon sarnie didn't no you could get a shag here

There's bacon sarnies?!

Nom.

Yep but you got to be up early and catch toshn in his pinny

Ooo is there a nice _iew of a rump too? What a way to start a morning.

Very possibly but its a bit old and saggy "

you mean it's nice and mature?

So whose brewing up in the morning then?!

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By *icefellatwoMan
over a year ago

hastings

I dont know of another site with forums like this here.

Always varied topics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

jees ive never been quoted so many times before-

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I dont know of another site with forums like this here.

Always varied topics "
I was on a site for weight loss and forums .. They said my pic was to sexy and it was taken off it was one in a top too .I was covered up. lol

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"I only come in for a brew and bacon sarnie didn't no you could get a shag here

There's bacon sarnies?!

Nom.

Yep but you got to be up early and catch toshn in his pinny

Ooo is there a nice _iew of a rump too? What a way to start a morning.

Very possibly but its a bit old and saggy

you mean it's nice and mature?

So whose brewing up in the morning then?!"

Sod that I've not got the legs for a pinny

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"jees ive never been quoted so many times before- "

Oi I started the trend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is a lot more to this site than the forums. For people who aren't meeting it's a nice way to get things off their chests,have a laugh (sometimes at other people's expense),find new online friends and feel less lonely. Oh,and argue over Ukip

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By *adgodCouple
over a year ago

Greensburg


"I am sure people can see from The Lounge forum its not just about sex and swinging that is why I like this site . As I feel we can be very open about different things in life that we cant on others Sites or we would get a ban. So when I see I bet they would not like seeing that post on a swingers site I think why .? As some never meet for sex here just come on to chat and read the forums.

I guess everyone uses it the way they want to... some just want sex, some just want friendship, some want both. Some use it to troll... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is a lot more to this site than the forums. For people who aren't meeting it's a nice way to get things off their chests,have a laugh (sometimes at other people's expense),find new online friends and feel less lonely. Oh,and argue over Ukip "
UKIP whats that lol

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By *eMontresMan
over a year ago

Halesowen

I think the clue is in the title

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I joined up with the _iew it was a sex site...and it was for me then.

Things progress and change ya know, I think fab is many things to many people, I use the forums for a bit of sillyness and chat, I've met folk for chats, met folk for more physical things, made a lot of very real friends, had some real good experiences through fab. The sex is becoming less and less important for me on here and I dare say its a changing experience for many people and not just me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the clue is in the title "

You are over simplifying it but you are right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people think swingers are desperate for sex and will shag anything. That's why they get all confused when they offer a shag but get turned down. They are doing the poor sex starved desperate swinger a favour!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Primarily for me it's a site I use to find men to have sex with as I'm not particularly sociable in groups

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford

I came for the sex, now I can't get it up, so staying for the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The ones who never meet are probably masturbating"

Don't you mean mass debating? Typo, no doubt

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

You live and learn. I thought fab was just a chat site - there's sex too?! Damn, I've missed out.

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By *couser83Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

Fab is a swinger site?? I thought that ment we met in a park and each had turns pushing and being pushed on swings.

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

We came for the sex, to live out fantasies and have fun, but we rapidly found that the chatrooms, forums etc are full of interesting people who we might never meet, yet we still like to converse with them.

We didnt know what to expect, but we are glad that swinging is so much more than just sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Making friends? Virtual friends seems a bit strange, not like most of you you're going to bring them home to meet the family. Some people divulge too much personal information about themselves on the site like it's Facebook. Fundamentally this site is for meeting people for swinging. So in short obviously people will see it as a sex site.

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By *couser83Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

I've been on here for a few months and only had the one meet. I do look but now spend more time having a giggle and sometimes good debate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Making friends? Virtual friends seems a bit strange, not like most of you you're going to bring them home to meet the family. Some people divulge too much personal information about themselves on the site like it's Facebook. Fundamentally this site is for meeting people for swinging. So in short obviously people will see it as a sex site. "

Of course it's a sex site for those of us who use it for it's original purpose .

Yes , it can be used for whatever anyone wants to use it for , and there are plenty on the forums who do prefer to chat , post and enjoy the social side more than meeting .

But contrary to the previously mentioned suggestion that those who use it as a sex site probably don't come on the forums , we do , and we meet to play two or three times a week .

However , we don't really care to use the site to make Facebook style friends , orbspend hours chatting with people we aren't going to meet .

It is , as _iew said , a means to an end for us .

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock


"Making friends? Virtual friends seems a bit strange, not like most of you you're going to bring them home to meet the family. Some people divulge too much personal information about themselves on the site like it's Facebook. Fundamentally this site is for meeting people for swinging. So in short obviously people will see it as a sex site.

Of course it's a sex site for those of us who use it for it's original purpose .

Yes , it can be used for whatever anyone wants to use it for , and there are plenty on the forums who do prefer to chat , post and enjoy the social side more than meeting .

But contrary to the previously mentioned suggestion that those who use it as a sex site probably don't come on the forums , we do , and we meet to play two or three times a week .

However , we don't really care to use the site to make Facebook style friends , orbspend hours chatting with people we aren't going to meet .

It is , as _iew said , a means to an end for us .

"

Hi and great to see you back on the site again.

Did wonder where you had gone to? Your post put a smile on my face.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am sure people can see from The Lounge forum its not just about sex and swinging that is why I like this site . As I feel we can be very open about different things in life that we cant on others Sites or we would get a ban. So when I see I bet they would not like seeing that post on a swingers site I think why .? As some never meet for sex here just come on to chat and read the forums."

Because there are some sites out there that claim to be "message and fuck" sites, that then demand credit card details for you to actually use the message feature of the site.

Others are totally fake, then at the top end you have the commercial dating sites.

Fab is the only site with this nature that seems legit, not many people know about it.

Then from a guys point of _iew, the site is flawed by the photo verification feature.

It makes women demand guys send a face picture with their first message else they will be ignored and blocked.

Ironically though the women who ask this do not display face pictures on their profiles.

This leads to us men being faced with a great deal of ignorance from the women which in turn probably leads to a lot of the bullshit messages men send to the women, (NOBODY likes to be ignored, even a "fuck you guy" is nicer).

I have been browsing fab on and off for over a year now, and for the first time today a woman messaged me, without me sending a message 1st...

She saw that I had _iewed her profile a few times and wanted to know why I had not messaged her. I told her it was because she demands a face pic with the first message. She sent me a sexy picture (not showing her face) and told me that if I upload a face picture then she will chat to me, but not if I don't.

I think that if you girls want to have this rule then you should have visible face pictures on display on your profile. I sent her this message...

"I have an infinite supply of face pictures, because I have a camera on my phone and an internet connection lol

My point is that I did not message you because you demand a picture from a guy in order to chat, but you do not display a picture.

Not being funny but to my eyes you could be ugly as shit and not worth the effort, so until I see that you are beautiful and gorgeous then I will not bother to upload a picture. seeing a picture of your body in sexy clothing is not going to entice any intelligent man into uploading a face picture. Which is probably why ironically the women on this site are crying out for intelligent men.

This rule you have all adopted is the reason the site is full of assholes, and all the women are ignorant as fuck.

I've been browsing the site on and off for over a year and never met anyone, it is not because I don't upload a picture, it is because they are ignorant or mingers.

It is very disheartening to be ignored by almost every woman on a swingers site, they ask for intelligent messages, then ignore you, they ask for pictures and if you post them they sit and frigg then turn out to be a minger who I would not want to meet.

SO if you want to show your face picture - and get all the other women to cut the crap rule out, then I might get jiggy with the camera for you all."

On top of this^ (princess prizing herself too highly) the few women who do display pictures are not all that good looking, and (sorry to generalise) generally guys only want 1 thing from ugly women, that is sex.

So if you want people to stop treating the site like it is all about sex,

get all the women to stop treating all the men like "all they want is sex."

Get them to scrap the stupid face pic rule and stop being so ignorant to us guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Making friends? Virtual friends seems a bit strange, not like most of you you're going to bring them home to meet the family. Some people divulge too much personal information about themselves on the site like it's Facebook. Fundamentally this site is for meeting people for swinging. So in short obviously people will see it as a sex site. "

Considering how much information is sold on, I'd be more inclined to share more information here than on Facebook!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am sure people can see from The Lounge forum its not just about sex and swinging that is why I like this site . As I feel we can be very open about different things in life that we cant on others Sites or we would get a ban. So when I see I bet they would not like seeing that post on a swingers site I think why .? As some never meet for sex here just come on to chat and read the forums."

It is a sex site, that why its called fabswingers and the sooner we get rid off all the people who think it's called fabbook the better.

Rant over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am sure people can see from The Lounge forum its not just about sex and swinging that is why I like this site . As I feel we can be very open about different things in life that we cant on others Sites or we would get a ban. So when I see I bet they would not like seeing that post on a swingers site I think why .? As some never meet for sex here just come on to chat and read the forums.

Because there are some sites out there that claim to be "message and fuck" sites, that then demand credit card details for you to actually use the message feature of the site.

Others are totally fake, then at the top end you have the commercial dating sites.

Fab is the only site with this nature that seems legit, not many people know about it.

Then from a guys point of _iew, the site is flawed by the photo verification feature.

It makes women demand guys send a face picture with their first message else they will be ignored and blocked.

Ironically though the women who ask this do not display face pictures on their profiles.

This leads to us men being faced with a great deal of ignorance from the women which in turn probably leads to a lot of the bullshit messages men send to the women, (NOBODY likes to be ignored, even a "fuck you guy" is nicer).

I have been browsing fab on and off for over a year now, and for the first time today a woman messaged me, without me sending a message 1st...

She saw that I had _iewed her profile a few times and wanted to know why I had not messaged her. I told her it was because she demands a face pic with the first message. She sent me a sexy picture (not showing her face) and told me that if I upload a face picture then she will chat to me, but not if I don't.

I think that if you girls want to have this rule then you should have visible face pictures on display on your profile. I sent her this message...

"I have an infinite supply of face pictures, because I have a camera on my phone and an internet connection lol

My point is that I did not message you because you demand a picture from a guy in order to chat, but you do not display a picture.

Not being funny but to my eyes you could be ugly as shit and not worth the effort, so until I see that you are beautiful and gorgeous then I will not bother to upload a picture. seeing a picture of your body in sexy clothing is not going to entice any intelligent man into uploading a face picture. Which is probably why ironically the women on this site are crying out for intelligent men.

This rule you have all adopted is the reason the site is full of assholes, and all the women are ignorant as fuck.

I've been browsing the site on and off for over a year and never met anyone, it is not because I don't upload a picture, it is because they are ignorant or mingers.

It is very disheartening to be ignored by almost every woman on a swingers site, they ask for intelligent messages, then ignore you, they ask for pictures and if you post them they sit and frigg then turn out to be a minger who I would not want to meet.

SO if you want to show your face picture - and get all the other women to cut the crap rule out, then I might get jiggy with the camera for you all."

On top of this^ (princess prizing herself too highly) the few women who do display pictures are not all that good looking, and (sorry to generalise) generally guys only want 1 thing from ugly women, that is sex.

So if you want people to stop treating the site like it is all about sex,

get all the women to stop treating all the men like "all they want is sex."

Get them to scrap the stupid face pic rule and stop being so ignorant to us guys."

Jesus....bitter, much?!

The photo verification feature has nothing to do with face pics.

If the women are all ignorant and mingers, why do you return.

Do you REALLY believe a string of rejection messages - your suggestion, 'fuck you guy' (I might start using that) - is better than a simple delete if we're not interested?

Your connection between face pics and just wanting sex is flawed. Surely it would be more about just sex if women (and men and couples for that matter) DIDN'T want to see a face pic before meeting and would fuck you anyway?

Oh, and seeing a photo of my body in sexy clothing has worked out alright for me in meeting some intelligent, kind and gorgeous men and women with whom I've had great sex. Don't generalise on the back of your own experience and that sack of potatoes on your shoulder.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Haha I think someone has mistaken 'don't want' with 'can't get'

I go to socials, chat in the forum and get sex from fab so it works well for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ironically the above man has displayed beautifully how everyone uses the site differently. Some use it as a sex/unpaid escort site and end up extremely bitter when their kind offers of sex are turned down, others are just here for the forums, some just meet, some attend socials and everything inbetween.

This is all great, use the site as you see fit but within the rules. To call the women on the site ignorant and mingers cos they see you for what you are is just pathetic. Another great feature of the site: the block button.

Yours sincerely a face pic dodging minger (who has fucked more gorgeous women off here than you could ever dream of) xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am sure people can see from The Lounge forum its not just about sex and swinging that is why I like this site . As I feel we can be very open about different things in life that we cant on others Sites or we would get a ban. So when I see I bet they would not like seeing that post on a swingers site I think why .? As some never meet for sex here just come on to chat and read the forums.

Because there are some sites out there that claim to be "message and fuck" sites, that then demand credit card details for you to actually use the message feature of the site.

Others are totally fake, then at the top end you have the commercial dating sites.

Fab is the only site with this nature that seems legit, not many people know about it.

Then from a guys point of _iew, the site is flawed by the photo verification feature.

It makes women demand guys send a face picture with their first message else they will be ignored and blocked.

Ironically though the women who ask this do not display face pictures on their profiles.

This leads to us men being faced with a great deal of ignorance from the women which in turn probably leads to a lot of the bullshit messages men send to the women, (NOBODY likes to be ignored, even a "fuck you guy" is nicer).

I have been browsing fab on and off for over a year now, and for the first time today a woman messaged me, without me sending a message 1st...

She saw that I had _iewed her profile a few times and wanted to know why I had not messaged her. I told her it was because she demands a face pic with the first message. She sent me a sexy picture (not showing her face) and told me that if I upload a face picture then she will chat to me, but not if I don't.

I think that if you girls want to have this rule then you should have visible face pictures on display on your profile. I sent her this message...

"I have an infinite supply of face pictures, because I have a camera on my phone and an internet connection lol

My point is that I did not message you because you demand a picture from a guy in order to chat, but you do not display a picture.

Not being funny but to my eyes you could be ugly as shit and not worth the effort, so until I see that you are beautiful and gorgeous then I will not bother to upload a picture. seeing a picture of your body in sexy clothing is not going to entice any intelligent man into uploading a face picture. Which is probably why ironically the women on this site are crying out for intelligent men.

This rule you have all adopted is the reason the site is full of assholes, and all the women are ignorant as fuck.

I've been browsing the site on and off for over a year and never met anyone, it is not because I don't upload a picture, it is because they are ignorant or mingers.

It is very disheartening to be ignored by almost every woman on a swingers site, they ask for intelligent messages, then ignore you, they ask for pictures and if you post them they sit and frigg then turn out to be a minger who I would not want to meet.

SO if you want to show your face picture - and get all the other women to cut the crap rule out, then I might get jiggy with the camera for you all."

On top of this^ (princess prizing herself too highly) the few women who do display pictures are not all that good looking, and (sorry to generalise) generally guys only want 1 thing from ugly women, that is sex.

So if you want people to stop treating the site like it is all about sex,

get all the women to stop treating all the men like "all they want is sex."

Get them to scrap the stupid face pic rule and stop being so ignorant to us guys."

There's a few generalisations here my friend and whilst a lot of us may have experienced rejection, your use of the term "mingers" perhaps says a lot about your approach to others.

As for Face pics....I'm sure many of us are nervous about that aspect or concerned about privacy.......but like it or not,it's the moment of truth....is there an attraction? You can talk endlessly on here to another without exchanging a pic but then the other party builds a mental image of you, and the longer you leave it the more likely it is that the exchange won't be what you imagined.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I quite agree with him actually.

All boils down to mutual respect

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By *icefellatwoMan
over a year ago

hastings


"I dont know of another site with forums like this here.

Always varied topics I was on a site for weight loss and forums .. They said my pic was to sexy and it was taken off it was one in a top too .I was covered up. lol"

I am glad you came on here to brighten our lives up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe its because its called "FABSWINGERS"...if you want social media try facebook etc......simple really..Too many of the bloggs get Bogged down on sensless dribble!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe its because its called "FABSWINGERS"...if you want social media try facebook etc......simple really..Too many of the bloggs get Bogged down on sensless dribble!!!!"

What would you want to read about?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe its because its called "FABSWINGERS"...if you want social media try facebook etc......simple really..Too many of the bloggs get Bogged down on sensless dribble!!!!

What would you want to read about?"

obviously non stop snagging or party arranging. ..Mind you its been awhile since we had a kiss pass shag thread as a good read over morning coffee.

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

I spent 6 years on a cam/chat/forum site was quite a nice community people from all over the world. I went twice to Florida for socials just to meet the people I would speak to daily.

I am a bit reclusive and it is good for me to feel part of something. Altho I am not here for sex I like the nortyness and other things posted on forums.

The site has different uses for everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am sure people can see from The Lounge forum its not just about sex and swinging that is why I like this site . As I feel we can be very open about different things in life that we cant on others Sites or we would get a ban. So when I see I bet they would not like seeing that post on a swingers site I think why .? As some never meet for sex here just come on to chat and read the forums.

Because there are some sites out there that claim to be "message and fuck" sites, that then demand credit card details for you to actually use the message feature of the site.

Others are totally fake, then at the top end you have the commercial dating sites.

Fab is the only site with this nature that seems legit, not many people know about it.

Then from a guys point of _iew, the site is flawed by the photo verification feature.

It makes women demand guys send a face picture with their first message else they will be ignored and blocked.

Ironically though the women who ask this do not display face pictures on their profiles.

This leads to us men being faced with a great deal of ignorance from the women which in turn probably leads to a lot of the bullshit messages men send to the women, (NOBODY likes to be ignored, even a "fuck you guy" is nicer).

I have been browsing fab on and off for over a year now, and for the first time today a woman messaged me, without me sending a message 1st...

She saw that I had _iewed her profile a few times and wanted to know why I had not messaged her. I told her it was because she demands a face pic with the first message. She sent me a sexy picture (not showing her face) and told me that if I upload a face picture then she will chat to me, but not if I don't.

I think that if you girls want to have this rule then you should have visible face pictures on display on your profile. I sent her this message...

"I have an infinite supply of face pictures, because I have a camera on my phone and an internet connection lol

My point is that I did not message you because you demand a picture from a guy in order to chat, but you do not display a picture.

Not being funny but to my eyes you could be ugly as shit and not worth the effort, so until I see that you are beautiful and gorgeous then I will not bother to upload a picture. seeing a picture of your body in sexy clothing is not going to entice any intelligent man into uploading a face picture. Which is probably why ironically the women on this site are crying out for intelligent men.

This rule you have all adopted is the reason the site is full of assholes, and all the women are ignorant as fuck.

I've been browsing the site on and off for over a year and never met anyone, it is not because I don't upload a picture, it is because they are ignorant or mingers.

It is very disheartening to be ignored by almost every woman on a swingers site, they ask for intelligent messages, then ignore you, they ask for pictures and if you post them they sit and frigg then turn out to be a minger who I would not want to meet.

SO if you want to show your face picture - and get all the other women to cut the crap rule out, then I might get jiggy with the camera for you all."

On top of this^ (princess prizing herself too highly) the few women who do display pictures are not all that good looking, and (sorry to generalise) generally guys only want 1 thing from ugly women, that is sex.

So if you want people to stop treating the site like it is all about sex,

get all the women to stop treating all the men like "all they want is sex."

Get them to scrap the stupid face pic rule and stop being so ignorant to us guys."

So many words - ever heard of private photos? Who is ignorant now?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I also like to peruse the nice pics on here too. There's a couple of lovely bums I like to look at on this thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We use it mainly to meet people but also like to check out forums too. There's so many different people with all kinds of different opininons & kinks/fetishes on here and mostly its fun and entertaining

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By *dventuroususCouple
over a year ago

sunderland


"I am sure people can see from The Lounge forum its not just about sex and swinging that is why I like this site . As I feel we can be very open about different things in life that we cant on others Sites or we would get a ban. So when I see I bet they would not like seeing that post on a swingers site I think why .? As some never meet for sex here just come on to chat and read the forums.

It is a sex site, that why its called fabswingers and the sooner we get rid off all the people who think it's called fabbook the better.

Rant over"

its called fabswingers because its a swingers site, the clues in the name.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I spent 6 years on a cam/chat/forum site was quite a nice community people from all over the world. I went twice to Florida for socials just to meet the people I would speak to daily.

I am a bit reclusive and it is good for me to feel part of something. Altho I am not here for sex I like the nortyness and other things posted on forums.

The site has different uses for everyone "
Yes I feel like you about Fab, Its a site for everyone and people have different needs .. swinging is a small part what its about getting to know people from all parts of the uk and over seas is lovely .

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"I am sure people can see from The Lounge forum its not just about sex and swinging that is why I like this site . As I feel we can be very open about different things in life that we cant on others Sites or we would get a ban. So when I see I bet they would not like seeing that post on a swingers site I think why .? As some never meet for sex here just come on to chat and read the forums."
Lots of people don't even venture into the forums so wouldn't know anything about posting, also, it's called Fabswingers...any clues yet?

People can use it for what they want to, its ironic you are actually saying people are saying they come here for sex and not chitter chatter, some do, some don't.....some want to spend ages chatting, some don't. Some are swingers, some aren't. Who is wrong?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because to some it is. Everyone uses the site to suit themselves. I don't care how anyone else uses it"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I am sure people can see from The Lounge forum its not just about sex and swinging that is why I like this site . As I feel we can be very open about different things in life that we cant on others Sites or we would get a ban. So when I see I bet they would not like seeing that post on a swingers site I think why .? As some never meet for sex here just come on to chat and read the forums.Lots of people don't even venture into the forums so wouldn't know anything about posting, also, it's called Fabswingers...any clues yet?

People can use it for what they want to, its ironic you are actually saying people are saying they come here for sex and not chitter chatter, some do, some don't.....some want to spend ages chatting, some don't. Some are swingers, some aren't. Who is wrong?"
Sorry I don't understand what your getting at here ........ I am saying its a site not just for sex .. Its a sites for what ever people feel like doing as long as they keep to fab rules. I just don't like people saying ooo I would never Wright that on a sex site in a forum ...... I think why not as its not just a sex site to me . Yes you can get that here I know .

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"I am sure people can see from The Lounge forum its not just about sex and swinging that is why I like this site . As I feel we can be very open about different things in life that we cant on others Sites or we would get a ban. So when I see I bet they would not like seeing that post on a swingers site I think why .? As some never meet for sex here just come on to chat and read the forums.Lots of people don't even venture into the forums so wouldn't know anything about posting, also, it's called Fabswingers...any clues yet?

People can use it for what they want to, its ironic you are actually saying people are saying they come here for sex and not chitter chatter, some do, some don't.....some want to spend ages chatting, some don't. Some are swingers, some aren't. Who is wrong?Sorry I don't understand what your getting at here ........ I am saying its a site not just for sex .. Its a sites for what ever people feel like doing as long as they keep to fab rules. I just don't like people saying ooo I would never Wright that on a sex site in a forum ...... I think why not as its not just a sex site to me . Yes you can get that here I know ."
Well people are entitled to opinions, so suck it up buttercup.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am sure people can see from The Lounge forum its not just about sex and swinging that is why I like this site . As I feel we can be very open about different things in life that we cant on others Sites or we would get a ban. So when I see I bet they would not like seeing that post on a swingers site I think why .? As some never meet for sex here just come on to chat and read the forums.Lots of people don't even venture into the forums so wouldn't know anything about posting, also, it's called Fabswingers...any clues yet?

People can use it for what they want to, its ironic you are actually saying people are saying they come here for sex and not chitter chatter, some do, some don't.....some want to spend ages chatting, some don't. Some are swingers, some aren't. Who is wrong?Sorry I don't understand what your getting at here ........ I am saying its a site not just for sex .. Its a sites for what ever people feel like doing as long as they keep to fab rules. I just don't like people saying ooo I would never Wright that on a sex site in a forum ...... I think why not as its not just a sex site to me . Yes you can get that here I know ."

its whatever ya want it to be,for some its their life,lol

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"its whatever ya want it to be,for some its their life,lol"

True.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I am sure people can see from The Lounge forum its not just about sex and swinging that is why I like this site . As I feel we can be very open about different things in life that we cant on others Sites or we would get a ban. So when I see I bet they would not like seeing that post on a swingers site I think why .? As some never meet for sex here just come on to chat and read the forums.Lots of people don't even venture into the forums so wouldn't know anything about posting, also, it's called Fabswingers...any clues yet?

People can use it for what they want to, its ironic you are actually saying people are saying they come here for sex and not chitter chatter, some do, some don't.....some want to spend ages chatting, some don't. Some are swingers, some aren't. Who is wrong?Sorry I don't understand what your getting at here ........ I am saying its a site not just for sex .. Its a sites for what ever people feel like doing as long as they keep to fab rules. I just don't like people saying ooo I would never Wright that on a sex site in a forum ...... I think why not as its not just a sex site to me . Yes you can get that here I know .Well people are entitled to opinions, so suck it up buttercup."
Ture its just nice to understand. x lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"its whatever ya want it to be,for some its their life,lol

True. "
Sure is and told some even have a tattoos with fab names and numbers, Not sure if that is true .lol It makes me smile see the way it works .

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By *iss-PinkWoman
over a year ago

Gloucester

I _iew fab as a means to an end - nsa sex with others. I have made some friends along the way, but they're social not sexual buddies. I use chat rooms (not for chat itself but to find guys) and the forums (occasionally) - but primarily fab is a site for sex imo

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