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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have come to realise that there are some really nice people on here. My _iew has changed since reading the forums. Before that I thought the opposite because of some of the really rude and nasty girls who I had the misfortune of messaging! Over 20 of which told me I was too ugly to fuck and I should go pay for it

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

glad you have had your opinion changed by the forums! Just as in life some people can be nasty for being nasty's sake and the protection of the computer monitor makes them braver than they would ever be in real life.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

welcome and continue to enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do you have the misfortune to message someone ?

That aside, glad the forums have restored your faith in Fab.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"How do you have the misfortune to message someone ?

That aside, glad the forums have restored your faith in Fab. "

when you message someone you think is nice but they turn out nasty and abusive....sounds like a misfortune to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

welcome to the forums ,theres always going to be nasty people about but hopefully you will have fun on here ,good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"glad you have had your opinion changed by the forums! Just as in life some people can be nasty for being nasty's sake and the protection of the computer monitor makes them braver than they would ever be in real life."

I think the ratio of women to men on her means that a small proportion of women will always be that way! It just really made me feel like the ugliest guy on the planet for quite a while. Luckily I had a few meets that helped me get over that! I am not Tom Cruise lol but I have my naughty skills once grills give me the chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you have the misfortune to message someone ?

That aside, glad the forums have restored your faith in Fab.

when you message someone you think is nice but they turn out nasty and abusive....sounds like a misfortune to me."

Or making bad choices in who we message or what we put in those messages ?

That isn't misfortune imho

Anyway, the OPs faith is restored, so all is good

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I don't think any of them would be so nasty in real life, they feel brave hiding behind there computer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think any of them would be so nasty in real life, they feel brave hiding behind there computer"

Very true

But then again some of the things said in private messages on here would never leave a person lips in a face to face situation ...

Still ... there is little need for anyone to be so nasty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people are ugly on the inside, with low intelligence and poor social skills.

Report and block.

And maybe try a group social.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't think any of them would be so nasty in real life, they feel brave hiding behind there computer

Very true

But then again some of the things said in private messages on here would never leave a person lips in a face to face situation ...

Very true but no need for them to be so rude, I am only here for the same reason as them

Still ... there is little need for anyone to be so nasty"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Some people are ugly on the inside, with low intelligence and poor social skills.

Report and block.

And maybe try a group social."

Been looking for a club to go to but not sure which one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think any of them would be so nasty in real life, they feel brave hiding behind there computer

Very true

But then again some of the things said in private messages on here would never leave a person lips in a face to face situation ...

Very true but no need for them to be so rude, I am only here for the same reason as them

Still ... there is little need for anyone to be so nasty"

I wouldn't be so sure ...

People make a lot of assumptions on here

Many of them inaccurate

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't think any of them would be so nasty in real life, they feel brave hiding behind there computer

Very true

But then again some of the things said in private messages on here would never leave a person lips in a face to face situation ...

Very true but no need for them to be so rude, I am only here for the same reason as them

Still ... there is little need for anyone to be so nasty

I wouldn't be so sure ...

People make a lot of assumptions on here

Many of them inaccurate"

It's a very opinionated place lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Let's hope for me compassion and fun in 2015

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's great that your feeling better and that you've had some meets but do you think its not a bit worrying that you took it so much to heart??

I'm not sure if this is allowed but I noticed that there's a wedding ring on one of the photos .... I know everyone's situation is different but I would be concerned that you were bothered by something that was said on her but not that your playing away.. If thats what your doing of course!! If its not apologies!! But wouldn't your wife help you feel better??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I get the same op, basically its not our problem, instead the woman that emails got huge personality problem and aren't grown up and likes to troll, just block them, its what I do lol and welcome to the forum

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's great that your feeling better and that you've had some meets but do you think its not a bit worrying that you took it so much to heart??

I'm not sure if this is allowed but I noticed that there's a wedding ring on one of the photos .... I know everyone's situation is different but I would be concerned that you were bothered by something that was said on her but not that your playing away.. If thats what your doing of course!! If its not apologies!! But wouldn't your wife help you feel better??"

Very observant but possible misleading x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes I get the same op, basically its not our problem, instead the woman that emails got huge personality problem and aren't grown up and likes to troll, just block them, its what I do lol and welcome to the forum "

Thanks dude

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Maybe new users could be leveraged into the forums somehow, to rebalance any harshness or negativity they may encounter. Might help people stay rather than give up.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe new users could be leveraged into the forums somehow, to rebalance any harshness or negativity they may encounter. Might help people stay rather than give up."

I nearly left so many times because of nasty females

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's great that your feeling better and that you've had some meets but do you think its not a bit worrying that you took it so much to heart??

I'm not sure if this is allowed but I noticed that there's a wedding ring on one of the photos .... I know everyone's situation is different but I would be concerned that you were bothered by something that was said on her but not that your playing away.. If thats what your doing of course!! If its not apologies!! But wouldn't your wife help you feel better??

Very observant but possible misleading x"

An answer that would suggest to me you are.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's great that your feeling better and that you've had some meets but do you think its not a bit worrying that you took it so much to heart??

I'm not sure if this is allowed but I noticed that there's a wedding ring on one of the photos .... I know everyone's situation is different but I would be concerned that you were bothered by something that was said on her but not

that your playing away.. If thats what your doing of course!! If its not apologies!! But wouldn't your wife help you feel better??

Am I the only one?

Very observant but possible misleading x

An answer that would suggest to me you are."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I get the same op, basically its not our problem, instead the woman that emails got huge personality problem and aren't grown up and likes to troll, just block them, its what I do lol and welcome to the forum "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes I get the same op, basically its not our problem, instead the woman that emails got huge personality problem and aren't grown up and likes to troll, just block them, its what I do lol and welcome to the forum

"

They usually abuse me then block me so I can't retaliate

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